jaybee3:
Absolutely no sympathy for the gullible girl. She got what she deserved for being so stupid by dropping her guard and refusing to engage her common sense

I swear down dude got no shame. I detest desperate mofos and i'm sure the conservatives will nominate him for their deport first appeal later immigration stance.

She wasn't silly, she just felt loved.

You may not know, but so many fat girls get depressed if no man ask dem out not to talk of marry.
So if even person wey wowo like me ask am out she go gree, because all she's searching for is happiness.

tlops:


with what you wrote one can only conclude you have not interacted much with oyinbos. Their society is not as fraudulent as ours where you have to question everyones intentions. Most people are straight forward. They have "no fear" for anything so they do not have to lie or pretend. It is this quality of theirs that makes them easy prey to Yahoo yahoo runs.

I guess you see them as demigod and no point telling you how they view me at my office.

Run along!

loomer:


She wasn't silly, she just felt loved.

You may not know, but so many fat girls get depressed if no man ask dem out not to talk of marry.
So if even person wey wowo like me ask am out she go gree, because all she's searching for is happiness.

I disagree…. She was very silly and obviously a low life probably on the dough or something along that line

She wouldn't have been able to meet someone the very first time then decide to stay back if she had a job to go back to

Impulse and love should never work in a synchronous way

I wonder if the words liars, scammers, conmen are all Nigerian words and not English

See white man worship

jaybee3:


I guess you see them as demigod and no point telling you how they view me at my office.

Run along!

Ordinary safety training for one month in texas dem go deny person due to people like this,

jaybee3:



I disagree…. She was very silly and obviously a low life probably on the dough or something along that line

She wouldn't have been able to meet someone the very first time then decide to stay back if she had a job to go back to

Impulse and love should never work in a synchronous way

You might be right, but I'm only trying to let u know wat I see, cos majority of such people grab the first opportunity they get of being shown love

Feel no pity for her,cos im so sure she ought to have heard others peoples experiences based on this same ish buh den love blinded her eyes

Wonder when all this oyibo wud learn

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loomer:


You might be right, but I'm only trying to let u know wat I see, cos majority of such people grab the first opportunity they get of being shown love

First and foremost, your “such people” labeling ain’t cool.

With that outta the way, the desperation that allowed her leave Devon (which is actually far from London) to meet a complete stranger then decide to spend unplanned days points towards it being the norm/regular for her.

Her being cool with hanging out with a stranger for days doesn't necessarily mean she has low self-esteem. It points to someone without morals and of course jobless (I can’t over emphasize enough why this is important).

She wanted to have fun by getting herself some black meat off the net and she got burned in the process.

jaybee3:


First and foremost, your “such people” labeling ain’t cool.

With that outta the way, the desperation that allowed her leave Devon (which is actually far from London) to meet a complete stranger then decide to spend unplanned days points towards it being the norm/regular for her.

Her being cool with hanging out with a stranger for days doesn't necessarily mean she has low self-esteem. It points to someone without morals and of course jobless (I can’t over emphasize enough why this is important).

She wanted to have fun by getting herself some black meat off the net and she got burned in the process.

I rest my case

jaybee3:


badt bwoi

I'm pretty sure the thought of a rumored BigBen in African Men enticed her to turn a supposed day visit into a permanent cohabitation arrangement.

Only trashy girls with no values and obviously jobless will move in with a man from the first day of meeting him

She simply got served!

The lackluster pursuit of BigBen

habaaaa, the girl was in love,

u see, this is why our girls are difficult to get,

even wen they like u , they are scared to show it becos u might see them as being spoilt or desperate

tlops:


With what you wrote, one can only conclude you have not interacted much with "oyinbos". Their society is not as fraudulent as ours where you have to question everyones intentions. Most people are straight forward. They have "no fear" for anything so they do not have to lie or pretend. It is this quality of theirs that makes them easy prey to Yahoo yahoo runs.

Tell Oyinbo girl that your father owns Cocoa House, she will say "oh really" and that is swallowed hook line and sinkers. If you now tell her you were just joking, she will say you were lying. to them that was not a joke but a lie.

So don't blame her. She was in her society where people tend to be honest.

he has oo, he lives in the UK,

Dont mind him,

this is why our girls are so inhibited.

loomer:


I rest my case

I sincerely hope you are resting your case because you’ve managed to realise there isn’t really any correlation between perceived weight issues and being able to hold a man down.

There are so many overweight women with attractive qualities that will surely enable good quality men gravitate towards them.

Also, no were in the original report that suggested she was dealing with some sort of low self-esteem that would have prompted her to become desperate for anything and everything.

The only characters that you could have easily deduced from the report was that she was trusting, gullible and most certainly jobless.

I’m sure she would have learnt her lesson

tlops:


With what you wrote, one can only conclude you have not interacted much with "oyinbos". Their society is not as fraudulent as ours where you have to question everyones intentions. Most people are straight forward. They have "no fear" for anything so they do not have to lie or pretend. It is this quality of theirs that makes them easy prey to Yahoo yahoo runs.

Tell Oyinbo girl that your father owns Cocoa House, she will say "oh really" and that is swallowed hook line and sinkers. If you now tell her you were just joking, she will say you were lying. to them that was not a joke but a lie.

So don't blame her. She was in her society where people tend to be honest.

You are right.

lololol

amanze15:
Ordinary safety training for one month in texas dem go deny person due to people like this,

Ben I hope u got ur visa.

Just wondering why she is wearing a black bra on a white sleeveless gown..doesn't look nice. Anyways, i really feel sorry for her it must be really heartbreaking. It would have been better if he told her from the start that he only needed her for papers then she may have done him a favour as a friend and he wouldn't have hurt her.

I think se all these naija disgrace don take style de end. Witch na im go kill that ben, e no go better for him, he will never prosper in his life, na people like ben de spoil things for others we are sincere.

And they call this news? No be today things like this dey happen. In fact due to stricter immigration laws and other factors, the number of fake marriages has drastically gone down. In the 80s and 90s, 90% of Nigerians in the USA or UK came illegally, obtained their stay thru fake marriages and are now naturalized citizens. I feel no pity for these women for they are only paying for the sins of their fore fathers(slavery) and to a hustling 9ja guy, the end must justify the means!

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crowns2:
Just wondering why she is wearing a black bra on a white sleeveless gown..doesn't look nice. Anyways, i really feel sorry for her it must be really heartbreaking. It would have been better if he told her from the start that he only needed her for papers then she may have done him a favour as a friend and he wouldn't have hurt her.

How is it different from any normal UK citizen marrying her and then cheating on her with other girls. 99% of men do this. This is not news and not peculiar to visa seeking nigerians. Ok he married her because of visa abi? What about UK citizens that would marry her just to get accommodation/financial gains and still cheat on her?

EbolaParasite:


How is it different from any normal UK citizen marrying her and then cheating on her with other girls. 99% of men do this. This is not news and not peculiar to visa seeking nigerians. Ok he married her because of visa abi? What about UK citizens that would marry her just to get accommodation/financial gains and still cheat on her?

Ebola biko dalu....leave me alone o Answer those your questions alone..today is a happy day for me..Baba go be Presido tomorrow.. no carry your reggae spoil my blues..carry your virus face anoda person abeg

LOL. Fat white girls always looking for "love".

jaybee3:



I disagree…. She was very silly and obviously[b] a low life[/b] probably on the dough or something along that line

She wouldn't have been able to meet someone the very first time then decide to stay back if she had a job to go back to

Impulse and love should never work in a synchronous way

Why would you call someone who was deceived a low life? That is a very NASTY and CRUEL thing to say. The fact that we are on a faceless forum does not give people the right to throw their manners out of the window!

sevule:


Why would you call someone who was deceived a low life? That is a very NASTY and CRUEL thing to say. The fact that we are on a faceless forum does not give people the right to throw their manners out of the window!

Well I feel so strongly about the fact that she can just decide to stay longer than initially planned without consideration for other activities that should have consumed her time.

BTW, instead of getting all charged up for no frigging reason, did you even consider that the lady in question obviously had no manners nor values for taking such risk when the dude could have turned out to be a psycho?

crowns2:

Ebola biko dalu....leave me alone o Answer those your questions alone..today is a happy day for me..Baba go be Presido tomorrow.. no carry your reggae spoil my blues..carry your virus face anoda person abeg

buhaha...rotflmao....

jaybee3:


First and foremost, your “such people” labeling ain’t cool.

With that outta the way, the desperation that allowed her leave Devon (which is actually far from London) to meet a complete stranger then decide to spend unplanned days points towards it being the norm/regular for her.

Her being cool with hanging out with a stranger for days doesn't necessarily mean she has low self-esteem. It points to someone without morals and of course jobless (I can’t over emphasize enough why this is important).

She wanted to have fun by getting herself some black meat off the net and she got burned in the process.

One of our lovely brothers has been drinking from the scam fountain again and you seem to reserve most of the scorn on a naïve 20 something shop worker. As much as I agree that she was foolish to go off with a stranger like that (could have ended up being murdered), Devon is a rural county where there is hardly any crime, you can still buy local produce and leave the money in an 'honesty box' so she probably never heard of marriage scams.

2CatWoman:


One of our lovely brothers has been drinking from the scam fountain again and you seem to reserve most of the scorn on a naïve 20 something shop worker. As much as I agree that she was foolish to go off with a stranger like that (could have ended up being murdered), Devon is a rural county where there is hardly any crime, you can still buy local produce and leave the money in an 'honesty box' so she probably never heard of marriage scams.

I agree with you. The girl is just human and trusting. I hope she recovers from this and finds happiness.

jaybee3:


Well I feel so strongly about the fact that she can just decide to stay longer than initially planned without consideration for other activities that should have consumed her time.

BTW, instead of getting all charged up for no frigging reason, did you even consider that the lady in question obviously had no manners nor values for taking such risk when the dude could have turned out to be a psycho?

don't you think you're being too judgemental here?

Mehn! THe lady is so large like a gigantic seal, no wonder he took advantage of her gullibility#oyinbo girls...so easy to chyke. Esp the ugly ones




«Shame on the guy tho

coogaluta:


don't you think you're being too judgemental here?

What's judgemental about someone that moved in with someone they barely know after dating online for 3 months abd of course ignored quality advice from her friends and family?

jaybee3:


I guess you see them as demigod and no point telling you how they view me at my office.

Run along!

Just because they see you this way, doesn't mean they see every black person the same way. Just sayin'