frank317:
Biko, what's indecent about this dressing? I think ur mind is the problem here

What caused the problem for the mind?

Holluwhakemmy:
Bury that your preek in your trousers so that it won't land you in trouble

Preek is not meant to be in trouser rather somewhere

Anny69:
Just because dress codes are different in the North doesn't mean that women in other places shouldn't be allowed to dress how they want. Women should be able to dress how they want without being criticized or judged.

It's so exhausting sharing the same space with you men. And you know what's even crazier women who cover themselves from head to toe still get criticized. Do better ejor.

Go to north and tell them that this nonsense let see if what happened to Deborah will not be a child's play to what will happen to u.

Orinechi:
Preek is not meant to be in trouser rather somewhere

hmmmn somewhere that is not save

imagrg:
There was decency then my dear.

Because the mind was free from evil ideas.

I miss the north

It was when I saw women in the market that I knew I am in the south.

You can spend months in the north , without hardly seeing any woman or naked woman

Anny69:
To begin with I'm not a teen and even if I were I sound more reasonable than most of you men in your 30s/40s/50s.

1. *Whenever women are given freedom they take it to the extreme* Lmao! You're just another misogynistic cunt.

2. Your response is problematic, seems you didn't read it before posting, in your silly mind you've said something.

3. No matter how modest a woman dresses she'd be slut-shamed, so your logic doesn't make sense, I don't even expect you to understand because you're not a woman and your thoughts are clouded with hate towards women.

4. Society is always changing, and our standards of fashion are changing too. There's no reason to hold onto outdated ideas about women's bodies and clothing.

I have no grace for moids! This would be my last post on this thread. If you want hexes in your life quote me and say rubbish.

ENKR!

Hexes to your fellow foids, lil girl.

@3 There is a way a woman could
dress without being slut-shamed.
There is a way some women dress
to mosque. Orthodox churches and
churches like Redeem don't allow
immoral dressings.
Some corporate firms do not allow
immoral dressings.
Unless clownery and sluttery is
buried in the subconscious mind of
a lady. There are sure ways to dress
without being slut-shamed

@2. Nope. I've really said something
reasonable but a person with a
reversed reasoning would never
understand

@1. This is the first time we are
actually mee'ing each other on
this forum and you already knew
I'm misogynistic. You really need
therapy

@4. Lemme educate you as an elder.
Culture is a function of the society.
Indecent dressing is not a culture
of any ethnic group in Nigeria.
Immoral dressing is an imitation
of the west.
In those days, like the Days of
Brig. Babatunde Idiagbon(R.H.S)
till the last 2 decades. Women
would be embarrassed and probably disciplined for dressing indecently
in any pubic space.
But since there is freedom. Now
we see all manners of clownery.

I once saw a girl dressed in panties
and T-shirt at the market.The problem
is when you are driving your kids to
school and they look thru the window
to see something that.

If this's not contained. A time will
come when people will begin having
canal knowledge of each other on the
streets and other open space just like
animals.

This became this bad because we
have given the freedom to dress
anyhow to women.

Even the poor boy looking back is baffled. They tortured his soul with the skimpy outfit.

Crumbian:



You feminists are becoming boring these days with your misogyny this and misogyny that. Read my post again and tell me where I said a woman's body is public property. I only said that they shouldn't be allowed to wear next to nothing - revealing clothes - in public.


And that "My body, my business" nonsense is only a valid excuse in YOUR private space and that's why I said you can choose to wear nothing in your house if you want. When you choose to expose said body in public, that body becomes OUR business.

misogyny has to be the misused word on nairaland this year ..



I don't know if they juse it playfully or they forget for a min what the word actually means..

Crumbian:



You feminists are becoming boring these days with your misogyny this and misogyny that. Read my post again and tell me where I said a woman's body is public property. I only said that they shouldn't be allowed to wear next to nothing - revealing clothes - in public.


And that "My body, my business" nonsense is only a valid excuse in YOUR private space and that's why I said you can choose to wear nothing in your house if you want. When you choose to expose said body in public, that body becomes OUR business.

look dude. . It's truly their body so it's solely their choice if they chooses to expose it or not ...


Especially if she's not your wife

frank317:


Yes trying to put them on another website as secured as okadabooks used to.. I will update the page once its done

Your books are no longer on okadabooks? How about the ones purchased, will they be removed from my library?

Anny69:
Sigh, another woman-bashing thread. I wish men could have a separate planet and leave us alone.

And you this agbaya op, women can wear whatever they want to wear it's not your business, let women be!

y'all can't even leave with yourselves. Una go just burn the planet down

Silentgroper:
look dude. . It's truly their body so it's solely their choice if they chooses to expose it or not ...


Especially if she's not your wife

You will become a father one day, will you give this same validation if your daughter also have this mindset.

Business is booming for Nairaland trolls.

Usmanovic95:


You will become a father one day, will you give this same validation if your daughter also have this mindset.

I get you, like totally ...


She's not my daughter, is she ...


If the girls care less why should i ..


The only exemption here us if she's family or happens to ny child or my wife....

Silentgroper:
I get you, like totally ...


She's not my daughter, is she ...


If the girls care less why should i ..


The only exemption here us if she's family or happens to ny child or my wife....

The problem we face in our society is simply because everyone is economical with the truth,no one calls a spade a spade unless it's what has direct impact on us. These indecent acts could have been reduced to the barest minimum if every one make a concerted effort to constantly call it out.

efembaba:
so even if they walk about fully naked, they should be left alone because "it's their body" and "what does it got to do with anybody".

So are you sure you are really thinking before talking (typing)?

Didn't knew it has to do with you.

Usmanovic95:


The problem we face in our society is simply because everyone is economical with the truth,no one calls a spade a spade unless it's what has direct impact on us. These indecent acts could have been reduced to the barest minimum if every one make a concerted effort to constantly call it out.

yeah the girls would ignorantly fight you one d that and quickly have you labeled a misogynist ....



Man i'd rather expend that energy elsewhere...

Tynaclem1:
Women!!!

You cannot expect to dress indecently and be taken seriously. Forget Nigerian film and western culture, in the core north area dressing like that will get you stoned and trolled by children. They'll sing those annoying songs and follow you around

You can still cover yourself and look beautiful, sexy, attractive and still dole out boss lady vibes, instead of that some ladies go about dressing half naked all because it makes you "feel good" about yourself ndi bad bitch geng. Later you'll be crying rape, assault, men are disturbing you, sexualising you, if they call you an olosho you'll get offended...meanwhile it was your fault in the first place🤦🏽‍♀️

Na why dem dey throw una inside prison for UK.

Nigeria should be converted to sharia state so women can dress decently like picrel



Christianity is cancer and needs to be wiped out

Modesty remains what It is; be it in ancient times or in the present.
Decency cannot be compromised no matter how you try to twist it.

Anny69:
To begin with I'm not a teen and even if I were I sound more reasonable than most of you men in your 30s/40s/50s.

*Whenever women are given freedom they take it to the extreme* Lmao! You're just another misogynistic cunt.

Your response is problematic, seems you didn't read it before posting, in your silly mind you've said something.

No matter how modest a woman dresses she'd be slut-shamed, so your logic doesn't make sense, I don't even expect you to understand because you're not a woman and your thoughts are clouded with hate towards women.

Society is always changing, and our standards of fashion are changing too. There's no reason to hold onto outdated ideas about women's bodies and clothing.

I have no grace for moids! This would be my last post on this thread. If you want hexes in your life quote me and say rubbish.

ENKR!

Anny69:
Just because dress codes are different in the North doesn't mean that women in other places shouldn't be allowed to dress how they want. Women should be able to dress how they want without being criticized or judged.

It's so exhausting sharing the same space with you men. And you know what's even crazier women who cover themselves from head to toe still get criticized. Do better ejor.

You can't please these men, to be honest.

While I was in Abuja, a guy who was trying to toast me was asking why I'm always covered decently and always hide my shape with clothes. He went further to advice me to be exposing them subtly.

I just weak that day.

You can't please them at all.

folake4u:


You can't please these men, to be honest.

While I was in Abuja, a guy who was trying to toast me was asking why I'm always covered decently and always hide my shape with clothes. He went further to advice me to be exposing them subtly.

I just weak that day.

You can't please them at all.

Exposing them because he owns your body or what? The audacity men have these days is something else.

That's why I would always advise women to decenter men. Any woman trying to please them won't get spared in all this their nonsense. And the thing is that you cover up o, you no cover up, they'd still slut-shame you.

Anny69:
Exposing them because he owns your body or what? The audacity men have these days is something else.

That's why I would always advise women to decenter men. Any woman trying to please them won't get spared in all this their nonsense. And the thing is that you cover up o, you no cover up, they'd still slut-shame you.

Lmao. You know them.

The audacity they have is mind boggling.

Na why I dey pity women wey dey do "pick me".

This is one of the reasons I would always rank Muslim women ahead of Christian women.
Most Christian women are a disgrace to womanhood 😡😡😡😡😡.

darkid1:
Hi...where can one buy your books? Okada is fizzling out. I tried one other website and I have to subscribe monthly to access other books I'm not interested in.

Fizzling out how?

Please throw more light

Nudity everywhere you go!

bluefilm:


Fizzling out how?

Please throw more light

It's no longer operational as a business.

darkid1:


It's no longer operational as a business.

Hmmm

My book is still there ooo