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Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:00pm On May 12, 2015 |
MrCork: she be MrsCork |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Jobos(m): 8:04pm On May 12, 2015 |
MrsChima: I am waiting for the day women will began to pay groom price, this subject will not be an issue. Don't turn culture upside down cos of education. It will only increase the number of unmarried women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by urchmanx(m): 8:05pm On May 12, 2015 |
I pity some ladies here. I just didn't want to mention names. Its quiet simple everyone has a choice and no one is forcing you to get married. If you think you want change and you want to create your own experimental family as long as the man agrees that's your cup of tea. The OP question said what do you think? In my opinion my wife MUST have my name without argument. We can only talk about this issue if her mom retained her name (LOL) Some people may wonder why I said MUST.... I respect women, and my wife has all the freedom and liberty any woman can ask for. I give her the best thing in life and we live in civilized society. But she must understand that there are difference between watching reality shows and movie to real life. I have always cautioned bringing in all this crazy fake reality show to my home. That is a no no. Someone said if she had a wonderful father... I am a wonderful man!!! Some said if her father is rich... I am rich in my capacity!!! Some say because of her document.... There has always been a legal and easy way to do change of name and I have never heard someone being denied of positions and right because of change of name. So ladies if you want to retain your fathers name partially and completely that should be a discussing for your man. As for me.... There is no camera in my bedroom and I am not on tv. I am a real man that wants a real home and family plus the simplest things in life. 1 Like |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by urchmanx(m): 8:07pm On May 12, 2015 |
Its also not a bad idea for our children to bear their mothers name. We want change take it all. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Opiosko: 8:07pm On May 12, 2015 |
baibijay:I said she has the right but it should not be approached as a matter of right. Pls read my post again. 1 Like |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Sard(m): 8:08pm On May 12, 2015 |
legendsilver:Chairman mi, ko si big deal ninu e now. O kan maa fi oruko ti oko kun ti baba re ni |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by boynigeria(m): 8:09pm On May 12, 2015 |
MrsChima:sweet to say with mouth it all comes down to the practical my dear thats what u all say till the trailer ends and the real movie begin ive noticed that females with this ideaology are tryna prevent going through the same maltreatment their mum or aunt or sista went tru but it doesnt have to be dat way though u still need a man to be the alpha male, doesnt mean he is above and beyond, its just hes duty to take charge feminisim is just like dwalfs tryna play basketball, they will look very cute but no one will take dem serious |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:10pm On May 12, 2015 |
Micktoxin what's your view on this |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by AAAkinyemi(m): 8:12pm On May 12, 2015 |
It's really not a big deal to me. Personally I wouldn't allow my wife use my surname. She is not changing anything. She would still bear her father's name while I bears mine. No need for any addition of my name to hers. She doesn't need to necessarily change her name so far that doesn't stop us from being husband and wife. 3 Likes |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by AAAkinyemi(m): 8:14pm On May 12, 2015 |
It's really not a big deal to me. Personally I wouldn't allow my wife use my surname. She is not changing anything. She would still bear her father's name while I bear mine. No need for any addition of my name to hers. She doesn't need to necessarily change her name so far that doesn't stop us from being husband and wife. 2 Likes |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by micktoxin(m): 8:19pm On May 12, 2015 |
Chiam55:It's a normal practise in England innit... . I don't mind, as long as my name is the main surname . At that rate tho, the grand children will have more 4 surnames. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by VickyRotex(f): 8:21pm On May 12, 2015 |
It's not Craze, it's Choice!!! |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:22pm On May 12, 2015 |
micktoxin: Naaaaah I can't do that.... I want a prenuptial agreement everybody keeps what they came in with That's modern day slavery ( marriage) |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by VickyRotex(f): 8:23pm On May 12, 2015 |
AAAkinyemi: Correct!!!! But please, allow her if she wants to. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Beface(m): 8:25pm On May 12, 2015 |
Justfollowit:If you were smart enough you would known when you try to make another look silly it's only natural for the person to proved otherwise. Well i understand your point of view but next time try to be positive whenever you are saying anything regarding yourself. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by jamesbridget13(f): 8:28pm On May 12, 2015 |
my huzy dont see anything wrong with that |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by boynigeria(m): 8:29pm On May 12, 2015 |
Chiam55:lol cant stop laughing niggga wants his bae to take up his name and he bears MrCork i think it will be beta if u take her name |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:30pm On May 12, 2015 |
Beface: Yes sir What is your definition of postivism? If you meant rejecting what is 'bad' and identifying with what is 'good', then we have different interpretation of what is positive and what is negative. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by nqueensy: 8:31pm On May 12, 2015 |
Hmmm,which craze? Its a welcome development. Atleast after all the investment ones' father has done over the years in making one a better and marriageable person,she will finally get married and U expect her to just leave everything and be ur wife. I think keeping her father's name is away of saying "am still my father's daughter and he made me what I am". 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by irunoko(m): 8:33pm On May 12, 2015 |
See dictator general aka I am the man of the house. Omo I no envy your wife 1 bit urchmanx: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:34pm On May 12, 2015 |
yorubaboiy: Y must u always compare urself to the white man? Wat kind of slave mentality is this? There was nothing like surname in our culture b4 sef, so y r u giving urself unnecessary headache? |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by saleeman4(m): 8:34pm On May 12, 2015 |
agarawu23: Nufin like change of name in d holy books |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by osomegbe(m): 8:40pm On May 12, 2015 |
It is not a problem as long as both of you agreed on it. Again, it doesn't change your children's name. I wanted my wife to keep he's but she decided otherwise. She is the first of five girls, all girls. I would not have seen it as a problem at all. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Dragonking: 8:40pm On May 12, 2015 |
MrsChima: How many women had their maiden name and married name on their documents then? Let's stop deceiving ourselves, we love coping the whites and that's why there are so many divorce cases in the land. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:43pm On May 12, 2015 |
micktoxin: I think the children will carry their father's name not the wife. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by ogaprime(m): 8:45pm On May 12, 2015 |
Hollamydey: So your mum's dad wasn't her father that she didn't use her maiden name with your dad's surname abi?? A man and a woman once married will become ONE and not one whole number,one over two (1.1/2)... |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Ayo199(m): 8:45pm On May 12, 2015 |
Na gradually d tin dey start..later nw someone wud suggest that men should move to wife's house afta marriage...igberaga ni mo kaasi jare... |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 8:47pm On May 12, 2015 |
Dragonking: If you leave the village maybe you will see it is not a new trend. Secondly, I don't worry about what other people do....I don't run their life. Try it. 2 Likes |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Beface(m): 8:51pm On May 12, 2015 |
Justfollowit:Positivism to me is when you hope/anticipate for something good not necessarily denying reality. Is like faith (the substance of things hope for,the evidence of things not seen). For instance, you can always hope to get marry to the man of you dream. |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by olaideslex(m): 8:52pm On May 12, 2015 |
Thats how it should be. You will be identified with your father's name on judgement day. 1 Like |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by MrsChima(f): 8:53pm On May 12, 2015 |
boynigeria: I don't run people's relationships and don't want people to run mine. I don't care if women want their men to be alpha males...I don't care. What I am concern with is misogynistic bulls hit spewed on this thread and many others. Why do YOU and other people worry about others relationships and how they like to live it? Why are Africans so judgemental but yet preaches the bible every chance they gets not knowing judging someone is a sin! Every relationship isn't the same and what YOU LIKE doesn't have anything to do with the next couple. People should focus on their own relationship if they have one! |
Re: New Craze In Town- Ladies Retaining Their Fathers Name After Marriage by Nobody: 8:55pm On May 12, 2015 |
Beface: That sounds better however I think I would rather do both. I like having options. , I enjoy being in control. 1 Like |
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