Truckpusher:
Are there people(men) out there that actually feel that they are doing someone a favor by getting married to them? or is it simply you ladies that has constantly made it look that way through your fruitless journey searching for a wrongly defined equality and self fulfillment that is all nothing but a mirage.

Jollyjoy:
your moniker says it all.

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

stone07:
This page is full of frustrated ladies. Using of grammar to favour their disappointed situation. If I should guess, all of una over age single. You have not experienced joy of been married.

joseph1832:

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An2elect2:


This is the nonsense lie many Nigerian women keep falling for. Please go to bed

An2elect2:


This is the nonsense lie many Nigerian women keep falling for. Please go to bed

kaboninc:


I used to think that adulthood comes with maturity and civility.

But I've always had this reservation that maturity is not synonymous with common sense.

You are one of those who have always made me feel right....that there are some 'matured' folks who are actually 'stvpid'.

Get a life...

demelza:
I abhor you in the politics section but Miss you just spoke to my being.
Thank you for this write-up.

You're welcome.


However, if you'll take my advice, the word "abhor" is a rather strong one....using such words on people gives a reflection of one' internal state of being.

The politics section is the most difficult place to live in assuming NL is a house with many compartments.
Because you are forced to live with many crass and annoying views.

But when you begin to read people's opinion from the place of tolerance...you will be better for it.

Have I ever attacked you? Or spoken to you using wanton words? What is your justification then.

I used to "abhor" a particular poster too for very personal reasons not because of partisan affiliations.
But I dealt with it.

You can too

raayah:


The typical women are always nagging, quarrelling,blah,blah,blah post... What has this got to do with anything?

When we have a post that seeks to enlighten women or a post against domestic violence against women.. You bring up this rhetoric!

tayediggss:


I share your views. Society puts so much pressure on women to get married or die trying, meanwhile a huge percentage of the ones married are miserable. My goal in life is to be truly happy for as long as I live. I am single and genuinely happy and I would rather remain that way than marry anyone who will reduce my level of happiness.

Don't let the masochists and sadists see this post

They will term you strong headed and unyielding.

Jollyjoy:
easier said than done.

ekemini606:


Quit being too strong, its not a woman quality.
Moreover no one talks about career when they are 50
You simply just look at your friends kid and wish you had given it more go.

You are giving work/career more meaning and importance than they where originally intended to have

One question.

Do you know me?
Where in all my posts on this thread did I mention job or career?
Do you know if I am crassly jobless as we speak?

Sorry, I ended up asking three

aspirebig:
This is incomplete without mentioning the names of such churches that collect such seed.

Nonsense, some ladies sha....You sow seed today, but your have four different men you just turned down their hand in marriage.

Is the the lady that will marry the man or vice versa?

joseph1832:
And like I told your fellow opinionated friend, your opinions doesn't add a single penny to my pocket so shove it up your ass, shove it all up your ass dude, and don't pull it out, leave it there so people will know "opinions are like anus, everybody has one".

Now piss of my mention.

Kitme:

Hey Miz
I couldn't have said it better.
For a while now,The society had prided herself as the yardstick for measuring one's self-worth.
Suffice to say, if you think you're living your life rightly, the way it pleases you, and the society think otherwise, THEIR OPINION shouldn't determine your worth.
The society had done more harm than good, we can't rule that out yet.
Many are in some kind of forced marriage, just to please the society, oblivious that their happiness is their life, they suffer both emotional and physical pain.
When desperation creeps it and it's so glaring even to the men,, Men see that as an edge, they expect such ladies to be their slaves that they can tossed around as they please.
Also, Many are with their abusive partner and can't just get out, Because of the damn society.
However, when the going gets tough, they won't proffer any solutions, instead the victim would be subjected to unending mockery.

I love strong women like you.

You are strong too ma'am. Thank you for the compliment

Life is what we make it.
Society has their perception of us.
We have our own perception of ourselves.

Whose report shall we then believe?

That's where the crux lies.

I took the best decision of my life some 3,4 years back
I have never looked back, I have never remained the same.

Everyone can too.

tayediggss:


I share your views. Society puts so much pressure on women to get married or die trying, meanwhile a huge percentage of the ones married are miserable. My goal in life is to be truly happy for as long as I live. I am single and genuinely happy and I would rather remain that way than marry anyone who will reduce my level of happiness.

ekemini606:


Emancipation my purple striped asss.
If i date u for two years, without proposing, you wuld start comparing me to your friends who have been married. Your women victimize yourself, that's why we give marriage to you as a favour already.

MizMyColi:


You are strong too ma'am. Thank you for the compliment

Life is what we make it.
Society has their perception of us.
We have our own perception of ourselves.

Whose report shall we then believe?

That's where the crux lies.

I took the best decision of my life some 3,4 years back
I have never looked back, I have never remained the same.

Everyone can too.

kaboninc:


You need that advice more than the devil!

Many are mad, few (like you) are exhibiting the symptoms.

priscaoge:



Lol....I have missed a lot of gists tho, just going through Ur previous posts! Trust u had a blissful day today

joseph1832:
Still your opinion f*#k face. And if you have any semblance of sense, you should know that 'advice' is something that can be given, it doesn't mean it must be 'taken'.

And please don't forget to shove your advice up your ass eh... It really belongs there and no place else.

Jollyjoy:
easier said than done.

kaboninc:


Only if you look at yourself right now!

I don't have to waste my time on a useless conversation with a senseless unknown character.

Buzz off

Truckpusher:
You forgot to tell her that it doesn't work for everybody and also tell her that while doing it, wisdom should be applied.

Also tell her that the same society can't be totally ignored after all you're a part of that society and must have consciously and unconsciously subscribed to the same ideology as result of your immediate existence in the same society.

You can't avoid these factors ,would you ?

flokii:
see Desperados dem..

make I guard mysef wella for my oyinbo sweetiepie

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case