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Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Donicobone(m): 4:37pm On Apr 14, 2015
We are both in love, I have done more than expected as a man to a lady that I have not gotten marriage to, since we started the relationship we have not cheated on each other, ( conform by me) but she has the attitude of. Saying is over between us, every little thing she will be threatening me as if she is my life line, she has done it more than 4 time for just a relationship of 9 months, now last week we had little misunderstanding and now she said is over (she is very beautiful and am also handsome sometime people admire us together) and when ever she call it a quite I be the one to apologise and beg her, she told me that she is a woman that I should be the one to beg her if I truly love her and now she is at it again, my friends told me not to call her because this her attitude of ( I QUIT ) is getting to much, pls I need ur advice, though l really love her and I don't want to lose her, what do I do pls
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2015
See love embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed

Give her some time.

Two weeks or more.

She is using the love you have for her as a leverage over you....

If she loves u,she will come runnin back.

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Dyt(f): 4:49pm On Apr 14, 2015
I dey laugh

Sorry I had to cos it reminds me of me
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by ebamma(m): 4:51pm On Apr 14, 2015
.If u lose her, u won't die bro,
this should serve as a test to show u whether she still loves u, don't call or text or whatsapp her for seven days, if she fails to call or text u within the seven days,
be patient and give her another 7 days, if she fails to call,
oga, find another girl,

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 4:54pm On Apr 14, 2015
Sigh.....if u love egypt and u don't want to leave egypt, oneday egypt wil leave u....i believ she's nt experienced enough...i'm pessismistic about the relatnshp.
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by agohmamuda(m): 4:59pm On Apr 14, 2015
Let her go. Afterall you are Handsome; so u said. More girls will come undecided
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by ronald4lif(m): 5:01pm On Apr 14, 2015
You begged the first, second etc that's why this is happening. Even if you must plead not when you were wronged. Don't ever beg her this time else she'll keep doing same thing. You must have given her lots of reasons to believe that you can't live without her. Maybe you show too much love, more than she deserves. If you dare beg her again this time be ready to do so every time she comes up with such drama.

For how long do you intend to plead? How long can you take it? It's time to take control of the relationship. She seems to be in control at the moment and it's about time you put a stop to it.

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by fuckshit: 5:02pm On Apr 14, 2015
maintain your fücking position; it's your fücking turn to see if she truly loves you;

begging her is a big fücking error grin grin
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by jaybee3(m): 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2015
O'boy i'm not violent but i really do want to slap some sense into your head

You are forcing love and it's frankly unattractive

Love yourself and hopefully you had be able to realise that you deserve much better
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by 2dice(m): 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2015
She is Beautiful and you are Handsome ..
cheii==> i need a time machine a.s.a.p
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 14, 2015
fuckshit:
maintain your fücking position; it's your fücking turn to fvcking see if she fvcking truly fvcking loves you;

begging is a big fücking error grin grin
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 5:06pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
We are both in love, I have done more than expected as a man to a lady that I have not gotten marriage to, since we started the relationship we have not cheated on each other, ( conform by me) but she has the attitude of. Saying is over between us, every little thing she will be threatening me as if she is my life line, she has done it more than 4 time for just a relationship of 9 months, now last week we had little misunderstanding and now she said is over (she is very beautiful and am also handsome sometime people admire us together) and when ever she call it a quite I be the one to apologise and beg her, she told me that she is a woman that I should be the one to beg her if I truly love her and now she is at it again, my friends told me not to call her because this her attitude of ( I QUIT ) is getting to much, pls I need ur advice, though l really love her and I don't want to lose her, what do I do pls


SIMPLE

Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
We are both in love, I have done more than expected as a man to a lady that I have not gotten marriage to, since we started the relationship we have not cheated on each other, ( conform by me) but she has the attitude of. Saying is over between us, every little thing she will be threatening me as if she is my life line, she has done it more than 4 time for just a relationship of 9 months, now last week we had little misunderstanding and now she said is over (she is very beautiful and am also handsome sometime people admire us together) and when ever she call it a quite I be the one to apologise and beg her, she told me that she is a woman that I should be the one to beg her if I truly love her and now she is at it again, my friends told me not to call her because this her attitude of ( I QUIT ) is getting to much, pls I need ur advice, though l really love her and I don't want to lose her, what do I do pls

You don see why I dey tell people make them no dey fall in love with nigeria girl,



Guy if you get sense, block love for your heart. Leave the mumu



Many fish brain dey outside. Find one and no fall in love with her. Just dey do your normal banging.


Thank me later

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Brugo(m): 5:08pm On Apr 14, 2015
angry

She is not worth it. You pampered her with love and she took it as weakness. Time to unleash the other side. Bro you say you are handsome right? I want you to get yourself 2 new babes as backup by weekend. Don't deny it if she accuses you.

You haven't married her and she is like this? I dey vex on your behalf. angry

Please don't marry this girl even if she comes begging. She will not change. Marriage will amplify this evil nature in her. Don't convince yourself that she will become better. It is her nature already. Don't tolerate what you can never get used to.

Dump her when she comes back. Then look for a better replacement.

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by chimerase2: 5:08pm On Apr 14, 2015
Just send me her number she needs councelling undecided
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Lyrically(m): 5:16pm On Apr 14, 2015
Step up ur game be a man for once..stop begging and remember to always tell her if she f*ck up many fish dey inside d river
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by vjsmiles: 5:17pm On Apr 14, 2015
angry
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by vjsmiles: 5:19pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
We are both in love, I have done more than expected as a man to a lady that I have not gotten marriage to, since we started the relationship we have not cheated on each other, ( conform by me) but she has the attitude of. Saying is over between us, every little thing she will be threatening me as if she is my life line, she has done it more than 4 time for just a relationship of 9 months, now last week we had little misunderstanding and now she said is over (she is very beautiful and am also handsome sometime people admire us together) and when ever she call it a quite I be the one to apologise and beg her, she told me that she is a woman that I should be the one to beg her if I truly love her and now she is at it again, my friends told me not to call her because this her attitude of ( I QUIT ) is getting to much, pls I need ur advice, though l really love her and I don't want to lose her, what do I do pls

Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Donicobone(m): 5:20pm On Apr 14, 2015
Woooow am so happy to be here because u guys have said it all, I will follow ur advice thank u all that's what I will do,
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Hawlahscho(m): 5:28pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
We are both in love, I have done more than expected as a man to a lady that I have not gotten marriage to, since we started the relationship we have not cheated on each other, ( conform by me) but she has the attitude of. Saying is over between us, every little thing she will be threatening me as if she is my life line, she has done it more than 4 time for just a relationship of 9 months, now last week we had little misunderstanding and now she said is over (she is very beautiful and am also handsome sometime people admire us together) and when ever she call it a quite I be the one to apologise and beg her, she told me that she is a woman that I should be the one to beg her if I truly love her and now she is at it again, my friends told me not to call her because this her attitude of ( I QUIT ) is getting to much, pls I need ur advice, though [size=25pt]l really love her and I don't want to lose her[/size], what do I do pls

What do you want us to say again when you don't want to lose leave her. undecided
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Donicobone(m): 5:30pm On Apr 14, 2015
my guy am not saying that am too handsome, I just use that word to proof a point besides that my picture is not my best because am not here for a beauty contest, even at that this my picture is not that bad, but if u feel that am not in anyway ok u can add me on whatsapp, facebook, even in BBM, is just that I find it difficult up loading my picture thank u
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Hawlahscho(m): 5:36pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
my guy am not saying that am too handsome, I just use that word to proof a point besides that my picture is not my best because am not here for a beauty contest, even at that this my picture is not that bad, but if u feel that am not in anyway ok u can add me on whatsapp, facebook, even in BBM, is just that I find it difficult up loading my picture thank u

Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Hawlahscho(m): 5:37pm On Apr 14, 2015
My last bomb









[size=35pt]Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated. When you bed her to date you, you'll beg her to give you happy relationship.[/size]


CONCLUSION: Don't beg her this time around.

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 6:02pm On Apr 14, 2015
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 6:23pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
We are both in love, I have done more than expected as a man to a lady that I have not gotten marriage to, since we started the relationship we have not cheated on each other, ( conform by me) but she has the attitude of. Saying is over between us, every little thing she will be threatening me as if she is my life line, she has done it more than 4 time for just a relationship of 9 months, now last week we had little misunderstanding and now she said is over (she is very beautiful and am also handsome sometime people admire us together) and when ever she call it a quite I be the one to apologise and beg her, she told me that she is a woman that I should be the one to beg her if I truly love her and now she is at it again, my friends told me not to call her because this her attitude of ( I QUIT ) is getting to much, pls I need ur advice, though l really love her and I don't want to lose her, what do I do pls
its cool that u love her and wanna make it work. Your relationship is too young for power struggles hey....u should be on honeymoon stage not this drama. She does it coz she knows u gonna beg, next she'll be trying to control u she seems like the type. Give her an ultimatum...dont even call her yet let her be for a while
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 14, 2015
Bros,shey na that Camellia girl u dey follow they do u this thing

Both of una dey Abuja & she no dey even follow u back...

Smh!

Donicobone:
my guy am not saying that am too handsome, I just use that word to proof a point besides that my picture is not my best because am not here for a beauty contest, even at that this my picture is not that bad, but if u feel that am not in anyway ok u can add me on whatsapp, facebook, even in BBM, is just that I find it difficult up loading my picture thank u
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 11:14pm On Apr 14, 2015
[quote author=vjsmiles post=32718368][/quote] Grow up.

The guy is not bad looking.

He is handsome, just like he said.
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Nobody: 11:21pm On Apr 14, 2015
Donicobone:
my guy am not saying that am too handsome, I just use that word to proof a point besides that my picture is not my best because am not here for a beauty contest, even at that this my picture is not that bad, but if u feel that am not in anyway ok u can add me on whatsapp, facebook, even in BBM, is just that I find it difficult up loading my picture thank u
Hey, u dnt need to explain how u look to anybody.

If they dont see you as handsome, na their wahala be that.

@topic, if u call that ur babe again to beg her..., I will personally flog that love out from ur brain.

Dont loose your self esteem over someone who is not worth it.

If it is yours., it is yours, but, if its not, then , it's nt.

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Boland(m): 11:38pm On Apr 14, 2015
Bro, you need to grow some balls mehn! Stop being a pus*y for Bleep sake..

You are the reason why ladies especially in this part of the world believe that they should be praised..

It's high time you took control of your relationship, though I don't think you can do that with this lady, maybe you need to switch and start afresh...
I hate it whenever I hear such stories...

See: You won't die if you let her go, okay?
Separate your emotions from your reasoning, you need to love yourself more Mahn!

One thing I've learnt about ladies is that, their mind are twisted, the more you show care, love, emotions and all those shii, the less they become attracted to you..
Begging her is a sign of weekness to be honest, ladies dislike weaklings...


Love is good but in this case of yours, it is "ass licking" and you really need to snap out of it... ABEG!!

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Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Camellia(f): 12:39pm On Apr 15, 2015
AmberQueen:
Bros,shey na that Camellia girl u dey follow they do u this thing

Both of una dey Abuja & she no dey even follow u back...

Smh!

i did nothing o
AmberQueen:
Bros,shey na that Camellia girl u dey follow they do u this thing

Both of una dey Abuja & she no dey even follow u back...

Smh!

i did nothing o
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by Camellia(f): 12:43pm On Apr 15, 2015
[quote author=vjsmiles post=32718368][/quote]..Lool...bro yr wicked
Re: Pls Advice Me Before I Lose My Mind by mostHandsome01: 12:47pm On Apr 15, 2015
Love is never forced, it flows naturally,
Even if there is a misunderstanding, it should be mutually sorted out amongst yourselves.

Just like most people said above, give her some time, don't go begging like the usual you,, if she's got feeling for u, she will drop the ego and come back.

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