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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by justscorch: 8:23pm On Jan 19, 2015
*scratches head*

I only enter pant cos it's warm nikan oh,didn't know they were other reasons aside from that oh

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 19, 2015
SuperMann:
lolzzzz..u av no idea how long i av stayed without getting laid..am human with an active rod pls,not a robot.. cheesy







Hmmm...interesting,,,how active is your rod? tame your rod sugar

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by dammytosh: 8:24pm On Jan 19, 2015
All these ?


It is simply because they are hard on.

Why complicate reasons for us gentle men. grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 19, 2015
jmoore:
I still don't get this statement "If you don't want sex, don't enter any relationship" .
Dating is not mating for crying out loud.
Best way is to define your boundaries at the first meeting. Ask the girl on the first date if she is pro or anti premarital sex. If both of you share same values then continue, but if you don't share same values please quit.

While ds is actually the ideal way to go about it...doing so will only set you up for deceit as every woman you meet especially 9ja girls will say no to pre-marital sex

even if they're full-time runz girlz & ds will eventually fooool you into seeing a sexless relationship as the standard whereas the babe go dey service her congo for another

bobo side & may eventually dump you for not being a sharp guy...your method is just like asking for a girl's permission to kiss her after she's given you the greenlights..its

a huge turnoff for her...does that mean she doesn't wanna be kissed? Hell no! Women are complicated you gotta be wise when dealing with dem or else..OYO.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by nkemdi89(f): 8:25pm On Jan 19, 2015
I agree with that but why most ladies easily succumb is asa result of most of them not being independent its nt. Only financial independence but also the ability. To make firm decisions without comprimising it. Most especially a lady who is financially independent is always in charge in her relationship thereby protecting u frm cowards and allowing the real man who knows ur worth to come closer.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 19, 2015
tosyne2much:
I don't encourage fornication tongue
#sobers... :-(
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 19, 2015
brito:








Hmmm...interesting,,,how active is your rod? tame your rod sugar
undecided Is it an animal to get tamed..Anyways,when reffering to my IT..Kindly add tame "Sir Godzilla"..lol
Off this thread..am getting too deep..
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by gfullmoon(m): 8:25pm On Jan 19, 2015
Most Nigerian Ladies have this mentality that if you don't log-in you're a jew man. The most annoying of it is that most gals that want no sex makes monetary demand pass in many guises.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by donephi(m): 8:27pm On Jan 19, 2015
twerkjack:
SEX IS IMPORTANT...., TRUST ME I KNOW wink
wow! I didn't know pls tell me more
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by twerkjack: 8:27pm On Jan 19, 2015
donephi:
wow! I didn't know pls tell me more
HEHE PERV...
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by DJCRAZY(m): 8:29pm On Jan 19, 2015
vizkiz:
women sef don dey tire me small small undecided

Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jan 19, 2015
SuperMann:
undecided Is it an animal to get tamed..Anyways,when reffering to my IT..Kindly add tame "Sir Godzilla"..lol
Off this thread..am getting too deep..




You have started again,,,,,How was your day?
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 19, 2015
brito:





You have started again,,,,,How was your day?
InBtw..and hope urz went really ish-free?

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by duni04(m): 8:30pm On Jan 19, 2015
rubey:


You didn't just typed that! shocked
Yeeepa!
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by donephi(m): 8:31pm On Jan 19, 2015
twerkjack:
HEHE PERV...
only perv knw anoda
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by AreaFada2: 8:31pm On Jan 19, 2015
cutieberie1:


ok so dont marry hw do u know she z meetin anoda guy
.
Ma'm, a girl once feigned virgin to me. But I couldn't believe that such a "beautilicious" babe at her age could be one. I was actually beginning to give her the benefit of the doubt already. You know that coming from a Christian home yan na. But I still insisted.
My dear, the babe nor virgin nothing, na just run-off-the-mill" channel. cheesy

Anyway, I wasn't looking for a virgin, I wasn't virgin myself. I wanted to take things more serious sha.

But the shock came. I found out she had abortion at 16 (years earlier). And compromised her fertility. She & her family denied it.

That really pissed me off. That deception. They were trying to push a virgin-forming girl with post abortion fertility wahala on me.

Anyway, tests (after she dragged her feet to do scans for so long) confirmed the damage.

A lot of men commenting here have bad experiences that you don't know of.
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by DJCRAZY(m): 8:31pm On Jan 19, 2015
tosyne2much:
Critics is something that is inevitable in life, therefore I will keep doing what I'm good at no matter how people criticize nor condemn because that's my style & that's what makes me unique.

**Just grab your aboniki balm & read meticulously **

Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships

1. Ladies Who Don't Allow Sex Often Misbehave
I know that most ladies will disagree with this point but there's an atom of truth in it. As a matter of fact, most ladies (not all though) who don't allow sex in relationships often misbehave because they know they have nothing to lose. Most of them might not even think twice b4 dumping you because they are not sexually attached to you

2. They Don't Want To Be Tagged Mugu
YES ! Many dudes seem to be very careful in dealing with ladies who always claims that sex is NOT a yardstick for LOVE yet these ladies will screw you, extort you & will never want you to get under their pants. These same ladies will go to their friends and tell them how MUGU you are.

3. Wrong Orientation
I grew up with an orientation and mentality of " NO DULL YOURSELF" when dealing with a lady who doesn't want SEX in a relationship because another dude somewhere might just be doing the work while you are playing the role of ROMEO.. Hahaha !!! Isn't that funny ? I'm pretty sure I'm NOT the only one with this orientation & mentality

4. To Boost Their Ego
MY OPINION on why guys want sex in relationships is to boost their EGO, or make them feel "PROUD, more so, they derive JOY in it"; thinking "oh, straph that girl! she was so nice.. blah blah" but dont take under the consideration on how the girl feels like sure

5. To Have Dominion & Control
Some dudes have the belief that sex will make them have total control and have dominion over a lady, therefore they don't joke with sex in a relationship because once a girl has sex she is considered "USED" but a guy can lie about his past and nobody can prove otherwise. It's
totally unfair but that is the reality of
today's society.

6. It Is My Duty & Entitlement
Hahaha !!! This also got me cracking. Some dudes who are in relationships don't have a reason why they should have sex with you. They only feel it is their DUTY and it's their ENTITLEMENT as a boyfriend. That's all grin

7. Emotional Attachment
Many dudes only want sex because they believe it will make a lady stay glued. #if I hear#

8. The experience Of Friends
They must have heard about their friends' experiences of how they loved and dated ladies who lied about being a virgin for almost 4 year & she they later caught sleeping with another dude with their two naked eyes. Many dudes are brainwashed by others experiences, therefore they don't wouldn't want to experience that

9. Sex Is Love
There's this saying amongst youth that sex is important in a relationship but NOT a necessity. However, many dudes wrongly interprete this saying and will always want sex so as to know how true a ladies is into them. However, some guys will tell you anything to get sex, even though they don't love. Some will promise to open a supermarket for you, some will promise you marriage, therefore if you really love them you would have sex with them.

10. Sex Urge (Konji)
All the aforementioned points still boil down to SEX URGE (Konji). The hormone testosterone is
very strong in MOST young guys that they don't even hide it. Some are able to curb their urge while some are crazy about it as if their lives depend on it. This is the major reasons why guy always want to have sex.


Written by: Tosyne2much

Source : https://tosyne2much..com

Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by DJCRAZY(m): 8:34pm On Jan 19, 2015
don't mean to misbehave..... but rili is because of this
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by twerkjack: 8:38pm On Jan 19, 2015
donephi:
only perv knw anoda
OK I OFFICIALLY HATE U embarassed
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by twerkjack: 8:38pm On Jan 19, 2015
donephi:
only perv knw anoda
.
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by moderatorr1: 8:39pm On Jan 19, 2015
kanji ...lol

Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by emmathebigg(m): 8:40pm On Jan 19, 2015
vizkiz:
women sef don dey tire me small small undecided
me too bro i think say na only me self....
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by davidodesanmi: 8:41pm On Jan 19, 2015
Are u a forklift electrical engineer,with experience,pls call this no for immediate employment....call 09092925709...
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jan 19, 2015
dechandel:
Thanks much smiley

There elaboration skills on science and technology is nice. As well as the compilation of historical events.

But then again. I keep seeing walking skeletons when i stay up all night on listverse grin
Thats why i concentrate on there pop culture stories tongue

Pls wats listverse? I want to see skeleton.
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by ares245(m): 8:49pm On Jan 19, 2015
If u sucking off his greens......he will be fucking off ur pants
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by dechandel(f): 8:50pm On Jan 19, 2015
Bridgetown:


Pls wats listverse? I want to see skeleton.
grin grin grin
Bikozienu. I have had enough laugh for today

Go dig someone's grave na tongue
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Rexnegro(m): 8:53pm On Jan 19, 2015
tosyne2much:
Critics is something that is inevitable in life, therefore I will keep doing what I'm good at no matter how people criticize nor condemn because that's my style & that's what makes me unique.

**Just grab your aboniki balm & read meticulously **

Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships

1. Ladies Who Don't Allow Sex Often Misbehave
I know that most ladies will disagree with this point but there's an atom of truth in it. As a matter of fact, most ladies (not all though) who don't allow sex in relationships often misbehave because they know they have nothing to lose. Most of them might not even think twice b4 dumping you because they are not sexually attached to you

2. They Don't Want To Be Tagged Mugu
YES ! Many dudes seem to be very careful in dealing with ladies who always claims that sex is NOT a yardstick for LOVE yet these ladies will screw you, extort you & will never want you to get under their pants. These same ladies will go to their friends and tell them how MUGU you are.

3. Wrong Orientation
I grew up with an orientation and mentality of " NO DULL YOURSELF" when dealing with a lady who doesn't want SEX in a relationship because another dude somewhere might just be doing the work while you are playing the role of ROMEO.. Hahaha !!! Isn't that funny ? I'm pretty sure I'm NOT the only one with this orientation & mentality

4. To Boost Their Ego
MY OPINION on why guys want sex in relationships is to boost their EGO, or make them feel "PROUD, more so, they derive JOY in it"; thinking "oh, straph that girl! she was so nice.. blah blah" but dont take under the consideration on how the girl feels like sure

5. To Have Dominion & Control
Some dudes have the belief that sex will make them have total control and have dominion over a lady, therefore they don't joke with sex in a relationship because once a girl has sex she is considered "USED" but a guy can lie about his past and nobody can prove otherwise. It's
totally unfair but that is the reality of
today's society.

6. It Is My Duty & Entitlement
Hahaha !!! This also got me cracking. Some dudes who are in relationships don't have a reason why they should have sex with you. They only feel it is their DUTY and it's their ENTITLEMENT as a boyfriend. That's all grin

7. Emotional Attachment
Many dudes only want sex because they believe it will make a lady stay glued. #if I hear#

8. The experience Of Friends
They must have heard about their friends' experiences of how they loved and dated ladies who lied about being a virgin for almost 4 year & she they later caught sleeping with another dude with their two naked eyes. Many dudes are brainwashed by others experiences, therefore they don't wouldn't want to experience that

9. Sex Is Love
There's this saying amongst youth that sex is important in a relationship but NOT a necessity. However, many dudes wrongly interprete this saying and will always want sex so as to know how true a ladies is into them. However, some guys will tell you anything to get sex, even though they don't love. Some will promise to open a supermarket for you, some will promise you marriage, therefore if you really love them you would have sex with them.

10. Sex Urge (Konji)
All the aforementioned points still boil down to SEX URGE (Konji). The hormone testosterone is
very strong in MOST young guys that they don't even hide it. Some are able to curb their urge while some are crazy about it as if their lives depend on it. This is the major reasons why guy always want to have sex.


Written by: Tosyne2much

Source : https://tosyne2much..com
U again tosyne ? I just so like dis guy...always expecting his meaningful thread topic...thumbs up baba tell them d truth....so ladies pls start to give sex now to ur guy....tosyne has said d truth.

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Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by braindamage(m): 8:56pm On Jan 19, 2015
dechandel:
grin grin grin
Bikozienu. I have had enough laugh for today

Go dig someone's grave na tongue
grin grin...u just f**king weird.. They really had to smoke some during your creation. Please tell him the grave to dig/grave number..or he could simply watch Crime Investigation to see how bodies are exhumed.. grin grin
Re: Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jan 19, 2015
shocked Is that what 'konji' means? Then what is 'kitty katty' or 'bleep' shocked

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