There's this chick that I became friends with.So when got closer I noticed that someone wanted to marry her but later it didn't work out because of genotype,but she still maintained close relationship with the guy.We started hanging out often and I started getting emotionally attached to this chick and I also noticed that she felt the same way too.But I did everything possible to conceal my feelings cos I thought It would be premature to make any move,so I kept everything on the low.She came to my house and hanged out,we played and all that.We she was about to leave,she turned and said to me "I know you want to tell me something,so stop beating about the bush".And I move quickly to deny it.Once she leaves,after some minutes she ll log unto Whatsapp and we ll chat for like 2-3hrs.And she ll keep telling me to stop beating about the bush and tell her what I have in mind.So on this fateful day,she came to my house,I sat her down and summoned the courage and told her my mind.Finally you know girls and their shakara naa.We were lying down and cuddling each other,and she told me that she's likes me very well.But she's not ready for any relationship for now,that even if she ll be in a relationship with someone,its a relationship that will lead to marriage.And she asked me whether "I will marry her".Hahaha..Me? I boned!!! So finally,she said that she ll think about what I told her.Hmmmmm...and she's still thinking about it up till this moment.The issue is that each time that we re talking,she will say that we r just friends and that I'm her best friend.WTF!!! If I don't call her in the morning if I wake up,there will be trouble.She will start ranting.If I don't call her or send sms before going to bed,wahala go dey.She go come my house first thing in the morning come shout.Loooool.She sees me with another girl,she won't allow me to hold her hand again.And yet she wants me to be playing the role of a boyfriend/lover and still maintains that we re just friends.Me don tire for the whole pattern and I want out entirley.Please Advice.

She wants in totally, you want in partially, you are at an impasse.

Try and sex her and forget about her, afterall u dont need to be in a r/ship with her before sexing her,
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She want put all her wahala for ur body using u as signboard

Relationship status - complicated.

Selfishness

basically she wants to get married and since ur not ready she's keeping u on the side for ''just incase''. almost every girl does this they all want to eat there cake and still have it.

my advice try to be a bit persuasive she might come around.. if she doesn't then get a new girl to give attention to the girl doesn't really need to be ur gf. just get a girl that will make her jealous. trust me she'll get so jealouse girls are like dat.

Relationship status: CONFUSED

Nawa o! Jx 4get abt her abeg! I dislyk gals who av side guys. She wan get married, bt she no want rltnshp Senseless.

she's just being paranoid, don't give her much attention, she will definitely be on her knees for you

Sparksfly:
Stop deceiving yourself.
You know what to do to geeeet out.

lolzzzz....guy...ur own better....@least you can keep playin the role of a close friend nd koloby her 1day

ritababe:
Try and sex her and forget about her, afterall u dont need to be in a r/ship with her before sexing her,
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She want put all her wahala for ur body using u as signboard

pls tell me u didn't mean to type this. plsss.

EroticAngelina:
Nawa o! Jx 4get abt her abeg! I dislyk gals who av side guys. She wan get married, bt she no want rltnshp Senseless.

no be you dey claim holiness the other day? Chineke meeee!

EroticAngelina:
Nawa o! Jx 4get abt her abeg! I dislyk gals who av side guys. She wan get married, bt she no want rltnshp Senseless.

Too hasty to insult d lady in question.
She wants a relationship heading towards marriage, not to be used and dumped.

ritababe:
Try and sex her and forget about her, afterall u dont need to be in a r/ship with her before sexing her,
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She want put all her wahala for ur body using u as signboard

u just spoke my mind. now I'm convinced great minds think alike.

Etetejake:


pls tell me u didn't mean to type this. plsss.

the way wey somegirls dey do dey vex me sometimes....

Imagine if that guy get exam to write na so the girl go just distract am, if u dont want to be his girlfriend leave him alone...

HizMissy:

Too hasty to insult d lady in question.
She wants a relationship heading towards marriage, not to be used and dumped.

since she knows the guy is not ready, why imprison his mind?

EroticAngelina:
Nawa o! Jx 4get abt her abeg! I dislyk gals who av side guys. She wan get married, bt she no want rltnshp Senseless.

i wonder oh, if she no want r/ship how she go take understand the guy when them marry?

ritababe:


since she knows the guy is not ready, why imprison his mind?

Maybe she is hoping against hope.

Dude, you should be the one should leave her cos u have no plans for her

Cc ritababe, your reply no make sense as a girl

Marry her nah ...abii u never old to marry

I like the fact that you did not deceive her. You have to man up and let her go since you are not ready for such relationship. Break the yoke bruh

Some girls can be so confuse about what they really want...

Guy, why did you allow the discussion to swerve near "marriage" na? It's your response that caused all this gobe. Best thing is to bone her side for like 3 days. She has no right to be jealous over you since you're just friends.

you are her ASSISTANT BOYFRIEND for now.

2sExy1:
Dude, you should be the one should leave her cos u have no plans for her

Cc ritababe, your reply no make sense as a girl

I know but that's my opinion

mencade4:
you are her ASSISTANT BOYFRIEND for now.

exactly

Asking a girl out is so old sch.....let her decide what she wants by you taking action (act as a bf) then from her reaction you will get a clearer picture.....words these days don't count

ritababe:


I know but that's my opinion

so you would rather fvck a guy in that instance?

Sparksfly:
Stop deceiving yourself.
You know what to do to geeeet out.

2sExy1:
Dude, you should be the one should leave her cos u have no plans for her

Cc ritababe, your reply no make sense as a girl

Is it when I propose to her you ll know that I have plans for her?Smh.You re here saying I should leave her alone.Lmao,dude abeg I no hold am ooooooh.She told me last night that she ll be going to 6am mass today and that we should go together and I declined and told her that I want to go to 6:00pm evening mass.She said its ok.This morning she sent me a message telling me that she didn't go to 6:00am mass again and that we will go to evening mass together.So WTF!!!!