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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:32pm On Jun 16, 2015
vicben27:
no maid wil cook my mealz if u cant cook me a gud meal stay in ur fathers house any maid datz is above 12yrs is nt welcom in my house resist d devil n he'll flee away frm u
Stop encouraging child labor because you're too weak to control your p3nis.

What is wrong with you people?

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:33pm On Jun 16, 2015
babygirlfl:


Alpha males don't go around singing it in people's ears. People tell them they are Alpha males. The more someone talks about being an Alpha male, the farther away they are from being an Alpha male.

Well obviously.
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 3:33pm On Jun 16, 2015
jaybee3:


It's your fault moana..

Why always you?
na your fault joor. You caused it all
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:35pm On Jun 16, 2015
Joy1706:
All the guys here are just typing rubbish as if their brains have been removed from their heads. If a woman not doing all or most of the chores is justification for the man screwing the maid, then I guess a woman is justified for stepping out on her husband if he cannot provide for the family. The husband will bear the blame for the wife cheating on him since he can't step up to his responsibility

Would any guy care to answer this please?

Buncha hypocrites some of you are.

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jaybee3(m): 3:38pm On Jun 16, 2015
cococandy:


Would any guy care to answer this please?

Buncha hypocrites some of you are.

What's their to answer again when it's evident that financial pressure is one of the single most important reason for divorce

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:42pm On Jun 16, 2015
jaybee3:


What's their to answer again when it's evident that financial pressure is one of the single most important reason for divorce

I'm not talking divorce here.

I'm just asking plain and simple of it is ok to blame the man when his wife cheats on him because he's not meeting up to his roles as a husband.

If they can say it's the wife's fault that the man cheated with the maid and can't say the same when the wife does it with some guy helping the husband with his duties, then it is plain hypocrisy and of course just as excuse to justify bad behavior.

As always.

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jaybee3(m): 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2015
cococandy:


I'm not talking divorce here.

I'm just asking plain and simple of it is ok to blame the man when his wife cheats on him because he's not meeting up to his roles as a husband.

If they can say it's the wife's fault that the man cheated with the maid and can't say the same when the wife does it with some guy helping the husband with his duties, then it is plain hypocrisy and of course just as excuse to justify bad behavior.

As always.

Anyone that fails with their primary responsibility deserves some sort of blame. It's as simple as that
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015
Moana:
I'm talking about your wife sleeping with another man like the driver because she spends more time with him more than you.
undecided she can't try it because I will always be there for her smiley
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015
jaybee3:


Anyone that fails with their primary responsibility deserves some sort of blame. It's as simple as that

Let's agree to disagree.

For me it's clear cut. If I cheat on my man with any of our male house helps, I expect to be blamed totally for it.
And Vice versa.

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 3:52pm On Jun 16, 2015
agarawu23:
undecided she can't try it because I will always be there for her smiley
but you were talking about cheating on her if u have a maid who looks like Rokiatu, but she can never try cheating on you undecided arent those double standards

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by jaybee3(m): 3:54pm On Jun 16, 2015
cococandy:


Let's agree to disagree.

For me it's clear cut. If I cheat on my man with any of our male house helps, I expect to be blamed totally for it.
And Vice versa.

Do you think it's easy to solve a problem without finding the reason for the problem?

Yes you can absorb the blame but that doesn't mean the dude shouldn't find where he failed as a man
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 3:59pm On Jun 16, 2015
Moana:
but you were talking about cheating on her if u have a maid who looks like Rokia tu, but she can never try cheating on you undecided arent those double standards
I am just taking it as an example , not my decision.
I don't cheat embarassed
I am just giving points why you should blame the wife
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 4:04pm On Jun 16, 2015
agarawu23:
I am just taking it as an example , not my decision.
I don't cheat embarassed
I am just giving points why you should blame the wife
okay when your wife cheats please blame yourself since it make sense to blame a woman for her husband cheating
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 4:09pm On Jun 16, 2015
Moana:
okay when your wife cheats please blame yourself since it make sense to blame a woman for her husband cheating
I will never marry a cheating wife embarassed
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Moana(f): 4:10pm On Jun 16, 2015
agarawu23:
I will never marry a cheating wife embarassed
that will only happen if you are not a cheating husband
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 4:19pm On Jun 16, 2015
Moana:
that will only happen if you are not a cheating husband
ma'am , I don't cheat, I am always satisfy with my Lady because I will open my eyes clearly before I choose wife smiley
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by MzMay(f): 4:31pm On Jun 16, 2015
Seconded
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:40pm On Jun 16, 2015
Hazardd:

yea, the man only have the right to eat as many soup he want because he is the source of money for the soup...
You see your life? If you now lose your job and your wife becomes the breadwinner, don't expect your wife to be nice and faithful to you. She'll definitely treat you like a houseboy

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by InvertedHammer: 4:44pm On Jun 16, 2015
Fact: Some men sleep with their maids.

Women in denial say: Blame the man for lack of self control, using a maid encourages child Labour, etc.

Jesus said: Do not put the Lord, your God to temptation.

Solution: Don't bring another lady into your relationship, be it a maid or whoever. Blaming the men for this despicable act or the wife will never solve the problem. Many women will still lose their husbands to the maids.

If your hand will lead you to sin, cut it off. So says the bible. If the maid will be the "temptation" in your relationship, why not err on the side of caution and let her go. Women can take this simple logical advice or risk losing their matrimonial bed to that young blood (with well-rounded melons) especially when madam with flabby brea.sts starts looking more like a bag of yam courtesy of child birth.

A word is enough for the wise. Protect your home.
/
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:49pm On Jun 16, 2015
agarawu23:
oh sorry!
did I hit your nerves?

But my wife isn't complaining. everybody has his/her own way of doing things and I personally don't like career women.

Don't judge me with my post miss .
it's my opinion smiley
Hope you marry a secondary school dropout o and make sure none of your daughters go to the university because as you said you don't like career women. They must remain in the kitchen if not you're just a hypocrite
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Joy1706(f): 4:52pm On Jun 16, 2015
InvertedHammer:
Fact: Some men sleep with their maids.

Women in denial say: Blame the man for lack of self control, using a maid encourages child Labour, etc.

Jesus said: Do not put the Lord, your God to temptation.

Solution: Don't bring another lady into your relationship, be it a maid or whoever. Blaming the men for this despicable act or the wife will never solve the problem. Many women will still lose their husbands to the maids.

If your hand will lead you to sin, cut it off. So says the bible. If the maid will be the "temptation" in your relationship, why not err on the side of caution and let her go. Women can take this simple logical advice or risk losing their matrimonial bed to that young blood (with well-rounded melons) especially when madam with flabby brea.sts starts looking more like a bag of yam courtesy of child birth.

A word is enough for the wise. Protect your home.
/
That's an insulting way to talk about women whose bodies go through the wringer to bear your kids. What's wrong with some of you guys?

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Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 4:53pm On Jun 16, 2015
Joy1706:

Hope you marry a secondary school dropout o
so university graduate will make a good wife than a secondary school dropout ? undecided
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Maximus85(m): 4:59pm On Jun 16, 2015
Joy1706:

You will take your car to the car wash, and your gate will be automatic ba? You're a hypocrite. Aren't all these things meant to make life easier for you but ur wife commits a great sin by getting a maid to assist her with the chores. If a woman doesn't suffer, you guys won't be happy. I cant deal with your hypocrisy. Abeg! It's easier for a man to poke the housemaid than the the gateman doing madam? Ok na. Tell that to those men who don't know their raising their gateman's spawn.

And who says there aren't men who neglect their wives' sexual needs? There are equally millions of hotter and richer guys out there to service madam

If it's a crime to want my wife cook my food, then I'm ready to go to prison.
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Adesiji77: 5:04pm On Jun 16, 2015
cococandy:


Let's agree to disagree.

For me it's clear cut. If I cheat on my man with any of our male house helps, I expect to be blamed totally for it.
And Vice versa.

Eziokwu! cool
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Cyriloha(m): 5:23pm On Jun 16, 2015
Joy1706:

How many wives do you know who sit at home doing nothing? Most women that go out everyday working their butts off.
brother there are more of DIGITAL MOTHERS THESE DAYS THAN REAL MOTHERS BELIVE IT OR NOT
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by mikolo80: 5:23pm On Jun 16, 2015
ArchEnemy:

1. He is not disciplined

how come[b](can you discipline hunger,pain or any other natural stimuli)[/b]
2. He does not fear God and his marriage vows[b](what has God got to do with this)people said one man one wife not God[/b]
3. He will ruin his home[b](how?did solomon ruin his home)[/b]
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by zeyney(f): 6:07pm On Jun 16, 2015
unmarried u cheat married u still cheat daris God o
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by davedave1: 7:25pm On Jun 16, 2015
agarawu23:
bro thanks for the offer o
na Vote make you order for me grin
vote fr what bro ? And u go promise us say u go do well fr ur post o...
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by agarawu23(m): 7:28pm On Jun 16, 2015
davedave1:
vote fr what bro ? And u go promise us say u go do well fr ur post o...
haha
yes na
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Hazardd(m): 7:46pm On Jun 16, 2015
Joy1706:

You see your life? If you now lose your job and your wife becomes the breadwinner, don't expect your wife to be nice and faithful to you. She'll definitely treat you like a houseboy
no be our money(pride price)we use and pay for the soup...
She is still my soup when she became breadwinner or what...lol
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jun 16, 2015
It happens but blames lies on the shoulder of the wife.

What is her responsibilities as a wife if she can't make chance to maintain nor serve Her family with Her best effort.

There must not be a maid nor a house girl in the Land of Nigeria because we are not in china where people were trade as slave.
Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Hazardd(m): 7:50pm On Jun 16, 2015
delishpot:


Haha grin grin. So if the man come broke small one day and the woman come start to make soup money(Bread winner) , shey she can then start chopping other soups?
no be me use my money and bought the soup(pride price)so i have the right whether to change soup or not.... lol

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