There are some certain things you should never do for a woman no matter how much you love her, all in the name of pleasing her.

As a man, you have the responsibility to make your woman happy but there should be limit. You have an ego to defend as a man and you should not let a woman ruin it or take advantage of you simply because you love her. Below are 5 things you must never do to please a woman;

1.) Pay Her School Fees

Unless she is your wife, never pay for a woman’s education. It is okay to help her and support her when she is in school but paying everything for her is a NO. If you feel compelled to do it. However, do not assume that she will forever be indebted to you. People change and she might as well choose to love someone else even after all your efforts.

2.) Forget Your Dreams For Her

Before you met her, remember you had your own dreams and aspirations. Do not stop chasing them just because she does not like what you do. If you wanted go study abroad, the last thing you want to do is change your mind because she is not comfortable with it. If she cannot wait, let her be but never stop pursuing your dreams to please a woman.

3.) Commit a Crime For Her

If you cannot sustain her flashy lifestyle, do not steal or do something stupid just to please her. If she loves you for real, she will understand when you are broke and will not pressure you to sort out her financial matters.

4.) Never Disrespect Your Family

Women can be so manipulative especially when they know you love them for sure and you can do anything to have them stay. Some will try to show you how bad your family members are and draw you further from them. If she ever leaves you, the only people you will have behind you is your family. So, never cut your family ties to make a girl happy.

5.) Compromise Your Needs For Hers

Unless it’s really necessary, you should be a little bit selfish with yourself. You cannot afford to go hungry so that you can send her money to buy food. You can maybe share the little you have but never sacrifice all you got just to make her happy.

When it comes to love, only experience can teach people sense.
Your advice is useless to any individual that has never fell victim and dumped.

If you can't do it for Amaka, Amara will sweep you off your feet and you'll do it for her.

Don't waste your time, experiences will do the trick. E get why dem say "love is blind" 😂

Why I go pay girl school fees in the first place, shé I be her papa ni

before you do anything crazy for her bro use ur head, Relationship no get refund ✌✌

Good advice

That School fees though.

Any Guy that pay School fees for his Undergraduate Girlfriend, When he wants to Marry her,
Her Family should not collect Dowry from him Again.

Then no need for the relationship.

If you start being calculative and acting smart with your partner then it's best you go your seperate ways.

I don't even understand what you young people call relationship these days

This is common sense, not like it requires rocket science to understand you points but bro, you've just wasted your time. No simp will listen to you until it hits them. Experience will do a better job than your advice. But you try, hopefully one out of a million simps will listen.

EreluRoz:
Then no need for the relationship.

If you start being calculative and acting smart with your partner then it's best you go your seperate ways.

I don't even understand what you young people call relationship these days

Lolz.. When its 50/50 its fine,but when one benefits more than the other no way.. Remember gender equality

6, Taking care of her bills(e.g rent, data, nepa bills, upkeep e.t.c.). I mean you can help out if you want. In fact you can take care of it all but NEVER EVER MAKE IT SEEM LIKE IT'S YOUR JOB! If you wan do am, do it willingly.

Lol 🤣🤣 I can pay her school fees with no strings attached. That's just my ways of life. I don't care how much I give my girlfriend, I keep telling her once u are tired of the relationship, you are free to walkout. I love you doesn't mean I should subvert your decision. After all she didn't point me gun to the head to pay her fees. Na una dey take all these things serious, me I no send oo. I just believe you wasn't meant for me. Simple as that. Just live a simple life .

Everything is not about sex or relationship....I can pay her school fees and take care of her without any string attached. You never can tell what she becomes tomorrow.

Very deep warning/advice.

Unfortunately, the more you do, the more they take you for granted (not exclusive to female lover, it is general human nature. Everyone would undervalue you if you are too quick to help).

Stay focus and don't get derailed.

Olachase:
Why I go pay girl school fees in the first place, shé I be her papa ni

Relationship way no get refund 😂😂

I will tell you why. Because that would be her major financial problem and she would enrol with or without you. So sometimes you need to ease it for her (especially if her papa is poor AF)

EreluRoz:
Then no need for the relationship.

If you start being calculative and acting smart with your partner then it's best you go your seperate ways.

I don't even understand what you young people call relationship these days

If you as a elder see something wrong in this list then you have so much to learn from the young.

Many of the people saying "I will pay her school fees" will abandon their siblings and even parents and be screaming "nobody owes you anything" (wicked man's favourite slogan) whilst paying the fees of a strange woman.

Offpoint1:
When it comes to love, only experience can teach people sense.
Your advice is useless to any individual that has never fell victim and dumped.

If you can't do it for Amaka, Amara will sweet you off your feet and you'll do it for her.

Don't waste your time, experiences will do the trick.

It's like saying the 10 commandments are fake.... Because people haven't experienced or committed the sin

Offpoint1:
When it comes to love, only experience can teach people sense.
Your advice is useless to any individual that has never fell victim and dumped.

If you can't do it for Amaka, Amara will sweet you off your feet and you'll do it for her.

Don't waste your time, experiences will do the trick.

Experience isn't the best teacher, you can learn from mistakes of others. I have learnt a lot through this means when it comes to these issues.

EreluRoz:
Then no need for the relationship.

If you start being calculative and acting smart with your partner then it's best you go your seperate ways.

I don't even understand what you young people call relationship these days

What is wrong when the payer is the female and payee is the male? Is money specific to one gender? Why were you educated if you will be a liability? Go and take back your money from all the schools you attended for churning out a liability to the society.

BigYash:
Lolz.. When its 50/50 its fine,but when one benefits more than the other no way.. Remember gender equality

...gender equality is sacrosanct....!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

GoodSpirit:


Experience isn't the best teacher, you can learn from mistakes of others. I have learnt a lot through this means when it comes to these issues.

You've not learned anything bro because you're dating Amaka, when you meet Amara you'll get my point.

GoodSpirit:


What is wrong when the payer is the female and payee is the male? Is money specific to one gender? Why were you educated if you will be a liability? Go and take back your money from all the schools you attended for churning out a liability to the society.

So you'll be comfortable if a lady is doing all of the above for you?

God created each gender for different purpose, stop trying to be or take the other gender role.

BigYash:
Lolz.. When its 50/50 its fine,but when one benefits more than the other no way.. Remember gender equality

I do not believe in the 50/50 bullshit, I don't believe in any sharing formula. I believe in both parties puting their best and acting foolish for each other, covering up for each other's shortcomings and not playing smart and calculative, that's not marriage or relationship.

Offpoint1:

You've not learned anything bro because you're dating Amaka, when you meet Amara you'll get my point.

I don't deal with people who have unidirectional mindset, have a nice day.

I book one olosho online na my friend babe show up
Babe way my guy sponsor go school

She still get mind tell me say make I do wetin I won do say she no day do refund

That day I fear life

i told my guy about it the mumu say i won spoil their relationship.

that guy later die of HIV

EreluRoz:
So you'll be comfortable if a lady is doing all of the above for you?

God created each gender for different purpose, stop trying to be or take the other gender role.

Look at the human talking about God's creation? If they bring what the bible says can you replicate it to the latter? If one really speaks of the literal things the Bible says will you really accept because it's coming from the bible? You are amongst those who will only cherry pick what the bible say that suits their own selfish narrative. Go and read what proverbs 31 says and know what it is not to sbe a liability to yourself and the Society at large.

Before now parents don't spend money to educate the girl child because to them it is useless to do that because that will never result to economic importance to the society. The same women including you campaigned that what a man can do a woman can do and even more or better, you were given a opportunities and education and you then still become a liability that you campaigned and championed against. What a waste of time , Money and energy.

You want society freebies but want zero accountability and responsibilities as an adult, you better go back to your parents womb and be reborn so that you can become a child in order to enjoy the privileges of a child.

A human who will get angry for people degrading her as a woman is same person degrading herself like she is a physically challenged or a disadvantaged member of the society. Women aren't less of a human than man, they are capable to do same activities and generating wealth needed to cause an impact to their immediate society. You can not approbate and reprobate at the same time.

Since you now believe everything the Bible says I hereby decree to you all what I have said above should be the last word you exude from your mouth by forever remaining silent when men speak on different fora by virtue of 1 Timothy 2:12

No.3 is the reason why crime & corruption is rife in the country.

Nigerian men did lots of sh!t because of that horrid looking hole, while their comtemporary in the western world invented dishwasher because of the same hole!

EreluRoz:
Then no need for the relationship.

If you start being calculative and acting smart with your partner then it's best you go your seperate ways.

I don't even understand what you young people call relationship these days

You are of the opinion men should forego their rational senses because they are in relationship with women?

Nah Ur type dem dey talk abt...

OgaTheTop2:
Everything is not about sex or relationship....I can pay her school fees and take care of her without any string attached. You never can tell what she becomes tomorrow.

GoodSpirit:


I don't deal with people who have unidirectional mindset, have a nice day.

Neither do I deal with people who don't want to face/accept reality. Have a greater day.

Okay

No train babe for school oh but you can buy this available Rx for her if she's loyal

Those are valid points.
I concur with you and i endorse everything wholeheartedly.