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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Badgers14: 8:36pm On Jan 20, 2015
blesie:
I had been trained to see sex as a sin, my mom never really talked to me about sex, all i heard was that sex was a sin and must be avoided at all cost.

When i was in my SS1, i fell in love for the first time but the moment the guy touched my breast when we were in his room, i almost fainted because of shock, i ran away as if the guy was evil, so since then i thought to myself if touching my breast could shock that much, what about sex, to worsen the issue, when Yaba market use to be full before Fashola cleared it off, i was shopping for skirts in the market, a guy selling clothes touched my breast deliberately pretending he was asking me to come and buy, the same shocked happened, i shouted and cried in the market and when people asked me i told them he touched my breast they laughed, they did not understand why i should cry because of that, so since then i just don't go near guys like that, i just hang out in the open with them and avoid touches.

Then i met my husband(i dont want to go through how we met again) and after few years we got married.

The night before i got married my mom had told me that i should obey my husband and do everything he asked me to, but she still did not tell me about sex, i stayed through out the night before my wedding day, thinking of what sex will look like, how im going to manage the shock etc.

The wedding night came and behold, it bounce on me like a dream, my husband did not understand the shock, he thought i was being stubborn like i use to be or trying to deny him of sex, so he had his way and when he saw i wasnt enjoying it, he used to punish me with sex.

I came here on Nairaland to seek opinion, a lovely lady with the handle abi moniker (robedu) contacted me when she saw my marriage was almost crashing, she called me out to her office and we started hanging out, she told me her own virginity story and i was thrilled, she bought me books, send me links online and usually coach me on what to do,she was just amazing and selfless, its wonderful how other people can take up the pains of others and make it their own, in less than 2 weeks after i met her, my orientation on sex had changed, i became stronger and more eager to have sex.

And now, i am enjoying sex like mad, my husband who was behaving like a sex addict can't stand me anymore. thanks to all who commented on my previous posts - MARRIAGE IS SWEET - GO GET MARRIED LOL

Good to know you are doing good now. I Still remember your post like it was yesterday, because I did understand what you were going through and did share my personal experience as well. Do you remember my response Thank me later. wink
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Mutuwa(m): 8:47pm On Jan 20, 2015
SweetyZinta:
Lols! Am in mx too, how come i didn't knw its cashew time?

Yan matan mx kenan.. grin
Lallae kin hadu.I may bring some for u,if and only if I know where u are..
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
runs to go and book flight for you. Dats so sweet of u serzly. Watz ur fav meal?
lol my fav meal was fried rice with chicken and salad and white wine (i never even taste white wine grin )
but now.. I dont know.. I wanna eat everything in the whole world bfor i can choose my fav ^^
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
lol my fav meal was fried rice with chicken and salad and white wine (i never even taste white wine grin )
but now.. I dont know.. I wanna eat everything in the whole world bfor i can choose my fav ^^
hahahaHhaha watz wite wine sef... Yu knw wat I think?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
hahahaHhaha watz wite wine sef... Yu knw wat I think?
lol i dnt knw sef, i saw it on tv grin
what do you think?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by ITbomb(m): 9:01pm On Jan 20, 2015
robedu:
Aww.. Blessing! didn't know you will come to publicize this, i am very happy you are enjoying your union,

God bless you a thousand times
Can you do the same thing for me?
I'm a secondary virgin grin
Let's meet one and one with the tapes and videos
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:03pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
lol i dnt knw sef, i saw it on tv grin
what do you think?
I think yu are adventurous... Like you luv to try out new things.... Smth tells me you are libra
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by bebo4real(m): 9:05pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
awwww! so happy to hear that! u welcm grin
i cnt wait to get married n see what sex feels like.
my grandma jus said same tin..I bliv u both

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
I think yu are adventurous... Like you luv to try out new things.... Smth tells me you are libra
thanks sweerie cheesy and do u knw what i think of u? U are adorable and fun to be with smiley honestly speaking.
Ummm whats libra?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
thanks sweerie cheesy and do u knw what i think of u? U are adorable and fun to be with smiley honestly speaking.
Ummm whats libra?
thnks. Its cool bein real with frnds u respect so much and value and I guess I hold u of high esteem. Urm by the way, libra is one of the signs of the zodiac. There are 12 zodiac signs and libra is one of themm they describe people's personality in general and how they affect other people's lives. Actually dese zodiac signs are assigned to each of the 12 months in d calendar. So if maybe u are born between october and november 22nd den ur zodiac sign wil be scorpio just like me smiley.. Wats ur birthday anyways?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jan 20, 2015
blesie:
I had been trained to see sex as a sin, my mom never really talked to me about sex, all i heard was that sex was a sin and must be avoided at all cost.

When i was in my SS1, i fell in love for the first time but the moment the guy touched my breast when we were in his room, i almost fainted because of shock, i ran away as if the guy was evil, so since then i thought to myself if touching my breast could shock that much, what about sex, to worsen the issue, when Yaba market use to be full before Fashola cleared it off, i was shopping for skirts in the market, a guy selling clothes touched my breast deliberately pretending he was asking me to come and buy, the same shocked happened, i shouted and cried in the market and when people asked me i told them he touched my breast they laughed, they did not understand why i should cry because of that, so since then i just don't go near guys like that, i just hang out in the open with them and avoid touches.

Then i met my husband(i dont want to go through how we met again) and after few years we got married.

The night before i got married my mom had told me that i should obey my husband and do everything he asked me to, but she still did not tell me about sex, i stayed through out the night before my wedding day, thinking of what sex will look like, how im going to manage the shock etc.

The wedding night came and behold, it bounce on me like a dream, my husband did not understand the shock, he thought i was being stubborn like i use to be or trying to deny him of sex, so he had his way and when he saw i wasnt enjoying it, he used to punish me with sex.

I came here on Nairaland to seek opinion, a lovely lady with the handle abi moniker (robedu) contacted me when she saw my marriage was almost crashing, she called me out to her office and we started hanging out, she told me her own virginity story and i was thrilled, she bought me books, send me links online and usually coach me on what to do,she was just amazing and selfless, its wonderful how other people can take up the pains of others and make it their own, in less than 2 weeks after i met her, my orientation on sex had changed, i became stronger and more eager to have sex.

And now, i am enjoying sex like mad, my husband who was behaving like a sex addict can't stand me anymore. thanks to all who commented on my previous posts - MARRIAGE IS SWEET - GO GET MARRIED LOL
Never!
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
thnks. Its cool bein real with frnds u respect so much and value and I guess I hold u of high esteem. Urm by the way, libra is one of the signs of the zodiac. There are 12 zodiac signs and libra is one of themm they describe people's personality in general and how they affect other people's lives. Actually dese zodiac signs are assigned to each of the 12 months in d calendar. So if maybe u are born between october and november 22nd den ur zodiac sign wil be scorpio just like me smiley.. Wats ur birthday anyways?
hmm im learning things i never knew. I use to see those zodiac stuff on celebs profile, i never actually knew what they meant. Im a december baby cool so im descorpio?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Ehimenboy(m): 9:29pm On Jan 20, 2015
robedu:
Aww.. Blessing! didn't know you will come to publicize this, i am very happy you are enjoying your union,

God bless you a thousand times

You've been a blessing to mankind. I wish our world can have more of people such as you. I don't know how to express my appreciation and love for what you've done. In fact, tears are almost beginning to well up in my eyes. GOD BLESS YOU. May God himself secure your marriage.
I hope to be of help to people in similar ways later in time, God helping me. You've even been a source of encouragement to my dreams.
Once again, GOD BLESS YOU.

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
hmm im learning things i never knew. I use to see those zodiac stuff on celebs profile, i never actually knew what they meant. Im a december baby cool so im descorpio?
lol christmas baybee.. grin wat date is it actualy in december? So I'd be specific
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 20, 2015
Liar liar pant$ on fire! Some nlanders can lie eh!

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
lol christmas baybee.. grin wat date is it actualy in december? So I'd be specific
21 dec smiley
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pasqal09 why did u close down my thread?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by pasqal09: 9:38pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
21 dec smiley
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pasqal09 why did u close down my thread?
I stated the reason there.
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jan 20, 2015
pasqal09:

I stated the reason there.
but no other thread like that have been created lately
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by pasqal09: 9:43pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:

but no other thread like that have been created lately
Go through the section properly and readt the rule before creating threads.
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
21 dec smiley
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pasqal09 why did u close down my thread?
urs is definitely saggitarius den.. Urm wah happend? Whch thread did he close?
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jan 20, 2015
pasqal09:

Go through the section properly and readt the rule before creating threads.
ok no p, continue being wicked to me angry
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
urs is definitely saggitarius den.. Urm wah happend? Whch thread did he close?
oh saggitarius.. But its not cool and fresh like scorpio!!! sad
he closed down my latest latest thread, check my profile, u will see it.
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jan 20, 2015
pasqal09:

Go through the section properly and readt the rule before creating threads.
dats not fair bro. She may hav not known such thread was created in d past and you shouldn't hav assumed that she created it knowingly of the fact it was created before. Al d same, uneed to b more subtle
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by pasqal09: 9:57pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
dats not fair bro. She may hav not known such thread was created in d past and you shouldn't hav assumed that she created it knowingly of the fact it was created before. Al d same, uneed to b more subtle
She created a duplicate thread and I locked it. What's not fair abt that?
Bros oya face front!

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
oh saggitarius.. But its not cool and fresh like scorpio!!! sad
he closed down my latest latest thread, check my profile, u will see it.
oh cmon hun, dnt say daht. SaGgitarius hav this free personality dah they r so free wit dem selvs. Lol as for bein fresh, scorpios gat daht. wink well av talked to pascal sha. Just forget abt it.
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
oh cmon hun, dnt say daht. SaGgitarius hav this free personality dah they r so free wit dem selvs. Lol as for bein fresh, scorpios gat daht. wink well av talked to pascal sha. Just forget abt it.
lol yeah yeah. Thanks for keeping me company dear smiley im tired and kinda sleepy.. Wanna go bath and make love to my bad wink take care
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
lol yeah yeah. Thanks for keeping me company dear smiley im tired and kinda sleepy.. Wanna go bath and make love to my bad wink take care
for you, its my pleasure. And as for ur bed, lol dnt get preggie tomoro lolz. Goodnyt angel smiley
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 20, 2015
Cutehector4u:
for you, its my pleasure. And as for ur bed, lol dnt get preggie tomoro lolz. Goodnyt angel smiley
lol goodnite
Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by idu1(m): 10:28pm On Jan 20, 2015
EroticAngelina:
awwww! so happy to hear that! u welcm grin
i cnt wait to get married n see what sex feels like.
EroticAngelina:
awwww! so happy to hear that! u welcm grin
i cnt wait to get married n see what sex feels like.

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by modskiller(m): 11:48pm On Jan 20, 2015
@Robedu, my dating is on the verge of collapse. I'd need some help with practicals if you don't mind. grin no offense please. But I think I'm in lust with you... @Cutehector4u please spare me that, but if you insist that you don't know what it feels like, I can link you to my landlady she's lusting for a good time. Don't ask why I didn't volunteer myself, it's cos I demanded for a pay cut in rent if I do her that favor. grin

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 12:05am On Jan 21, 2015
EroticAngelina:
oh yes!!!! I sleep alot too, it feels so cool and cozy cheesy
correct babe wink

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Re: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by Nobody: 12:19am On Jan 21, 2015
I really dnt understand dis bias mod in dis section,y did u ban me and for wat reason? When d same girl waz abusin and snitchin on me on other threads i didnt say anythin now dat i retaliated by callin her wat she is(ugly tin) u banned me n deleted my post jus becuz she has a puzzy abi no prob God is watchin u guys in 4D

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