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Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by danilmo: 7:49pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Shalommy: Una no just get concience. Someone is bleeding her mind out needing help, see wetin u dey talk😒 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Mordecai(m): 7:54pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Yadda yadda yadda ... then boom, kjunkie will advise her to leave the man. That's her endgame. @Aloone, kjunkie does not care about you. She comes with deep ingrained bias towards menfolk, so do your best to take her prescriptions with a pinch of salt. Work with your therapists to educate your husband on what your mental health challenges entail and that it is not communicable. Sessions with him will also help prepare you too for the experience. It can be intense, and given your bipolar situation, can be a little too much for him to handle. Work with both him and your therapists towards that. Sex is a real human need, and you're not crazy to want it. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 7:59pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
ahnie:It could be genetics, chemical imbalance or even triggers(stress). Each case is different. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by ahnie: 8:05pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Stress another silent major factor. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 8:07pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
ahnie:I believe the vast majority are stress induced. A small portion are in fact genetics. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by ahnie: 8:08pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Okay. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by cunny88(m): 8:21pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:professional counselling has helped repair many homes. The man attaches spiritual undertone to her mental issues. He probably needs some education. If he has taken her back after 4yrs, he should perform his conjugal duties 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 8:25pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
cunny88:Professional marriage counseling or professional mental health counseling? The keyword is "if" here since that does not seem to have been the case. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Nextt: 9:19pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Husband is abysmally selfish. His body does not belong to him; it belongs to his wife. Likewise, the wife's body does not belong to her; it belongs to the husband. Why must she be subjected to the frustration of sexual starvation with the flimsy excuse that schizophrenia is transferable? Why is he keeping her? To be an advanced housemaid? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by gssdobi: 10:14pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Op Cast all your burdens on Jesus,He cares for you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
gssdobi:OP, you definitely do not need to add this delusion to your cup of tea abeg! Please focus on healing from the ones that currently afflict you and not try to enter into this tunnel which millions of Nigerians have yet to see the end of. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by RomanGreen: 1:08am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Shalommy: If only she agrees for this to be taken care of, she will be free. Go to a real man of God or a correct traditionalist to help you. Forget all those big English you're speaking. This here lies the solution to your problem. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by sorosoke101: 1:44am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Get a intimacy gadget like a Love Machine and ease your sexual tensions. People are saying thrash but they dont know how you feel. My dear be happy and dont let any man weigh you down 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Blitzking: 1:55am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Alooone:The only problem I see here is getting pregnant without taking proactive steps to protect ur baby Guess u should be on some antipsychotics and anticonvulsant especially epilim I.e sodium valproate dangerous in the period of organogenesis first 3 months..what you need now is find out if one woman has taken the attention of your husband..also find out if u av stopped taking care of yourself..look sexy again...make your hair...Wear sexy night wear...maintain ur shape...and also he might need to have a chat with ur mental health dr..so he can be educated..seem alot of hear say is here. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by mrblessed(m): 6:11am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Maybe he has not truly gotten over what caused your separation. The reason you present doesn't seem convincing for a man not to touch a woman he loves. I think the problem here runs deeper. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Jewessgratitud3: 6:49am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Dem Don dey ask you now you dey open mouth waaa dey talk. Shey na you be op abi na you be doctor? Tomorrow Dem go use am abuse you. Like you don't know why its you they chose to ask so they can know everything about you and any small thing they bring it up. You open mouth dey talk. You never learn from the past. Dey explain. Mtchewwww |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Jewessgratitud3: 6:51am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Keep quiet! Mechi onu there. Stop fighting the name of Jesus. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 6:54am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Lol...See these one's and name of Jesus. Do you know of any other people's on the planet who scream the name of Jesus pass you religious folks in Nigeria? Look around you and tell me how that meaningless ritual you lot engage in, all in ignorance of who Jesus is by the way, has bettered your lives and communities. Tell us how thos who don't engage in the same ignorance are worse off. You want a woman suffering real world problems to be screaming name of Jesus meaninglessly all for the heck of it abi. All in order that you lot can beat your chests like the JW say she don join una group. No be wickedness be that! |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Yougotire1: 6:54am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Oh God!. This is serious and definitely not ordinary. Mental health is real. I saw a thread yesterday of someone that recovered from schizophrenia too I was so touched. The thread should be on front page so people going through similar stuff can find hope in their healing . https://www.nairaland.com/7903095/how-man/1 The guy said his sister helped him pull through via prayers, love and care. Your husband should stand by you in this times. Not everyone recovers from these things. Many people loose themselves. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Jewessgratitud3: 6:59am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I didn't mention you to start opening that your tap mouth.just shush it! |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by b3llo(m): 7:03am On Nov 09, 2023 |
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Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 7:04am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I am just saying make una stop trapping people with the lies of your pastors and mogs. Those lives have more than ruined 10s of millions of lives in Nigeria and left the country with a religious industry far larger than all its other industries put together if we are to check. Why try to pull down more innocent souls into that already massive trap filled with lies? What do you gain from that? |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Jewessgratitud3: 7:07am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You wey come be Mr know all, how many you don come help? Na to dey bad mouth others all the time yet you're worse off. Abegi! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 7:15am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Bad mouth others? What others? Be specific! |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Yougotire1: 7:16am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Moderators please can this go to front page. We need to create more awarenesses on these things. Nifpmod NLFPMOD Royalroy Sissy3 Dominique mynd44 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Jewessgratitud3: 7:34am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You don't know the people you badmouth? The MOG you always talk against? They are better than you if you don't know. So stop criticizing them when you are the heartless one here. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Kobojunkie: 7:43am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I have already explained to you many times before now that the one who condemned your mogs and pastors declaring them all false teachers and false prophets is Jesus Christ Himself, the one they pretend to believe in. So, attacking the messenger only goes to show you are just a blind follower ---again as Jesus Christ Himself made clear--- and will land in the same page your gods of men will - Matthew 15 vs 14. |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by UncleKoboko: 10:27am On Nov 09, 2023 |
MAYBE HER HUSBAND NOTICED THAT HER BODY IS NOW DECENCITIZED TO TOUCH. THIS IS WHAT YOU GET WHEN YOU MARRY A WH0RE A GIRL WITH MULTIPLE BODYCOUNT A GIRL THAT HAS BEEN PASSED AROUND LIKE FOOTBALL BY DIFFERENT GUYS. IN WHATEVER YOU DO IN LIFE, NEVER MARRY A WH0RE Any girl with more than two bodycount is a WH0REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by Lewandoski20(m): 10:28am On Nov 09, 2023 |
How I wish I could be like your husband.. I need to teach my wife some lessons about marriage and headship in the home. Many of y’all married women are moving mád these days 4 Likes 1 Share |
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