AgapeCharis:
Oyinye!! U just reminded me of someone
Buh Edith sounds cool sha. Y do u dislike it?

I don't know why___ they should have named me Pearl or Ruby or Diamond .

babyosisi:


My dear I dey o
Winter wan turn person to okporoko but God won't agree
I don't know if they even have the heater on in this work place
My internal organs are even feeling cold
I don't know if they want my blood to congeal
E remain make I carry blanket come work

Kachisbarbie:


I don't know why___ they should have named me Pearl or Ruby or Diamond .

Kachisbarbie:


kinda surprised...yea
My husband is anglican...by birth. he said he wants us to start going to Anglican - I agreed kwa. Oya, lets go na...he has been running around.

Qc1:


Thanks for your reply however....

Mt 5:48...So be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.

It will be perfect to follow the bible in this situations. I believe word of the lord is good and it's the foundation we should follow no "em..." or "maybe" If the bible command us to do whatever, then who are we to question it ?

A Christian lady would not marry pervert Husband-to-be to being with, Holy spirit will guide her. By the way, a wife can go to any length to submit to her husband sexually. Leviticus 20 emphasize on sexual moralities, what sexual intercourse is permitted ans what is not. Go read it!




However....I stand corrected!

DestinedSharon:

It all depends on d matter on d table. For instance worship place: there are churches I'll never step my feet into. So if I love d man in question n wish to be with him, I'll tell him in a very cool mood ''Baby, I dnt like this Ur church n also do not wish it comes between us, pls, lets look for a better church to be worshipping with together...'' this discussion will always be in d course of our dating not after marriage.

AgapeCharis:
heheheheheheehee
An Igbo parent in the early 80s giving such names
U'r even lucky dey didn't give u a sentence as a name

Early 80s kwa?
Hian! Mbanu...young girl like me

nikkyshyne:
I wasnt comfortable with mine. I love the hymns in the anglican church i attended but I was lacking in great sermons and that uplifting spirit. He on the other hand was born in a catholic home but his parent didnt make it mandatory for them to attend the catholic church. He loves the catholic church but sometimes follows his sister to her redeem church.
So when we met, and things started gettin serious he brought up the topic as a matter of fact. I am glad he isnt rigid 'allelluia'.

However, we go to my chapel(anglican) once in a while and he goes to the catholic church when we arent going to church together. But we go to church together most times. Feels good to pinch him once in a while when a good sermon is on .

Cutehector4u:
The man is d head of the house..... Finish!!! And d wife must submit....

Kachisbarbie:


Early 80s kwa?
Hian! Mbanu...young girl like me

PrettySpicey:


Indeed ignorance is bliss as the ignorant remains unaware.

I have become matured and I'm not talking about my usual bf and gf. Actually I am talking about hubby and wifey.

And for one in a mixed marriage, I repeat it is only in African that the 'woman no get church' notion exists and thrives.

But thankfully there are always exceptions to the rule.

And the two becoming one has absolutely nothing to do with personalities... they are one, yet they are individuals and will remain so. And dignity is personal.

I hope this makes sense to you.

jennykadry:


Sure tell that to those philandering and violent husbands.

beau49:


Reading through all I can see his faith this,his faith that?

Please define his faith or rather explain what you mean by his faith?

People tend to forget that during judgement you stand alone and solely bear the punishment/reward for every decision,action,words or deed you carry out when it was premeditated or not. An individual should do what is good for him/herself as long as it does not harm the other in the process.

A persons belief or conviction should NEVER be based on man-made rules or just because it is what is expected of you. If both parties are spiritually alert then they would know better than to allow minor and earthly things like church deter them from having a peaceful home.

A man(male and female) is not an animal that has to agree to every whim and decision it spouse take,which is why they have brains and the free-will to decide and come to an agreement.

So far nobody has given a concrete reason why a lady must go to the husband's church. From what I read people do it cause that's the MO or to give the impression of being submisive(which you and I know is beyond going to a spouse place of worship).

I know of a couple here on NL who both go to different place of worships and they have a beautiful marriage and family. So the argument that it would break the home if couples go to different place of worship does not hold water.

BreezyRita:

And?? Who said he isn't?

Bibol:


The wife should have counted the cost before getting married. At least they must have talked about it. The woman is expected to join her husband in his local church. But if she feels uncomfortable worshipping in her new church, she can dialogue with her husband. If he sees reasons with her, fine but if otherwise , she has no alternative than to keep following her husband. Compromise and understanding is needed in times like this

Qc1:


Ephesians 5:22 -24 New International Version (NIV)

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

akpur1:
a woman has no religion till she is married

lezz:
the man is the spiritual head of the home as well. Just like Christ is the head of the church and Christ is under God Almighty, the father, so is the wife under the man physically and spiritually.



This question shouldn't arise if the woman is a real believer. For her husband has more spiritual authority over her than her pastor, bishop or reverend.

jennykadry:


Lmao..... And separation in your own dictionary is worshiping in two different churches?

You no get talk

barrybanbi:


what has love got to do with faith? we may both believe in Christ and practice our faith differently, if you care about your wife as you claimed to b, then it's not right for you to lured your way of practicing your faith on her, you can't use Ruth case in this scenario, because nobody force their faith on her she willing fully decided to practice their faith and believe in their God on her own accord. Am a christian and am glad to b one, there are some churches that no matter how i love the person i cnt go to those churches with you. their way of practicing is just responsive to my faith .

lovemaths:
Can two work together except they agree? I think this is something that should be decided by the couple before marriage. If nobody can compromise then it is better they don't go ahead with the union. I've seen a marriage between christian and a muslim. The children attend both church and mosque, celebrate sallah and xmas and bear both muslim and christian names.

barrybanbi:


what has love got to do with faith? we may both believe in Christ and practice our faith differently, if you care about your wife as you claimed to b, then it's not right for you to lured your way of practicing your faith on her, you can't use Ruth case in this scenario, because nobody force their faith on her she willing fully decided to practice their faith and believe in their God on her own accord. Am a christian and am glad to b one, there are some churches that no matter how i love the person i cnt go to those churches with you. their way of practicing is just responsive to my faith .

kaybiel2u:
if she truly loves her husband she must attend the church her hubby attends. she must love her husband with everything i mean everything 4 beta 4 worse, u knw and read the case of Ruth In The Bible. Remember What She Said To Naomi. YOUR PEOPLE SHALL BE MY PEOPLE, YOUR WAY SHALL BE MY WAY, WHEREEVER YOU GO I GO etc.

hazyfm:


I owe you no explanation.

Learn to mind your business

tranxo:
So what is separation in your own dictionary?

sunnyt1:


Marriage is about togetherness/oneness, having a contrary opinion is a sure way of destroying a home.

Destroying a marriage is a gradual thing just the way a student fails gradually right from the 1st day in school.

Honestly, to have a successful marriage, you need the right mindset.

The major reason for failed marriages is when a particular partner still thinks and acts like he/she is still single.