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You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by AJOT99(m): 3:51pm On Dec 04, 2014
There are many things you should never tolerate in a relationship, though many of these things are MUCH easier said than done. We are complex beings and while we may rationally know we should not be with someone for some reason, it is not always so easy to “just walk away.” Always remember that you are a worthy being and that you never “deserve” harmful things a partner may inflict upon you; so don’t forget this list of things you should never tolerate in a relationship by Olivia Simone!

1. Cheating

Of all the #things you should never tolerate in a relationship, cheating is an obvious one. Cheating should not be tolerated in a relationship for several reasons. One, if your #partner is cheating, you don’t know what diseases he may be picking up from others, and these could jeopardize your own health. For another, cheating breaks trust, which is a major foundation of a healthy relationship. If you happen to feel, given your particular circumstances, that working through an incident is an option you want to explore, fine, but do NOT, by any means, tolerate perpetual cheating. A cheater is not worth your own well-being.

2. Lying

In addition to cheating, perpetual lying should not be tolerated as trust is a key foundation in any relationship. A white lie here and there is not necessarily something to get worked up over, but if you catch your #partner lying to you on a regular basis, it’s time to rethink your relationship with that person.

3. Out-of-Control Tempers

Anger is a natural human emotion. Everyone feels angry at times, but anger and an out-of-control temper are two drastically different concepts. If you find that your #partner punches holes in walls, takes his anger out on you in an inappropriate manner, makes threats, breaks things, etc., this is not a healthy expression of anger and can lead to devastating consequences in your relationship. Do not tolerate this behavior. Either insist that he seek treatment options for his temper or drop him.

4. Physical or Sexual Abuse

Abuse of any form should not be tolerated in a relationship. Unfortunately, many people fail to recognize #signs of domestic abuse for a number of reasons. You must first realize that no matter what, you NEVER deserve to be abused. If your #partner hits you, beats you, rapes you (and yes, this includes marital rape), or inflicts any sort of physical violence on you, try your best to get out of the situation. I know this is often easier said than done, but realize not all #men are like this and that you are worthy of someone who will treat your body with respect!

5. Mental or Emotional Abuse

Mental and emotional abuse are often even harder to detect than physical or sexual abuse. If your partner uses manipulation, threats, belittlement, or any other means of making you feel unsafe, insecure, or bad about yourself, this is most likely a form of abuse as well. Do not tolerate a #partner who makes you feel unworthy. And remember, no matter what he says to knock you down, the shame is on him, not on you.

6. Harm to Your Children

If you find that your partner has in any way jeopardized the well-being of your children, get rid of him immediately. Whether they are his children or not, he must respect them as well as you. If your children ever say that they have been inappropriately touched, harmed physically, etc. by your #partner, he MUST go. NEVER tolerate a #man who harms your children.

7. Disrespect

Ultimately, all of these things can be boiled down to disrespect in some manner. If you find that your #partner is not respecting your body, thoughts, emotions, etc., find someone else who will.
Source: [url]nwdailyblog.com/you-are-worthy-7-things-you-should-never-tolerate-in-a-relationship-marriage/[/url]

These are some of the things I don’t feel should ever be tolerated in a relationship. What other #things do you think should never be tolerated in a relationship?

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prettyjo(f): 3:53pm On Dec 04, 2014
am coming back to comment;let me go to the market first.

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by ammyluv2002(f): 3:54pm On Dec 04, 2014
Sometimes, you lie to protect your loved ones!




Nice write-up

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Tallesty1(m): 4:01pm On Dec 04, 2014
ammyluv2002:
Sometimes, you lie to protect your loved ones!




Nice write-up
Making it a habit is the problem.

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 4:04pm On Dec 04, 2014
You nailed it op
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Mprex(f): 5:05pm On Dec 04, 2014
Cheating.
Lying.
Abuse.



Hell to the No!
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Ploy(m): 5:35pm On Dec 04, 2014
Lies
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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Bunker1(m): 5:58pm On Dec 04, 2014
why not say 7 things women should not tolerate in a relationship. hold on, which one is marital RAP€?

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by AJOT99(m): 8:50pm On Dec 04, 2014
Bunker1:
why not say 7 things women should not tolerate in a relationship. hold on, which one is marital RAP€?

When you forcefully engage in sexual intercourse with your wife

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by simplemach(m): 4:14pm On Dec 14, 2014
Noted. But away matches should be allowed a little na.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by vicoloni(m): 4:14pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ok
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by holatin(m): 4:14pm On Dec 14, 2014
MouthAction
Sex during menstruation

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by dre11(m): 4:17pm On Dec 14, 2014
Hum




Don't tolerate spendaholic.... They ruin the family saving and run the finance to debt before you know it.
The are compulsive spender and will make you and your family live at the mercy of your neighbors

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by rafeelly(m): 4:17pm On Dec 14, 2014
prettyjo:
am coming back to comment;let me go to the market first.

Owen don't come back empty handed ooo tongue

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by PerfumeRepublik: 4:17pm On Dec 14, 2014
ammyluv2002:
Sometimes, you lie to protect your loved ones!




Nice write-up
cool
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by adventisty: 4:17pm On Dec 14, 2014
strict adhearance is the issue here!
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by publicenemy(m): 4:17pm On Dec 14, 2014
anything a treat
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by sexybash(f): 4:18pm On Dec 14, 2014
Tell dem oh
May God help us
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by alotofgrace(m): 4:18pm On Dec 14, 2014
insultive comments.....

replying with "don't worry" when u want to know hw he/she is doing.

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by meshacha1: 4:19pm On Dec 14, 2014
I believe maturity in mind guides you through your relationship and not does and don't of this list. If Abraham never tells Sarah to lie to pharaoh that he is her brother not her husband maybe he would have been killed.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Barselonia(m): 4:20pm On Dec 14, 2014
okay
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by DancingSkeleton(m): 4:20pm On Dec 14, 2014
U sure undecided
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by okotv(m): 4:20pm On Dec 14, 2014
nice write up...

Queen Jennimma sharing nice updates today
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by zuma4k(m): 4:21pm On Dec 14, 2014
LUST!
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by OCTAVO: 4:21pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ok.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by MethodmanWES: 4:22pm On Dec 14, 2014
nice write up
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by ireneidiva(f): 4:22pm On Dec 14, 2014
ammyluv2002:
Sometimes, you lie to protect your loved ones!




Nice write-up
Nope. The truth hurts...and so do lies!
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Doortun(m): 4:22pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ladies glued to African Magic
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
okotv:
nice write up...

Queen Jennimma sharing nice updates today

Uhmmm...how do you mean,sweets?
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
AJOT99:
There are many things you should never tolerate in a relationship, though many of these things are MUCH easier said than done. We are complex beings and while we may rationally know we should not be with someone for some reason, it is not always so easy to “just walk away.” Always remember that you are a worthy being and that you never “deserve” harmful things a partner may inflict upon you; so don’t forget this list of things you should never tolerate in a relationship by Olivia Simone!

1. Cheating

Of all the #things you should never tolerate in a relationship, cheating is an obvious one. Cheating should not be tolerated in a relationship for several reasons. One, if your #partner is cheating, you don’t know what diseases he may be picking up from others, and these could jeopardize your own health. For another, cheating breaks trust, which is a major foundation of a healthy relationship. If you happen to feel, given your particular circumstances, that working through an incident is an option you want to explore, fine, but do NOT, by any means, tolerate perpetual cheating. A cheater is not worth your own well-being.

2. Lying

In addition to cheating, perpetual lying should not be tolerated as trust is a key foundation in any relationship. A white lie here and there is not necessarily something to get worked up over, but if you catch your #partner lying to you on a regular basis, it’s time to rethink your relationship with that person.

3. Out-of-Control Tempers

Anger is a natural human emotion. Everyone feels angry at times, but anger and an out-of-control temper are two drastically different concepts. If you find that your #partner punches holes in walls, takes his anger out on you in an inappropriate manner, makes threats, breaks things, etc., this is not a healthy expression of anger and can lead to devastating consequences in your relationship. Do not tolerate this behavior. Either insist that he seek treatment options for his temper or drop him.

4. Physical or Sexual Abuse

Abuse of any form should not be tolerated in a relationship. Unfortunately, many people fail to recognize #signs of domestic abuse for a number of reasons. You must first realize that no matter what, you NEVER deserve to be abused. If your #partner hits you, beats you, rapes you (and yes, this includes marital rape), or inflicts any sort of physical violence on you, try your best to get out of the situation. I know this is often easier said than done, but realize not all #men are like this and that you are worthy of someone who will treat your body with respect!

5. Mental or Emotional Abuse

Mental and emotional abuse are often even harder to detect than physical or sexual abuse. If your partner uses manipulation, threats, belittlement, or any other means of making you feel unsafe, insecure, or bad about yourself, this is most likely a form of abuse as well. Do not tolerate a #partner who makes you feel unworthy. And remember, no matter what he says to knock you down, the shame is on him, not on you.

6. Harm to Your Children

If you find that your partner has in any way jeopardized the well-being of your children, get rid of him immediately. Whether they are his children or not, he must respect them as well as you. If your children ever say that they have been inappropriately touched, harmed physically, etc. by your #partner, he MUST go. NEVER tolerate a #man who harms your children.

7. Disrespect

Ultimately, all of these things can be boiled down to disrespect in some manner. If you find that your #partner is not respecting your body, thoughts, emotions, etc., find someone else who will.
Source: [url]nwdailyblog.com/you-are-worthy-7-things-you-should-never-tolerate-in-a-relationship-marriage/[/url]

These are some of the things I don’t feel should ever be tolerated in a relationship. What other #things do you think should never be tolerated in a relationship?

WORTHY OF WHAT? you seem to have an attitude problem.you seem to be egocentric by your choice of words and the temperament displayed by your style.You re nt a good marriage or relationship counselor,so shut up.its your type dt goes about breaking people's homes n relationships with your "one-way-traffic"advice.

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