Amaka Iberosi:

MARRIAGE MANIPULATION.....

*Husbands are scarce..... (I wonder when the scarcity begin, and when e go end)

*Being single is a sin..... (According to Naija's bible version)

*Being a single mother is a CRIME...... (Only in Nigeria's constitution)

*Divorce is for OUTLAWS..... (Nigeria marriage is for better for worse)

Until Nigerians changes the above mentality, both sex(es) will always be at the fatal receiving ends..... (Both male and female)

Most disastrous marriages in Nigeria are as a result of MARRIAGE MANIPULATIONS. (Check around you)
And 85% of Nigerian marriages are just being managed, because most couples are trying so hard to please the Naija society. ..... (Love lost)

Until Nigerians stop asking single ladies when they are getting married.
Until they stop treating single mothers like second class citizens, just because they refused to abort their babies.
Until they stop treating divorcees like worthless pieces of thrash......
Women would be MANIPULATING men into marrying them, even when it is clear that the man doesn't love them.

If single mothers are left alone, no woman would be forcing a man to marry her because of pregnancy...... (Manipulation)

If single ladies are not being insulted as if singlehood is a curse, no single girl will be nagging her boyfriend to see her parents or use juju(voodoo) to mesmerise a man..... (Manipulation)

If divorcees are not seen as worthless, a lot of abused women won't be living with men who are obviously tired of being married who constantly abuse them .... (Manipulation)

For men.....
You think it's your world, and you go about treating women like thrash, insulting single women by reminding them of their status, calling single mothers prostitutes, and yapping about divorce being a grave sin..... (You are all at the receiving end)

When a single woman gets tired of your tongue lashing, she becomes desperate. And only God knows what a desperate woman can do, because hers claws on any man is permanent..... (Pray never to meet one).

When a single woman becomes pregnant, she forces you to marry her.
Another manipulating way single ladies uses; is to tie a man down with pregnancy, even when it's glaringly to everyone that there is no love in the relationship.
Then after the whole manipulation exercise, you both enter another war zone called Marriage..... Lolz

This is when "for better for worse" comes into another form of manipulation.

You will cheat on her, beat her, refuse your responsibility, make babies with other women, bring in women to your matrimonial home, boldly tell her that you are tired and you don't love her...... (She is now scared of the word "DIVORCE"

Instead of leaving you, she would turn to prayer warrior.... Lolz..... You are on the receiving end.

Keep nagging young girls to marry, keep calling single mothers and divorcees names...... You men are the ones on the receiving end, because you are going to spend the remaining part of your life here on earth with a woman you don't love.

As For My Fellow Women......
Because you still want to keep pleasing the Naija society at large, you have become desperate.
Some of you live with useless men who haven't't paid one kobo on your heads, and some of you have desperately turned breadwinners, while the man is busy gallivanting about.... hmmm

Because you heard that husbands are scarce, most of you are just grabbing any thing with third leg just to update your Facebook status to "MRS"......Odiegwu.com

Keep manipulating men to marry you by fire by force, and within few months of your so called marriage, you will bring your marital problems to Facebook pages or groups for advises... (The same advise some of you will ignore now)

Rather be single and be at peace, than being in a marriage that lacks peace.

When love leads two people into marriage, they tend to enjoy the marriage no matter what life throws their way.
But when a marriage is being manipulated upon, it becomes hard work trying to maintain the marriage.

Marriage is not a do or die affair, and the last time I checked, marriage certificate is not the gate pass to heaven's gate.

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tobechi20:
MARRIAGE MANIPULATION.....
*Husbands are scarce..... (I wonder when the scarcity begin, and when e go end)

tobechi20:

*Being single is a sin..... (According to Naija's bible version)

tobechi20:

*Being a single mother is a CRIME...... (Only in Nigeria's constitution)

tobechi20:

*Divorce is for OUTLAWS..... (Nigeria marriage is for better for worse)

tobechi20:

Until Nigerians changes the above mentality, both sex(es) will always be at the fatal receiving ends..... (Both male and female)

tobechi20:

Most disastrous marriages in Nigeria are as a result of MARRIAGE MANIPULATIONS. (Check around you)
And 85% of Nigerian marriages are just being managed, because most couples are trying so hard to please the Naija society. ..... (Love lost)

tobechi20:

Until Nigerians stop asking single ladies when they are getting married.

tobechi20:

Until they stop treating single mothers like second class citizens, just because they refused to abort their babies.

tobechi20:

Until they stop treating divorcees like worthless pieces of thrash......

tobechi20:

Women would be MANIPULATING men into marrying them, even when it is clear that the man doesn't love them.

tobechi20:

If single mothers are left alone, no woman would be forcing a man to marry her because of pregnancy......(Manipulation)

tobechi20:

If single ladies are not being insulted as if singlehood is a curse, no single girl will be nagging her boyfriend to see her parents or use juju(voodoo) to mesmerise a man..... (Manipulation)

tobechi20:

If divorcees are not seen as worthless, a lot of abused women won't be living with men who are obviously tired of being married who constantly abuse them .... (Manipulation)

tobechi20:

For men.....
You think it's your world, and you go about treating women like thrash, insulting single women by reminding them of their status, calling single mothers prostitutes, and yapping about divorce being a grave sin..... (You are all at the receiving end)
When a single woman gets tired of your tongue lashing, she becomes desperate. And only God knows what a desperate woman can do, because hers claws on any man is permanent..... (Pray never to meet one).
When a single woman becomes pregnant, she forces you to marry her

tobechi20:




As For My Women......
Because you still want to keep pleasing the Naija society at large, you have become desperate.
Some of you live with useless men who haven't't paid one kobo on your heads, and some of you have desperately turned breadwinners, while the man is busy gallivanting about.... hmmm


Because you heard that husbands are scarce, most of you are just grabbing any thing with third leg just to update your Facebook status to "MRS"...... Odiegwu.com


Keep manipulating men to marry you by fire by force, and within few months of your so called marriage, you will bring your marital problems to Facebook pages or groups for advises... (The same advise some of you will ignore now)
Rather be single and be at peace, than being in a marriage that lacks peace.
When love leads two people into marriage, they tend to enjoy the marriage no matter what life throws their way.
But when a marriage is being manipulated upon, it becomes hard work trying to maintain the marriage.
Marriage is not a do or die affair, and the last time I checked, marriage certificate is not the gate pass to heaven's gate.

Tobechi njoku

tobechi20:
Then after the whole manipulation exercise, you both enter another war zone called Marriage..... Lolz
This is when "for better for worse" comes into another form of manipulation.

You will cheat on her, beat her, refuse your responsibility,make babies with other women, bring in women to your matrimonial home, boldly tell her that you are tired and you don't love her...... (


She is now scared of the word "DIVORCE"

Instead of leaving you, she would turn to prayer warrior.... Lolz..... You are on the receiving end.

Keep nagging young girls to marry, keep calling single mothers and divorcees names...... You men are the ones on the receiving end, because you are going to spend the remaining part of your life here on earth with a woman you don't love.

As For My Women......
Because you still want to keep pleasing the Naija society at large, you have become desperate.
Some of you live with useless men who haven't't paid one kobo on your heads, and some of you have desperately turned breadwinners, while the man is busy gallivanting about.... hmmm


Because you heard that husbands are scarce, most of you are just grabbing any thing with third leg just to update your Facebook status to "MRS"...... Odiegwu.com


Keep manipulating men to marry you by fire by force, and within few months of your so called marriage, you will bring your marital problems to Facebook pages or groups for advises... (The same advise some of you will ignore now)
Rather be single and be at peace, than being in a marriage that lacks peace.
When love leads two people into marriage, they tend to enjoy the marriage no matter what life throws their way.
But when a marriage is being manipulated upon, it becomes hard work trying to maintain the marriage.
Marriage is not a do or die affair, and the last time I checked, marriage certificate is not the gate pass to heaven's gate.


Tobechi njoku

Timbuktou:
B

First things first, Tobechi20, get a girlfriend in the real world, get laid and stop looking for cheap puzzy on nairaland. You are marked, mister. Some of us will not tolerate foolishness from "men" in these parts.

lomaxx:
Marriage is a choice. And if anybody feels they can stay happy unmarried, then they should stay that way. This country is a democratic country and the constitution affords everyone a freedom of choice. No one should choose to get married and come here to say they were manipulated. That's blatant rubbish!!!