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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 2:24am On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


my man, all i said is true, these nigerian chicks here in edmonton are all useless.

There should be few. grin You haven't met them all. Don't conclude they all are. grin Just that the good ones are few

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 2:28am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


There should be few. grin You haven't met them all. Don't conclude they all are. grin Just that the good ones are few

grin even at my place of work, immediately i say hello (coz of my accent), forming don start o, nigerian+canadian accent mixture nor be here o. as i dey here so, i nor get any naija female friends. and am proud about it

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 2:33am On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


grin even at my place of work, immediately i say hello (coz of my accent), forming don start o, nigerian+canadian accent mixture nor be here o. as i dey here so, i nor get any naija female friends. and am proud about it

Lol, you don see where you ask a Nigerian girl on campus a question and she replies you with Nigerian accent that she couldn't understand your accent? Bw ahahaha

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 2:42am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


Lol, you don see where you ask a Nigerian girl on campus a question and she replies you with Nigerian accent that she couldn't understand your accent? Bw ahahaha

grin cheesy cheesy..problem dey ooo, but those girls only when white boys don use them, them go come carry the used body come...i know some girls back in prince george, immediately them (naija girls) show canada, na so dem pursue white boys so tey white boys use dem as side chick. till i left there, dem still dey single. And if them see you dey date another girls, omo dem go hate the girl and find how to break up your relationship.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 2:54am On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


grin cheesy cheesy..problem dey ooo, but those girls only when white boys don use them, them go come carry the used body come...i know some girls back in prince george, immediately them (naija girls) show canada, na so dem pursue white boys so tey white boys use dem as side chick. till i left there, dem still dey single. And if them see you dey date another girls, omo dem go hate the girl and find how to break up your relationship.

Tell me abourrit! grin grin
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by birdman(m): 3:14am On Dec 10, 2014
lastpage:

Caveat: This post is not intended to portray Naija Babes in bad light.
(a small fraction of them, like my wife, are God-sent! kiss kiss
But l just like "saying it as it is" so that no one will claim 'Dem no tell me now"! shocked shocked wink
***Buyers Beware****

Buyer beware for real. Nigeria is a very pretentious country grin. Considering how religious we sound, the rate at which women and men sleep around is hilarious. Especially pastors and their 'erm "flock" cheesy. I hear people ragging on African Americans on this thread. The truth is the crazy ones have no need to pretend for society, which in fact makes it easier to pick wife material from among them, if you get your head correct and get past "looks". On the other hand, our natural hypocrisy makes going home to get a wife a very foolish endeavour. Unless its someone with deep family connect that can call her to order if need be, look elsewhere

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 3:17am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


Tell me abourrit! grin grin

like only one naija guy date one naija girl i know since i dey pg for almost 4 years. all guys date, white, Ethiopian, Cameroonian etc, but me na asian girl, omo nor be small so tey dem tell the girl say i be bad person, womanizer blah blah blah, two years of my relationship nor be small gossip. ever since i move comot there, na so i get rest of mind oo. all other guys get same problem too.

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 3:22am On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


like only one naija guy date one naija girl i know since i dey pg for almost 4 years. all guys date, white, Ethiopian, Cameroonian etc, but me na asian girl, omo nor be small so tey dem tell the girl say i be bad person, womanizer blah blah blah, two years of my relationship nor be small gossip. ever since i move comot there, na so i get rest of mind oo. all other guys get same problem too.

Hahaha. Tell me abourrit means I know right. Lol, just leave them jaree, they'll come around.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 3:26am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


Hahaha. Tell me abourrit means I know right. Lol, just leave them jaree, they'll come around.

hopefully

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:13am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


Lol, you don see where you ask a Nigerian girl on campus a question and she replies you with Nigerian accent that she couldn't understand your accent? Bw ahahaha
Lmao

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:15am On Dec 10, 2014
CFCfan:

Lmao

grin grin
Nor be small thing grin
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:19am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


grin grin
Nor be small thing grin
grin I've not had that experience here in California. The Naija ladies, are for the most part, friendly.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:31am On Dec 10, 2014
CFCfan:

grin I've not had that experience here in California. The Naija ladies, are for the most part, friendly.

Wow! Opposite is the case here. grin grin
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by petikal(m): 4:34am On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


my man, all i said is true, these nigerian chicks here in edmonton are all useless.
I suppose personal experience tends to cloud one's judgment. I've met a few good ones.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:35am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


Wow! Opposite is the case here. grin grin
Take heart grin
Mamacita nko?
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:39am On Dec 10, 2014
petikal:

I suppose personal experience tends to cloud one's judgment. I've met a few good ones.

well hopefully i met some with manners
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:42am On Dec 10, 2014
CFCfan:

Take heart grin

Surprisingly, I don't give flying f'ucks about 'em. I just go on my own and stay on my lane. You say 'hi' to them and they'll look you from your head to toes before responding... Na their wahala be that jaree.

How Law School na? I miss Yvete and Mamacita cry

Edited: I never knew we both had Mamacita on mind, we asked same time haha cheesy
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 4:51am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


Surprisingly, I don't give flying f'ucks about 'em. I just go on my own and stay on my lane. You say 'hi' to them and they'll look you from your head to toes before responding... Na their wahala be that jaree.

How Law School na? I miss Yvete and Mamacita cry

Edited: I never knew we both had Mamacita on mind, we asked same time haha cheesy
L school has been an 'experience'. What one would do in 16 weeks in undergrad, we have do such within 2 weeks grin
Our finals week is next week. Thereafter, we'll proceed on a 3-week break.

Clearly, mamacita is in our dreams cheesy
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 5:10am On Dec 10, 2014
CFCfan:

L school has been an 'experience'. What one would do in 16 weeks in undergrad, we have do such within 2 weeks grin
Our finals week is next week. Thereafter, we'll proceed on a 3-week break.

Clearly, mamacita is in our dreams cheesy

I know right. cheesy Success in your finals, I finished mine last week, I should visit US one of these days.

Abeg, when you see Mamacita, let her know I really miss her oo. embarassed
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Burger01(m): 5:20am On Dec 10, 2014
annoymous:


It's unfair when you generalize like this. I live in Boston, MA and I know a lot of decent and cultured Nigerian girls here who are looking to settle. That doesn't mean I don't know wayward ones too but you shouldn't use a single brush to tar every single girl in the US / UK
Pls read my post well. I didn't generalise. I do come to Lynn for my hols yearly..
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Originalsly: 5:24am On Dec 10, 2014
Hmmm....think most were committed and had an ongoing long distance relationship. Then the guys who can't find "traditional wives" since most women in the diaspora have become Westernized and are no longer submissive and respectful nor believe marriage is forever no matter what. Also some of the women have been ehmmm.... too widely used . That leave just a few wifely women and the men who can't compete return home to tke their chances. But then...some of the men want a wife who when he says jump must ask how high....a wife who he can slap and punch at will and will not retaliate nor report....a wife who should live in fear of his wrath. Women returning?...mainly because they can't do better abroad! ...just saying!

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by annita19(f): 5:50am On Dec 10, 2014
primed:
Cos the boys and girls in jand and Yankee are mostly not serious, they often lack manners, and are filled with funny western rationalizations (Nigerians born and trained overseas may not have issues with this).

The Nigerians who were brought up in Nigeria but later went overseas who marry a partner they meet abroad usually marry the ones who have lived majority of their lives in Nigeria; compatibility is a major issue in marriage, except they're marrying for economic gains (Pappers) , Nigerians will rather be with a partner who share their own socio-cultural heritage.

Nailed it. I am not African but this sound just right.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by eduxerxes: 6:39am On Dec 10, 2014
rattlesnake:
Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To
Marry. undecided


.....Me sef dey diaspora. Meeeen!!! Girls wey dey for this Diaspora of a country too dey do shakara. The president of Diaspora talk say make all the foreigners go find wife for dia home country because shakara don too much for this country Diaspora.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 6:43am On Dec 10, 2014
eduxerxes:



.....Me sef dey diaspora. Meeeen!!! Girls wey dey for this Diaspora of a country too dey do shakara. The president of Diaspora talk say make all the foreigners go find wife for dia home country because shakara don too much for this country Diaspora.

grin grin
Badt guy. cheesy
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by eduxerxes: 6:57am On Dec 10, 2014
Amefrica:


grin grin
Badt guy. cheesy
grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by solomon4all: 7:46am On Dec 10, 2014
rattlesnake:
I hardly find guys and ladies who travel as single return married.....many times...they return to naija to marry..are there no suitors overseas where they are coming from?...I currently have 3 girls from yankee wanting to marry me but I don't trust them. undecided

Seriously? Hook me up with any1 of dem, one man poison is another man food. Cheers grin
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by iyisco2001(m): 9:10am On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


you mean seat cheesy cheesy
Yea, seat, thanks jo
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 10:52am On Dec 10, 2014
striid3:
I was in naija last Easter. I spent most of my time in Lagos and south east.i dropped by uyo and warri. most of the time I was screwing and banging hot sexy girls both married and single . fed gov. girls owerri. IMSU. I banged a total of about 54 girls .
I will be in naija this Christmas . I hope to improve on my last performance . my target this time is 80 girls .

He-goat, trying to break his record; meet born2fuckpussy for a better tutorial.
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by floriano: 11:18am On Dec 10, 2014
3cycle:
Mostly the guys in their 40s and its becoming a disturbing trend.
Why come home when you are old to pick fresh gullible naija girls? What were the guys doing in their 30's and late 20's abroad?
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 10, 2014
annita19:


Nailed it. I am not African but this sound just right.

You're not African? What's You're descent?

Nice dp btw...you just got a like from me (doubt you're d one on it though, but it's all good).
Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by Originalsly: 12:15pm On Dec 10, 2014
donnypool:


the nigerian girls here in edmonton canada are so very 100% rude. i go for other girls apart from nigerian. most nigeria guys just go for white, asian filipino etc but nigerian, carribeans and black canadian are all a disgrace.
Are there any happy, successful Black couples in Edmonton? The most Nigerians guys you refer to do so for mainly papers/financial gain or suffer from inferiority complex. Is it the Black girls are disgraceful? ....or is it that they don't buy nor tolerate the BS that the others will? ....and aren't most of these other girls the thrash of their races? I have seen the monsters guys like you proudly be parading as wives or gf's....gremlins that had no chance with their own. Your choice...but don't be disrespectful and kick our sisters to the curb. After saying all that...it is guys like you that come back to Nigeria in your 40's looking for a wife.

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Re: Why Do Men And Women In Diaspora Come To Naija To Marry by jerumax: 12:18pm On Dec 10, 2014
Na wah for you oh NAIJA get 150 plus million people at least 80million girls na you go marry all of them? grin

Afrok:
They'll simply say "there is no place like home, home sweet home. Forgetting that people wey dey home dey get hope to marry people wey dey home too wey we dey see, they'll come back and use the "wayo" of am a returnee to deceive the single ones wey we dey keep tab on undecided.

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