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Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 6:08pm On Oct 29, 2014
Vikkyk10:
he stl does al of dt.His eyes ws ful of emotn wn he said dt.

How long have you been dating precisely and where is he? What about you?
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 29, 2014
Oboma1:
Now, to the issue of no sex long-distance relationship. It is a very complicated relationship. My Dear, if I must be frank with, you must prepare yourself for the worse. I am a man, I have been there and have seen it all. Over 98% of full fledge men, will tell you, is okay with the no-sex affair, but deep in them they are just waiting for you to slide. Another set (still in the 98%) may not wait for you to slide, but have another girl somewhere doing your duties (as they may think). Just as they say, "there is no free meal anywhere". Maybe in the course of getting along with this girl, the sex aspect is now making him have a rethink about your affair, hence, the reason for his comment. It might also be that, the new person stays around, then you are in trouble. Distance affect a lot too. As they say, "out of sight means, out of mind". You need to apply what I earlier told you in this affair.
5mnths nw,
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 29, 2014
Oboma1:
Now, to the issue of no sex long-distance relationship. It is a very complicated relationship. My Dear, if I must be frank with, you must prepare yourself for the worse. I am a man, I have been there and have seen it all. Over 98% of full fledge men, will tell you, is okay with the no-sex affair, but deep in them they are just waiting for you to slide. Another set (still in the 98%) may not wait for you to slide, but have another girl somewhere doing your duties (as they may think). Just as they say, "there is no free meal anywhere". Maybe in the course of getting along with this girl, the sex aspect is now making him have a rethink about your affair, hence, the reason for his comment. It might also be that, the new person stays around, then you are in trouble. Distance affect a lot too. As they say, "out of sight means, out of mind". You need to apply what I earlier told you in this affair.
5mnths nw,he is a studnt and am also a studnt,am prepard 4 d worst already
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 6:23pm On Oct 29, 2014
Then it is getting more difficult. Meanwhile, five months is okay, but as students, I would have advised you concentrated more on your studies, with very little time for any affair, until when you know it is time to give it a more serious attention.

Most students affairs CRASHES! Yes, they are some few lucky ones that succeeded, and I pray yours should be among them.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 6:27pm On Oct 29, 2014
Yea i knw,if i gt 2 knw he's cheatn,i wl quit d relatnshp and face my buk squarely and dre'll b no second chance
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 6:38pm On Oct 29, 2014
Vikkyk10:
Yea i knw,if i gt 2 knw he's cheatn,i wl quit d relatnshp and face my buk squarely and dre'll b no second chance

Even then, dont be in a hurry to quit any relationship. Men will always be men. There is no perfect man or woman out there.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 6:42pm On Oct 29, 2014
All I want you to do is that, prioritise what you want at this stage. What should top it is your studies.

If a man cheats on you, be careful. Jumping out immediately can be dangerous, yet, bad becos TRUST would have gone....
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 6:48pm On Oct 29, 2014
Oboma1:
All I want you to do is that, prioritise what you want at this stage. What should top it is your studies.

If a man cheats on you, be careful. Jumping out immediately can be dangerous, yet, bad becos TRUST would have gone....
hm,hw is it dangerous.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 29, 2014
Oboma1:


Even then, dont be in a hurry to quit any relationship. Men will always be men. There is no perfect man or woman out there.
i knw,ok
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 7:27pm On Oct 29, 2014
Vikkyk10:
i knw,ok

The aspect I meant dangerous, is what I said earlier. "Men will always be men". So, becos you caught a man once, does not mean he is that bad. He could have been influenced by friends or other external factors. All you should look out for, is the ability to ask for forgiveness and for him to quit cheating. If he has that inbuilt feature, he could just be the man. But be careful.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 7:32pm On Oct 29, 2014
Oboma1:


The aspect I meant dangerous, is what I said earlier. "Men will always be men". So, becos you caught a man once, does not mean he is that bad. He could have been influenced by friends or other external factors. All you should look out for, is the ability to ask for forgiveness and for him to quit cheating. If he has that inbuilt feature, he could just be the man. But be careful.
tnx dad,u r d best dad in d world.Y shld i b careful
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 7:38pm On Oct 29, 2014
Vikkyk10:
tnx dad,u r d best dad in d world.Y shld i b careful

We are in a world where sometimes things dont go the way we think. I always prepare myself for the best and the worst. No matter what I see or hear in my life, I am not surprised. Thats why I always tell people to be careful in all they do.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 7:41pm On Oct 29, 2014
Tnx dad.Gudnyt
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 7:43pm On Oct 29, 2014
Vikkyk10:
Tnx dad.

The pleasure is mine...
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by selingel: 7:54pm On Oct 29, 2014
I am really touched by this thread. I have also learnt alot. But how do you handle an ex, who abandoned you when you needed her and her mum to render assistance financially to you? This is based on the fact dat, I was there for them, when they (especially she), needed me badly. In fact, till date, I have spent over N600,000 on them, but gained nothing. Pls advise.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:39am On Oct 30, 2014
selingel:
I am really touched by this thread. I have also learnt alot. But how do you handle an ex, who abandoned you when you needed her and her mum to render assistance financially to you? This is based on the fact dat, I was there for them, when they (especially she), needed me badly. In fact, till date, I have spent over N600,000 on them, but gained nothing. Pls advise.

I will get back to you on this. I've been busy.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 5:42am On Oct 30, 2014
selingel:
I am really touched by this thread. I have also learnt alot. But how do you handle an ex, who abandoned you when you needed her and her mum to render assistance financially to you? This is based on the fact dat, I was there for them, when they (especially she), needed me badly. In fact, till date, I have spent over N600,000 on them, but gained nothing. Pls advise.

I will get back to you on this. I've been busy...
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by selingel: 8:09pm On Oct 30, 2014
Oboma1:

I will get back to you on this. I've been busy...
Oboma1:

I will get back to you on this. I've been busy...

Oga! Pls I am still waiting...
I am really angry.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Mprex(f): 8:21pm On Oct 30, 2014
Nice thread. Keep it up
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 9:45pm On Oct 30, 2014
Mprex:
Nice thread. Keep it up

Thanks...
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 9:47pm On Oct 30, 2014
I am really sorry for the slight delay. I had to attend to some family, and work related issues. They both took my time.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 9:53pm On Oct 30, 2014
selingel:


Oga! Pls I am still waiting...
I am really angry.

I am sorry. Many apologies.
Mnwhile, your case is a very complicated one. No one will want to fully and wholly give you advise, except he/she hears from the other party. Just like an adage in Yoruba land, "no man weeds with an hoe, without doing so to favor his/her side". More so, when it involves money, it now becomes cumbersome.

Howbeit, I will advise, you sit down and think again....
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 9:56pm On Oct 30, 2014
Dad gud evenin.E ma binû sir.Am sorry 4 invading in2 ur privacy.Vote for temigracie.Pls
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 10:00pm On Oct 30, 2014
selingel:
I am really touched by this thread. I have also learnt alot. But how do you handle an ex, who abandoned you when you needed her and her mum to render assistance financially to you? This is based on the fact dat, I was there for them, when they (especially she), needed me badly. In fact, till date, I have spent over N600,000 on them, but gained nothing. Pls advise.

From the above, the money was giving out of your own volition, and not that you were swindled. Yes! You were in a good position to do so (and with expectation that someday), they will reciprocate. Since they didnt, I will advise you let go.

As I said earlier, I wont go beyond this, becos to be fair in this situation, I will need to hear from the other party. Alot, must have happened between you and the other party.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 10:07pm On Oct 30, 2014
Vikkyk10:
Dad gud evenin.E ma binû sir.Am sorry 4 invading in2 ur privacy.Vote for temigracie.Pls

Abeg, who be temigracie?
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 10:10pm On Oct 30, 2014
Oboma1:


Abeg, who be temigracie?
she is contesting for missnairaland 2014
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 10:20pm On Oct 30, 2014
Meanwhile, I am owing two ladies, responses for their sms. I beg of you, give today. By tommorow night, you will see them. I was busy....

The lady outside Nigeria, many apologies to you. I pity your situation, and pray GOD will see you through. I will tell you what to do via the same source you sent me your issue. Just take things easy. But you will do me a favor. You will have to tell me more, becos you just summarized it. Even before that, you will hear from me tommorow.

As for the lady who sent her's around 5pm today. Hmm...such is life. You will still hear from me tommorow too, from same source, you sent it.

I just want to protect your identities.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 10:21pm On Oct 30, 2014
Vikkyk10:
she is contesting for missnairaland 2014

Oh! I will then. I hope she wins. Anyway, what a way to campaign...lol. How is life with you today?
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Oboma1(m): 10:33pm On Oct 30, 2014
I just received another two sms. Please give me today to get your response/advise ready. By tommorow, you will get them. I wished some of these text messages can be published for people to learn. Howbeit, the ones on the internet should teach people lessons.

Please dont just read, but LEARN!.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Enjoyment1(f): 11:09pm On Oct 30, 2014
Can you grant me the permission to call you? Just tell me when it is most convenient to do so. Perhaps, when we talk, you may grant me another request. As my case is funny, annoying, and now getting dangerous.
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 30, 2014
Oboma1:


Oh! I will then. I hope she wins. Anyway, what a way to campaign...lol. How is life with you today?
am gud u
Re: Here Is That Shoulder To Cry On! by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 30, 2014
Oboma1:


Oh! I will then. I hope she wins. Anyway, what a way to campaign...lol. How is life with you today?
tnx

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