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| Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 1:32am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Are you having any serious relationship issue that you want to share, but still keep your identity secret? Are you hurt and need someone to urgently pour your heart to (without being known by the society)? Do you want to get into a relationship, but confused? Look no further... You dont have to mention your name, or location. All you need do is say it the way it is (without adding or subtracting). Just sms it raw...THE TRUTH. You will receive response or advise as the case may be. SMS it to 08028777266. I will reply you at no cost. Please Note: Only send SMS, and DONT CALL OR FLASH. Please SMS ONLY. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 7:19am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Lol....joker,advicer ko,advicer ni |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 8:30am On Oct 29, 2014 |
edozie04: In a Yoruba adage, it is said, "one uses the experiences of others to shape and live his/her life". As a counsellor in my little capacity, there is nothing anyone will say, that is new to me. In fact, I am used to such sarcastic comment. Its not new bro...and it may interest you. I woke up to see eleven (11) sms in respective to this post. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 8:39am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:Good but I rather trust a devil that I know thn an angel I do nt knw |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 8:48am On Oct 29, 2014 |
"There is nothing new under the sun", so says the Holy Book. Before you take any action, or react to that action, THINK, is it really worth it? Life is full of pain, shame, and to a few, endless luxury. If you decide to take laws into your hands, can you withstand the aftermath? For the fact that he/she says you are not his/her class, does it make you less human? He/she who removes his/her rubber carpet from your bossom, dont you think that, he/she wants GOD to now come in with HIS rug carpet? This life is simple, yet, the most complicated. Live it right, while the offer last. In summary, no situation is worth your tears!. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 8:58am On Oct 29, 2014 |
edozie04: HE created the Earth, becos he wanted to (OPTION). When Adam and Eve where in the garden of Eden, HE gave free hand to choose to eat from the tree HE forbade or not (OPTION). HE gave every man the right to choose whom to serve (OPTION). HE went to empower every man to choose whom to marry (OPTION). The only man HE never gave (OPTION) to was the devil, whom you have decided or choose to trust. As the Holy Book says, he is the father of all lies, and evil. So, I have the (OPTION), of not taking you serious. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 8:59am On Oct 29, 2014 |
edozie04: HE created the Earth, becos he wanted to (OPTION). When Adam and Eve where in the garden of Eden, HE gave free hand to choose to eat from the tree HE forbade or not (OPTION). HE gave every man the right to choose whom to serve (OPTION). HE went to empower every man to choose whom to marry (OPTION). The only man HE never gave (OPTION) to was the devil, whom you have decided to choose to trust. As the Holy Book says, he is the father of all lies, and evil. So, I have the (OPTION), of not taking you serious. Its your choice, and I have mine. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 9:04am On Oct 29, 2014 |
I nid an infö on hw 2 handle my longdistance rlnshp. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 9:34am On Oct 29, 2014 |
My Dear, I dont want to scare you. I was in same situation for 12 years, but today, we are both married to two different people. In most cases, it doesnt work. I will say it the way it is. Mine was the sweetest, yet, I have not recovered from it (tho married to another angel). Long distant relationship comes with pains, loneliness and sometimes mistrust. You will need huge trust, and believe you get commitment to get this going. I dont know your faith, but you need prayers, and if chanced, read books on long distance relationships. My own practical experience was fun whenever she was around, and mistrust, if any relented in keeping to laid down agreement. My little advise here is that, you need to sit him down, define the relationship, and agree on certain things that will make the affair work. That way, it will be a guide or your relationship constitution. Above all these, you need to set a time frame for your relationship. It is very important. What I mean is that, let him know that, you expect the both of you to be married by a certain period, or year. When you do this, guide him to work towards this direction. In some cases, its not compulsory that it may happen within that time frame, but you will see all pointers directed towards that end. When you see such, know that you are on the right path. If not, the decision to continue or part ways lies with you. 1 Like |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by izaray(f): 9:55am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Vikkyk10:Hmmm..swty how are you doing? 1 Like |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Enjoyment1(f): 10:23am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1: Haba! Leave it here for all to read, and learn. Why ask for text.  |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 11:37am On Oct 29, 2014 |
Enjoyment1: Nothing attached. Do I really care about the source of communication? |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by tuffgongjo(m): 12:37pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
You forget to add "and a Dickkk to Ride"to your caption. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 1:17pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
izaray:ooh,i mis u xo xo much.M gud u |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 1:19pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:it's nt been easy,but i wl try al dis ok.Tnx a lot |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 2:04pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: There is no relationship that is easy, but we all try to make it work. Where it is one sided, then, we all know there is problem in our hands. GOD will see you through. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:amen,youngpo ar u angry wt me. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 2:11pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
tuffgongjo: The Holy Book says, "the heart of man is desparately wicked. More wicked than one can imagine". It justifies the filthy nature of your self acclaimed righteousness before GOD. It also says, "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh". Havent you shown to me the kind of person that you are now, by what you just spew out? I am not a saint, in fact, not close to one, but as a RESPONSIBLE married man with kids, I know my limits. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 3:56pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
"Nice thread, but expect more sarcastic comments". Thats what a friend just told me. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by tuffgongjo(m): 3:59pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:clap for your self,you deserve an Oscar. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:12pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
tuffgongjo: You are welcome! |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 5:25pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:hm |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:27pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Meanwhile, I am taking my time to reply to all the text messages sent. Some are cumbersome and to make matters worse, not complete. Some are too real to be true, but will still get responses. Others that are straight forward, I have replied. So, if I have not replied yours, please have a little patience. Meanwhile, if you sent in incomplete sms, pls do resend, and ensure it is complete. That way, you will get immediate response. There is nothing you cannot discuss with me, as I dont need your name or address. If you are not comfortable with the phone number, put it here, but make sure your identity is secured. Thats my concern. May GOD help us all. 1 Like |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:does that mean i cn tel u anytin. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:33pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: Abi, what do you want me to say? |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 5:34pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
My boo said sm1 wants to take im away 4rm me.I dnt knw wat it means.Daddy,am crios o. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:36pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: Well, I will try to respond, according to HIS ability in me. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:38pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: Pls expantiate... |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 5:40pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:i am in a no-sex and a long distance relatnshp.I went 2 c myboo lastwk.It ws then he told me dt sm1 wants to take im 4rm me.I dnt rili understand wat he meant by dat, |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:53pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Vikkyk10: Hmmm....In the first place, what did you notice about the way he told you? How was the receptiion when you got there? Was it different from how he used to receive you, or was it the same? What else did you notice around that environment (as in his apartment)? If your pix were there before, are they still there? If he used to answer calls in your presence, is he still doing same? If you did pay so much attention, you would have seen evidence about what he has just told you, and more importantly, the answer to the above issue. No matter how smart your boyfriend or spouse proves to be, he will always leave traces of what you may hold on to. 1 Like |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Oboma1:he stl does al of dt.His eyes ws ful of emotn wn he said dt. |
| Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 6:06pm On Oct 29, 2014 |
Now, to the issue of no sex long-distance relationship. It is a very complicated relationship. My Dear, if I must be frank with, you must prepare yourself for the worse. I am a man, I have been there and have seen it all. Over 98% of full fledge men, will tell you, is okay with the no-sex affair, but deep in them they are just waiting for you to slide. Another set (still in the 98%) may not wait for you to slide, but have another girl somewhere doing your duties (as they may think). Just as they say, "there is no free meal anywhere". Maybe in the course of getting along with this girl, the sex aspect is now making him have a rethink about your affair, hence, the reason for his comment. It might also be that, the new person stays around, then you are in trouble. Distance affect a lot too. As they say, "out of sight means, out of mind". You need to apply what I earlier told you in this affair. |
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