Ghostlady:

You are lucky to be in Ganmo, you are still very very close to semblance of civilisation. Electricity is relatively stable there and cost of living is cheap. Food is cheap too especially at the weekly market

bellong:


You are lucky to be in Ganmo, you are still very very close to semblance of civilisation. Electricity is relatively stable there and cost of living is cheap. Food is cheap too especially at the weekly market

yes you are right,that's what have being told....its almost as if am in ilorin... even though the skul's nt payn well,I just stayed cos of those factors...

Ghostlady:
yes you are right,that's what have being told....its almost as if am in ilorin... even though the skul's nt payn well,I just stayed cos of those factors...

Employers are not that generous in Ilorin. Its 50 bucks cab to town.

It is also a peaceful state... Enjoy your one year service.

bellong:


Employers are not that generous in Ilorin. Its 50 bucks cab to town.

It is also a peaceful state... Enjoy your one year service.

thanx sweedy

fuzzywuzzy:
It seems to me that you're placing too much importance on having a relationship and letting your current inability to do so depress you. Please focus on other things and get your mind off the lonliness, try getting a business you can do in your spare time or hang around your nice friends more. Just get your mind off your singleness, you'll certainly get a girl as time goes on. The main thing is to stop feeling unhappy because of this issue, you can ask your friends to hook you up to any single girl they know or you can try online dating. Go for programmes, religious programmes, seminars, lectures etc. And make friends with some of the girls there then as time goes on they might start getting attracted to you and want to date you.

yea thanks. every things changed now. im outta depression. and im ready to help any one on it.

my life is just in a big mess right now and I just can't find a reason to continue living. After my Nysc , life was so miserable for me due to my jobless state. Out of the love my parents have for me , they sacrificed all their life savings to help me start a business, they believed so much in me that was why they sacrificed all their savings despite the fact that I still have sibbling who also need money. They were hoping that I will be successful in the business and so help my younger ones. I just can't believe that am bankrupt in just 6 months of starting my business. since I started my business it has always been from one misfortune to the other. finally i got duped by some fraudsters who I believe used some charms on me to collect everything I have , they made me sell my shop and all my few properties. Before I could come back to my senses, they were no were to be found. I deeply depressed , right now, am homeless but the worst part is that my family is not, aware of this situation. They still think am doing fine in business and I just can't face them when I go home this Xmas. I have been thinking of a way out of this situation but still, I can't come up with anything, I have offered my kidney for sale butup till now no buyer has indicated his /her interest. Right now am in serious debt and my debtors are just on my neck everyday..The shame is just too much for me to bear. I have already made up my mind to commit suicide if I don't get a buyer for my kidney before the 27th of December. I just pray my parents will find a place in dia heart to forgive me.

friends, I have nobody to help me right now, thoughts of ending all my miseries through suicide is the only thimg that keep coming to my mind.but am hoping I will get someone who can offer me money for my kidney. please, if you know a way I can trade my kidney for money or know any kidney patient that needs kidney transplant kindly call me on 09095030419. I just need the money to start life all over again . please don't tell me about the dangers of selling a kidney cos I have read that i only need one to survive......thanks

the fears, doubts, uncertainties,hoplessness...the finality of death brings that one true peace.the guaranteed peace of death always brings a quick joy to my heart.cant imagine anyone will take that away from you.

kripke:
the fears, doubts, uncertainties,hoplessness...the finality of death brings that one true peace.the guaranteed peace of death always brings a quick joy to my heart.cant imagine anyone will take that away from you.

and why will one be thinking about death?

ken2020:
friends, I have nobody to help me right now, thoughts of ending all my miseries through suicide is the only thimg that keep coming to my mind.but am hoping I will get someone who can offer me money for my kidney. please, if you know a way I can trade my kidney for money or know any kidney patient that needs kidney transplant kindly call me on 09095030419. I just need the money to start life all over again . please don't tell me about the dangers of selling a kidney cos I have read that i only need one to survive......thanks

Kidney...hmmm...I understand what it means to want to kill oneself especially in this trying times...I understand why you must sell your kidney,but have you tried other means like Working under someone, talking to the pastor of your church, doing lucrative jobs...Remember you were not born to make money for your family, you were born to make a change in this world, killing yourself would not help you change the world.

Ghostlady:
and why will one be thinking about death?

stop trying to make it look bad.never used to think about it but overtime its looking like a beautiful eventuality.human creation was flawed without a simple off switch.you have no idea how many people statistically would have simply called it in.I envy those who have that peace.carrying this life like a 911 engine on your head every second of every living moment...there is no greater hell.the fvck i didnt ask to come intö this existence.alota people are just living the Hell here.this is where the hell is.i've been tired long ago really.ghostlady sigh...what a coincidence.

kripke:

stop trying to make it look bad.never used to think about it but overtime its looking like a beautiful eventuality.human creation was flawed without a simple off switch.you have no idea how many people statistically would have simply called it in.I envy those who have that peace.carrying this life like a 911 engine on your head every second of every living moment...there is no greater hell.the fvck i didnt ask to come intö this existence.alota people are just living the Hell here.this is where the hell is.i've been tired long ago really.ghostlady sigh...what a coincidence.

okay,can you open up about what may be bothering you? Personally,I don't see life as hell...I see it as a challenge...

Ghostlady:
okay,can you open up about what may be bothering you? Personally,I don't see life as hell...I see it as a challenge...

what will it accomplish baring further miseries of a man like me.you could'nt do more than this.am just weary really.just want to be where you are.

kripke:

what will it accomplish baring further miseries of a man like me.you could'nt do more than this.am just weary really.just want to be where you are.

who told you,where I am is ok? Am just trying to take life: one step at a time...and that's what you should do also...don't be so depressed,I ll advice you to lighten up,put a smile on your face and move on..cos life is a roller coaster,you never know where it will take you to tomorrow....please death suicide is never an option

Ghostlady:
who told you,where I am is ok? Am just trying to take life: one step at a time...and that's what you should do also...don't be so depressed,I ll advice you to lighten up,put a smile on your face and move on..cos life is a roller coaster,you never know where it will take you to tomorrow....please death suicide is never an option

you missed the humour in "where you are".well i try to make fun of it all.thats how i get by.a large part of me is what you get easily caught on realy.but a man has his secrete pains.

ken2020:
my life is just in a big mess right now and I just can't find a reason to continue living. After my Nysc , life was so miserable for me due to my jobless state. Out of the love my parents have for me , they sacrificed all their life savings to help me start a business, they believed so much in me that was why they sacrificed all their savings despite the fact that I still have sibbling who also need money. They were hoping that I will be successful in the business and so help my younger ones. I just can't believe that am bankrupt in just 6 months of starting my business. since I started my business it has always been from one misfortune to the other. finally i got duped by some fraudsters who I believe used some charms on me to collect everything I have , they made me sell my shop and all my few properties. Before I could come back to my senses, they were no were to be found. I deeply depressed , right now, am homeless but the worst part is that my family is not, aware of this situation. They still think am doing fine in business and I just can't face them when I go home this Xmas. I have been thinking of a way out of this situation but still, I can't come up with anything, I have offered my kidney for sale butup till now no buyer has indicated his /her interest. Right now am in serious debt and my debtors are just on my neck everyday..The shame is just too much for me to bear. I have already made up my mind to commit suicide if I don't get a buyer for my kidney before the 27th of December. I just pray my parents will find a place in dia heart to forgive me.

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My friend you don't have any problem(s).

Take a walk into any teaching hospital in Nigeria and see the patients there.

There are some of them that pray to God to be as you are right now.

You will never see life the same way after the experience.

You are crying that you have no shoes until you see someone with no legs who is enjoying life.

Take note.

But if suicide is your only option, go for it.

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InvertedHammer:

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But if suicide is your only option, go for it.

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cococandy:

He is only helping him with options available..

It is called negative encouragement....

cococandy:

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If you missed the line of thought that preceded the statement, oh well..


What can I say?
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Ghostlady:
who told you,where I am is ok? Am just trying to take life: one step at a time...and that's what you should do also...don't be so depressed,I ll advice you to lighten up,put a smile on your face and move on..cos life is a roller coaster,you never know where it will take you to tomorrow....please death suicide is never an option

you just had to run away? Is that it? I might be making light of it but you have no idea what it is to let out this much.please

kripke:

you just had to run away? Is that it? I might be making light of it but you have no idea what it is to let out this much.please

I didn't run away,am always here....hope u r not feeling bad anymore? And are u ready to share whatever is bothering you

*Inspiration 2 keep you going*

There are those times it feels like nothing is working,
it'll never get better,
u ask urself if you're Jinxed,


Try to reflect and think about all the good times,
if you think there's non,

Think about been born
(Well you might say born to a wicked world)

Well remember been born makes you a winner, you're the one that succeeded in the race to be born,

That is a sign of good things,
Means you were born for a reason
Giving up now would mean been a failure,
Having not completed or fulfilled the purposes of your life,

Take a good look at your life now, whatever the circumstances change the way you see it*

Pick up the pieces and move on . ..

Every problem in ur life is a problem only because it has a solution somewhere, which you need to find*

- Wise G

Ghostlady:
I didn't run away,am always here....hope u r not feeling bad anymore? And are u ready to share whatever is bothering you

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Can I share somewhere else.don't know what to expect from you but am just empty.always been.

kripke:
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Can I share somewhere else.don't know what to expect from you but am just empty.always been.

where do you wanna share and why r u empty?

ken2020:
friends, I have nobody to help me right now, thoughts of ending all my miseries through suicide is the only thimg that keep coming to my mind.but am hoping I will get someone who can offer me money for my kidney. please, if you know a way I can trade my kidney for money or know any kidney patient that needs kidney transplant kindly call me on 09095030419. I just need the money to start life all over again . please don't tell me about the dangers of selling a kidney cos I have read that i only need one to survive......thanks

haVE you thought of joining the police, you are a graduate, instant promotion, there is more to life bro

am a pastors son, my parents always want me to be a minister, take over my fathers church, but i dont think thats the life i was cut out for they always punish me when i sing, they have tried multiple ways to stop me from singing, i used to dance but my parents killed the spirit of dancing from my blood, now am hopeless , mum is sick, dad is promising to disown me, i wish i could run from everything, just disappear, , why cant they jst love me for me not who they want me to be?? lemme end it all abeg am unhappy

livingstone2013:
Life hasn't been fair to me. No job, No money. I had 2.1 in Economics from OAU yet no job. I passed tests of several companies but always get dropped at final interview stage. I want to do business but no capital. I feel like drinking battery water and end my life.Its a wicked world. I can't support my siblings cause I am totally broke.I am now seen as a failure. I seek for job but didn't get it. I eat just once in a day. sometimes nothing except garri only in a day. What kind of miserable life is this? I am seriously depressed cause I know I am not lazy.

thank God am not the only one. I pray to God upliftment everyday and i believe He will answer. He better answer

Kripke, I'll like to recommend a book for you. It's titled Cares that Infest, by Cecil A. Poole.

ken2020:
my life is just in a big mess right now and I just can't find a reason to continue living. After my Nysc , life was so miserable for me due to my jobless state. Out of the love my parents have for me , they sacrificed all their life savings to help me start a business, they believed so much in me that was why they sacrificed all their savings despite the fact that I still have sibbling who also need money. They were hoping that I will be successful in the business and so help my younger ones. I just can't believe that am bankrupt in just 6 months of starting my business. since I started my business it has always been from one misfortune to the other. finally i got duped by some fraudsters who I believe used some charms on me to collect everything I have , they made me sell my shop and all my few properties. Before I could come back to my senses, they were no were to be found. I deeply depressed , right now, am homeless but the worst part is that my family is not, aware of this situation. They still think am doing fine in business and I just can't face them when I go home this Xmas. I have been thinking of a way out of this situation but still, I can't come up with anything, I have offered my kidney for sale butup till now no buyer has indicated his /her interest. Right now am in serious debt and my debtors are just on my neck everyday..The shame is just too much for me to bear. I have already made up my mind to commit suicide if I don't get a buyer for my kidney before the 27th of December. I just pray my parents will find a place in dia heart to forgive me.

I'm sorry. I really am.

I too have considered suicide - long story. You have to face up to it. Tell your parents - they are your parents and they will let it go. Then think deeply about how to start again. I suggest learning a skill/trade and taking it from there.

TDstarr:
am a pastors son, my parents always want me to be a minister, take over my fathers church, but i dont think thats the life i was cut out for they always punish me when i sing, they have tried multiple ways to stop me from singing, i used to dance but my parents killed the spirit of dancing from my blood, now am hopeless , mum is sick, dad is promising to disown me, i wish i could run from everything, just disappear, , why cant they jst love me for me not who they want me to be?? lemme end it all abeg am unhappy

Lol, na wa o. Just like that. If people your family does not appreciate your gift and passion, keep that dream to yourself and pursue it endlessly while also doing what they think they want you to. When you are ready and comfortable enough to be independent, tell them your decision, stick to it and move out of there. With time they will come around. If no one believes in you, believe in yourself

Life is hard and most times not fair. Some of us need to step out from our fairytale secured wall/ world and face the REALITY!

I want to commit suicide cos my pastor dad does not support my calling bla bla. C'mon are you Fucking kidding me?

One day at a time BUT please, let's be strong for ourselves. Thinking or threatening suicide at every slight disappointment or setback means you don't even deserve the Oxygen u breath. When life fvcks u up, fight it. Fight and fight till you win.