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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by eleko1: 11:13am On Oct 03, 2014
kiss kiss smiley wink cheesy grin
Ann2deals: now your child is wonderful i believe the mother is courageous and God is marvelous, congatulobia papa wonderful keep it up, help multiply the nation.





Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Gboliwe: 11:14am On Oct 03, 2014
peziz:

Lmao!!! caught red handed. Gboliwe haff vex scatter.
Can you imagine the "comcombility"
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by 50calibre(m): 11:15am On Oct 03, 2014
Wow!!! What an insightful thread.

I'm not yet a father, but at this stage, it's not that far off. The nightmarish experiences on this thread scares the Jesus out of me, I don't think I will be able to cope with these sort of things.

I'm a big baby myself, then 2 babies in the house = disaster! Who would look after who?

When it's my time, I think I will get a carer or something & give some space, everybody wins!!

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:19am On Oct 03, 2014
All the waiting husbands should learn from here and know how they will take k of their awaiting wives when they become awaiting fathers and mothers.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Nobody: 11:21am On Oct 03, 2014
wow i think dis is d best thread hv read so far today... reading oll dis stuffs make me want to marry. bt in my own case that i dont no hw to cook ordinary noddles wel? embarassed jst don't no what to do. i want to be d best husband to my wife n d best dad to my unborn children.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by peziz(f): 11:22am On Oct 03, 2014
Gboliwe: Can you imagine the "comcombility"

Serious comcombility. grin grin
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Mollydee88: 11:37am On Oct 03, 2014
Wow!! Great thread. Thanks Op..
My wife and I are expecting our first baby as well.
It's been wonderful experiences from day 1 till date. I actually knew she'd be pregnant the time we had sex to have a baby. The signs were all over the air..Lol..
We gone past 1st and 2nd trimesters; and the most scary was the 1st. At those times, I was very scared to say the least.. I'm sure my neighbours around us knew she was pregnant, cos of her loud vomits sounds that frequently occurred for about 2 months..
Eating habits changed.. Her sensory organs were A+, She could smell a mosquito coming her way.. Almost everything irritated her..
I remember having to excuse her the bathroom & bedroom if i had to take a bath with my soap or use my cologne..

Now, it's all different.. Our baby movements amuse me the most.. My baby is so very active and funny dude and seems to be aware of the surroundings and lovely parents...

I can't wait to have our baby in my arms. MY WIFE: YOU ARE THE BEST...

I want to use this opportunity to pray for those married and haven't conceived yet. God shall visit you soon, and correct all anomalies in Jesus name. You shall have your heart desire in Jesus name. Amen!!

Also, for the singles hoping and ready for responsible parenthood and marriage. God will open doors and you shall have your breakthrough in Jesus Name. Amen.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by gen2briz(m): 11:46am On Oct 03, 2014
abdulwastecx:

Therr is no such thing as ' illegal father'. our culture is so messed up that a dude will spend his life savings all in the name of some ceremony that is only staged.

I rather be an illegal father than to spend life savings all in name of wedding

Thanks for the explanation bro.

Ma sallam
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Eddy2cute(m): 11:47am On Oct 03, 2014
Waiting 4 lil richee was so much fun mixed with scary moments when she sometimes just yell and nags 4 no just cause, but when lil richee finally came I saw that he was worth it all. God bless my darlyn wife Esther for blessing me with such gift,

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by sheunfemix: 12:11pm On Oct 03, 2014
clinik: am so proud that we can always learn from each other......please any doctor here...my wife is taking pregnant care without folic acid...is it okay
I'm not a doctor but this is my third baby on d way and all I use is pregnacare. The imported sha o. If u read about the content in the drug, u'll know it contains folic acid already. Using folic acid again with with might be an overdose. I recommend she use the one that has Omega3 in it good for brain development

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Nobody: 12:16pm On Oct 03, 2014
igbsam: How long do I have to wait to start having sex with my wife who just delivered of a baby ?


Until she's ready physically and emotionally. It's traumatic to give birth,both to your body and your mind. I encourage you to be intimate as in body massages, soft kisses remind her how beautiful she is, anywhere from a couple of weeks to 6 weeks is normal.
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by sheunfemix: 12:21pm On Oct 03, 2014
blesoh: Mine was back pains,plus sleeping on the floor than d bed.
Sex was a taboo,all dat is ova i delivered a baby girl last week friday.
I Wish ur wife a safe delivery.
awwwwww congratulations dear. I sleep on d floor too. Its cool plus no sex too. But me I want baby boy o. Have two girls already cheesy

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by oluchikeh(f): 12:21pm On Oct 03, 2014
no two pregnancies are the same. please support her as much as you can and give her peace and space


mobuch:

My wife is heavy with our 4th child, infact this current pregnancy is the one with the most drama, I. Have to wake up every mid nite to give her massage, I have to pet her everyday cos she is always upset; she z 7mths gone, can't wait for this nitemare to end.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by tonychristopher: 12:21pm On Oct 03, 2014
I USED T BE AWAITING FATHER FOR THE SECOND TIME, NO SEX FOR MONTH CS ONE GYNO SAID I SHOULD BE ON LEASH, NOW THE PREG MISCARRIED I AM OFF LEAS TRYING TO RECOUP


FATHERHOOD IS FUN...BILLS COMING AINT FUN


LOL

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by oluchikeh(f): 12:31pm On Oct 03, 2014
her treshold for pain is obviously low if she is crying when the doctors say she is not yet actively in labor
However we call you baby forth in Jesus name. we await your testimony on the birth of your baby.

a phase has ended and a new phase begins


ogmask post=/post/26826531:
My wife started having contractions 2days ago. We came to the hospital yesterday and since then I have been beside her. The pain of labour is indiscribable. She has been crying for over 24hrs and yet the doctor said she has not entered active labour.
This is our first and I want to be here all the way.
I am eagerly looking forward to holding our bundle of joy. Thank God for his mercies.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by blesoh(f): 12:37pm On Oct 03, 2014
sheunfemix post=/post/26830156:
awwwwww congratulations dear. I sleep on d floor too. Its cool plus no sex too. But me I want baby boy o. Have two girls already cheesy
tanx.
Same here i now hv two girls,i pray next shld be a boy oh.so i could rest.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by coronaprof(m): 12:38pm On Oct 03, 2014
Pls could sum1 run a thread of all would be dads interested in the miracle called ivf in vitro fertilization? Learnt it cost a fortune but with improved tech its reachable. # shout out to all believing fathers

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Seun(m): 12:38pm On Oct 03, 2014
ogmask post=/post/26826531:
My wife started having contractions 2days ago. We came to the hospital yesterday and since then I have been beside her. The pain of labour is indiscribable. She has been crying for over 24hrs and yet the doctor said she has not entered active labour.
This is our first and I want to be here all the way?
I am eagerly looking forward to holding our bundle of joy. Thank God for his mercies.
Can't she be given an epidural or something?
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by lekjons(m): 12:49pm On Oct 03, 2014
Mention post=/post/26822133:

I came here to read comments, but I ain't clicking LIKE
lol funny u,well i've had enough likes anyway,likes isn't moni tongue
Mention post=/post/26822133:

I came here to read comments, but I ain't clicking LIKE
lol, funny u,well i've had enough likes anyway,likes isn't moni
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by igbsam(m): 12:54pm On Oct 03, 2014
vivalableue post=/post/26830039:


Until she's ready physically and emotionally. It's traumatic to give birth,both to your body and your mind. I encourage you to be intimate as in body massages, soft kisses remind her how beautiful she is, anywhere from a couple of weeks to 6 weeks is normal.

Oh....thanks for the tip. When I get married, i'll keep this in mind.
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Nicepoker(m): 12:55pm On Oct 03, 2014
MissyDivah post=/post/26820838:
I only care about Responsible Fathers tongue
as if u are or will be a responsible mum.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by ugotuf(m): 1:06pm On Oct 03, 2014
ogmask post=/post/26826531:
My wife started having contractions 2days ago. We came to the hospital yesterday and since then I have been beside her. The pain of labour is indiscribable. She has been crying for over 24hrs and yet the doctor said she has not entered active labour.
This is our first and I want to be here all the way.
I am eagerly looking forward to holding our bundle of joy. Thank God for his mercies.
May the good LORD see you and her through this time and reward you with smooth and easy delivery, shortly you will hear your baby's cry and your wife's sigh of relief and your joy shall know no bounds in Jesus Name...amen.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by fpeter(f): 1:14pm On Oct 03, 2014
canalily post=/post/26827829:
...AMEN! For praying with me, may almighty father expand your source of income and bless you abundantly with cubits of good health and many more fruitful years ahead...

AMEN OOO..... cheesy
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by simplyglow: 1:17pm On Oct 03, 2014
ur child would ask u dis soon

Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Nobody: 1:17pm On Oct 03, 2014
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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Bigsteveg(m): 1:29pm On Oct 03, 2014
thorpido post=/post/26817075:
^^keep at it.Help her with house work and massage her body especially her back cos she will experiencing back pain sometimes.
Make love to her cos her body needs it but do it when it's convenient for her.
Sleeplessness is a common occurrence so she should catch up on as much sleep as she can.
It's a worthwhile journey.Wish you the best.
Lecturer, he has being managing the situation since, I don't remember reading him asking for ur advice
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Bigsteveg(m): 1:31pm On Oct 03, 2014
Atmmachine post=/post/26820851:
#Make sure you deposit enough sperm into her.
By so doing,the child will resemble you & not your landlord
grin meaning?

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by generalissimo(m): 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2014
clinik post=/post/26816670:
Awaiting fathers, let share our experience and reaction of our pretty wife. My wife is 24 weeks gone. The experience during first trimester was very scary....she vomits and was not able to cook. I did almost all the work in the house just to encourage her that we are in it together. Her recent reaction is sleeplessness, she wakes up between 1am & 2am and she won't be able to sleep until 4am. am eagerly expecting my baby, actually my first.
Congrats! I share in your happiness Bros grin I wish her safe delivery whenever she's due.
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Reetarsarvic(f): 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2014
clinik post=/post/26817229:

seriously sex is once in a week now.....am not really complaining but am looking if it won't affect her at due time. u know what I mean
OGA U Need To Grease Dat Road 4 D Baby To Hav A Free Ride Out Of Dat Place.

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by sheunfemix: 1:47pm On Oct 03, 2014
blesoh post=/post/26830552:

tanx.
Same here i now hv two girls,i pray next shld be a boy oh.so i could rest.
U are going to do more? shocked haba u jst delivered nAa u are saying "next" cheesy be careful with oga o.. This one that u are thinking of next tongue cheesy
Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by Bigsteveg(m): 1:47pm On Oct 03, 2014
UnknownT post=/post/26823228:
Bro! There is nothing like "deliver like the Hebrew women". That was a lie told by the midwives, I wonder how it stuck up to dis century. Safe delivery to ur wifey
Kindly mind ya business, he believes in it and he prays for it, what concern u with dat one? Mind ya 4ucking boring bizzzzzzzzz!!!!!

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Re: Awaiting Fathers: Lets Share Our Experience by blesoh(f): 1:54pm On Oct 03, 2014
sheunfemix post=/post/26832205:
U are going to do more? shocked haba u jst delivered nAa u are saying "next" cheesy be careful with oga o.. This one that u are thinking of next tongue cheesy
lol not now,maybe d next 3yrs.
Haba now,i wan die lol.

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