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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Icudkill: 12:51am On Jan 06, 2014
ifeness:

Yes there is a flying monster hanging in the sky watching everything you do. Who created this monster?
The fact dat certain sects hav made descriptions of this God( most of wic ar questionable) does not writes off his existence..
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Icudkill: 12:55am On Jan 06, 2014
peterphd:

How is homosexuality illogical? Homosexuality exists in other animal species and you can look it up.if you can debate homosexuality, the thread is available.
Homosexuality is completely illogical
Name dat specie
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Icudkill: 1:00am On Jan 06, 2014
LordAdam:

The dude sounds like an Agnostic. Although his view is quite unique, he subscribes to the premise of creationism, just not by a being deemed to be revered as "God". It's a mixed bag, but that's an Agnostic signature right there.

Ahem, about intelligent design. It's very compelling on both the macro and micro level of observation that the intricacies are too complex to be ascribed to mere chance. But that's just it, nothing more than a statement of logic. A simple 'what if', pulls the curtain on this surprising conclusion.

Because on both ends of the scale, life and the universe or universes (if the multi-verse theory deserves recognition) are (as far as we know) self-sustaining. Where did Intelligent design start, and when did it end? Evidently, the universe is still expanding, new galaxies are forming as old ones are being obliterated at a bewildering rate at incomprehensible locations. Even at that, new species, strains and adaptations on both the macro- and microscopic scale are evident on life forms on this planet, who then can rule out the possibility of life elsewhere in contrasting living conditions. What if life as we know it is not same somewhere else, do we ascribe it to a deft being or simply a process that seems to hinge on luck and chance.

The only critter of sanity is postulating that unless there's justifiable proof, demonstrative rather than implicating: we stick to what we know. Some evolution theories are frankly hilarious or dead-beat ludicrous, but the religious accounts are more absurd.

Intelligent design is compelling, but it does not prove the existence of God, if anything it only explicates the need for us to understand our immediate environment because there's a lot to learn.
Intelli-design does prove dah der is a God
And mind you life is not self sustainin.,
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 1:13am On Jan 06, 2014
LordAdam:

The dude sounds like an Agnostic. Although his view is quite unique, he subscribes to the premise of creationism, just not by a being deemed to be revered as "God". It's a mixed bag, but that's an Agnostic signature right there.

Ahem, about intelligent design. It's very compelling on both the macro and micro level of observation that the intricacies are too complex to be ascribed to mere chance. But that's just it, nothing more than a statement of logic. A simple 'what if', pulls the curtain on this surprising conclusion.

Because on both ends of the scale, life and the universe or universes (if the multi-verse theory deserves recognition) are (as far as we know) self-sustaining. Where did Intelligent design start, and when did it end? Evidently, the universe is still expanding, new galaxies are forming as old ones are being obliterated at a bewildering rate at incomprehensible locations. Even at that, new species, strains and adaptations on both the macro- and microscopic scale are evident on life forms on this planet, who then can rule out the possibility of life elsewhere in contrasting living conditions. What if life as we know it is not same somewhere else, do we ascribe it to a deft being or simply a process that seems to hinge on luck and chance.

The only critter of sanity is postulating that unless there's justifiable proof, demonstrative rather than implicating: we stick to what we know. Some evolution theories are frankly hilarious or dead-beat ludicrous, but the religious accounts are more absurd.

Intelligent design is compelling, but it does not prove the existence of God, if anything it only explicates the need for us to understand our immediate environment because there's a lot to learn.

The argument for design is a very easy one to counter.

1) If there is an intelligent designer, who designed the designer?

2) How did he come to be?

3) Can you ascribe his existence to mere chance too?
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 1:25am On Jan 06, 2014
oluafolabi:

The argument for design is a very easy one to counter.

1) If there is an intelligent designer, who designed the designer?

2) How did he come to be?

3) Can you ascribe his existence to mere chance too?

The designer appeared from nothing. It was a miracle and you must believe it without asking question or else, hell fire!
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 1:29am On Jan 06, 2014
I.cud.kill:

Homosexuality is completely illogical
Name dat specie

Just like killing your son on the cross to appease yourself is illogical. That is a crime against humanity

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 1:30am On Jan 06, 2014
I.cud.kill:

Homosexuality is completely illogical
Name dat specie

If nature allows it, you are powerless to change it.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 1:36am On Jan 06, 2014
karkwix: "The white man is very clever. He came quietly and peaceably with his religion. We were amused at his foolishness and allowed him to stay. Now he has won our brothers, and our clan can no longer act like one. He has put a knife on the things that held us together and we have fallen apart." - Chinua Achebe

True talk from a wise man. Achebe like other wise men of a Africa will surely be missed.

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 2:50am On Jan 06, 2014
From what i read its safe to say Believers have been counter-attacked in every aspect of the theist argument.
The only conviction believers now cling onto dearly is that of the 'intelligent designer' Lol
lest i say that the conviction has also been proven illogical

oluafolabi: 1) If there is an intelligent designer, who designed
the designer?
2) How did he come to be?
3) Can you ascribe his existence to mere chance
too?
Pls i would love if any enlightened fellow/believer can provide an answer or a logical explanation to the above.


Blinding ignorance does mislead us.
O! Wretched mortals, OPEN YOUR EYES!

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 3:04am On Jan 06, 2014
incrediblestev: do you have the pdf.....you should read Murdock's Christ conspiracy, an ever bigger eye opener....i could send it to you if you want...
You got mail Sir.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by EreluY(f): 3:53am On Jan 06, 2014
incrediblestev: imagine what the man had to face just for being a non-believer, religion is very dangerous, especially when dealing with the very organized ones like the Catholics and Islam with very powerful institutions and political power.
They can choose to make things difficult for you in places that matter, from seeking a job, having a career or even having a relationship.

It goes beyond believing in a God that needs to serviced through organized worship and gathering, it seeks to control or regulate people and their thought process, its major aim is power not neccessarily a God.

That is why it is very dangerous to argue openly against it especially as a young person with very and promising future looking ahead. I respect people's choice of religion even when I don't agree with their beliefs. I only argue or debate with ignorant notions they sometimes put up about their religion being the only way to a fulfilled life and eternal life..... I once told a Christian friend who kept disturbing me about eternal life, I asked, "what is the use of an eternal life that according to your bible is synonymous with slavery in heaven, as I won't be entitled to free will, thought process or even allowed to make a mistake and learn from it, who wants to live the boring life of perfection, definitely not me.


You're absolutely right. This guy was being scapegoated and a myth started going round claiming that whoever abandons the faith and reneges on his priestly vow is finished here on earth and damned in heaven, hence, they wanted to make sure he remained jobless. Even his family members abandoned him saying he brought shame on them for leaving the priesthood. But they were all wrong. One of his colleagues (an agnostic) whom he met and had excellent relationships with whilst studying in England helped him relocate to the US following which he secured a position as an Assistant Professor. The guy is doing extremely well now and happily married too.

By the way, I am happily MARRIED to an Ex-Catholic Priest. Who is now an Arch-atheist by confession and a full professor by profession. lol.

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by NobleG1(m): 4:09am On Jan 06, 2014
Pretending to be a christian to make your mum happy will be bad for you and I don't recommend it.
If you must change anything in your life, let it be by your own will. Nobody (including your mum) has any right whatsoever to dictate how you live your life. Your mum should understand that religion is not by force.

I'm Agnostic and my extended family is unaware. My wife is religious and she doesn't disturb me about it. My Mum will find out by herself and not from me. You shouldn't have told your mum.

Now she knows, all you've to do is to explain to her that you're now a grown man and would like to live your life the way that pleases you. Remind her that religion is not by force. And ask her if someone tries to force her to start attending a different church like O.O.Obu or become a muslin convert, what would she do? Won't she protect her belief?

Most Nigerian parents just don't understand. They keep hanging unto old mentality.

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by NobleG1(m): 4:44am On Jan 06, 2014
mazaje:

There is no god but allah and mohammed is his messenger, my brother you are on the wrong path. . You will rot in allah's hell unless you believe in him and accept his religion which is islam. . .say what ever you want but you will definitely remember this post some day. . .

"Oh God, I acknowledge and confess before You, all my sins, please forgive them, as no one can forgive sins except You. Forgive my mistakes, those done intentionally, or out of my ignorance, with or without seriousness. Oh God, forgive my sins and my ignorance, forgive my sins of the past and of the future, which I did openly or secretly. Forgive the wrong I have done, jokingly or seriously. I seek Your protection from all the evil I have done. Wash away my sins, and cleanse my heart, from all the sins as a white garment is cleansed from the filth, and let there be long distance between me and my sins, as You made the East and West far from each other."

That prayer expressed a heart that understood the depth of sin in its soul. It acknowledges a nature within that is bent towards sin. And it reflects the desire to cleanse that depth of sin. We hear in that prayer a man’s struggle with sin. He asks forgiveness for his past and future sins, because he knows that as a normal man, he is going to sin. It is inevitable. He asks for forgiveness for things he has done intentionally, and unintentionally. He asks forgiveness for mistakes and sins, those done intentionally or unintentionally. He knows that the sins he committed are "evil", and confesses that to God. He does not make light of his sins. The sins he committed are "filth" in God’s eyes.

That prayer was prayed by Muhammad. It is a synthesis of his personal prayers found in Sahih Bukhari Volume 8: #s 335, 379, 407, and 408. Muhammad knew clearly he was a sinner; thus he makes his confession public. Over and over again he stated he was a sinner. The Quran he spoke identifies him as a sinner. Yet many Muslims today say that Muhammad was not a sinner.

Religion is probably a BIG lie. Nobody has proved God's existence. Those who worship the Sun maybe doing the right thing because without it there won't be life. The Sun could even be the God humans are searching for.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by emmerks(m): 6:45am On Jan 06, 2014
Pretense will do you no good. In the words of Augustine of Hippo, one of the essence of human existence is to have happines in our everyday life. If u decide to pretend, u could be made happy but u will never be happy within.

However, according to Paschal Blaise, in his work about the existence of God, he noted that; if we say God doesn't exist, and decide not to do good or believe in, and at d end we discover He exist, we will be at a lose.

Nonetheless, 'if we say God exit and decide to do good and believe in Him, we have nothing to lose at the end if we really later discover He exist.

The truth is nobody has ever been able to Logically proof that God exist, and nobody has also been able to Logically and conclusively proof He doesn't exist.

Science itself hasn't been able to prove He doesn't exist. All it has been able to deduce is that 'there's a higher being that control nature and the course of things'. Who tells the Sun and moon how to shift duty?

From the above, it is important for u to realize that there's a higher being.

In conclusion, it is not possible for u to deny the existence of something that does not exist. In the latin phrase "Cogito ergo sum" summarizes all that has been said above.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by emmerks(m): 6:59am On Jan 06, 2014
With the existence of a supreme being, it is left for us to decide on how to relate with Him. Hence, the plethora of ways of worship.

There are so many forms of belief that has been able to stand the taste of time, so many of them older than Christianity and Islam which most of us here profess. Buddhism, hinduism, ATR, Judaism etc.

The problem with the religion the white men brought was that it was diluted so that they can achieve their economic exploitation of Africa. In coming here, when they saw that the locals weren't being easily won over, they brought in the missionaries to counter over belief system which dint give room for any exploitation.

In the African Traditional Religion/society, dispensation of Justice is immediate. How I wish that was still obtainable, maybe by now most of our senators will be dead. You dare not steal or betray others, the result was immediate.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by emmerks(m): 7:15am On Jan 06, 2014
What I will however advise u is to search within urself and nature, maybe u will sense d presence of a higher Being.

The way u relate with the higher Being is now left for u, there are so many forms of belief u can choose from.

In this part of the world, the most common being Christianity and Islam or ATR. U don't have to be carried away by what the preacher of any of the above says because man in himself is selfish, and uses any medium he has for self interest and gain. "Just hate the player and not the game".

I will however advise that in any that u choose or decide to use as means of relating with nature, make sure u read and know about it thoroughly. "Knowledge is power".

Make sure u move above the level of biased sentiments to a level in which the adulterated truths of our religious leaders can easily be deciphered.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by emmerks(m): 7:23am On Jan 06, 2014
When one looks at the flamboyant lifestyle of our religious leaders, it is easily possible to be irritated by what they preach.

Just make sure u know what u are out for, and learn how to achieve it with an unbiased mind.

I pray that God in His infinite mercy will guide u and direct ur will.

Am a philosopher, Historian, theologian, and also a Diplomat. Would really appreciate if we can relate better. PIN: 298264B2
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 7:28am On Jan 06, 2014
ifeness:

Just like killing your son on the cross to appease yourself is illogical. That is a crime against humanity

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin my dear, an omnipotent god would have redeemed the world in a twinkle of an eye, and not to kill his own son. grin grin

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 06, 2014
Pastor Olu T:

If only u realized what u did to ur wife? And I dont think she truly believes anyways, whichever way there is doom ahead!

you know little or nothing about religions, religion is the present doom.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by kjhova(m): 7:33am On Jan 06, 2014
A lot of guys here have raised the idea that design in nature supports the existence of god or at least a "higher intelligent being".

Ok. Let's test this arguement. Suppose design in nature is proof enough of a higher being, who is to say if this being is a "he" as most have been saying? Can this being be a "she"? Or an "it"? Then perhaps we are actually dealing with a set of beings? As someone suggested that automobile production is analogous to natural design, can we then suppose that the universe was designed by a mega factory of gods? If we accept that design in nature is proof of god, which of the existing gods win the bet? Allah (with no son), Jehovah (with 1 son) or Zeus (with many sons & daughters)?

Then let's introduce Satan which is the arch enemy of the Abrahamic gods (Jehovah/Allah/Yahweh), since he was "cast unto Earth" according to the bible, are we safe from his operations if we move to, say, Saturn or Mars? If human biosphere spread to the next galaxy, will god grant satan a charter there too or will he find another satan for that realm so he can send his son to die there too?

Finally, is there really a difference between the god theory & the big bang theory of the origin of the Universe? Religionists have always attacked the big bang with one main challenge which is "what started the bang & where did the bang materials come from?" We can ask the same of the god theory, what started god & where was god before he/she/it/they started??

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by peterphd(m): 7:40am On Jan 06, 2014
I.cud.kill:

Homosexuality is completely illogical
Name dat specie

Google "homosexuality in animals".
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by peterphd(m): 7:46am On Jan 06, 2014
@incrediblestev

Please, I am interested in your pdf books.please share @gmail.com. Thanks
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by kjhova(m): 7:46am On Jan 06, 2014
The end point of all religion is life after death. Christianity & Islam in particular even introduce the idea of a heaven or paradise where the righteous will live forever in the presence of god.

Sounds good? For the idea of paradise not to sound like the biggest scam ever pulled off in human history, we need an adherent to paint a detailed picture of what daily life is supposed to be like in paradise. You can account for a few of the points below:
1) Will u recognise the folks you know back on Earth?
2) Will u eat, sleep, get scratched, shave etc?
3) Since you'd obviosuly be happy, can you also get sad, tired, depressed, expectant, anxious etc?
4) Will all be equal citizens? The bible did talk about elders, crowns etc.
5) What next for you in life? Will there be aspirations, goals, exemplar performance etc?
6) Will everyone have the same talent, ability, intellect etc in all fields of endeavor?
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by scarred9jan(m): 7:59am On Jan 06, 2014
ifeness:

The designer appeared from nothing. It was a miracle and you must believe it without asking question or else, hell fire!

SMH..
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by scarred9jan(m): 8:08am On Jan 06, 2014
emmerks: Pretense will do you no good. In the words of Augustine of Hippo, one of the essence of human existence is to have happines in our everyday life. If u decide to pretend, u could be made happy but u will never be happy within.

However, according to Paschal Blaise, in his work about the existence of God, he noted that; if we say God doesn't exist, and decide not to do good or believe in, and at d end we discover He exist, we will be at a lose.

Nonetheless, 'if we say God exit and decide to do good and believe in Him, we have nothing to lose at the end if we really later discover He exist.

The truth is nobody has ever been able to Logically proof that God exist, and nobody has also been able to Logically and conclusively proof He doesn't exist.

Science itself hasn't been able to prove He doesn't exist. All it has been able to deduce is that 'there's a higher being that control nature and the course of things'. Who tells the Sun and moon how to shift duty?

From the above, it is important for u to realize that there's a higher being.

In conclusion, it is not possible for u to deny the existence of something that does not exist. In the latin phrase "Cogito ergo sum" summarizes all that has been said above.

Some people are really ignorant to the lowest level, the sun shift everyday?!!! Even a kindergarten kid knows the earth revolves round the sun.. Get out of ur religious delusions before its too late..

Wait a minute, from ur statements its already too late

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Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by mandhi(m): 8:42am On Jan 06, 2014
@generalsheperd, if I may ask, y don't u believe in GOD.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by libero00: 8:44am On Jan 06, 2014
peterphd: @incrediblestev

Please, I am interested in your pdf books.please share at Peterphdadamu@gmail.com. Thanks
Me as well
libero00@7mail7.com
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 06, 2014
cold:
I deliberately left out religion from my comment. My question is who exactly is this 'someone' you so desperately want to credit with the world we live in. Stop prevaricating and tell me who or what this thing is. And we might just as well begin another debate from whence he came. It's an argument of consistent regression. You only cling tenaciously to this notion of intelligent design because it is some sort of consolation. The 'God gap theory'. If you can't explain it God did it

You are really so used to desperately trying to debunk specific religious beliefs that you cannot do without a specific God.

If Atheism is true, then you do not need the name of a specific God to debunk the God Gap as you call it.
The God Gap, leaving out any details of the specific God, whether he is a life form from another planet, a whole population of them, male, female, divine or not, or whatever, totally renders your core belief in the lack of existence of a deity baseless and actually stupid.

Like I told you before, if you woke up in a desert and saw a white washed building, with no one around the first realisation is not the name of the person who built it, but the fact that someone did build it. Hence, you can not blankly say you are the first person at the location. Which is what you atheist are trying to do all the time. Albeit with the most faulty logic I ever heard of.

The fact that you or I cannot bring a physical proof of the name of God if not by faith, does not in any way debunk his existence, there are plenty physical evidences of his works.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 9:34am On Jan 06, 2014
oluafolabi:

The argument for design is a very easy one to counter.

1) If there is an intelligent designer, who designed the designer?

2) How did he come to be?

3) Can you ascribe his existence to mere chance too?

These your questions do not in any way disprove intelligent design.
One of the fallacies used by people who refer to baseless logic is to jump to secondary questions without answering primary one.

The nature of the origin of the intelligent designer does not in any way interfere with the fact that all the designs we have seen are evidences of his existence. You questions are totally irrelevant to the question of existence of an Intelligent Design with purpose and consciousness.

Further, assuming you can ascribe him to chance, it is definitely not the same chance that you can you would like to ascribe to yourself, as you do not share the same capability or environment or realm as the designer. The fact still remains that you and I live in a world so complex, and volatile, that the probability of having originated from random chance is way smaller than the probability of passing a horse through the eye of a needle.
Re: My Atheism And Its Effect On My Mum! by Nobody: 9:38am On Jan 06, 2014
ifeness:

True talk from a wise man. Achebe like other wise men of a Africa will surely be missed.

You are referencing a fictional work. My question is what was it that they were talking of that bound them together, was it another religion or atheism?
Mind you that what the west that we so reference today is was born out of religion. We are yet to see what they will be without religion.

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