agarawu23:
op, ask your friend what's really the cause of every day fighting?

the lady must be a runaway hero because I see no reason why she should leave home for so long. marriage is not for kids so if you are not matured enuf just remain single.

op, ask your friend if she didn't marry the gal from a club and why will her parents accommodate her after running from her husband

obiksam:

We are very close friend he meet her on his cousins wedding, her wife in person, is a close friend and class mate of his cousins wife in school of midwifry asaba that's how they meet. as for the accommodation stuff?they guy say him tire ooh. Thanks but what do u think the guy should do forget her? his with his two kids and his mother is helping out. but the guy said he is not going any where he was a harden headed guy those days in ImT but later repented and got a good job. now his saying that her wife have cost him his job

agarawu23:
if I am in the guy shoe, I will let her go finally if she won't desist from her runaway habit. and ask him to do DNA test for his kids

Briee:









That lady may be going through a lot of emotional issues, according to the op the friend asked their 3yr old to spank her mum and the lady reacted and pack out of the house, right ? That shows that the husband doesn't respect her feelings..
Op tell your friend to stop what he's doing that is making her to stay away from him.

agarawu23:
but she have been in the act even before having babies

obiksam:
House please kindly advice. My friend married since 2011 and when ever they fight his wife will ran away she is from delta onitcha ugbo and my friend is from umuahia. He was doing well later lost his job and decided to relocate back home. According to him that she have ran out up too 6 times. That first was 2011 December when she was pregnant of there first child that she ran to her village and spent up 3 weeks,second time was 2012 June after her mother left for omogo she ran out with there just 3 months old baby to owerri but for the intervention of his dad she came back. The third was 2013 when she was 8 months pregnant of there second child that she ran to lagos leaving there duaghter with him and spent 1 full month and later came back. The fouth was on june 2014 that she forcefull left there 6 months baby boy and ran to Gods no where and later came back after 2 weeks. The fifth was on 31december and that she came back on 14th January. As of yesterday I visited him he just told me that her wife has ran away again leaving her children with him since 9th of April.
When I asked he said that they exchanged words so he jokingly ask there 3yr duaghter to spike her wife which she did and her wife turned beat her and then slap him so he gave her back the following day she left. I also ask what was her parents reaction all this while he said nothing. that they even encourage and accommodate her when ever she ran to them that to the extend the father told him that he ask her to go to lagos and stay with her sister . From what he said that he have spent alot of money going to bring her back even have gone to native and churchs seeking for peacfull marrage no way,even his mother,sibling and family member now look down on him. Please what should he do he said that he will not go for her again.

Welrez:
All those grammar nazis who have nothing to say other than to tease the grammar of a man who is in need of advice, pls be polite for once. If you have nothing to say, pls keep mum and move to other threads.

Briee:



I see you, you forget me

obiksam:
Please house I was in the guys house with my wife and children to watch man u /man city ball at list to keep him company while I as well show him your replies and he didn't even blink. @ lewiso ,agarawu23,ronald4lif,anyibestdede. Thanks for ur kind advice to him as a close friend and like a brother to him even when things are rough before we pick up and got married I couldn't tell him becus when ever I have issuses with mine he play a roll that still keep us togather, but for 6 times I tried even fellow him to her wifes village to bring her back 2 times but she kept repeating same talk even to my presents the parents make a nasty compments.
@djeezy. His also my coworker in Agip he dose nothing cruel nor battering to her. It is a fool that beats her wife for just mere talk. @Briee. I carefully asked he said on 8th? that he came back from a renovational house that he is surpervising about 8pm and ask her to gave him garri she said that there is no soap he kept silent and sent there house boy to buy psoup in which he then boiled rice and still ask her to come and eat she refuse. Then her 3yr duaghter and his son where crying he ask her to prepare goldenmorn for them which she did and call her duaghter to come and eat she refused that that was when he said to her, "u see? when your husband talks to u u dnt listen that nor see ur children are doing the same thing to u, he said that she replied husband my foot that was when he jokingly tell his 3 yr gurl to spank her which she did and that she did not only beat her once and then slap him and carry bottel that was when he lose and gave her a man slap. Further more, he did not accuse her wife for his down fall,if u no well about oil sector there a massive redoundancy so he was one of the affected once. I even jealouse him on how much he gave his wife even before the kids started coming 80kwhile his father will still gave her undisclose amount becus his is the first son. @ asadike. seeking for solace? leaving ur kids for months.
Well house thank u all for ur kind advices at list it have made me to solidly back him in any of his action as a friend and brother. Can u people imagin a confronted him to call his father inlaw do u what comes out from the man mouth. that he knows where ever she is that she is fine there he nearly fall out with me ooh. My wife even call her at list to here from her she left her phone on just to waste her credit. I'm so concern bcus he helped me once. And I believe he can coup with his kids .

obiksam:
Please house I was in the guys house with my wife and children to watch man u /man city ball at list to keep him company while I as well show him your replies and he didn't even blink. @ lewiso ,agarawu23,ronald4lif,anyibestdede. Thanks for ur kind advice to him as a close friend and like a brother to him even when things are rough before we pick up and got married I couldn't tell him becus when ever I have issuses with mine he play a roll that still keep us togather, but for 6 times I tried even fellow him to her wifes village to bring her back 2 times but she kept repeating same talk even to my presents the parents make a nasty compments.
@djeezy. His also my coworker in Agip he dose nothing cruel nor battering to her. It is a fool that beats her wife for just mere talk. @Briee. I carefully asked he said on 8th? that he came back from a renovational house that he is surpervising about 8pm and ask her to gave him garri she said that there is no soap he kept silent and sent there house boy to buy psoup in which he then boiled rice and still ask her to come and eat she refuse. Then her 3yr duaghter and his son where crying he ask her to prepare goldenmorn for them which she did and call her duaghter to come and eat she refused that that was when he said to her, "u see? when your husband talks to u u dnt listen that nor see ur children are doing the same thing to u, he said that she replied husband my foot that was when he jokingly tell his 3 yr gurl to spank her which she did and that she did not only beat her once and then slap him and carry bottel that was when he lose and gave her a man slap. Further more, he did not accuse her wife for his down fall,if u no well about oil sector there a massive redoundancy so he was one of the affected once. I even jealouse him on how much he gave his wife even before the kids started coming 80kwhile his father will still gave her undisclose amount becus his is the first son. @ asadike. seeking for solace? leaving ur kids for months.
Well house thank u all for ur kind advices at list it have made me to solidly back him in any of his action as a friend and brother. Can u people imagin a confronted him to call his father inlaw do u what comes out from the man mouth. that he knows where ever she is that she is fine there he nearly fall out with me ooh. My wife even call her at list to here from her she left her phone on just to waste her credit. I'm so concern bcus he helped me once. And I believe he can coup with his kids .

Briee:









Can you imagine the guy telling her she's the cause of his downfall. some men blames their wives for no reason . Op stay away from this couples , you know too much about them and you are supporting the guy in your write up.

obiksam:
Please house I was in the guys house with my wife and children to watch man u /man city ball at list to keep him company while I as well show him your replies and he didn't even blink. @ lewiso ,agarawu23,ronald4lif,anyibestdede. Thanks for ur kind advice to him as a close friend and like a brother to him even when things are rough before we pick up and got married I couldn't tell him becus when ever I have issuses with mine he play a roll that still keep us togather, but for 6 times I tried even fellow him to her wifes village to bring her back 2 times but she kept repeating same talk even to my presents the parents make a nasty compments.
@djeezy. His also my coworker in Agip he dose nothing cruel nor battering to her. It is a fool that beats her wife for just mere talk. @Briee. I carefully asked he said on 8th? that he came back from a renovational house that he is surpervising about 8pm and ask her to gave him garri she said that there is no soap he kept silent and sent there house boy to buy psoup in which he then boiled rice and still ask her to come and eat she refuse. Then her 3yr duaghter and his son where crying he ask her to prepare goldenmorn for them which she did and call her duaghter to come and eat she refused that that was when he said to her, "u see? when your husband talks to u u dnt listen that nor see ur children are doing the same thing to u, he said that she replied husband my foot that was when he jokingly tell his 3 yr gurl to spank her which she did and that she did not only beat her once and then slap him and carry bottel that was when he lose and gave her a man slap. Further more, he did not accuse her wife for his down fall,if u no well about oil sector there a massive redoundancy so he was one of the affected once. I even jealouse him on how much he gave his wife even before the kids started coming 80kwhile his father will still gave her undisclose amount becus his is the first son. @ asadike. seeking for solace? leaving ur kids for months.
Well house thank u all for ur kind advices at list it have made me to solidly back him in any of his action as a friend and brother. Can u people imagin a confronted him to call his father inlaw do u what comes out from the man mouth. that he knows where ever she is that she is fine there he nearly fall out with me ooh. My wife even call her at list to here from her she left her phone on just to waste her credit. I'm so concern bcus he helped me once. And I believe he can coup with his kids .

LewisO:

Like i told u before that woman is possessed, i don't know if that woman has added something to his drink that still making him to keep such wH0re called a wife in his matrimonial home.

That man needs to get back to his senses and plan to have a peaceful marriage life with a wife that suits him.

Spiritually that woman is not a wife given by God to him, he should free her so that she won't infect the man with her possessed spirits.

ireneidiva:

Don't call someone's wife a LovePeddler.