msmon:

He should not have allowed her break the covenant with God. I will suggest he divorce her!
not that he doesn't have the power to beat but he has vowed not to in his life and seeing the type of woman she is, he has to prove this point today.

You are right about the above and he should have rebuked her sooner by other means..."Rebuke the devil and he shall flee from you...na him "all smiles" been dey encourage d woman


But I admire him though

The guy slaps like a woman. I cannot give a woman two slaps and she will be able to make a call. She no go fit hear. What is worth doing is worth doing well! the man should have beaten her properly or just let her continue as usual. I hate half done works like this1

i hope he didn't sleep with her , you know its very sweet when you pamper her after then, and do her on the bed too, she will respect you in every way, both in the bedroom and .....its very pleasurable, that's why some men love beating women before making love to them, if she make the husband take pleasure in that, then its her problem cos she caused it.

Ni iwo ati awon to jumi lo








Go and read ur quran very well to knw wie its written dat u can beat ur wife








Ole n tele alfa

sherif4owo:



ODE

Lesson learnt.... I'm against wife battery but I won't vow not to touch a woman, not to look like a wuss.

sochima1989:
Padi.......in no case should u slap ur wife............but womaniii.....unu dey provoke unu husband oh

In no case should a woman slap her husband.

islandmoon:
i hope he didn't sleep with her , you know its very sweet when you pamper her after then, and do her on the bed too, she will respect you in every way, both in the bedroom and .....its very pleasurable, that's why some men love beating women before making love to them, if she make the husband take pleasure in that, then its her problem cos she caused it.

You are a fool

that you refuse to hit a woman does not mean you should let a woman beat the sheet out of you. Gender equality abi? give her as much as she gives you.

I'm a woman and i do not support violence from either the man or the woman.

So for two years,none of his family members noticed all the bruises on his body from the heels or did they think he was a secret boxer at night? This story does not ring true at all. History has shown dat the quiet easy going ones are usually the worst sociopaths and serial killers. Seriously, u think the mum and sis will call and threaten over 2 slaps no matter how hot it is. It is obvious there was a big fight and the lady fought back hence his bruises. The guy lied to you all.
In the words of the great Judge Judy "if it doesnt make sense, then it is not true.

fr3do:


In no case should a woman slap her husband.

that one no be woman or wife...... I suggest she's a slim witch.

The part that got me all cracked up was " she introduced new techniques of beating him" and i asked myself, shey she be black belt holder for karate? Anyways, what daiby is daiby. I always say '' u never can tell the effect of a thunderous slap on a crazy woman's face''


walks out of thread

No real gentleman receives beatings from his wife.

I don't give bullshiit. And I don't take it from women.

As far as I am concerned the two slaps are belated. There's a difference between being gentle and being moronicc.

Some men are being dealt with by their wives in the privacy of their homes and what makes it hurt most is people consider you stupid if you say: My wife beat me. They will laugh at you and make all kinds of remarks. Violence is wrong.

I swear ur bro is over calm. He is a gentleman to his root.
I cant endure such from a woman. I commend his gentility

fr3do:


You are a fool

like your dad, you are lucky i dont know your house.

for this kind situation I go just dey laugh.......wetin I go do dey my mind

two slap? Just warning cha two slap? Just warning cha

@ademega
Yes, I can remember that thread of yesterday and I commented there that when you hear both sides of the story you'll have different views, even yours.

But, even this will not make me beat a woman. Nothing will make me beat someone I call my wife. I'll rather divorce such a woman than hit her.

U keep sayin the man should have reported to her family. A man has no obligation to report anythin in his home to anyone. He can act as he likes. He's a family himself

It's only a stupid man that ll come either online or offline to say "I can't beat a woman regardless". My response to these kind of guys is "wait and tell me this when you are finally married".

Let me seize this platform to advise our young men in the house to stay clear or make sure you know your girlfriend in and out before asking her hand in marriage. Ladies are completely different when they move into your house as wives.

If you don't have endless endurance, perseverance, patience, profound maturity and wisdom to deal with ladies when you are single, my brother, pls and pls stay clear cos they might frustrate to the point of committing murder.

The questions you guys need to ask yourselves is that what must have led half of Nigerian men in US prisons and few in UK prison to kill their wives despite the age of these men and experiences in life. The answer is right there; women ll fuckedd u up if they want in a minute.

However, there are super amazing ladies and women out on our streets and homes and if you are lucky to find one of these precious ones among these devils, pls treat her like an angel she is and appreciate her at all time.

mek d woman go fight wrestling

timawoku:
Hmm...

'This uprising will bring out the beast in us'

If I were to be him, I would leave the house for some days, then come back to check if her senses are back. I would do so until I find solace outside and that might spell doom for the marriage. But I won't bring out the beast in me.

He even has time to leave the house and come back. Well that's him. Scenarios like this are the reason why am afraid to get married. You marry someone thinking she/he is God sent, only to realise that you married a demon in angel's clothing. This is why I support divorce; because I support divorce, am afraid to get married. Why? Because if there should be a hiccup, I would terminate the marriage immediately. If I were the guy, I would divorce her. Bleep the consequences. Divorce can be healthy, if the two partners are willing to cooperate. I don't know where people get this cliched view that divorce can be harmful to the children involved. if there was any in their marriage. Am a product of divorce; am not mentally messed-up as people would like to think. In fact! I know of folks who are product of divorced homes and are doing well. So am not speaking for myself alone. Now, I've digressed a little: all that was to buttress my point. The man should divorce the woman. I hate to be the devil's advocate, but it should be so. I don't know why people prefer to live with partners who will shorten their lifespan. Is it until she kills him, that he will realise what he should have done? Assuming the story is true and the wife is entirely at fault. He should know that such wife can poison his food or stab him in his sleep.

Let's hear from the woman first. Some Men can paint their wife to be a jezebel. I live with one. So possesive, insecure. Just †̥ђɑt i put up my picture on watsaap, i got a slap †̥ђɑt almost blinded me." Don't work or i divorce", dont be on social media" dnt go to the gym. I must knw where U̅ are once U̅ are going out". Cheats like hell, lies without shame. ɑ̤̈̊nd when am fustrated throw up a fight cos am not the talking type. He can kill one's self- esteem with his word. People wil say am a street fighter. When he has unleashed d dragon i never knwe i had in me.

Nah y marriage the$e day$ nah burden. Only man go $abi wen I reach our tym to marry weather man go marry kwa.

AyeeIdris:
So for two years,none of his family members noticed all the bruises on his body from the heels or did they think he was a secret boxer at night? This story does not ring true at all. History has shown dat the quiet easy going ones are usually the worst sociopaths and serial killers. Seriously, u think the mum and sis will call and threaten over 2 slaps no matter how hot it is. It is obvious there was a big fight and the lady fought back hence his bruises. The guy lied to you all.
In the words of the great Judge Judy "if it doesnt make sense, then it is not true.

so the quiet guy that got his dick slit by his wife is a serial killer ?
and i guess you don't also know the abuse continued for a long time before the slitting happened?
with all these recent news about women beating their husbands you still decide to be bias, because a man is now the victim?
if it was a woman you would not considered any other possibilities before tagging the man a beast.

sentiments has made many foolish
nonsense
idi*t for placing insult on injury

as if it were your son you would have said the same

ademega:
I am not in any way in support of raising a finger at a woman. I consider it barbaric .In fact, only a mentally disabled man will beat and beat his wife at the slightest provocation .

Having said the above , and with a thread a nairalander opened yesterday about her friend that was always receiving the beating of her life from her husband,the story of my step brother came to my mind .

Before my brother got married,he was this gentle, quiet, caring, loving and hard working type. He got married to this beautiful and also easy going lady. We were all happy about the union and expecting a kind of union that will be a model for us his younger ones.

There was this evening we received an unusual call from the wife saying my brother has been giving her the beating of her life since morning . That he has nearly killed her. Immediately she dropped the call, her mum called again that if anything should happen to her daughter that my mum and the whole family would be responsible and in for it. Her younger sister called again, calling my brother unprintable names and giving different kinds of warnings, if anything should happen to her sister.

This destabilsed us in the house. We were confused. Nobody has ever reported my brother in the house before, hence it was strange. We called my brother but he didn't even pick .

To cut the long story short, my brother eventually came home after three days to actually explain what happened.
He said since he got married to the popularly believed gentle,innocent girl, it has been horror for him. He said he has been trying to protect that good quality popularly believed by the family, and that was the reason why he has not reported her newly discovered characters to anyone and was hoping that she would change sooner .

He said for the past two years, that his wife slapped or beat him on the slightest provocation. He showed us old and new wounds all over his body. He said he has been enduring it all these while . He further said he noticed his wife was becoming stronger and happy with her actions because every time she would introduce new styles of beating him.

He said on this faithful day, there was an argument and before he could say one or two words, one, two slaps don land gidigba for his face. She didn't stop there, but went further to use her high heel shoes on him. Not yet done she went further to bite him severally ( the hand bite almost resulted in Whitlow). We saw with our eyes all the injuries inflicted on him . In fact, my younger brother had to ask him if his legs and hands were tied together while all these were going on. He said he was just smiling and trying to hold her together .

After all these, he said he had to talked to himself: for how long would these continue? He said his wife was doing all these just because she knows his position towards beating a lady, and before they got married he had one time or the other condemned men that do beat their wives and even called them animals.

The wife having realised this, was now doing the beating and expecting the husband to keep to his words and be strong in his conviction .

He said on this particular day, when his wife had finished doing her worst, he went to her ( not in anger but intentionally) and told her that what he was about to do is necessary at this point . That he wanted to prove one thing, which is , not that he doesn't have the power to beat but he has vowed not to in his life and seeing the type of woman she is, he has to prove this point today.

He first begged for forgiveness from God and her, and then, immediately, he landed two hot slaps on her face which caught her unawares and her jaw dropped.

Immediately he did this ,she went straight to pick up her phone and started calling her relatives and telling them lies that he has nearly finished her with beating .

In this case , what is your judgement ?

I don't support any man beating is wife same way a wife should not raise a finger on her husband. If that story is true that woman is a trouble maker. She needed that slap for her brain to reset... What nonsense!!!!

unbelievable

Its not all ones internal family matters you should involve the outside world.. im against man beating woman but the story seems explanatory enough..

akinboyepelumi9:
The Man is to be blame jare, Why didn't he report her to her Family?? I am sure the family knows her true Colour, and would have mentioned it in the process of rebuking her. She might have been the area fighter and pretend to be "Madam Peace" whenever she's with him and his family.

Well that serves her right, she got wot she asked for shikena!!! eventhough i do not support the stance of Men beating their Wife but ha haaaaaa diz one too mch

johnson157:

To tell u say u no get sense just dey hungry me but I no dey insult people.

Hahaha...u no well

Viciyus:



See another useless woman.

So make I dey report case to her family, those that make me a man?

For me the man no try, the very day that woman rase hand on me, that day I dey give her the beating of her life. Her stvpid black sense go reset to default.


Naija women too useless, so she go dey beat me, me go dey look and you dey say he do the wrong thing?





Nonsense

U are just another Useless Man

U should finish reading my post and understand it before u quote me.