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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Lexusgs430: 5:47pm On Mar 14
Nice pad for only a bachelor......... 😜

With visiting girlfriend's, coming to warm his sofa/bed........ 😁🤣
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Pisol(m): 5:48pm On Mar 14
GenderMix:
It looks small. Every man wants the best for himself but not all can afford their dream and that doesn't mean he's a failure or should be deprived of marriage if he's willing. People start small especially those that try to cut their clothes according to their cloth.

Any forward thinking man with good ambition can marry In this room, nothing wrong.

Mine was worse than this . Lol.... I had a plan, and i was lucky to marry a lady with common sense and beauty for that matter. Funnily, we didn't spend up to 3 years in a rented apartment before we built our house. Today , some of our rooms are empty because the house bigger than our number. We have a well furnished garden where the kids can play. Today we are on our 3rd house in my state.

See we are less than 40yrs. Sometimes it's good for ladies to be humble and just focus on ambition. Every other thing will fall in place with time. Looking at colours or shape of cotton is absolutely childish and misleading.

We all have a choice anyways. I am not here to brag but to encourage young people who are keeping the focus. A critical questions the lady should ask is 'What am I bringing to the table'

Cheers


Best response have ever Heard. God bless your home. Please am single and responsible, ready for marriage Incase your wife has a younger sister..

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by AMI3(m): 5:52pm On Mar 14
NoSmoking:
No

I wont

Where will she keep her stuff?

Abi she no go come with anything?
See wardrobe bro

Some girls will dive into that apartment without too much questions.

Start way you are and grow from there.
Some women can be a blessing

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by CountinBlessins(m): 5:53pm On Mar 14
Sirmwill:
Contrary to the opinion of the person above me
If I don't have a big mansion

I'm not marrying yet

The person I would marry deserves to be treated as a queen...



















Dhurr, I will never go for a girl who is big orrrr sees herself as being big.
She would be the most looked down upon by other girls.
Then, I'd bring her up above them ✌️

Back to the room above

It's not good for marriage

Kai you are a talkative which means you are a weakling. A man who does things doesn't talk this much
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by sfinkzslot(m): 5:55pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:
It's the color for me be looking color riot..

Can a man marry in this kind of room? Be sincere

Sure, why not? There is bed TV and chair, hope there is kitchen sha

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by ponishah: 5:58pm On Mar 14
NoSmoking:
No

I wont

Where will she keep her stuff?

Abi she no go come with anything?

Because the guy even get furniture and electronics, una go come for social media dey pretend like say no be Nigerians all of us be.
Do you know how many couples living with children in one room, in nigeria? Millions
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by PAQ(m): 6:00pm On Mar 14
This is a good starting room for a couple, as the family expands & prosperity allows, they can move to somewhere bigger.

I have seen people start off in worse apartments, some are still there & others have progressed into bigger houses.
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by NoSmoking: 6:03pm On Mar 14
AMI3:

See wardrobe bro

Some girls will dive into that apartment without too much questions.

Start way you are and grow from there.
Some women can be a blessing

We must not stay there

We move to a spacious place
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Bimpe29: 6:07pm On Mar 14
Yes, of course. Fear of unknown has been killing many lovely dreams. Rome wasn't built in a day.
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by cunny88(m): 6:09pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:


So if you love someone they should not be comfortable? And when the children start coming love will create space for them to sleep and keep their own things?

Abeg this your own no follow
In the pursuit of happiness, what makes people happy and fulfilled differs. Every one is definitely not going to be wealthy. My apartment was way worse than this when I got married, today, today the story is better while we hope for the best

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by lextube: 6:11pm On Mar 14
I got married when I was living in a room like this.

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Brownemeka: 6:11pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:
It's the color for me be looking color riot..

Can a man marry in this kind of room? Be sincere
yes as long as He can manage a Woman... before She give birth,,, they move to a bigger house
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SoNature(m): 6:13pm On Mar 14
Ance4Liverpool:
Dont wait till u live in a mansion b4 u marry. Any girl that marries you in this one room is a wife material that can adapt to any condision, though its very hard to find

They are not hard to find. The problem is that most guys want to convert slay queens to wife materials. This is beyond impossible!
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by wunmi590(m): 6:14pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:


Under the bed grin while some will go on top of the wardrobe. grin


Yeah but the curtain looks old and dull

So you are thinking that once they are doing the do, somebody will be looking at them?
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Jewessgratitud3: 6:18pm On Mar 14
wunmi590:


So you are thinking that once they are doing the do, somebody will be looking at them?

No that's not what I mean. grin I'm just saying the curtain doesn't flatter the look of the room.
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by dododawa1: 6:19pm On Mar 14
What worng in this?



U start from somewhere.

Some sleeping under BRIDGE with their load and kitchen beside them.


Don't let anyone puch you ooooooooo
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by chypotenti(m): 6:20pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:
It's the color for me be looking color riot..

Can a man marry in this kind of room? Be sincere
Abeg how much you buy this your fan
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Innobee99(m): 6:21pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:


Under the bed grin while some will go on top of the wardrobe. grin


Yeah but the curtain looks old and dull
Slow and steady wins the race. U can't have it all at once
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by chatinent: 6:23pm On Mar 14
So our parents wey marry for one room dey craze abi?
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Tradepunter2: 6:30pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:


Everything is wrong with it because once they start living together as man and wife the next thing children will start coming. how will they cope then?

So he can't control his penis till s better place is gotten Isn't that counterproductive to even think of giving birth in a place like this??
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Zealoy(m): 6:34pm On Mar 14
A room like this in lagos #250k - #300k agent and agreement #200k that is #500k plus and some are saying u can't get married in a room like that..
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by sonnie10: 6:35pm On Mar 14
My only issue with the room is ventilation.
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Absuchat(m): 6:37pm On Mar 14
Mine

Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SSpeter(m): 6:42pm On Mar 14
mariahAngel:
The space is not big enough to live in with a woman, so NO!



😀
Poshest nne, you didn't answer the question.
It will cost you around #1,100 pounds in London and #1200 CAD in Canada to rent this room. When I visited Canada, I saw Nigerians that own average looking duplexes living in a single room with their families. No complain! I guess you guys are judging from Naija perspective
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SSpeter(m): 6:44pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:


Lol.. me too I like a very spacious apartment. Can't marry a man living in this kind of room.
Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person grin
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by BuyMeBanger: 6:44pm On Mar 14
The room looks soo cute, this isn't in Nigeria right?
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SSpeter(m): 6:47pm On Mar 14
TheWinterBird:
It looks claustrophobic (maybe due to the narrow shape). It's too closed-in and not enough windows. How will somebody breathe in that room? Can that window be opened for air? Lols
Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person ...infact it will turn claustaspacious

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SSpeter(m): 6:47pm On Mar 14
Elohorp:


Getting married in such room will affect you as a man
And you will only end up spoiling your kids
Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person grin
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SSpeter(m): 6:50pm On Mar 14
naija4life247:


Any girl that marries a senseless man in this one room is nothing but a cursed vagabond
Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person grin
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by wunmi590(m): 6:51pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:


No that's not what I mean. grin I'm just saying the curtain doesn't flatter the look of the room.

You are right

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Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by SSpeter(m): 6:51pm On Mar 14
yesloaded:


No no no

At least a room & parlour is fine if you cannot afford a flat
Na Naija still dey worry you, when you pay #1250 pounds monthly in WC London for this room, you go add your grandma plus 4 children and hubby sef...them no dey tell person angry
Re: Can You Advise Someone To Marry In This Room by Quodseverismete: 7:01pm On Mar 14
Jewessgratitud3:
It's the color for me be looking color riot..

Can a man marry in this kind of room? Be sincere

The question should have be can a man fuc.k in this kind of room?

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