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How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by NEROSKY(m): 2:37am On Nov 22, 2014
Walk away for God sake! Are you stvpid sad shey ur surname na Mumu

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by amokeme(f): 2:43am On Nov 22, 2014
Do girls still do that? The 'hard to get thingy' I mean undecided
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 2:46am On Nov 22, 2014
amokeme:
Do girls still do that? The 'hard to get thingy' I mean undecided
If you as a girl dey ask me, Na who I go ask?

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 3:03am On Nov 22, 2014
NEROSKY:
Walk away for God sake! Are you stvpid sad
I find it extremely disturbing that most guys just can't do this. **sigh** sad
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by aklosx(m): 3:06am On Nov 22, 2014
walk away tin

Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by naijaboiy: 3:08am On Nov 22, 2014
LoL cheesy
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 3:47am On Nov 22, 2014
cheesy
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by 1one: 4:53am On Nov 22, 2014
I wish all guys can just adhere to this simple solution @OP's answer.

So many wimps, sissies, and subservient door mats with pricks dotting on a lady for 6months.. 1year... waiting for her to accept them

Please, to the wimps on earth, what could you possibly have not done for or said to her within the first 5months that you are still waiting to say or do for her within / after a whole year.

If she doesn't see any reason to accept your proposal within 5months, any answer that comes afterwards is often times not sincere .. especially if it's a yes. It's possible she has considered all other "options" and just deemed it fit that you are her best option considering..



The truth is before you even walk up to lady to ask her out (I'm particularly talking about serious minded guys that have marriage in view maybe in the next two or three or four years), you should have already padded yourself... you should have developed yourself so well in all spheres - Spiritually, Intellectually, financially, emotionally, physically etc.. So that by the time you show up like this Ahhhh!!! ghen ghen.. The lady would be so swept off her feet that she would be ready to give you a yes answer after "just" 1week not because she's cheap but because she's been able to see and sense that you're just too valuable to be kept "hanging"

If guys would up their game..... This hard to get ladies would run out of hard to get jet fuel.

Personally speaking I've not ticked all those boxes yet... So I'm not speaking from a high minded or high-horsed vantage, but I'm getting there... Very soon.. and whenever I finally see the girl and ask her out... Except she's smoking weed, she would NEVER PLAY HARD TO GET. Monkey dey do shakara for where hin see banana?

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by davdandam(m): 5:26am On Nov 22, 2014
grin

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 5:38am On Nov 22, 2014
;she playing hard to get? I have been walking away since 1956...

But seriously? Ladies still do that? No wonder...

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by jmoore(m): 5:39am On Nov 22, 2014
Frank: Is that your final answer?

Jmoore: Yes, I walk away.

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Awho(m): 5:51am On Nov 22, 2014
Any gel d@ still play hard to get this days trust me is still living in the 18th century.
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by will1am: 6:07am On Nov 22, 2014
grin shikena,as simple as A B C.. undecided
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 6:14am On Nov 22, 2014
Eyya!

Gudluck to d single dudes out there
(Been there)

Keep trying you would win her. Lol
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Tallesty1(m): 6:23am On Nov 22, 2014
Abi?


Any lady that I'm asking out has two options.


Accept me or bend down make I see that girl wey dey behind you.

No time to waste.

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Wittylens(m): 6:36am On Nov 22, 2014
Exactly..

One girl was playing hard to get.. I asked her out since May , she no give me better answer. It got to a point that it was as if I was disturbing her , I just free am.. No calls , no text , no chat..

The thing is , at the end , most of the girls playing hard to get will regret it. They will leave the good guy and fall for the player.

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by sanchezzz: 6:37am On Nov 22, 2014
Very simple. walk away. I just hate girls that play hard to get very irritating and immature.

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by darlingnuel(m): 6:40am On Nov 22, 2014
1one:
I wish all guys can just adhere to this simple solution @OP's answer.

So many wimps, sissies, and subservient door mats with pricks dotting on a lady for 6months.. 1year... waiting for her to accept them

Please, to the wimps on earth, what could you possibly have not done for or said to her within the first 5months that you are still waiting to say or do for her within / after a whole year.

If she doesn't see any reason to accept your proposal within 5months, any answer that comes afterwards is often times not sincere .. especially if it's a yes. It's possible she has considered all other "options" and just deemed it fit that you are her best option considering..



The truth is before you even walk up to lady to ask her out (I'm particularly talking about serious minded guys that have marriage in view maybe in the next two or three or four years), you should have already padded yourself... you should have developed yourself so well in all spheres - Spiritually, Intellectually, financially, emotionally, physically etc.. So that by the time you show up like this Ahhhh!!! ghen ghen.. The lady would be so swept off her feet that she would be ready to give you a yes answer after "just" 1week not because she's cheap but because she's been able to see and sense that you're just too valuable to be kept "hanging"

If guys would up their game..... This hard to get ladies would run out of hard to get jet fuel.

Personally speaking I've not ticked all those boxes yet... So I'm not speaking from a high minded or high-horsed vantage, but I'm getting there... Very soon.. and whenever I finally see the girl and ask her out... Except she's smoking weed, she would NEVER PLAY HARD TO GET. Monkey dey do shakara for where hin see banana?
I believe you!

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 6:54am On Nov 22, 2014
can you imagine some guys chase a particular gal for months,years,decades.nigga if you do that then you are plain stvpid.
if i ask a gal out the maximum time i can wait for an answer is less than a week.if no direct answer imma walk.
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 7:04am On Nov 22, 2014
grin hilarious
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Nobody: 7:39am On Nov 22, 2014
I laff in swahili
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by yetunsbay(m): 8:24am On Nov 22, 2014
Wittylens:
Exactly..

One girl was playing hard to get.. I asked her out since May , she no give me better answer. It got to a point that it was as if I was disturbing her , I just free am.. No calls , no text , no chat..

The thing is , at the end , most of the girls playing hard to get will regret it. They will leave the good guy and fall for the player.
exactly my broda
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by balaclava: 8:36am On Nov 22, 2014
A point needs 2 made clear.
Playing HTG is different from No, I'm nt Interested. Dnt Mistake one 4 d other.
A girl playing Hard 2 get can still b won, she's only contemplating, it nw depends on u 2 b patient for a maximum of about 3 to 5 calls in a space of about 2 to 3weeks or let go if she ain't worth such patience. Such usually contacts u after a while if they r interested.
But a girl saying No n a boy defiantly chasing her thinking she'll change her mind is a Mumu and lacks game.
It's a total waste of time.

Don't chase girl simply replace em

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by clubone05: 8:51am On Nov 22, 2014
Although I love a good chase...but it becomes ridiculous at some point...

While ur busy waisting ur time with her..look behind u..there are beauties waiting on u.

but if She be dangote/otedola/adenuga pikin...ama die there. grin
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by 01emek(m): 9:15am On Nov 22, 2014
I don't chase girl maximun of one week. They don't worth the time. I simply take a walk from her, no call, no massage, no chatting. ..

What i do is that i torture her emotionally, i simply get my beautiful sister or friend on a tour round her street and make sure she sees me. Trust me, even if she don't have any thing for you, as far as you told her your mind, she would feel jealous when she sees you with a beautiful girl.

My childhood friend stella does the work for me often time. She's not my girlfriend, she's beautiful but sadly enough i don't feel anything for her. She's an epitom of beauty, we share sceret and i also help her exicuting some job similar to what she does for me... grin

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Baddestguyp(m): 10:25am On Nov 22, 2014
01emek:
I don't chase girl maximun of one week. They don't worth the time. I simply take a walk from her, no call, no massage, no chatting. ..

What i do is that i torture her emotionally, i simply get my beautiful sister or friend on a tour round her street and make sure she sees me. Trust me, even if she don't have any thing for you, as far as you told her your mind, she would feel jealous when she sees you with a beautiful girl.

My childhood friend stella does the work for me often time. She's not my girlfriend, she's beautiful but sadly enough i don't feel anything for her. She's an epitom of beauty, we share sceret and i also help her exicuting some job similar to what she does for me... grin
grin Sharp guy, as for me 3-4 days max. how I go dey Chase woman for weeks sef

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by Mrfils(m): 10:41am On Nov 22, 2014
01emek:
My childhood friend stella does the work for me often time. She's not my girlfriend, she's beautiful but sadly enough i don't feel anything for her. She's an epitom of beauty, we share sceret and i also help her exicuting some job similar to what she does for me... grin
Ehhya, kai! Stella no try embarassed

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Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by flexxyworld(m): 11:07am On Nov 22, 2014
When you succeed and attain comfort in life, you would be the one playing had to get on ladies..
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by 01emek(m): 11:17am On Nov 22, 2014
Baddestguyp:
grin Sharp guy, as for me 3-4 days max. how I go dey Chase woman for weeks sef
grin haba guy, 4 days is too small na. She would think you wanna hit and run.
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by kelechiMarie(f): 11:22am On Nov 22, 2014
Awho:
Any gel d@ still play hard to get this days trust me is still living in the 18th century.
have you ever thought that d gal might not like you and doesn'twant to date you out of pity in order not to break your heart
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by 01emek(m): 11:23am On Nov 22, 2014
Mrfils:

Ehhya, kai! Stella no try embarassed
hahaha common jor grin. This is my childhood friend we are talking about... I have been with her for years, stay in the-same hood, went to the same primary and secondary school,its only higher institution that separated us. play and do everything together. Am not sexually attracted to her tongue
Re: How To Really Deal With A Girl Who's Really Playing Hard To Get!! by kelechiMarie(f): 11:27am On Nov 22, 2014
01emek:
I don't chase girl maximun of one week. They don't worth the time. I simply take a walk from her, no call, no massage, no chatting. ..

What i do is that i torture her emotionally, i simply get my beautiful sister or friend on a tour round her street and make sure she sees me. Trust me, even if she don't have any thing for you, as far as you told her your mind, she would feel jealous when she sees you with a beautiful girl.

My childhood friend stella does the work for me often time. She's not my girlfriend, she's beautiful but sadly enough i don't feel anything for her. She's an epitom of beauty, we share sceret and i also help her exicuting some job similar to what she does for me... grin
doesn't work for me sha if you like walk around with d most beautiful,i'd simply assume you've moved on and no wahala

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