naijaboiy:
In this thread,,instead of them to advice you they'll leave the topic at hand and face your husband.

Others will tell you to leave your marriage.

aisha2:
Whats funny is that same people who will abuse you for eating to breas-tfeed will call you a bad mother if you don't breas-tfeed till your baby has all his/ her milk teeth.



Don't allow team " Breas-tfeed till forever " see this statement they will spring it on you one day and use it on a totally different post to abuse you

cococandy:
i do have the tendencies to gain weight in a short time when I eat carelessly so I will be on the alert. Thanks to healthy foods, I believe I can still fill up and not get obese.

Anyway until then my dear cos I can't really say how it will be but if you laugh at me ehn? me and you will put leg inside one trouser

BlackLeopard:
Dear ladies please pardon my skipping into sensitive topic that pregnancy is -

Coco all the health and blessings to both you and your baby! Wishing you all the best.

(And if m reads wrong da thread, still wishing you da best )

Chillisauce:


Abuse me ke, I will literally knock off their e-teeth. Who get time for rubbish



I wont laugh dear, I will just giggle. I saw my very good friend during preggy, I would have sworn she had a nose surgery . The most triple the usual size. All na pregnancy

aisha2:


Lol I trust you, I would have done same to that nasty husband hence the running and crying response was annoying. Food wahala from fried eggs to bread hiannnnnnnnnnn

cococandy:
you mean my future baby? Thanks jare

Chillisauce:


Some dont understand. Every woman is different. Oyibo snap back fast cos most of them don't even breastfeed. The ones that do are not so keen on snapping back in shape soon. Most supplement wwith formula. So my dear,

BlackLeopard:


O ya, I gathered you are expecting, but my reading comprehension 2day is on a toddler level so wasn't sure

Apologies to @TTNI for derail, backing off now

cococandy:
no I'm not expecting.

aisha2:


You forget how easy it is to get a liposuction there try it here and the same crowd will scream abomination.

One guy was going on and on about how hawt Beyonce was months after delivery, I asked him if he would even entertian the thought of his wife using a surrogate he said No. I asked him if he will let his wife if indeed she carried the baby to term have an army of nanny while she spends night and day in the gym getting back in shape so she can flaunt her body to the world, he said No. I asked him if he will be with a woman who publicly admits she doesn't cook, again he said No. I asked him if he had Jay Z's money same answer
Toh you want a Beyonce but you are not ready to put up with anything Jay Z endures and you dont even have the money to support a Beyonce type life style na wa oh

Common epidural they want to commit suicide over they want her to suffer it very well.

bennyrazz:
I think your husband is just joking. Really no harm, he just felt like hurting you and you too took it the wrong way. When he said you eat like a thief, you should have laughed him off or better still turn it into a huge comedy, tell him if he doesn't finish his food on time, you would grab his own and massacre it. Don't let him hurt you with his words rather let your actions hurt him. If you cultivate the attitude of making jest of his words, he would change. In fact, he would come and open a thread on NL to complain like this "my wife does not take me serious, pls help"

aisha2:


You forget how easy it is to get a liposuction there try it here and the same crowd will scream abomination.

One guy was going on and on about how hawt Beyonce was months after delivery, I asked him if he would even entertian the thought of his wife using a surrogate he said No. I asked him if he will let his wife if indeed she carried the baby to term have an army of nanny while she spends night and day in the gym getting back in shape so she can flaunt her body to the world, he said No. I asked him if he will be with a woman who publicly admits she doesn't cook, again he said No. I asked him if he had Jay Z's money same answer
Toh you want a Beyonce but you are not ready to put up with anything Jay Z endures and you dont even have the money to support a Beyonce type life style na wa oh

Common epidural they want to commit suicide over they want her to suffer it very well.

naijaboiy:
In this thread,,instead of them to advice you they'll leave the topic at hand and face your husband.

Others will tell you to leave your marriage.

LordReed:
OP does not find it ironic that after being accused of eating like a thief she goes to the kitchen to find solace? Not the bedroom, not the bathroom but the kitchen. OP check yourself, you too like food.

TTNI:
Its my first time on nairaland, dont like ere much but am here because of how I feel now. Its not like I eat much but there are some certain foods wen I eat I eat it well. Now my appetiete seems to be increasing, I dont know Its because am a breastfeeding mum, my son feeds alot,once I breastfeed him eventhough I just ate I immediately feel hungry again. I dont know if its me or there mums with such change in their diet due to breastfeeding. Please share with me, may be it will stip my husband from making my life miserable.
Yesterday I bought myself a loaf of bread, I ate a quater of it, my husband didnt seem interested but wen he saw me eating I think he got interested. HE said I should serve him some and I said d rest wont satisfy him so I offered to make him something else. Thats how I became his huge topic. He lamented and lamented and ended it saying ,"you eat like a thief" and also said my tommy has grown bigger due to too much eating. If I had my way i would post a photo of me , I am sexy and fit as a lady who has never had kids, men still make passes at me so sorry to say that, and even women walk up to me and admire my shape, am not saying I av a totally flat tommy, but after two kids still looking this way then I tried. Those words hurt me so much that I went into d kitchen and cried. I felt really bad, you know it gets to a point where u just feel its not necessary to tell him how u feel about something he just said or did. So I just moved on acting strong. But I tell u since then I dont eat around him, even if I will eat in d same plate with him I would just take 2_ 3 spoons and leave. And am almost having Inferiority complex like am nt good enough or appealing to him. I am beautiful in my own way but I dont know if he still sees me that way.
I want hear breastfeeding mums lifestyle to diet. So I can compare to mine to know whete and how to fix me. Cos I know my appetite wasnt this bad, I had d appetite quiet alright but not this much. Please mums share ur opinions with me.

Chillisauce:
Op, breastfeeding sucks all they nutrients and energy in you . Just try and replace your gluttony by eating healthy meals and snacks.
Don't mind people crucifying you, if you reduce your intake you might decrease the quantity of supply for your baby, or might faint one day.

Instead of eating half loaf of bread, replace it with protein . Learn about healthy eating, go for a walk outside with your baby. Like that you reduce the contact you have with food.

You can also introduce baby formula, at least it will help you retain some energy for yourself.

Hang on there, your healthy baby is more important. It's just 6months, baby will relieve you of that duty by eating solids.


as for your husband, just ignore him. You know some men can nag. He never know how Hungar dey wire person

Phema:


Thanks dear. I replied your PM, but didn't hear from you afterwards.

It will be nice if you can reach me, somehow, so i get some insight into the person's situation.

moca:

Nne, my fone na asheewo
Didn't see anything.

Just normal first preggy thing.
Hubby will foot d bill.
She don't hv anybody to stay with.
Want to know d estimate so she can tell hubby and start making contact.
She will join d thread if all goes well.

Hope u and baby r cool.
Hubby should be ecstatic I assume?

KanwuliaJara:


Thank you a million times! Nothing more to h-add!!!!