Single ladies don suffer

BOYFREIEND OR FUCKING MATE EASY BUT HUSBAND HARD DYE.

Dottore:
Single ladies don suffer

As in ehn... We don't view them as human beings anymore on this site.

Women sow seeds to get husbands? how? Tufia!!! chai women we haf suffered!

Mtcheewwww

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

JWell, thankfully, that's not the case

lol you still in your mid twenties probably younger when you're in your thirties body go tell you.

Noo, make them continue to sow and remain single, while the so called men of god keep buying jets.

BiggyB242:
lol you still you middle twenties or probably younger when you on your thirties you go understand

What age is there? This is the typical nairaland response. You are not old enough to know anything..

The poster is right.

Marriage is a choice and a huge life commitment. You don't just get married because you are getting old. You have to check that you are marrying the right man/woman.

Aminat508:
Mtcheewwww

Ah ah, why you dey hiss na? You're not single, midolian is very much around oh. LOL.

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

Are there people(men) out there that actually feel that they are doing someone a favor by getting married to them? or is it simply you ladies that has constantly made it look that way through your fruitless journey searching for a wrongly defined equality and self fulfillment that is all nothing but a mirage.

FlirtyKaren:




http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/09/memo-to-desperate-single-nigerian-women.html

and this are the deceivers of women.

Keep on deceiving yourself with others

But you will advice WOMEN to gold digging.

What do you mean by not buying gifts to men

What is this EEDIOT talking about


Jezz. You are a messager of hell

when you have been brainwashed by your pastors... you follow instructions like zombie.

In late Adegboye Adegbenga "alaye mi gbegulo" word- "Oro sunuku Ω̴̴̩̩̩̥̩̩̩̥a re.... E je ki a fi oju sunuku wo"....... I pray they listen.... Although, it pays both sides.

osazeeblue01:
BOYFREIEND OR FUCKING MATE EASY BUT HUSBAND HARD DYE.

This is the nonsense lie many Nigerian women keep falling for. Please go to bed

sonofananimal:
and this are the deceivers of women.

Keep on deceiving yourself with others

But you will advice WOMEN to gold digging.

What do you mean by not buying gifts to men

What is this EEDIOT talking about


Jezz. You are a messager of hell

Hol up, hol up, hol up! Mehn, Shii! And fear no catch you to mention me, abi? Big Sodomizer from the pit of Sodom & Gomorrah. Ca -man, Gerrara here mehn! Shii!!

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

jezz I love people like you. You tend to open your smelling mouth and talk the opposite of what you are actually doing .


Foolish woman ! Did you think you are getting younger

BiggyB242:
lol you still in your mid twenties probably younger when you're in your thirties body go tell you.

Bro, quit that mentality o.

These girls dem dun lock up o.

No mind as far as they can make money and buy any hungry boy to keep at home showing other women what being independent can do.

I have a neighbor that has virtually become his wife's boyboy.

He has no right to do anything by and for himself without his wife's consent ,in fact he doesn't make any decision unless the wife - And he does all the chores at home ,drives the rickety car while maintaining a reasonable distance from freed slaves like us.

And anytime she opens her mouth to scold him - You would think she was talking to his teenage son.

Be rather dead than for a woman to feed you.

priscaoge:
[size=14pt] All these grammar ↑ ↑ there shey na for husband abi? OK Kontinu

Make i ask sef, When did Marriage/Husband become a Ticket to Heaven? African mentality shaaaa


Mizmycoli happy new year! It's been a long time I read Ur post! [/size]

education is not a yardstick to heaven butcomplete it.

FlirtyKaren:




http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/09/memo-to-desperate-single-nigerian-women.html

If the bible say 'man', it mean male and female. Pls sharpen ur axe of knowledge before spewing rubbish

The same mentality that is making a lot of ladies unmarried at 35. Make una keep preaching independence while time ticks away.

At a certain age, women needs the family setting more than men. It is how it is, forming strong and independent online changes nothing.

women were gift to the men before, but they are burdens now to the men. They bring almost nothing but trials and tribulations to a man's life. Modern day marriages are mostly scams.

In the event that something goes wrong as it always
does, the ladies are usually left with huge financial
losses. These are monies that could have been invested
rightly.

So it's better for the man to be left with huge financial losses in the event that something goes wrong with the marriage?

sonofananimal:
jezz I love people like you. You tend to open your smelling mouth and talk the opposite of what you are actually doing .


Foolish woman ! Did you think you are getting younger

LMAO. If you see the way Mizmycoli round like cow eh, you go say no wonder men dey run from am. LMAO.

Atleast one look at her profile pic will prove to you that wht I said above is true.

Truckpusher:
Are there people(men) out there that actually feel that they are doing someone a favor by getting married to them? or is it simply you ladies that has constantly made it look that way through your fruitless journey searching for a wrongly defined equality and self fulfillment that is all nothing but a mirage.

I mean for the first time, for the very first time, I have to say I almost agree with you drugpusher.

FlirtyKaren:


Hol up, hol up, hol up! Mehn, Shii! And fear no catch you to mention me, abi? Big Sodomizer from the pit of Sodom & Gomorrah. Ca -man, Gerrara here mehn! Shii!!

fear catch me

Nonsense set of WOMAN

That's why your species will always be foolish

rman:
The same mentality that is making a lot of ladies unmarried at 35. Make una keep preaching independence while time ticks away.

At a certain age, women needs the family setting more than men. It is how it is, forming strong and independent online changes nothing.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with an unmarried woman at 35. If she is happy with her life choices and decisions, what is your business?

Truckpusher:
Bro, quit that mentality o.

These girls dem dun lock up o.

No mind as far as they can make money and buy any hungry boy to keep at home showing other women what being independent can do.

I have a neighbor that has virtually become his wife's boyboy.

He has no right to do anything by and for himself without his wife's consent ,in fact he doesn't make any decision unless the wife - And he does all the chores at home ,drives the rickety car while maintaining a reasonable distance from freed slaves like us.

And anytime she opens her mouth to scold him - You would think she was talking to his teenage son.

Be rather dead than for a woman to feed you.

Oh drugpusher, I'm really starting to like you oh, kachisbarbie seems like the kind of girl who would do the above.

#No offense intended.

Well what gives me joy, is that young people are becoming more and more aware of themselves, instead of running around with bibles , and mantras in a bid to secure a husband , they are doing more soul searching and bringing out their best, funny enough there is no where from genesis to revelation that the bible actually mentioned money as a seed, it's always in refrence to seed of plants or procreation from man or animals, this seed matter na way for our men of God to rip people off , thanks to God we are waking up from the slumber

MizMyColi:


Sis, it is true that we do not exist in Isolation. There are different opinions my dear. Some are positive, some are negative...You have the right and power to choose the opinions that are relevant to you.




I thank you very much for your honesty.
First, please understand that your life situation is different from your life.
Please also understand that you cannot continue to identify with people's undermining and demeaning remarks...else you will not make any head way.

I have taken up interest in politics.
There is hardly a day at least one person doesn't say things to undermine me and make me feel really bad about myself.
I have been called a LovePeddler, I have been called a bigot, I have been called FAT and Ugly, please name them

But I made a choice not to identify with any of those....because that is not who or what I truly am.

Accept it or not, it does not matter what the world sees or thinks of me...what matters is what I see and think of me.

I am sharing this because I know that there are people who are out there who have one issue or another but aren't bold enough to talk about it.

If people have called you fat and ugly...If people have called you a perpetual bachelor or spinster....if they have labelled you unprintable names....WHAT IS YOUR OWN PERCEPTION OF YOURSELF?
You might not fully grasp it now, but that is what matters in the long run.




I understand your point my dear.
But what is the use of holding on to people's opinion if it doesn't favour me?
What is the use of holding on to negativity and pain which people try to drag me into when I can very much chose life, positivity and sweetness.

It is hard, but we need to understand that that first and foremost we exist for ourselves, not for people.

Yes, people will talk...
But this is life and it is what we make of it.

There is a spirit in you and I that gives us understanding of what is right and what is wrong. Though people's input are welcome, but you and I have the right to discard it if it does not resonate with that which is inside us.



I beg to disagree here.
That is a worldly mentality and I will not be part of it.

So because people shame those who have no job, who are fat and unattractive, who have one ailment or another and other negativities....then I should join the band wagon because that's what they do in rome?

No!

I will not compare myself to anyone.
I don't want anyone to compare theirself with me.
I am whole, I am complete. I am strong.
This is the reality of everyone else reading this too. How much of this you believe about yourself is what matters.
Remember, your life situation is different from your life. They are two different things.

That things are not the way you want them to be now is never a reason to think less of your humanity. Focus on the right person...Not the wrong people.
Let that which is within change that which is without.

I abhor you in the politics section but Miss you just spoke to my being.
Thank you for this write-up.

raayah:


There is absolutely nothing wrong with an unmarried woman at 35. If she is happy with her life choices and decisions, what is your business?

are you serious Infact by the time you clock 29 and you are still single it then u will understand the true meaning of depression.

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

I share your views. Society puts so much pressure on women to get married or die trying, meanwhile a huge percentage of the ones married are miserable. My goal in life is to be truly happy for as long as I live. I am single and genuinely happy and I would rather remain that way than marry anyone who will reduce my level of happiness.

joseph1832:
LMAO. If you see the way Mizmycoli round like cow eh, you go say no wonder men dey run from am. LMAO.

Atleast one look at her profile pic will prove to you that wht I said above is true.

I mean for the first time, for the very first time, I have to say I almost agree with you drugpusher.

I have seen that shapeless WOMAN picture before.

UGLY people always tend to talk RUBBISH. And think like there ugliness

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

Quit being too strong, its not a woman quality.
Moreover no one talks about career when they are 50
You simply just look at your friends kid and wish you had given it more go.

You are giving work/career more meaning and importance than they where originally intended to have

Jollyjoy:
are you serious Infact by the time you clock 29 and you are still single it then u will understand the true meaning of depression.

Well, that is if your life goal is to get married at 29.