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If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 1:25pm On May 01, 2015 |
A while back during a sit-out with a couple of friends, we bared our minds on the controversial topic "relationship". The varying opinions that greeted the discourse wasn't a surprise. A friend who is 24 has endured 3 heart breaks and she's presently in her fourth relationship (unfortunately heart break number 4 is by her door ). So why do people commit their time, resources, emotion into a relationship that clearly has an expiry date? A friend said he's relationship is serving as a test run for marriage. Stacy claimed hers is solely for companionship. With the drama and the subtle manipulation that comes with such relationships, are the "gains" worth the stress? Why do you think people date? |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Mynd44: 1:29pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by richidinho(m): 1:34pm On May 01, 2015 |
Sex, companion Feel Among Sex, companion 1 Like |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by okotv(m): 1:40pm On May 01, 2015 |
Mynd44:You don spoil, chai... @poster, I don't believe in dating |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 1:45pm On May 01, 2015 |
Mynd44: Surely the aforementioned can be gotten without dating. no? |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Burnnotice(m): 1:52pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 1:59pm On May 01, 2015 |
richidinho: Surprisingly, "to feel among" is one the major reasons. I actually find it laughable. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 2:02pm On May 01, 2015 |
pryd: Dont know about yall but 2 fvck is my aim Fvck till my nuts fall off 1 Like |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 2:02pm On May 01, 2015 |
okotv:I share your sentiment bro. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 2:13pm On May 01, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY: Since fvcking is ur priority, then you have no reason to date at all. Coz I'm so sure you ain't gonna be loyal to ur bae. So why date when you can easily fvck around without the emotional attachment and responsibility that comes with dating? |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 2:16pm On May 01, 2015 |
If it aint for marriage, then its just 'friends with benefit' shii for me.. 1 Like |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 2:26pm On May 01, 2015 |
Tobiee: Most relationships are the tweaked version of FWB! |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by ronald4lif(m): 2:30pm On May 01, 2015 |
Well, a relationship is a necessity for almost everyone whilst marriage is a choice to some. While marriage is the end result for the majority of people in a relationship it's not same for others, and marriage is not for everyone. People date for companionship, love, sex etc and enjoy the moment while it last and if it leads to marriage fine. But if it doesn't they move on. Marriage is just a piece of paper to a lot of people out there. The fact that they aren't married doesn't negate the fact that they're in a happy and subsistence relationship. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 2:31pm On May 01, 2015 |
pryd:YEAH LIKE YOURS TOO RIght? |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by major466(m): 2:42pm On May 01, 2015 |
The major downside of having repeated heartbreak and breakups in relationships is that it subtly conditions the individual's mind into believing that love does not exist. This abnormal belief occasioned through series of relationsips is the major cause of divorce in our society today. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by MrsChima(f): 2:48pm On May 01, 2015 |
Most people don't even know how to date and can't define date either people hookup with the sole purpose of sex. Many people are not interested in marriage like out forefathers has in the past. Common relationship is becoming a norm and people don't want to work at building positive relationships anymore. 1 Like |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 2:56pm On May 01, 2015 |
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Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nature8(m): 3:02pm On May 01, 2015 |
I date for love and I also believe that we'll end up in marriage.. I don't know about others.. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 3:12pm On May 01, 2015 |
major466: Exactly! And in the next relationship, a victim of repeated heartbreaks might be more inclined to squeezing out as much as possible. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Sheenor: 3:21pm On May 01, 2015 |
Cos others do |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 3:37pm On May 01, 2015 |
MrsChima: Well said! The blind pursuit of sex and plastic gratifications have distorted the original essence of relationships. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 3:48pm On May 01, 2015 |
MrsChima:well said wifey. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 5:00pm On May 01, 2015 |
pryd: Thats what Im tryna tell ya I only date as a prerequisite to the fvcking I aint loyal 2 no one but ma dick and fvck around I do
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Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Kazrem(m): 5:05pm On May 01, 2015 |
Honestly this is what I tell singles too. If you aren't ready for marriage in the next one year or six months, what's the need for dating or being in a relationship. |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 5:09pm On May 01, 2015 |
MrsChima: We've come a long way from the days of our fathers. Now values like honesty and sincerity are scorned upon And if U value such U are looked at as weak and stupid I am just adapting to the times If lies and infidelity is what the pple want the lies and infidelity is what the pple gonna get And so I embrace the dog in me lie cheat and fvck till I drop
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Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by MrsChima(f): 5:13pm On May 01, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY: I don't cheat and can't understand why people cheat when they can simply break up! |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by MrsChima(f): 5:14pm On May 01, 2015 |
rokiatu: Thanks boo! |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by MrsChima(f): 5:17pm On May 01, 2015 |
pryd: Well...for many it is instant gratification and selfishness that is plaguing the world. We will see less marriages and nuclear families structure as the world ages. We will also see deviant sex becoming more acceptable and even church people will welcome it in the house of God! We are indeed living in the end! 1 Like |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by pryd(m): 5:21pm On May 01, 2015 |
BUTCHCASSIDY: LoL alryt bro, proceed with thy slaying. 1 Like |
Re: If Marriage Ain't Your Goal, Then Why Are You Dating? by Nobody: 5:24pm On May 01, 2015 |
pryd: Thank U sir 1 Like
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