lilspiceyy:

Y wld I be having a conversation wit a mad man? (which is yur name by the way) Abeg Bleep off

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See now you have thrown an insult. Simple question you can't answer and do you know why? Because you want to eat your cake and have it. You know you can't control your tongue and yet you want to be free to use it to hurt others without repercussions.


If you meet me physically and use such caustic words like 'madman' on me... I will warn you once, twice, three times. After which if you persist in being rude I will bend skinny li'l you over my knee and give you a good spanking after which I will fill your mouth with bitter leaf so that next time you will think twice before insulting those bigger and stronger than you cos you are a woman and you feel "nothing should make a man hit a woman".


Nansense.

Gaborone:


Do you -women-beaters- hit MObile POLice Officers when they provoke you? When they ask you to roll in the gutter with your suit, do you punch them?

Why not man up and flex your muscles man to man when faced with a depressed red-eyed trigger happy Uniformed man?. No, all your energy is reserved for beating up a woman half your size. That's so manly, it gives me the shivers.

We - women beaters- don't go about provoking people bigger and stronger than us. It's simple survival instinct. But women won't hear and will continue chopping highly avoidable slaps in the name of "nothing can make a man hit me".

snakebeat:

So ur own definition of an alpha male is a woman beater?

obviously

This one never sleep for cell for one week and made to sign a no violence pact with government /human rights agents



go and ask your fellow women beaters that just spent the weekend in cell and ask them how they enjoyed the cell with men thrice stronger than them


after then come back and rant

5minsmadness:
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See now you have thrown an insult. Simple question you can't answer and do you know why? Because you want to eat your cake and have it. You know you can't control your tongue and yet you want to be free to use it to hurt others without repercussions.


If you meet me physically and use such caustic words like 'madman' on me... I will warn you once, twice, three times. After which if you persist in being rude I will bend skinny li'l you over my knee and give you a good spanking after which I will fill your mouth with bitter leaf so that next time you will think twice before insulting those bigger and stronger than you cos you are a woman and you feel "nothing should make a man hit a woman".


Nansense.

5minsmadness:



We - women beaters- don't go about provoking people bigger and stronger than us. It's simple survival instinct. But women won't hear and will continue chopping highly avoidable slaps in the name of "nothing can make a man hit me".

Meaning, you- women-beaters- are perfect beings who have never provoked anyone. Talk about the quintessense of perfection

You must have been made from a different kind of dust. Men who don't beat women have a lot to learn from you.

5minsmadness:
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See now you have thrown an insult. Simple question you can't answer and do you know why? Because you want to eat your cake and have it. You know you can't control your tongue and yet you want to be free to use it to hurt others without repercussions.


If you meet me physically and use such caustic words like 'madman' on me... I will warn you once, twice, three times. After which if you persist in being rude I will bend skinny li'l you over my knee and give you a good spanking after which I will fill your mouth with bitter leaf so that next time you will think twice before insulting those bigger and stronger than you cos you are a woman and you feel "nothing should make a man hit a woman".


Nansense.

This guy needs help! Seriously? And u call me little.....ROTFL have u seen me? .Anyway, there will be no need to meet physically just end dis conversation am done wit u.

simpleseyi:


Even if the woman's tongue is sharper than razor blade?

For a woman to talk to her husband in such a manner he must have provoked her na. Wen she is nt sick....its either he is lies, cheats on her, keeps late nights,he drinks to stupor etc. I am woman and I won't find it funny wen my man does such things.

dinachi:

You miss the point entirely! He is not married to trigger happy red eyed mobile police officers.
And even at that people have beaten up mobile police and military officers before!.The question is why do you make it your life call to provoke your husbands and dare them to beat you? When you can't provoke police and red eyed military officers the same way?
If you can't hold your mouth how then do you expect somebody else to hold back their hands. You do not have self control but you expect your husband to have.You are a hypocrite!

Oh, now I get: A man's self control drops to zero when it relates to his wife. I believe that's the reason why the same level of provocation while resulting in a husband pummeliing his wife, would result in his saying, "Yes sir! Yes sir! I'm in the gutter already sir!", to a Uniformed man. Thanks for pointing that out to me.

And just so you know, you missed my point too, which is, if you can exercise self control when face to face with a uniformed man harassing you for no reason, you should be able to do same for your wife. You do not cherry pick your battle here, just because you know while flexing your muscles for one would lead to your death, and the other is a mere walk over. Be a man and deal with that uniformed man too.


Thanks.

Gaborone:

Oh, now I get: A man's self control drops to zero when it relates to his wife. I believe that's the reason why the same level of provocation while resulting in a husband pummeliing his wife, would result in saying, "Yes sir! Yes sir! I'm in the gutter already sir!", to a Uniformed man. Thanks for pointing that out to me.
And just so you know, you missed my point too, which is, if you can exercise self control when face to face with a uniformed man harassing you for no reason, you should be able to do same for your wife. You do not cherry pick your battle here, just because you know while flexing your muscles for one would lead to your death, and the other is a mere walk over. Be a man and deal with that uniformed man too.
Another thing you should learn too is that you do not talk with your fists.
Thanks.

Yet the woman who says yes sir to a uniformed man will charge at her husband and wash him down with words! What stops the wife from exercising the same self control when face to face with a military man with her husband ni?
Some men have beaten up military men and even killed some. So your argument is a no brainer.
My question which you have not answered is if the wife cannot exercise self control and reign in her mouth while should she expect another human being to reign in his hands? Are they not both humans?
Women fight with their mouths, men fight with their fists! So when a woman throws caution to the wind and expects her husband not to follow suit, she is simply being hypocritical!
And stronger women have even beaten up their husbands. So do you support domestic violence only when the woman is doing the beating?

See im mutt like "my husband"!
You get husband or animal for house?
Abeg quench dia jor!
Mtcheeeeeeeew!

SAMBARRY:
This one never sleep for cell for one week and made to sign a no violence pact with government /human rights agents



go and ask your fellow women beaters that just spent the weekend in cell and ask them how they enjoyed the cell with men thrice stronger than them


after then come back and rant

Notice the way I said I would "discipline" her. What would be her complaint to the authorities?

Gaborone:


Meaning, you- women-beaters- are perfect beings who have never provoked anyone. Talk about the quintessense of perfection

You must have been made from a different kind of dust. Men who don't beat women have a lot to learn from you.

Thank you.

SAMBARRY:
obviously

Spurious!!!

FrancisTony:

Baseless....

dinachi:
Domestic violence is a very serious matter but I have found out many times that most people who are victims are usually people who have terrible character and caustic tongues. Sometimes, they also start the violence by engaging in highly provocative acts like pushing or shoving their husband when they are angry or even threathning their husbands. Some even go as far as preventing the man from leaving the house to cool off . Some will sieze the mans car keys and dare him to take it back others will lock the man in and dare him to break the door.
Most of the time women who are beaten up asked for it with their eyes wide open and their arms outstrechted!
Yet except in self defence, the man is supposed to reign himself in. Because men are not human. They are supposed to be Angels who can do no wrong! If a woman can not reign herself in and keep her tongue and hands in check being human, how then does she think another human being will be able to reign himself in? It is what it is! One trillion legislations will never stop domestic violence unless some people realize that we are all humans and treat everybody with respect. The woman who abuses her husband and the man who beats his wife are BOTH guilty of abuse. So Op until I hear from your husband or you tell exactly what the situation is nobody will be able to give a good advice.

10000000likes for this.
What a prudent comment!
May God continue to increase ur knowledge....

lilspiceyy:

This guy needs help! Seriously? And u call me little.....ROTFL have u seen me? .Anyway, there will be no need to meet physically just end dis conversation am done wit u.

Yes i've seen you. Skinny little teenager. Abi na lie?

5minsmadness:


Yes i've seen you. Skinny little teenager. Abi na lie?

In yur dreams.

5minsmadness:


Notice the way I said I would "discipline" her. What would be her complaint to the authorities?

plenty

violence
inhumane treatment
and threat to life

5minsmadness:

Abeg answer my question or sit down. Why should a woman not be hit if she provoked the man?

Why should a woman not verbally insult a man if he provoked her?

5minsmadness:


Notice the way I said I would "discipline" her. What would be her complaint to the authorities?

my dear if you have the 1999 constitution help me open to chapter 4 , section 33 and 34 and read it





I hate blind argument





and for those who don't have the 1999 constitution of the federal Republic of Nigeria I'll type it for you since there are a couple of mentally challenged people around here
(33).1 every person has a right to life and no one shall be deprived intentionally of his life, save in execution of the sentence of a court in respect of a criminal offence of which he has been found guilty in Nigeria
(2) a person shall not be regarded as having been deprived of his life in contravention of this section, if he dies as a result of the use, to such extent and in such circumstances as are permitted by law of such force as is reasonably necessary
(a) for the defence of any person from unlawful violence or for the defence of a property


move to 34
(1) every individual is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person and accordingly
(a) NO PERSON SHALL BE SUBJECTED TO TORTURE OR TO INHUMAN OR DEGRADING TREATMENT





end of discussion! !!!!!

Pineapp:

Will you marry her??

Hypocrite!!!!!

Madam, assess yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off..
If he was like this before you married him, then you saw fire and jumped into it.

One sided stories touch the heart.

Answers like this shock me! I can almost believe that you are a woman beater!

1. "will you marry her"? Is marriage the ultimate? Are all unmarried people living a less fulfilling life? So, its better for her to die in the marriage!

2. "madam access yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off"? Are you for real? On no account should a man hit a woman except its self defense!

3. If its your sister, is this the advice you will give her?

Very strange!

lilspiceyy:
On no account should any man hit a woman please madam just leave dat marriage before you end up in a coffin.

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

She'll grab your husband.. don't listen to her, most of them are still searching. Find mature women on how to handle the case

jrerico1:




She'll grab your husband.. don't listen to her, most of them are still searching. Find mature women on how to handle the case

U are so immature! Grab her husband? For wat? Am only offering my two cents and it's left for her to take it or leave it! Any mature woman wld encourage her to leave that marriage cos that man wld one day injure her or worst still kill her!

SAMBARRY:


move to 34
(1) every individual is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person and accordingly
(a) NO PERSON SHALL BE SUBJECTED TO TORTURE OR TO INHUMAN OR DEGRADING TREATMENT
end of discussion! !!!!!

Everyone is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person. Women who abuse and badmouth their husbands una hear am? So that you as a woman already knows that you are breaking the law when you abuse your husbands! If you disrespect your husband you have broken the law.

No person shall be subjected to torture or inhuman or degrading treatment. Another good point. So before you point accusing fingers to your husband for packaging you physically after you abused him, emotionally tortured him and degraded him, let it be clear to you O woman that you broke the law first!

lilmax:
You did something wrong

Is that how you react to every wrong your wife does, applying fisticuffs?

@Op, first things first, seek separation from him. Any husband who turns heavyweight boxer only against his wife is a spineless coward with very little self-confidence which explains his peculiar tendency to employ brute force when he discovers to his horror that he is not able to match his intelligence with his wife's which translates to an unforgivable injury to his pride and ego, and as such should be severely punished with battery to avoid future re-occurrence. The problem is that it becomes a habit that cannot never be changed by keeping silent or trying to reason with him. Any day you speak up, irrespective of how long you've put up with his excesses without complaining, he reacts the only way he knows - with multiple punches to your eyes, jaws, chin, nose, teeth, stomach, etc. It is now his defense mechanism. What is yours? Silence?

Lady, I can only say you got married to Kim Jong-un in a man's body. Your survival depends on your separation. This is your only effective defense mechanism if you want to live another day.

lilspiceyy:

For a woman to talk to her husband in such a manner he must have provoked her na. Wen she is nt sick....its either he is lies, cheats on her, keeps late nights,he drinks to stupor etc. I am woman and I won't find it funny wen my man does such things.

hmmm, u never chi chom chin, I know of a lady who would call to insult like kilode just because one travelled, and couldn't call (as expected by the lady) not minding his constant explanation which every thinking being can fathom with. Now she didn't call the guy, didn't text, but once it strikes her, she'd go as far as borrowing phones to call, text and hurl insults if she couldn't do it with her phone. Now tell me the crime d man committed here.

If you are one lady who would respect her man, kudos, keep it up. But please don't make excuses for those who don't. Neither will I make excuses for any man who'd hit his woman. Let's learn to respect each other

Gaborone:


Meaning, you- women-beaters- are perfect beings who have never provoked anyone. Talk about the quintessense of perfection

You must have been made from a different kind of dust. Men who don't beat women have a lot to learn from you.

How many men have you seen fighting that are of unequal build? Whether you want to believe it or not, the fear of a punch to the face is one major reason why men respect each other. The only reason women run their mouths is because they know there are no consequences for such. Where I'm from, though, men don't hit women, if we want to treat a woman's Bleep up, we contract it to other women. Case closed.