Ok 2 weeks ago I found out that my bf has been cheating on me. After everything he apologised and swore he no longer had anything 2 do with the girl dou I knew somehow that he was still in contact with her. I decided 2 ignore everythinng and give my relationship a fresh start. Fast forward......



Today I went to his house and overheard him talking to somebody in a romantic tune.lol. I asked who he was talking to like that and he said that it was a customer o. Customer ke. I then told him to give me his phone. The guy refused vehemently. Btw after that incident he never allowed me 2 touch his phone o. So a very angry me started struggling the fone with him and in the course of struggling the fone fell on the floor and the entire screen got damaged. Right now I feel very angry with myself and angry with him as well. The fone is very expensive and he just bought it less than a month ago. Somehow I feel hapi that he will feel the pain I felt bt the humanity in me feel terrible. And I forgot to mention that he called the girl three times today.

I don't know if I need advice or scolding or whatever I just want you guys to say whatever but please no insult. Tenk

Loyalty no dey dis game again,
follow find one guy dey play both home and away match with am

Friendzone him.

All i have to say, edit the post by removing the duplicate

UnknownT:
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I don't understand pls

What you did was wrong;simple!...You shouldn't have dragged the phone with him, It's childish to do so, your intuition already told you he was calling the girl "with a romantic tone", So why go ahead with the dragging?... Two wrongs can not make a right, Just go and apologize to him for causing that phone to damage, Afterwards, both of you can settle your differences.

Abeg make una no jst view. I seriously need 2 hear peoples mind on this

I have aplogised. He didn't even want 2 hear let alone listen. He jst told me 2 get out of his house.

onigbona ra ni e@OP

smaallsz:


I don't understand pls

Read through your post again

If the phone is iphone6+:as you left his house never come back I know he won't call u back. If its iphone6:all hope is not lost. If its S5:you can apologozie. if its tecno: Slap am join. Lol seriously I think you have to ask him for forgiveness but I think the guy cheated on you, he could have easily given you the phone to confirm but his refusal caused you anger, don't blame yourself for it

If the phone is iphone6+:as you left his house never come back I know he won't call u back. If its iphone6:all hope is not lost. If its S5:you can apologozie. if its tecno: Slap am join. Lol seriously I think you have to ask him for forgiveness but I think the guy cheated on you, he could have easily given you the phone to confirm but his refusal caused your anger, don't blame yourself for it but try to be at peace, if the guy na OBO he'll certainly get a replace

beht why?
if i were your bf, you must buy me new phone oh! i dont joke with my phone.

UnknownT:
Read through your post again

Ok thanks

hyfr:
If the phone is iphone6+:as you left his house never come back I know he won't call u back. If its iphone6:all hope is not lost. If its S5:you can apologozie. if its tecno: Slap am join. Lol seriously I think you have to ask him for forgiveness but I think the guy cheated on you, he could have easily given you the phone to confirm but his refusal caused your anger, don't blame yourself for it but try to be at peace, if the guy na OBO he'll certainly get a replace

Its s3 atleast for his level its very expensive. I feel very bad.





Looool @ if its tecno slap am join

Emodeee:
onigbona ra ni e@OP

I don't understand u

Its better to marry who can play when the partner is down not a player am a relationship coach and understand your situation wait a minute , the way you dress you wl be addressed.make yourself valuable before your man I bet you he forget other intruders. Do not b too cheap I warn!. If truly he loves u he wl respect your personality. Go to him ask him to define this your relationship if it is the one that wl lead to the altar or not. If yes then give him a binding condictions and maintain your santity unless both of you are players.

what dey fuc....k



pick up the damn phone and smash it again.


The guy is a cheat

If na me baby gal u go buy me new fone or I give u de dreaded silent treatment
Just becos ur booobooo was talking to a costumer agent and I knw its MTN cus dey hv started calling pple dis days
U broke de fone just becos of dem
Believe u me if ur boi frnd no ask u to buy new fone for amu dat means he stil amu

recentelder:
Its better to marry who can play when the partner is down not a player am a relationship coach and understand your situation wait a minute , the way you dress you wl be addressed.make yourself valuable before your man I bet you he forget other intruders. Do not b too cheap I warn!. If truly he loves u he wl respect your personality. Go to him ask him to define this your relationship if it is the one that wl lead to the altar or not. If yes then give him a binding condictions and maintain your santity unless both of you are players.

Am not a player, never have been never will be and I dress well and decently. I ave tried discussing with him concerning the relationship but he keeps avoiding it. We are still very young dou so marriage is out of the way for now. I really don't know what his problem is. I left when I dicovered he was cheatin but he came back begging.

chimerase2:
If na me baby gal u go buy me new fone or I give u de dreaded silent treatment
Just becos ur booobooo was talking to a costumer agent and I knw its MTN cus dey hv started calling pple dis days
U broke de fone just becos of dem
Believe u me if ur boi frnd no ask u to buy new fone for amu dat means he stil amu

No be small tin o. Mtn customer care now cook for people in their houses abi. I hear u

OP na by force?

Is he your husband? What gave you the temerity to drag his phone with him and in the process damage it.

If na me ehnn, you go know say khaki no be leather.

Allow the young man enjoy his life abeg. You only live ones

Slonge2:
OP na by force?

Is he your husband? What gave you the temerity to drag his phone with him and in the process damage it.

If na me ehnn, you go know say khaki no be leather.

Allow the young man enjoy his life abeg. You only live ones

Guys will always be guys. I dnt ave right over his phone yet he checks my phone anytime we meet. I feel bad already don't make me feel worse
And am not forcing him. If he wants to play let him go look for someone else. I hate being looked upon like a fool.

smaallsz:
Ok 2 weeks ago I found out that my bf has been cheating on me. After everything he apologised and swore he no longer had anything 2 do with the girl dou I knew somehow that he was still in contact with her. I decided 2 ignore everythinng and give my relationship a fresh start. Fast forward......



Today I went to his house and overheard him talking to somebody in a romantic tune.lol. I asked who he was talking to like that and he said that it was a customer o. Customer ke. I then told him to give me his phone. The guy refused vehemently. Btw after that incident he never allowed me 2 touch his phone o. So a very angry me started struggling the fone with him and in the course of struggling the fone fell on the floor and the entire screen got damaged. Right now I feel very angry with myself and angry with him as well. The fone is very expensive and he just bought it less than a month ago. Somehow I feel hapi that he will feel the pain I felt bt the humanity in me feel terrible. And I forgot to mention that he called the girl three times today.

I don't know if I need advice or scolding or whatever I just want you guys to say whatever but please no insult. Tenk

...BRO...yoe boy friend is cheatin and he apologise...What else do u want?

smaallsz:


Guys will always be guys. I dnt ave right over his phone yet he checks my phone anytime we meet. I feel bad already don't make me feel worse
And am not forcing him. If he wants to play let him go look for someone else. I hate being looked upon like a fool.

as long as you aint married to him, you should expect such games, he surely just want to test the waters, you duty is just to go with the flow, with a contingency plan to be on the safe side.

IF you can't cope with his promiscuous azz just dump him, cos it is glaring that he is cheating and isn't going to stop anytime soon. Anyways,best wishes

chymystique:
you made a mistake by demanding for his phone and in the process smashing it. There are plenty ways to handle these kinda dudes. Anyways since the deed has already being done asin I mean the phone screen broken, I think you should give him space for now cause you bugging him now will be used against you later.. Use this period and make decisions if you still wanna be with him or not and not feeling angry with yourself, after all you didn't intentionally smash the phone.

I was very angry. I felt like he was taking me for a fool. He told so many cheap lies. I really regret acting like that. I would ave left. I want to give him space and also decide.

Slonge2:
as long as you aint married to him, you should expect such games, he surely just want to test the waters, you duty is just to go with the flow, with a contingency plan to be on the safe side.

IF you can't cope with his promiscuous azz just dump him, cos it is glaring that he is cheating and isn't going to stop anytime soon. Anyways,best wishes

My only regret is the fact that his phone is destroyed I feel really bad. Like I said earlier I left but he came back begging. I can't cope with a cheating partner jare

MrCork:



...BRO...yoe boy friend is cheatin and he apologise...What else do u want?

Sister, I wnt him 2 continue cheating

Smaaliz I do not mean your dress sense, I only referred to your sexual disciplined instinct which you hv provided an answer to. Let me quote you right .anytime you asked him about relationship ,he wud dulge it which shows that he is sure if you wl b his future wife. The game is not all about too young afterall you are above 18 I guess. It is a matter of understanding btw both of you. Is he telling me he cannot keep only you as his girlfriend? I kept one girlfriend ever in my life and eventually became my wife in 2011 . Then disciopline has to play its role here. Pls sit him down and redefine his course or else I doubt if he wl be responsible future husband

As regards his phone you hv to apologise and feel remorse b4 him but he shd not take an advantage frm there anyway.