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besty_) by Nobody: 3:54pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
My best friend has been dating this guy for about 18 months. She loves him and he loves her. Becuase of her I got close to this guy too, hes now one of my best friends. the problem is that he sent me a text message the other day saying he'd picked the wrong girl, that he'd loved me since he met me and we had so much more in common than him and his girlfriend. he said he hates his decision to date my best friend but he'll live with it. He said he loves me and wants to be with me so much, but that he's not the guy I'm chasing and he thinks he can live with that. I don't know what I'm supposed to do! I dont love him, I dont want to be in a relationship with him. but how am I supposed to tell my best friend that the guy she loves, the guy shes thinking about marriage and kids with, actually loves me and regrets his decision to date her? I dont want to lose my friendship with her! 2 Likes |
Re: besty_) by buygala(m): 3:56pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Nice advert, op .... Now we know you are 500 yards of boo/wife material I have also fallen into love with you... please check your mail and reply my pm before I kill myself Much love from.. BUYGALA 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: besty_) by SeverusSnape(m): 3:56pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Tell him you're not interested. Simple! Don't tell me you're thinking of... |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 3:58pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Just becarefu!, as in very careful! Tell him point blank you aren't interested. What manner of guy is that?! |
Re: besty_) by Twaci(f): 4:04pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Do what you think is best. I won't say go into a relationship with him, or don't, but just put in mind that life is all about Karma. If he is ready to dump your friend for you, he can dump you for another. Be careful. 8 Likes |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Best friend boyfriend Ask the lady above me. . .she read guidance and counselling. #Yol'O 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: besty_) by Ab025(m): 4:12pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
If you don't luv him and also don't want to break ur girlfriend's heart as you said, why don't you just tell him point-blank rather than coming here to tell us on NL and... I dey suspect you joor..... 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Raddie(m): 4:13pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Hope you know the difference between lust and love. spare yourself the drama, if you want to get laid look elsewhere. Why do I have a feeling it's you gunning for him. 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Slimzjoe(m): 4:14pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
See Stories If you where a Caring Friend, you should have Told your Bestie a Long time ago.... That Dude just wants to Shag you both and Walk away 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:15pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Twaci:Not up for a relationship with him, problem is how to tell my friend without hurting her feelings. |
Re: besty_) by hob(m): 4:17pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Better tell her |
Re: besty_) by robosky02(m): 4:17pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Twaci: good advise let her run for life cos even if it works, know you will have ONE ENEMY that may cost you more |
Re: besty_) by Twaci(f): 4:21pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
quiinnBee:Well its better u be straight with her and hurt her now than for her to find out later and hate you. It'd be hard, i know, but you would have to try. For her sake. 3 Likes |
Re: besty_) by Twaci(f): 4:22pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
robosky02:Very true. And we all know that girls can be unforgiving, especially when it has to do with someone they truly have feelings for. |
Re: besty_) by Twaci(f): 4:24pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
richommie: Yolo, how your crush sef? |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:25pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Twaci:true that, i have to....thanks much |
Re: besty_) by donTbone(m): 4:28pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
I smell something here... if you seriously don't want your friendship with her to break, you know wat to do.. oya! #gerrarahia mehn 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Twaci(f): 4:29pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
quiinnBee:You are welcome. 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
The way you are sounding, it is most likely that you are the one in love with him; you are trying to convince him with your own subtle ways. |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:39pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
You don't really have to tell him anything... This ish happens alot, especially if you are hotter than the friend in question. Just stay away from them. Don't let it get to your head that much and if you really like your friend and she's serious about the guy find a way to tell her. He doesn't love you sha. He wants you, if you get my meaning. 3 Likes |
Re: besty_) by IamLEGEND1: 4:42pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
who else is seeing the similarities between this story and the one cooked up by sugarbée a month or two ago....... it seems every girl's fantasy now is to have her best friend's boyfriend fall in love with her..... wanting their lives to be some kind of twisted love triangle.... News flash: this is not "the vampire diaries" or "Twilight". 4 Likes |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
MrsPhyno:yes i get it...would tell her when she's back |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Twaci:lol..i no get any crush ooo. . . #YolO |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:42pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
AwesomelyMade:No 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 4:46pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
If you don't wanna loose the friendship with your girlfriend, just discharge her guy and tell him you're not interested.Don't even dream about telling your girlfriend coz that'll be the end of the relationship, trust me, I'm talking from experience. In my own case, it was my friend's husband making sexual advances at me, swearing to divorce my friend and marry me. 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by emitheo(m): 4:47pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
How did u know he's in love wit u?? just because he said so mtchewww..use your tongue 2 count your teeth abeg... 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 5:22pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
Slimzjoe:shoulda told her since, but its more complicated than that |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 5:24pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
modelmike7:Beats me too |
Re: besty_) by ba7man(m): 5:30pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
We guys will become a girl's n best friend to sleep with her. The guy wants to scatter your friendship with her with his cucumber....... at least he'll have bragging rights when with his friends that he's slept with bestfriends........... next, mother and daughter before switching to sisters. |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: Iamlegend I think I like your sense of thinking,the way you reasoning is quite different from most nairaland guys,have seen most of your comments and they always reasonable...,.... anyway you right the story is similar to that of sugarbree |
Re: besty_) by Nobody: 6:11pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
esosa993:abeg abegggggg the rest of us no go hear word for the next week u guys should stop complimenting this dude 1 Like |
Re: besty_) by IamLEGEND1: 6:15pm On Sep 21, 2015 |
esosa993: Thank you honey. even if this story is remotely true, she has obviously started catching the feels for the guy.... naturally,the solution to this kind of situation is a straightforward one,tell the guy NO...but she had to come to NL to tell us.. is it that she doesn't know what to do abi wetin? shows the guy has gotten to her head already. Or maybe she is putting it here so we can see how "oh so desirable" she is that her best friend's boyfriend has fallen for her.... 2 Likes |
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