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Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 6:28pm On Nov 21, 2014
I was gisting with a family friend and then he said his girlfriend of 6yrs is his nxt of kin. Though, he lost his parents long time ago but he has 4 siblings. I asked y he didn't use any of his siblings, he said his girlfriend has been with him through thick and thin and that he has come to really trust now. The guy is very comfortable now and intends to walk down the aisle with his girl next year sha.

It really shocked me to hear a guy used his girl who he isn't married to as his next of kin and I was wondering if there are other people like him or people who wouldn't mind using their boyfriend/girlfriend as next of kin.
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by farano(f): 6:31pm On Nov 21, 2014
lolz
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by will1am: 6:32pm On Nov 21, 2014
Why should I? undecided I can't even use my wife cry
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by adonbilivit: 6:33pm On Nov 21, 2014
amadioha forbid!
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by temisukanmi(f): 6:35pm On Nov 21, 2014
Impossicant.... nah. undecided

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Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by bjayx: 6:36pm On Nov 21, 2014
Piksoor or.....
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by enjay1(m): 6:37pm On Nov 21, 2014
ppl don finish for my village abi?
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Evina(f): 6:38pm On Nov 21, 2014
I have a joint account with him smiley

I guess I could use him as next of kin wink
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by tpia6: 6:41pm On Nov 21, 2014
so if something happens to you, your family property passes into the hands of your enemies.

lord have mercy.
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by jnrbayano(m): 6:52pm On Nov 21, 2014
Op,

I am sure you are aware that doing that is a tall order for me.
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Nov 21, 2014
maka why?? undecided I won't even use my husband of 44yrs as next of kin. I'm not foolish abeg! I will not leave a dime for him, n he shouldn't leave a dime for me! if we get married n have kids..it all goes to our kids!

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Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by chibwike(m): 6:57pm On Nov 21, 2014
For what nah
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Greatomotoy: 6:57pm On Nov 21, 2014
God forbid, eh!



Nne maka y! I cant o cos if my enemy die she will enjoy my property with a man i dont know while my family will receive noting.



Back to sender
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Metcoppo(f): 6:58pm On Nov 21, 2014
No!
I can't even imagine it.
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Nov 21, 2014
chibwike:
For what nah
Chibwike abeg brief me small on top where dem wan interview me? Dem go ask me my age? Cos I am 13 years old o.....
Ayamlaykorn
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by tmx21(m): 7:04pm On Nov 21, 2014
naturally, NO! But contextly, I might.
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by klodike(m): 7:09pm On Nov 21, 2014
Look @ it this way; is your boyfriend or girlfriend KIN?
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by jashar(f): 7:12pm On Nov 21, 2014
Hmm. I don't think it is wise. But then different strokes for different folks.
Boyfriend -No.
Husband- Yes. smiley

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Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 7:37pm On Nov 21, 2014
shocked

With all the love men and women profess to each other, one would think majority of nigerians would do it.

Lie lie love everywhere.
He really loves the girl sha. I was really shocked.
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 7:43pm On Nov 21, 2014
will1am:
Why should I? undecided I can't even use my wife cry
bros u bad o

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Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by will1am: 7:49pm On Nov 21, 2014
Nursy:
bros u bad o
Anty, it's just the fact grin
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 7:50pm On Nov 21, 2014
Are u guys married?
Evina:
I have a joint account with him smiley

I guess I could use him as next of kin wink
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Evina(f): 7:52pm On Nov 21, 2014
Nursy:
Are u guys married?

Not yet smiley
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 7:53pm On Nov 21, 2014
This one u r not trusting ur husband in advance, nawao....
EroticAngelina:
maka why?? undecided I won't even use my husband of 44yrs as next of kin. I'm not foolish abeg! I will not leave a dime for him, n he shouldn't leave a dime for me! if we get married n have kids..it all goes to our kids!
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Hazardd(m): 7:57pm On Nov 21, 2014
Nursy:
This one u r not trusting ur husband in advance, nawao....
She has many husband that why
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by babase1: 7:58pm On Nov 21, 2014
it is against the law here in le havre(france)!
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 8:00pm On Nov 21, 2014
She's not an enemy to him. She's also very close to the siblings and they all like her.
She's a really nice lady
Greatomotoy:
God forbid, eh!



Nne maka y! I cant o cos if my enemy die she will enjoy my property with a man i dont know while my family will receive noting.



Back to sender
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Nov 21, 2014
NO!!!
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by tpia6: 8:07pm On Nov 21, 2014
Nursy:
shocked

With all the love men and women profess to each other, one would think majority of nigerians would do it.

Lie lie love everywhere.
He really loves the girl sha. I was really shocked.

so because of love you must sign over all your possessions to a boyfriend or girlfriend?

says who?
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 8:31pm On Nov 21, 2014
He trust her and he is tying the knot next year with her.
Well, it can always be changed if anytin goes wrong (except death)
tpia6:


so because of love you must sign over all your possessions to a boyfriend or girlfriend?

says who?
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Nursy(f): 8:43pm On Nov 21, 2014
Wow.... That's nice
Evina:


Not yet smiley
Re: Can You Use Your Boyfriend/girlfriend As Your Next Of Kin? by Bestlily(f): 8:56pm On Nov 21, 2014
Pls Kindly Vote EMPERORKING20 as Mr nairaland...


Thanks...

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