Please I need advice on what to do, I have decided to change my church from the main family church to a new one mainly because I find peace and rest of mind in this new church unlike the other where you can't comfortably sit because gossipers are every where and they are both bible-believing church but my Dad has threatened to deal with me if I change saying he owns my life and he decides what I do with it and so I can't leave the church but that's where my mind is and I believe I own my life so I decide what I do with it and also have been experiencing unexpected miracle since I joined this church. Please I need your advice on what to do. Thanks

Tell Us d church name so dat we'll advise u accordingly

demelza:
As long as you are in your dad's house and he's the one responsible for your welfare, do what he says.
When you leave, go to whatever church you want to.

Gbam!

Which church are you changing from and to where?

Miracles only comes to individual by faith, or sometimes favor. if ur dad says no, the truth might be harsh., but u must obey ur parents even d bible condemns disobedience.The best u can do is to pray about it, n talk 2 pple who u know r close to him to convince him.

eleko1:
Tell U d church name so dat we'll advise u accordingly

Fire brand Assembly

No Church is the best.

Princecalm:
Which church are you changing from and to where?

From Restoration Ministry to Fire Brand Assembly

demelza:
As long as you are in your dad's house and he's the one responsible for your welfare, do what he says.
When you leave, go to whatever church you want to.

Okay Thanks a lot

Daisydeevarh:
From Restoration Ministry to Fire Brand Assembly

since you can't stay without help from your father interms of finance i think you should just adhere because the reason you are giving for leaving the church is not a valuable one to him.

Kinda depends on how old you are whether or not you live with him at a certain age you should be allowed to make some kinda choices for yourself so i guess you still very young hence his strong stand on the issue

As long as I am under his roof, I will obey my father and continue going to his church. I can still go to mine on weekdays activities until when I am old enough to stay on my own, then I will decide which church to attend

Princecalm:
since you can't stay without help from your father interms of finance i think you should just adhere because the reason you are giving for leaving the church is not a valuable one to him.

Yea I know but my father ain't the one financing me my mum is, he hardly drops money for us as children my mum is the one doing everything but I would try and stick to your advice

Daisydeevarh:
Yea I know but my father ain't the one financing me my mum is, he hardly drops money for us as children my mum is the one doing everything but I would try and stick to your advice

all right.

Listen to/obey ur father,so that it may be well with U.U can't control/teach Ur father d diff betw A/B.Since U still live under the same roof with ur parent,pls dnt disobey them.they won't control U if u are in citadel of learning(Uni,poy/college)Pls dear,exercise patience make dey nor follow U go embrass u 4 ur new found church/accused ur Pastor of em(u get it?

Daisydeevarh:
Fire brand Assembly

bless U

chymystique:
@daisydeevarh, am also having same ish too. What I do is anytime am in my parents house I attend the family church even though in my mind its just my body that's there not soul and I dont participate in anything @ all. I just go to church and count hours till closing time .. as long as you stay under there roof you just ve to Obey dear... its of no use trying to convince or proving to be strong headed to such fathers cause they will think you ve been brainwashed.

Thanks guess I have to do dsame

eleko1:
Listen to/obey ur father,so that it may be well with U.U can't control/teach Ur father d diff betw A/B.Since U still live under the same roof with ur parent,pls dnt disobey them.they won't control U if u are in citadel of learning(Uni,poy/college)Pls dear,exercise patience make dey nor follow U go embrass u 4 ur new found church/accused ur Pastor of em(u get it?bless U

Lol....Thanks a lot

Op..i had dis same ish early dis year but mine was successful..the reasons are

i Just graduated from uni..waiting for nysc..although in my early twenties..maturity is a major factor...

Parents are more protective over girls than guys..ur father might feel u av an ulterior motive for your decision(like maybe ur trying to get close to a guy in the new church or sometin)..

u could still try convince them on the reasons they should grant you wish..
but if its nt possible just endure till you are independent...

Good luck

Just take it easy.No bi there U'll live. 4eva.

Daisydeevarh:
Lol....Thanks a lot

Daisydeevarh:
I find peace and rest of mind in this new church unlike the other where you can't comfortably sit because gossipers are every where and they are both bible-believing church

So ,there are bible non believing church? Hmmmm....... all these new generation Christian eh. This is exactly the sunni and shia brands in Islam where one believes that the are more of obeying Koran than the other thereby forming boko haram and ISIS.
When there are more than 3 persons in any gathering, even saints, there must be an element of gossip and squabble. You might not be seeing it in your assumed new bribe (new church) but as you go deeper, your eyes will open and you start looking for a new church again until one day you will go to the one that will disorganized you.
Young woman, be careful. At your age, people think that the are wiser than their parents. Chill small.

Pray over it

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Since they are both bible believing church just stay jejely. Besides you are a woman and you wont attend the church forever

How does dat put food on my table?

Stop going to church either ehh.

Daisydeevarh:
Please I need advice on what to do, I have decided to change my church from the main family church to a new one mainly because I find peace and rest of mind in this new church unlike the other where you can't comfortably sit because gossipers are every where and they are both bible-believing church but my Dad has threatened to deal with me if I change saying he owns my life and he decides what I do with it and so I can't leave the church but that's where my mind is and I believe I own my life so I decide what I do with it and also have been experiencing unexpected miracle since I joined this church. Please I need your advice on what to do. Thanks

Take it to God!

auntymi:
Pray over it

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