I've got this friend of mine, a self-employed dude that has been married for two years.

His marital ordeal is what some would "wicked romance". In his two years of marriage, he has been the chief cook of the home.

His wife wants him to cook and serve her because she finds it romantic.

After he spoke to me about this, I chirped him that the romantic nonsense might just be a decoy she's using to sugar coat her laziness or perhaps her inability to make good meals.

But he made it clear that the wife is not the lazy type, and just for the record, she does the home chores even as a working class chic.

According to him, she could pass for the epitome of a good wife if "cooking" would be excluded as a yardstick to determine a good African wife.

When I tried inquiring about the wife's cooking prowess, he told me that the wife sometimes used to make him good meals during their dating days.

With one year and some months gone, he's beginning to feel he's not getting the real man/husband treatment completely from the wife.

Though he's not really complaining, he now sees himself as a slave to the wife, who cooks and serves the wife on daily a basis - when reserve should be the case.

As an African man, he believes cooking should be the wife's job not the husband's job.

Now, this one strange perpetual romantic work for my bruv.

Friends, y'all have got to help this "male cook" with advice(s).

Sagamite:


You are a cretinous homofuuktard!

Confess!

Your friend is unemployed, his wife brings home the bacon and she is using him as househusband who does the cooking.

Fuuktards of the same feather, flock .........

Wicked Sagamite, lmao, self employed na business man jare he may even be bringing in much more than her.

Op, what does your friend want? Has he spoken with her and shared his discomfort with the situatuon? Let them talk about it and agree on what will work for them. I believe in sharing but not to the point one partner starts feeling used and taken for granted it builds resentment

Sagamite:


Bringing in more money than her while cooking and cleaning, and she is the one heading out to work?

And then telling his dumb friends that he is only doing it because he is being romantic?

Does he sell his cooked food in the market ni?

I am sure he is a loser like his fuuktard friend, the OP.

Hahahahahaaa abeg free me Saga, he says the wife cleans and does housework na only cooking coma dey

Sagamite:


You are a cretinous homofuuktard!

Confess!

Your friend is unemployed, his wife brings home the bacon and she is using him as househusband who does the cooking.

Fuuktards of the same feather, flock .........

You're a pure m-oron!

Why is he talking to you and not the wife? Btw when you say 'self employed' tell us what he does exactly.

Isn't it sad that he calls cooking for himself and wife slaving? It's even annoying that you or he uses the phrase 'slave to his wife' and more annoying that either of you think the reverse should be the case, like really? You can't be a 'slave' to your wife but believes she should be one to you? Oh please get out of your cave and come smell some civilization, mschew.

aisha2:


Wicked Sagamite, lmao, self employed na business man jare he may even be bringing in much more than her.

Op, what does your friend want? Has he spoken with her and shared his discomfort with the situatuon? Let them talk about it and agree on what will work for them. I believe in sharing but not to the point one partner starts feeling used and taken for granted it builds resentment

Yeah, he has discussed with his wife though with no seriousness. But the wife still channeled everything to romance.

Sagamite:


Cretinous fuuktard, confess!

Homo fagggot, don't pollute my thread with your dumbness, else you'll get pummeled and slayed for vultures like always.

freecocoa:
Why is he talking to you and not the wife? Btw when you say 'self employed' tell us what he does exactly.

Isn't it sad that he calls cooking for himself and wife slaving? It's even annoying that you or he uses the phrase 'slave to his wife' and more annoying that either of you think the reverse should be the case, like really? You can't be a 'slave' to your wife but believes she should be one to you? Oh please get out of your cave and come smell some civilization, mschew.

Lol!
Hey, calm down.

Your thoughts concerning his "pocket" status are wrong. He's actually good to go.

Sagamite:


Cretinous homofucktard, confess your friend is a loser like you.

You too would come here claiming "business man".

not on my thread, homo fagggot!

iconize:


Lol!
Hey, calm down.

Your thoughts concerning his "pocket" status are wrong. He's actually good to go.

Thats not what I asked, what does he do to keep himself self employed?

See how you stylishly evaded the issue I raised with your 'lol"

Ngwanu, LOL back at ya.

freecocoa:
Thats not what I asked, what does he do to keep himself self employed?

See how you stylishly evaded the issue I raised with your 'lol"

Ngwanu, LOL back at ya.

Lmao!

He's financially man enough and can take care of his responsibilities without drop a sweat.

I believe with this you can concrete and facilitate your thoughts on this matter.

Thanks!

Sagamite:



You are a cretinous homofuuktard, CONFESS!

Tell us what "business" your friend does.

This same "business" your incestuous momma did with her son to conceive a malnourished drunken thief like you.

iconize:


Lmao!

He's financially man enough and can take care of his responsibilities without drop a sweat.

I believe with this you can concrete and facilitate your thoughts on this matter.

Thanks!

My friend, just tell us how your wife is the breadwinner(which is ok btw) and that you are tired of being a houseband, instead of 'rigmaroling'

Sagamite sha, you so never disappoint.

freecocoa:
My friend, just tell us how your wife is the breadwinner(which is ok btw) and that you are tired of being a houseband, instead of 'rigmaroling'

What's the "your" and "you"?

Is this how you force peeps on something?

However, the wife is not the breadwinner. I don't know why you're trying to hold on to a particular irrelevant question. If you really have any advice to give on this issue, I believe you'll do so without asking the same irrelevant question that has been answered maturely and basically.

If the husband was financially broke, I'd have included it in my initial comment.

Sagamite:


So you are confessing to us that you and your friend were conceived your brothers fcking his mother?

What's this homo fagggot saying?

iconize:


What's the "your" and "you"?

Is this how you force peeps on something?

However, the wife is not the breadwinner. I don't know why you're trying to hold on to a particular irrelevant question. If you really have any advice to give on this issue, I believe you'll do so without asking the same irrelevant question that has been answered maturely and basically.

If the husband was financially broke, I'd have included it in my initial comment.

I don't see the answer to my question anywhere, if he's not a criminal, why won't you tell us what he does? You brought the story here and your answers are just so corner corner-ish, hence the 'your' and 'you'

Here is my take, if your friend has suddenly unearthed the African man in him then he should simply ask his wife to resign so she can become a full housewife and he automatically gets an upgrade to becoming the breadwinner.

You can't simply hide under the African Man mentality when he suits you.

Fairness should be uphold at all times

iconize:
I've got this friend of mine, a self-employed dude that has been married for two years.

His marital ordeal is what some would "wicked romance". In his two years of marriage, he has been the chief cook of the home.

His wife wants him to cook and serve her because she finds it romantic.

After he spoke to me about this, I chirped him that the romantic nonsense might just be a decoy she's using to sugar coat her laziness or perhaps her inability to make good meals.

But he made it clear that the wife is not the lazy type, and just for the record, she does the home chores even as a working class chic.

According to him, she could pass for the epitome of a good wife if "cooking" would be excluded as a yardstick to determine a good African wife.

When I tried inquiring about the wife's cooking prowess, he told me that the wife sometimes used to make him good meals during their dating days.

With one year and some months gone, he's beginning to feel he's not getting the real man/husband treatment completely from the wife.

Though he's not really complaining, he now sees himself as a slave to the wife, who cooks and serves the wife on daily a basis - when reserve should be the case.

As an African man, he believes cooking should be the wife's job not the husband's job.

Now, this one strange perpetual romantic work for my bruv.

Friends, y'all have got to help this "male cook" with advice(s).

SO he wants the wife to be a slave to him?

Some husbands sef

So, this nyggah's self-esteem is back to life like Lazarus after being shot dead last week, no? Went on hiatus for five days and it is back to trolling. But this time trolling a next troll - FML.

Anyway, your friend has lost his balls and he is now the wife. Just tell him to accept his new position and be happy with it. He is in too deep.

That is why I keep telling you youngins to learn the game and stop selling ya birthrights for porridge like Esau, all in the name of being romantic.

Sagamite:


I am saying you know you and your friend were conceived your brothers fcking his mother and you are a homofucktard.

Homo-mo'ron, you sure know I'm your nemesis.

So fagggot biatch with a leaking rectum, trolling on my thread won't do you any good.

I'll bring you down on your knees like I've always done if you don't take your diaper padded asss off my thread.

SirShymex:
So, this nyggah's self-esteem is back to life like Lazarus after being shot dead last week, no? Went on hiatus for five days and it is back to trolling. But this time trolling a next troll - FML.

Anyway, your friend has lost his balls and he is now the wife. Just tell him to accept his new position and be happy with it. He is in too deep.

That is why I keep telling you youngins to learn the game and stop selling ya birthrights for porridge like Esau, all in the name of being romantic.

At least a fella with a brain is here, not those asking dumb and irrelevant question(s) over and over again, even after getting a matured answer.

However, the dude is in dire need of advice(s) on how to convince the wife to start making him meals without sounding "unromantic" and probably inciting troubles.

Having played this "wicked romantic" role for long - happily and in good faith, passing through the needle's eye might be easier than convincing his wife.

Sagamite:


Cretinous homofucktard, are you smoking weed this early in the day?

Or the bastardisation of your arsse by masonkz, all4naija, adamskutty and johnpaul88 is affecting your mental health?

Masonkz, save your fagggot biatch before he gets pummeled like a Zulu talking-drum.

Homo fagggot, you must kneel and worship me, your God, you incestuous drunken thief with a diaper padded assss.

Masokz:


Leave saga alone. I love him