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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by ddippset(m): 6:06pm On Jan 20, 2015
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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by hazyfm1: 6:07pm On Jan 20, 2015
FUNNY

But @ OP, Where u there?
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by soulglo: 6:07pm On Jan 20, 2015
freeboy604:


Only if you are not a toddler, you would have understand that I have the right to make my submission and not to be insulted, and I wish my second young brother could see you in person, you would have learn to make your contributions and not insult others.

Did I insult you? Ok I said get the heck out of town.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 20, 2015
Op if he truly love u he would understand and still love u more.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Youngandactive: 6:08pm On Jan 20, 2015
shun violence

Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 20, 2015
She's a hoe grin
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Zellie: 6:10pm On Jan 20, 2015
Is your husband a virgin? Or its not important because only girls are required to keep their virginity as its their dignity?
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by adolphusberit(m): 6:10pm On Jan 20, 2015
U dey lie , i nor believe u talk anoda story ....
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by undercat: 6:10pm On Jan 20, 2015
There is a morbid fascination with vaginas on here.

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by raumdeuter: 6:11pm On Jan 20, 2015
The husband probably thinks all the while he was dating you and abstaining, you were regularly shinning your ponmo with some other guy(s)

He would definitely be disappointed and feel betrayed

A good solution is to buy a brand new tin of ketchup with the seal on top and let him use his abunna to pierce the covering to have the sensation of disvirginning someone especially when the ketchup spills out he go see red plenty

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by mediachirps(m): 6:12pm On Jan 20, 2015
fool.. blabbing like buhari when he was asked for credentials.

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 20, 2015
Remarry!! Just joking sha
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Isiterere(m): 6:13pm On Jan 20, 2015
....NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
I won't buy this explanation of yours if i'm the husband. Why not tell him this secret all this while...I blame your mum for just telling you now. What stopped her from telling you when you're in your teen.
Women: fear GOD ooooo
ALL IZZ WELL
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by RotrEmmanuel: 6:13pm On Jan 20, 2015
Was the hole frictionless when he was doing it if yes, then it means u were fvcking somewhere here in Africa before u got married to him.

And again, if at age 4 u can't recall u were bleeped, then your brain is like Buhari's own!?

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by kilokeys(m): 6:14pm On Jan 20, 2015
is ur Husband a ritualist?..
why is he keen on seeing blood ehn?

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jan 20, 2015
amokeme:
its really awkward

What is awkward about this issue? What of ladies who discuss with their Mother-Inlaw by informing them that their husband refused to make love to them because is one thing or the other, will you also discredit my submission? Is just that some of you are still inexperienced in this matter.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 20, 2015
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by vimexis(m): 6:16pm On Jan 20, 2015
Shallow or not, ur husband ain't @ fault one bit he expected to c proof of ur claims which is not too much to ask for. It was @ one point reasonable for ur parents to keep that tragic incident from u but problem is they lingered far too long. So trust me ur parents deserve 99.9% of the blame. Talk to ya husband and he'll understand

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by ohepocj(m): 6:18pm On Jan 20, 2015
Tell him the truth ooooooo
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jan 20, 2015
ohepocj:
Tell him the truth ooooooo

What truth?
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by eminent007(m): 6:20pm On Jan 20, 2015
megareal:
Hubby is just showing his ignorance. Some women dnt bleed their first time. Get someone maturer to explain that to him...Even if you weren't abused as a kid, you still may not have bled.



"Maturer"?
You can do better than that please.
Meanwhile to the writer, ask your virgin-loving, short-sighted myopic hubby if he is a virgin before your first sex together.
Yeye.
Abegi, make e go de lick sour soup. [No insult meant]
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by PAGAN9JA(m): 6:21pm On Jan 20, 2015
I feel really sad that you were abused at such a tender age. May the Gods punish that evil.

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jan 20, 2015
Fplks often claim it is not mandatory to see blood during the first day of sex but they need to keep in mind that there is a difference between penile penetration and other things getting 'in'.

Nost of these girls often get raped as the OPs case or get severely fingered while growing up or they touch themselves so much that something happens to their 'cover'.


Make una nor give us the 'it is not a must BS'.

Una don too do the mummy and daddy rubbish and got finger bleeped too much.

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by tellwisdom: 6:22pm On Jan 20, 2015
Op, do you have big yansh?? sad
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by eminent007(m): 6:23pm On Jan 20, 2015
ohepocj:
Tell him the truth ooooooo



And which bloody truth is there to tell?
Guy, go lie down sleep.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by 12ema: 6:24pm On Jan 20, 2015
Some men are really weird. They sleep with everything in skirts and expect to marry a virgin. I wonder what goes on their warped male machismo minds. Do they think they are the only player in town? Whoever expects to marry a virgin in this day and age is totally naive. If you find one all when and good but if not, suck it up.
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by LesbianBoy(m): 6:24pm On Jan 20, 2015
OP you must be MAD for scamming your husband!
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by valdes00(m): 6:25pm On Jan 20, 2015
Many ppl r missin sumtin here, u guys r xpectin a secondary virgin to bleed..... She said a man abused her wen she ws 4yrs, dat means she ws nt a virgin... D man broke d hymen den n witout d hymen, u aint a virgin.... Many no go stil gree

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Melinde: 6:27pm On Jan 20, 2015
jaelz:
I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.
In my own opinion you should let him know of what happened in the past and your parents should be the ones to tell the story... Good luck in your marriage
Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by AJOT99(m): 6:27pm On Jan 20, 2015
This is serious!

Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by Nobody: 6:27pm On Jan 20, 2015
Pinshure of wat we're talkin abt or.....

.
Well,the husband should just 4get it,gettin a virgin these days is lyk looking 4 a certain man's certificate

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Re: My Husband Thinks I Lied 2 Him About My Virginity Bcz I Didnt Bleed The 1st Time by JoBabs(m): 6:30pm On Jan 20, 2015
imsuboi:
No offense.. Your husband is an illiterate like Buhari undecided


U be cow...... Nincompoop....

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