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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by gen2briz(m): 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
AJOT99:
There are many things you should never tolerate in a relationship, though many of these things are MUCH easier said than done. We are complex beings and while we may rationally know we should not be with someone for some reason, it is not always so easy to “just walk away.” Always remember that you are a worthy being and that you never “deserve” harmful things a partner may inflict upon you; so don’t forget this list of things you should never tolerate in a relationship by Olivia Simone!

1. Cheating

Of all the #things you should never tolerate in a relationship, cheating is an obvious one. Cheating should not be tolerated in a relationship for several reasons. One, if your #partner is cheating, you don’t know what diseases he may be picking up from others, and these could jeopardize your own health. For another, cheating breaks trust, which is a major foundation of a healthy relationship. If you happen to feel, given your particular circumstances, that working through an incident is an option you want to explore, fine, but do NOT, by any means, tolerate perpetual cheating. A cheater is not worth your own well-being.

2. Lying

In addition to cheating, perpetual lying should not be tolerated as trust is a key foundation in any relationship. A white lie here and there is not necessarily something to get worked up over, but if you catch your #partner lying to you on a regular basis, it’s time to rethink your relationship with that person.

3. Out-of-Control Tempers

Anger is a natural human emotion. Everyone feels angry at times, but anger and an out-of-control temper are two drastically different concepts. If you find that your #partner punches holes in walls, takes his anger out on you in an inappropriate manner, makes threats, breaks things, etc., this is not a healthy expression of anger and can lead to devastating consequences in your relationship. Do not tolerate this behavior. Either insist that he seek treatment options for his temper or drop him.

4. Physical or Sexual Abuse

Abuse of any form should not be tolerated in a relationship. Unfortunately, many people fail to recognize #signs of domestic abuse for a number of reasons. You must first realize that no matter what, you NEVER deserve to be abused. If your #partner hits you, beats you, rapes you (and yes, this includes marital rape), or inflicts any sort of physical violence on you, try your best to get out of the situation. I know this is often easier said than done, but realize not all #men are like this and that you are worthy of someone who will treat your body with respect!

5. Mental or Emotional Abuse

Mental and emotional abuse are often even harder to detect than physical or sexual abuse. If your partner uses manipulation, threats, belittlement, or any other means of making you feel unsafe, insecure, or bad about yourself, this is most likely a form of abuse as well. Do not tolerate a #partner who makes you feel unworthy. And remember, no matter what he says to knock you down, the shame is on him, not on you.

6. Harm to Your Children

If you find that your partner has in any way jeopardized the well-being of your children, get rid of him immediately. Whether they are his children or not, he must respect them as well as you. If your children ever say that they have been inappropriately touched, harmed physically, etc. by your #partner, he MUST go. NEVER tolerate a #man who harms your children.

7. Disrespect

Ultimately, all of these things can be boiled down to disrespect in some manner. If you find that your #partner is not respecting your body, thoughts, emotions, etc., find someone else who will.
Source: [url]nwdailyblog.com/you-are-worthy-7-things-you-should-never-tolerate-in-a-relationship-marriage/[/url]

These are some of the things I don’t feel should ever be tolerated in a relationship. What other #things do you think should never be tolerated in a relationship?

Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Suzyky4u(f): 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
Story @ cheating. Nain be say almost all women go remain single or divorced.

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by BUSHHUNTER: 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ekiti State pay me my State allowance 2013 Batch C.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by folabayo1(f): 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
Nice write up but its common in naija marriages and rlshps...naija guys especially.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 4:24pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ehen..
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by merits(m): 4:24pm On Dec 14, 2014
always be like me and my wife,good companion.

Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by adexsimply(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2014
AJOT99:


When you forcefully engage in sexual intercourse with your wife
what if it's the other way round?
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by legendsilver(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2014
cool Unnecessary demand of money; if your partner keeps demanding for money every now and then, pls judanu kiakia grin imagine money for maggi, salt, oil e.t.c
9) If you partner denies you of his/her body, abeg think twice b4 tying the knot. It is better to become a Rev father than to allow their action lead you to cheating
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by grabs(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2014
Obviously a woman's write-up. Not balanced.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by SOLMICHAEL(m): 4:25pm On Dec 14, 2014
NOTED
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by okotv(m): 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2014
Jennimma:


Uhmmm...how do you mean,sweets?
what you have been sharing is great. Hope you get

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by flexing11(m): 4:26pm On Dec 14, 2014
prettyjo:
am coming back to comment;let me go to the market first.
su*da* market, u *ever cook si*ce,,,,,
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 4:27pm On Dec 14, 2014
okotv:
what you have been sharing is great. Hope you get
lolzzzz...i get now. Happy Sunday
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by okotv(m): 4:29pm On Dec 14, 2014
Jennimma:

lolzzzz...i get now. Happy Sunday
happy Sunday too

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by vitality22(m): 4:30pm On Dec 14, 2014
prettyjo:
am coming back to comment;let me go to the market first.
Sweet heart, I never knew you were a market woman o, now I know.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by ameeg(m): 4:34pm On Dec 14, 2014
Yeye topic what about jeliously Dead than all ...i.....
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by Nobody: 4:36pm On Dec 14, 2014
hmmmm if u can't tolerate in your relationshp/marriage,then u hav no biznes being in one,cos u'l end jumpn up nd dwn lukn 4 mr/miss perfect..IMO
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by rhymesteey(f): 4:36pm On Dec 14, 2014
prophetfire:
WORTHY OF WHAT? you seem to have an attitude problem.you seem to be egocentric by your choice of words and the temperament displayed by your style.You re nt a good marriage or relationship counselor,so shut up.its your type dt goes about breaking people's homes n relationships with your "one-way-traffic"advice.
calm down grin grin grin
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by geborenzie: 4:40pm On Dec 14, 2014
prophetfire:
WORTHY OF WHAT? you seem to have an attitude problem.you seem to be egocentric by your choice of words and the temperament displayed by your style.You re nt a good marriage or relationship counselor,so shut up.its your type dt goes about breaking people's homes n relationships with your "one-way-traffic"advice.
are you high or do you have a mental form of disease I pray you have a sister who get beaten by her husband or has a reason of cheating she has aids maybe then you will understand this message
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by PRINCEHPXP(m): 4:42pm On Dec 14, 2014
yeah true talk and noted till i get a Gf
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by DonaldGenes(m): 4:43pm On Dec 14, 2014
prettyjo:
am coming back to comment;let me go to the market first.

You don't mean that...do you?
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by peter4d2(m): 4:44pm On Dec 14, 2014
I know 4 1 dat it is only in western world a gal culd do a hand or blow jhorb n not want u get 2 her kitty cat.

Doe trust my naija guys I take u go hotel I pay 4 room u follow me enter u come form life deeper I go turn devil 2 beg u later but 1st u must succumb but in western world dey wuld call it rape in naija we say story 4 d gods.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 4:44pm On Dec 14, 2014
rhymesteey:
calm down grin grin grin
baby am very calm n cool.that write-up lacks "the tongue of the learned".
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by valdes00(m): 4:45pm On Dec 14, 2014
No 3 is d reason I dropped TOLU.... Dis girl wan break my head wit bottle al because she's angry..... Fear catch me dat day.....
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by jbaby265(f): 4:45pm On Dec 14, 2014
prophetfire:
WORTHY OF WHAT? you seem to have an attitude problem.you seem to be egocentric by your choice of words and the temperament displayed by your style.You re nt a good marriage or relationship counselor,so shut up.its your type dt goes about breaking people's homes n relationships with your "one-way-traffic"advice.

u should be the one to check ur brain to see if all d knots are complete.

u are bittered coz she has mentioned ur weaknesses ..i guess u don't even have regard n respect for women..

crazy man

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Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 4:48pm On Dec 14, 2014
jbaby265:


u should be the one to check ur brain to see if all d knots are complete.

u are bittered coz she has mentioned ur weaknesses ..i guess u don't even have regard n respect for women..

crazy man
you ll never have a man respect you in your life.ashawo dts lookin for a man to adore her.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by lawrenceunaa: 4:48pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ok
Most of this 'posters' are guilty of what they post undecided
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by aspirebig: 4:48pm On Dec 14, 2014
All these Telemundo pple no go kill person.

In marriage,your second name na tolerance ooo.

Forget all those things they act in oyibo tv like telemundo. They are 1m percent fake.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by kinth(m): 4:51pm On Dec 14, 2014
I disagree with the post, marriage is for beta for worse, till death do u part., no divorce and remarriage. that is why evrione shld pray well before choosing life partner. and if ur spouse has any of these u must learn to forgive and pray day he/she changes
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by prophetfire: 4:52pm On Dec 14, 2014
geborenzie:
are you high or do you have a mental form of disease I pray you have a sister who get beaten by her husband or has a reason of cheating she has aids maybe then you will understand this message
mental diseases and partner molesters will continue to manifest in your life,family n generations unborn since you can pray evil prayers. Evil prayers ll be your expirience in life.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by assana: 4:56pm On Dec 14, 2014
Dnt tolerate a partner dat doesn't appreciate u.
Re: You Are Worthy! 7 Things You Should Never Tolerate In A Relationship/ Marriage by geborenzie: 4:57pm On Dec 14, 2014
prophetfire:
mental diseases and partner molesters will continue to manifest in your life,family n generations unborn since you can pray evil prayers. Evil prayers ll be your expirience in life.
don't worry I can already seeing it manifesting it in your life and your sisters life y did you take it personal all those words are going to be your portion in the year 2015 say a loud ameeen

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