frank043:


They have been confused before Adam...Dated one some years back,she was confusion personified!Character,manners,attitude..everything is ZERO!! The picture attached can explain way better than my words.

Lala247:


But i dont knkw u now .. U dont just see ppl n cuddle do u ?

Hi I didn't get a response from u yday. Am not clowning here. Its a serious issue except u didn't mean it when u said u were waiting 4 d right man

lexy2014:
Hi I didn't get a response from u yday. Am not clowning here. Its a serious issue except u didn't mean it when u said u were waiting 4 d right man

Lol u cant be serious

Lala247:


Lol u cant be serious

Am surprised u are saying this. Are u saying am not serious cos am proposing 2u or what? I don't understand. Did u say u were waiting 4d right man just 4 sake of it?

lexy2014:
Am surprised u are saying this. Are u saying am not serious cos am proposing 2u or what? I don't understand. Did u say u were waiting 4d right man just 4 sake of it?

If u where serious you would have sent a private msg instead of public display
Lol thanks anyway
I'll keep waiting

Lala247:


If u where serious you would have sent a private msg instead of public display
Lol thanks anyway
I'll keep waiting

Am serious that's Y I took d " initiative"( it was one your points). I believe in private 2 but I have tried it didn't seem 2 work. Did u get any email notification from me?

lexy2014:
Am serious that's Y I took d " initiative"( it was one your points). I believe in private 2 but I have tried it didn't seem 2 work. Did u get any email notification from me?

Nope

Lala247:

Nope

So how can I reach u outside nairaland?

lexy2014:
So how can I reach u outside nairaland?

Dont know oh ... Mayb i see u one day

Lala247:

Dont know oh ... Mayb i see u one day

how do we make that "one day" come 2 pass? How do I communicate with u outside NL? U sound a bit reluctant

lexy2014:
how do we make that "one day" come 2 pass? How do I communicate with u outside NL?

God would make it happen if its meant to b

Lol lexy leave me joor

Lala247:


God would make it happen if its meant to b

U sound reluctant since u are now getting God involved. U were waiting and God brought u what u were waiting 4. What else do u want Him 2do 4u again? Can't u take it from there?

lexy2014:
U sound reluctant since u are now getting God involved. U were waiting and God brought u what u were waiting 4. What else do u want Him 2do 4u again? Can't u take it from there?

But it cud b the devil

If it was God we would meet for real

Lala247:


But it cud b the devil

If it was God we would meet for real

So am of d devil? That's a gr8 way 2 justify your reluctance. Y not take responsibility 4 your choices instead calling God and devil? Is taking responsibility no longer a sign of maturity (with reference 2 your write up)? Now we in a conversation, is it God or devil or both?

Lala247:
Signs you a dating a boy and not a man

1.)Lives at home with parents
A real man wants responsibilities. Wants to be out in the real world figuring out how life works e.g getting a job , paying bills , studying etc. a man also helps out his family long after his left his home to ease the stress on his parents.
Only a boy would carry on living with parents eating, taking their money and not contributing nothing to the household .
2.) does not work
A man is hard working , never wants to be idle plans for his future and is very ambitious, because his working toward having a family settling down and living a comfortable life. A boy on thinks about now, lazy and has no ambition whatsoever .. Some don't even want to study or further their education. But i bet you they are hitting clubs and down with current fashion n music...
3) very childish
They joke alot, they take nothing serious everything they do or say is one big game or party.you can never have a straight or mature conversation with them.
4.)Anger
They get angry quick over little things and can be very irrational in decision making. A man would never hit a woman no matter the situation but find ways around a hostile encounter.
5.) Rejection
A man is not afraid of rejection but sees it as a learning experience to better himself or move on . A boy takes offence and acts out in a childish manner.
6.)Initiative
A man knows a good woman when he sees one , they look beyond beautiful and overall appearance and get to know a lady inside and out, they are not shy and can take risk even if it means looking silly to get the woman. A boy mostly interested in appearance they are not bothered about getting to know a woman also they find it hard to commit .
7.)Honesty
Boy tell lies alot petty ones, a man is honest and knows when to take ownership of his mistakes . A man is not afraid to apologise for wrong doings . A boy would make excuses for them.
8.)Manners
A man has manners they are polite and treat women right . They respect your parents and family. a boy lacks manners some wont even greet your parents and they talk to women like objects .


Source: me


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*sips tea*

Get yours a style and bedrock to lay on... You are an example of a Gold Digger.. What makes you thinks all those attributes are real. So because you came across these on some blog or personal thinking and u think nairaland is your last busstop to upload it... Mumu.
I'm in my parent hub right now and I'm the one paying my university fees,clothing,etc and I have just secure my company with CAC and my company will start operation before these very month end without my parent nor friends nor family member But Only God. All these I have achieve as a young student while still living with my parent roof and greater I will achieve in the nearest future to come.
*So does all these mean I'm still a boy*
So tell me

Romance section people no go kill person, I swear

Am sure harrysterol has seen this but damn hahaha. Shey mama's boy like me no go come marry ni?

simdam500:
Romance section people no go kill person, I swear

Am sure harrysterol has seen this but damn hahaha. Shey mama's boy like me no go come marry ni?

am a man na lol not a boy like u

harrysterol: am a man na lol not a boy like u

simdam500:

I still the look for wife any available specie?

harrysterol: I still the look for wife any available specie?

Ha!!!

Harrysterol can lie ooo

Lala247:


Waiting for right man ..

Why wait when I'm right here?

Ssdigest21:


Get yours a style and bedrock to lay on... You are an example of a Gold Digger.. What makes you thinks all those attributes are real. So because you came across these on some blog or personal thinking and u think nairaland is your last busstop to upload it... Mumu.
I'm in my parent hub right now and I'm the one paying my university fees,clothing,etc and I have just secure my company with CAC and my company will start operation before these very month end without my parent nor friends nor family member But Only God. All these I have achieve as a young student while still living with my parent roof and greater I will achieve in the nearest future to come.
*So does all these mean I'm still a boy*
So tell me

Err Bro.... U don't have to take it that way, the thing is that most of these ladies always see things happening around the world and expect all to be constant in every part of the world.

In naija, things are just crazily different. I know people that have spent ages studying, struggling or even going on some form of sabbatical hustles with the hope of making it big and becoming self-sufficient, but yet things still don't go well and they can't do without being dependent on others one way or the other. you can't call that laziness or lack of ambition/foresight, it's just the way our society has been shaped by many years of poor planning and leadership.

I know masters holders that still depend on family members... I even know 1 that's back in his parent's house for almost a year now after getting a masters degree in UK. He still doesn't have a job and he's determined not to settle for less (being offered #50k job after spending millions on masters degree in UK, haba )

Girls can go on posting lists, but try not to be infuriated by their perception of life, the only form of approval u really need is from ur family and those closest to you. They're the ones that have an idea of what u've been through.

Cheers

Mcbussy:


Err Bro.... U don't have to take it that way, the thing is that most of these ladies always see things happening around the world and expect all to be constant in every part of the world.

In naija, things are just crazily different. I know people that have spent ages studying, struggling or even going on some form of sabbatical hustles with the hope of making it big and becoming self-sufficient, but yet things still don't go well and they can't do without being dependent on others one way or the other. you can't call that laziness or lack of ambition/foresight, it's just the way our society has been shaped by many years of poor planning and leadership.

I know masters holders that still depend on family members... I even know 1 that's back in his parent's house for almost a year now after getting a masters degree in UK. He still doesn't have a job and he's determined not to settle for less (being offered #50k job after spending millions on masters degree in UK, haba )

Girls can go on posting lists, but try not to be infuriated by their perception of life, the only form of approval u really need is from ur family and those closest to you. They're the ones that have an idea of what u've been through.

Cheers

Thanks bro, you have said it all.

Lala247:


But it cud b the devil

If it was God we would meet for real

If u are dating a guy and u catch him cheating on u and he tells u that d devil was responsible, would u call him a boy or a man? If u are dating a guy and u ask him 4 money 4 your hair(which he can afford) and then he tells u God will provide, will u call him a boy or a man? So it me beats that it has 2 take God and devil b4 u can c me( d “right man”) or interact with me outside NL considering d fact that u even requested 4a private conversation. I was disappointed cos your integrity was called 2 question and u couldn’t rise 2d occasion. It was as if u didn’t no what it meant 2 “wait 4d right man”. U posted that statement without conviction which makes your write up of d attributes of boys suspect. If u cant defend what u say about yourself how can u claim that what u say about others is true? Its more like u don’t know what u want cos u say u waiting 4 d right man, d right man appears next thing God and devil have 2 orchestrate things. U are on NL, FB, BBM and whatsapp I guess. Who is responsible 4 that, God or devil? With your write up u raised d bar, u raised expectations but when I came close, “u fall my hand”. So maybe not all that glitters is gold afterall. U seem 2b an idealist, someone who tries 2 insulate herself from d realities of life. U are good at analysing how d world around u isn’t working right but u aren’t brave enough 2 take d risk 2 make it better. U are good at analysing d shortcomings of others but u are far from someone who can lead by example. Hope am wrong but with d little interaction I have had with u, am sure u will find it hard 2 disagree

lexy2014:
If u are dating a guy and u catch him cheating on u and he tells u that d devil was responsible, would u call him a boy or a man? If u are dating a guy and u ask him 4 money 4 your hair(which he can afford) and then he tells u God will provide, will u call him a boy or a man? So it me beats that it has 2 take God and devil b4 u can c me( d “right man”) or interact with me outside NL considering d fact that u even requested 4a private conversation. I was disappointed cos your integrity was called 2 question and u couldn’t rise 2d occasion. It was as if u didn’t no what it meant 2 “wait 4d right man”. U posted that statement without conviction which makes your write up of d attributes of boys suspect. If u cant defend what u say about yourself how can u claim that what u say about others is true? Its more like u don’t know what u want cos u say u waiting 4 d right man, d right man appears next thing God and devil have 2 orchestrate things. U are on NL, FB, BBM and whatsapp I guess. Who is responsible 4 that, God or devil? With your write up u raised d bar, u raised expectations but when I came close, “u fall my hand”. So maybe not all that glitters is gold afterall. U seem 2b an idealist, someone who tries 2 insulate herself from d realities of life. U are good at analysing how d world around u isn’t working right but u aren’t brave enough 2 take d risk 2 make it better. U are good at analysing d shortcomings of others but u are far from someone who can lead by example. Hope am wrong but with d little interaction I have had with u, am sure u will find it hard 2 disagree

Ok wrll thats your opinion
I have reasons why ... And your just assuming .. If i responded to your pm the way u want u wouldnt type this out ..
I made right choice
Thanks

Nice write up lala247. Would love to have u write for my blog

MaxNaija:
Nice write up lala247. Would love to have u write for my blog

What blog?

Lala247:


What blog?

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Maxnaija Dot com. Having such creative and proficient hands in the Relationship section will be massive.

If u got interest, u can shoot me a mail maxnaija @gmail.com

MaxNaija:
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Maxnaija Dot com. Having such creative and proficient hands in the Relationship section will be massive.

If u got interest, u can shoot me a mail maxnaija @gmail.com

Ok

Lala247:


Ok wrll thats your opinion
I have reasons why ... And your just assuming .. If i responded to your pm the way u want u wouldnt type this out ..
I made right choice
Thanks

Of course,u made d right choice. As 4 my "assumptions",its called feedback and am sure uv got a lot of that since u made your post, both +ve and -ve.. Its smthn u should come 2 xpect and accept whether its in your favour or not. If u c it as vengance on my part, then uv lost an opportunity. Am sure there are a few things I said that u'll find useful

lexy2014:
Of course,u made d right choice. As 4 my "assumptions",its called feedback and am sure uv got a lot of that since u made your post, both +ve and -ve.. Its smthn u should come 2 xpect and accept whether its in your favour or not. If u c it as vengance on my part, then uv lost an opportunity. Am sure there are a few things I said that u'll find useful

Lol thanks .. I get what u mean now