The wife is to b blamed coz she is not paying satisfying him in bed

agarawu23:
you see yourself , you didn't read the main issue we are discussing on, you are just jumping on the comments

What is the issue? Is an issue ever justifiable for a man to sleep with the maid? So U read the issue and concluded this?
If a woman is hardworking, I see know reason why she should need a house girl. Even if you are working in the bank, (which is not our business) you have to create time for your house work and focus on your husband

quel domage..

Creamish:


What is the issue? Is an issue ever justifiable for a man to sleep with the maid? So U read the issue and concluded this?
If a woman is hardworking, I see know reason why she should need a house girl. Even if you are working in the bank, (which is not our business) you have to create time for your house work and focus on your husband

quel domage..

but I gat a lot of people supporting my opinion. definitely I am making sense with my comment.

as a lady, you can also defend yourself with your comment on the issue.

I defended mine

Teespice:


really. tell me something I don't know.

even if you have a perfect wife, you lot would still cheat and blame it on nature and hormones.

say something else abeg.

Ur reply did a gud job putting u d spot baby cos itz clear dat u av chosen to ignore a pressing concern. Very easy indeed to live in denial.

BTW pls wotz ur definition of a 'perfect wife' jare? 'm waiting.

agarawu23:
but I gat a lot of people supporting my opinion. definitely I am making sense with my comment.

as a lady, you can also defend yourself with your comment on the issue.

I defended mine

How many ladies defended that point?...none.. I'm guessing u'l prolly find it hard to understand why a lady will not defend that point. I fault your reasoning that women have a special gigantic threshold for fatigue. So regardless of the kinda work she does, and how tired she may be, U just don't care. She must still handle her duties & still have the strength to focus on her hubby.

Nways.. U say ur not an advocate for career women so U dont know what it is like to have one as a wife. U cannot ever truly understand sth uv never experienced.

Cheers.

Creamish:


How many ladies defended that point?...none.. I'm guessing u'l prolly find it hard to understand why a lady will not defend that point. I fault your reasoning that women have a special gigantic threshold for fatigue. So regardless of the kinda work she does, and how tired she may be, U just don't care. She must still handle her duties & still have the strength to focus on her hubby.

Nways.. U say ur not an advocate for career women so U dont know what it is like to have one as a wife. U cannot ever truly understand sth uv never experienced.

Cheers.

@bolded, I am sure you didn't read the first page well cos the girl I quoted with my comment was blaming the guy(as a defend for the ladies)

We just have ladies/women out there who can't do house chores even if they are full housewives.

I still stand on my point.

agarawu23:
@bolded, I am sure you didn't read the first page well cos the girl I quoted with my comment was blaming the guy(as a defend for the ladies)

We just have ladies/women out there who can't do house chores even if they are full housewives.

I still stand on my point.

I'm only against the quoted. The fact that you don't care about her fatigue.

Creamish:


I'm only against the quoted. The fact that you don't care about her fatigue

exactly.
That's why we should shine our eyes when searching for wife

jaybee3:


What's your take on this booboo?

is this the scenario or there is another?

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

agarawu23:
exactly.
That's why we should shine our eyes when searching for wife

I rest my case. Have fun.

Creamish:


I rest my case. Have fun.

that shouldn't stop your vote for me sha

Creamish:


is this the scenario or there is another?

yes darl

jaybee3:


yes darl

oh..rily? I did read it. Thought there was actually a meaningful scenario somewhere btw the pages that I missed..

agarawu23:

that shouldn't stop your vote for me sha

I'l prolly be too fatigued from work to vote for you...good thing is, U prolly wont care. Good for us both.

Creamish:

I'l prolly be too fatigued from work to vote for you...good thing is, U prolly wont care. Good for us both.

hahahaha
even if you have 1m votes for me, I won't change my statement

enjoy

Creamish:


oh..rily? I did read it. Thought there was actually a meaningful scenario somewhere btw the pages that I missed..



I'l prolly be too fatigued from work to vote for you...good thing is, U prolly wont care. Good for us both.

Not really jare... You know how we like to dey add salt for soup na

agarawu23:
hahahaha
even if you have 1m votes for me, I won't change my statement

enjoy

I'l squeeze in 1 vote for u....just 1. Nuttn more.

jaybee3:

Not really jare... You know how we like to dey add salt for soup na

Lol...yeah.. I still don't accept the guy has any justification to cheat sha. He can simply talk to his wife and express his disappointment. The onus is on her to accept his advice and change.

Hazardd:

whats this one saying...
no one to blame..how will you feel if you are taking the same soup every night..

And the wife is not taking the same soup every night? Or is it only the man that has the right to eat variety of soups?

Creamish:


I'l squeeze in 1 vote for u....just 1. Nuttn more.

jaybee3:


yes darl

hmmmm

agarawu23:
3 reason why you should blame the wife ?

1. don't tell us the wife is blind to realize the housegirl is matured enough to scatter her home , a housemaid with a killer front and back when her own is just little. Or you think temptation get respect ? devil can use anybody.

2. If a woman is hardworking, I see know reason why she should need a house girl. Even if you are working in the bank, (which is not our business) you have to create time for your house work and focus on your husband.

3. Some of you ladies can't satisfy your husband. You have killed the current your husband knew you for while you guys were dating. Now you are married to him and you think you should reduce your sexual activities. OK na , he go fuuuck una housemaid including your friends.

Barman ! Give ds guy 2 big botles of Orijin with a plate of cowtail peppersoup, na correct guy

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

davedave1:
Barman ! Give ds guy 2 big botles of Orijin with a plate of cowtail peppersoup, na correct guy

bro thanks for the offer o
na Vote make you order for me

Both parties are to be blame

Creamish:


Lol...yeah.. I still don't accept the guy has any justification to cheat sha. He can simply talk to his wife and express his disappointment. The onus is on her to accept his advice and change.

Yeah absolutely no justification for cheating because the wife is a career woman.
If he wanted a traditional woman then he should simply earn more and pay the woman the equivalent salary.

Only men with zero substance will feel threatened by the success of their partners. No man should kill the career/ambition of their spouse just so they can massage their ego. It's wrong and unrealistic when our society doesn't necessarily provide post-divorce support for the wife.

Marriage is all about partnership and both parties are meant to contribute towards the success of the marriage.

delishpot:


And the wife is not taking the same soup every night? Or is it only the man that has the right to eat variety of soups?

yea, the man only have the right to eat as many soup he want because he is the source of money for the soup...

tildachi:
Both parties are to be blame

Nigerians are always quick to blame the wife when something goes wrong in the marraige.

Is it the fault of the woman that the man couldn't control his d*ick and be faithful? Women are always blamed for everything even when they're innocent!

Would you blame the man if the wife f*ucks houseboy? I guess your answer would be, NO!

agarawu23:
I can't be in the situation because my wife isn't dumb to bring somebody like rokia.... as our housemaid. the more she turns her backside to me when cleaning our TV, the more my 'baba ibeji' trying to go to war

I'm talking about your wife sleeping with another man like the driver because she spends more time with him more than you.

Hazardd:

yea, the man only have the right to eat as many soup he want because he is the source of money for the soup...

Haha . So if the man come broke small one day and the woman come start to make soup money(Bread winner) , shey she can then start chopping other soups?

Moana:
I'm talking about your wife sleeping with another man like the driver because she spends more time with him more than you.

Why don't we just blame Moana!?

jaybee3:


Why don't we just blame Moana!?

no jaybee is the best target

Moana:
no jaybee is the best target

It's your fault moana..

Why always you?