Mrs.Chima:
Before jumping into conclusions....people need to first know why the man was denied sex and stop supporting cheating...two wrongs doesnt make it right.

stillwater:

Can you gimme reasons why a couple would deny each other of sex? 'Cos I can't think of any.

stillwater: ^^^No need for duh, we are all learning. I would just like to know what marital problem that can be solved by denying sex, instead of trashing out the problem itself.

rokiatu: Are you angry with your wife? Lmao.

Mrs.Chima:


It is clear that having sex sure doesn't solve marital issues EITHER OTHERWISE people wouldn't be cheating sexually. There are men who have confessed their wives give them sex whenever they want but they STILL CHEAT. Now what?

Take your time.

stillwater:

How does this have anything to do with what I asked? And where the heck is the negativity coming from? Is this not a forum again? I even put an emoticon thinking I was talking with someone that wouldn't take offense. The question was what kind of marital strife would make one use 'no sex' as a cautionary tool? You said each couple have a reason for it. Good! But what type of reasons? Give examples!!! Then you go on a tirade of men would still cheat if you give them sex. Bloody hell! What does your response have to do with giving examples of why one would deny oneself of sex?

Sorry for engaging you in a discussion, bye!

Mrs.Chima:


I see i touched a nerve....its gon be okay boo boo. Maybe she had a bad cold when you asked for some toto.

Mrs.Chima:


I see i touched a nerve or seven...its gon be okay boo boo.

You are forgiven.

Bashirhendricks: I can see that this is an old post, but guys I need help. I got married 1 and half weeks ago, my husband and I were sexually involved only 3 times each in the quickest possible time. I have tried to seduce him and I seem to be failing to a point were he snubs at me and says NO to my advances. I recently discovered that he flirts with his ex and have lunch quickies....could this be the reason of denying me

Bashirhendricks: I can see that this is an old post, but guys I need help. I got married 1 and half weeks ago, my husband and I were sexually involved only 3 times each in the quickest possible time. I have tried to seduce him and I seem to be failing to a point were he snubs at me and says NO to my advances. I recently discovered that he flirts with his ex and have lunch quickies....could this be the reason of denying me

jackpot: All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo!

tpia5:
I do find it hard to believe all men depend on sex 24/7 and never have downtime.

Unless you are a gigolo and must always be ready to service a woman anytime of the day or night, you don't have to be married to take time off sex.

Yes, bachelors also do the same? But maybe because they're not married and can think of some excuse to give their girlfriend ( if they have one), for not seeing her, nobody notices they're also taking a break?

MrsChima:


I cant speak for other couples and if they were denied..it has to be a reason for it...duh.