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I Hate Emotion. by bahdpersona(m): 9:41pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
When I am around my fellow guys, I don't get this urge to impress or try to get validation from them but when I am around girls, God! I tend to always act in a way that impresses them. I have tried all means to stop this attitude but it's not working. It is as though it is a normal feeling but I hate it. I act normal in every situation but when girls come into the scene, I become nervous, starts acting shy, happy and feeling a rush within me, I hate it. I want to stop impressing girl, how can I do it? Please help me. Give me some tips please 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by xtheunknown(m): 9:47pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
Walk away |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by bahdpersona(m): 9:51pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
xtheunknown:it is my shop. Different girls always come to my shop. |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by xtheunknown(m): 9:55pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
bahdpersona:Chose to ignore that feeling. It's that simple. My case was worst. It's all abt mindset. I overcame |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by bahdpersona(m): 10:05pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
xtheunknown: xtheunknown:. Emotion can be overwhelming, tell me how I can ignore it, I mean the process. It is not simple . 2 Likes |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by Lovemeharder(f): 10:10pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
Just be yourself, only you can do it. |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by muyico(m): 10:20pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
Including ur mom and sister? |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by bahdpersona(m): 11:05pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
muyico:no, I don't have feelings for them. I feel like they are me, we are one. That are different. |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by flokii: 12:02am On Nov 25, 2023 |
You're just an idi0t.. no offence meant. Did you have problem with girls growing up or what?.. they are just like you, but of opposite gender so why feel the urge to embarrass your generation when around them?. Might be generational curse affecting you sef.. who knows. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by pansophist(m): 12:10am On Nov 25, 2023 |
The feeling is common, you are not alone. Women are the mirror that tells men to level up, and what you are experiencing are just symptoms of it. If you observe yourself, you will notice you do not do it to mothers, older women, and women you aren't attracted to. If you want it to end organically, you need to improve yourself to a point where getting those kinds of girls will fall within the category you date, not the exceptions. To impress comes from a place of insecurity. To be secure in yourself means it is others that have to impress you. The better you become in whatever you do, the lesser your desire to impress. Give yourself time, you are probably young. In reality, you will feel like this way into your 30s, so don't expect it to end soon. But set your eyes on the goal towards self-actualisation, and it will go naturally, because you are a heavyweight. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by bigdawg7: 12:12am On Nov 25, 2023 |
legendary simp |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by Boydehot: 3:33am On Nov 25, 2023 |
I won't be blackmailed emotional by a woman.
because i don't give a Bleep about their behaviour.
am saying this as a keke driver. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Emotion. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 4:54am On Nov 25, 2023 |
bahdpersona:maybe you are still a teenager or you need help. |
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