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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:32pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
vicben27:Stop encouraging child labor because you're too weak to control your p3nis. What is wrong with you people? 6 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Well obviously. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 3:33pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
jaybee3:na your fault joor. You caused it all |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:35pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Joy1706: Would any guy care to answer this please? Buncha hypocrites some of you are. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jaybee3(m): 3:38pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
cococandy: What's their to answer again when it's evident that financial pressure is one of the single most important reason for divorce 1 Like |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:42pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
jaybee3: I'm not talking divorce here. I'm just asking plain and simple of it is ok to blame the man when his wife cheats on him because he's not meeting up to his roles as a husband. If they can say it's the wife's fault that the man cheated with the maid and can't say the same when the wife does it with some guy helping the husband with his duties, then it is plain hypocrisy and of course just as excuse to justify bad behavior. As always. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jaybee3(m): 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
cococandy: Anyone that fails with their primary responsibility deserves some sort of blame. It's as simple as that |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana:she can't try it because I will always be there for her |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
jaybee3: Let's agree to disagree. For me it's clear cut. If I cheat on my man with any of our male house helps, I expect to be blamed totally for it. And Vice versa. 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 3:52pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
agarawu23:but you were talking about cheating on her if u have a maid who looks like Rokiatu, but she can never try cheating on you arent those double standards 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jaybee3(m): 3:54pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
cococandy: Do you think it's easy to solve a problem without finding the reason for the problem? Yes you can absorb the blame but that doesn't mean the dude shouldn't find where he failed as a man |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 3:59pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana:I am just taking it as an example , not my decision. I don't cheat I am just giving points why you should blame the wife |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 4:04pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
agarawu23:okay when your wife cheats please blame yourself since it make sense to blame a woman for her husband cheating |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 4:09pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana:I will never marry a cheating wife |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 4:10pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
agarawu23:that will only happen if you are not a cheating husband |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 4:19pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana:ma'am , I don't cheat, I am always satisfy with my Lady because I will open my eyes clearly before I choose wife |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by MzMay(f): 4:31pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Seconded |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:40pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Hazardd:You see your life? If you now lose your job and your wife becomes the breadwinner, don't expect your wife to be nice and faithful to you. She'll definitely treat you like a houseboy 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by InvertedHammer: 4:44pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Fact: Some men sleep with their maids. Women in denial say: Blame the man for lack of self control, using a maid encourages child Labour, etc. Jesus said: Do not put the Lord, your God to temptation. Solution: Don't bring another lady into your relationship, be it a maid or whoever. Blaming the men for this despicable act or the wife will never solve the problem. Many women will still lose their husbands to the maids. If your hand will lead you to sin, cut it off. So says the bible. If the maid will be the "temptation" in your relationship, why not err on the side of caution and let her go. Women can take this simple logical advice or risk losing their matrimonial bed to that young blood (with well-rounded melons) especially when madam with flabby brea.sts starts looking more like a bag of yam courtesy of child birth. A word is enough for the wise. Protect your home. / |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
agarawu23:Hope you marry a secondary school dropout o and make sure none of your daughters go to the university because as you said you don't like career women. They must remain in the kitchen if not you're just a hypocrite |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:52pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
InvertedHammer:That's an insulting way to talk about women whose bodies go through the wringer to bear your kids. What's wrong with some of you guys? 2 Likes |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 4:53pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Joy1706:so university graduate will make a good wife than a secondary school dropout ? |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Maximus85(m): 4:59pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Joy1706: If it's a crime to want my wife cook my food, then I'm ready to go to prison. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Adesiji77: 5:04pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
cococandy: Eziokwu! |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Cyriloha(m): 5:23pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Joy1706:brother there are more of DIGITAL MOTHERS THESE DAYS THAN REAL MOTHERS BELIVE IT OR NOT |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by mikolo80: 5:23pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by zeyney(f): 6:07pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
unmarried u cheat married u still cheat daris God o |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by davedave1: 7:25pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
agarawu23:vote fr what bro ? And u go promise us say u go do well fr ur post o... |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 7:28pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
davedave1:haha yes na |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Hazardd(m): 7:46pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Joy1706:no be our money(pride price)we use and pay for the soup... She is still my soup when she became breadwinner or what...lol |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
It happens but blames lies on the shoulder of the wife. What is her responsibilities as a wife if she can't make chance to maintain nor serve Her family with Her best effort. There must not be a maid nor a house girl in the Land of Nigeria because we are not in china where people were trade as slave. |
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Hazardd(m): 7:50pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
delishpot:no be me use my money and bought the soup(pride price)so i have the right whether to change soup or not.... lol |
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