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Should He Quit His Marriage? by Sermwell(m): 12:04am On Sep 26, 2015
My married younger brother who happens to be very close to me confided in me that ever since his wedding, his wife hasn't been able to satisfy him in bed atall. And that she blatantly refused to give him a head( s**k his manhood) and has always refused to allow him do same to her. Her reasons were that she doesn't find it permissible due to her religious beliefs. The wife happens to be a very devoted christain but my brothers pain is that she's depriving him of his matrimonial bliss after waiting for her all this years due to no sex till marriage thingy.
Should he quit or ...
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Sunexy(m): 12:04am On Sep 26, 2015
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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by tellwisdom: 12:09am On Sep 26, 2015
Bro, give me her number sad...She fine??

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by yomi007k(m): 12:09am On Sep 26, 2015
What de hell did ur brother expect from a spiri-koko babe.


Wait a minute, do guys dt do ds no-sex till marriage expect "orals"??


I beg jorr

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Sermwell(m): 12:14am On Sep 26, 2015
tellwisdom:
Bro, give me her number sad...She fine??
Give you her number for what?? This is somebody's wife we are talking about undecided
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Makamuanwuo(m): 12:14am On Sep 26, 2015
Beware of non tested, and for me I will test b4 I purchase. ...


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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 26, 2015
Na sex make am marry wife? Is he serious?? Why didn't he marry a harlot. I heard they are very good at what they do

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by basille(m): 12:19am On Sep 26, 2015
Lmao. I just imagined this scenario in my head and couldn't help but laugh out loud! grin grin grin grin grin

No where is it stated it the bible that giving head to your husband is a sin. In fact, couples should engage in activities that would strengthen their marriage. grin grin grin grin
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by dulux07(m): 12:22am On Sep 26, 2015
Is dat what he will tell d judge durin d divorce process He shud let d wife kno dat d bible says her body blongs to her husband to xplore. She must succumb, whether by discussion, quarel or force.
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Sermwell(m): 12:23am On Sep 26, 2015
vfactor:
Na sex make am marry wife? Is he serious?? Why didn't he marry a harlot. I heard they are very good at what they do
So it takes a harlot wife to satisfy her husband in bed?

Okwa ya
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Nobody: 12:29am On Sep 26, 2015
Sermwell:

So it takes a harlot wife to satisfy her husband in bed?

Okwa ya


The problem is not satisfaction. Its selfishness! Must he be given head to be satisfied? Especially when his partner is not inclined to do so?

Is that enough reason for divorce? He should focus on the reason he married her and stop being selfish. At least she's not denying him sex. The next thing u know he's asking for anals and spewing on her face

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by ronald4ever(m): 12:33am On Sep 26, 2015
This would have been averted if they had mated and evaluate their sexual compatibility before proceeding to marriage. This is why I don't entertain the no-sex till marriage dogma and can't marry someone I haven't test-drive.

It takes an experimental sexual exercise to know what one likes and what they don't during sex and without it cases like this would always surface. Many marriages collapse due to sexual frustration and inability of one's partner to meet to their sexual needs.

There's no advice anyone can give him, he should nurse his wounds alone. However, if I were him I'd boycott any coital relations with her and satisfy myself elsewhere until she's ready to embrace sexual evolution and adapt to improved forms of sex which doesn't just end in penetration. Orál sex is the new best thing to deriving sexual contentment and no one deserve to be deprived of it benefits.
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by tellwisdom: 12:35am On Sep 26, 2015
Sermwell:

Give you her number for what?? This is somebody's wife we are talking about undecided

No, i just want to ask her if it was true or not. Give me the number sad...How big is her boobbs and yansh, cos some gurls cant bendlow because of the large size of their yansh. sad sad
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by 400billionman: 12:38am On Sep 26, 2015
Please, avoid these 2 boys above me..

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by NemzySeries(m): 12:49am On Sep 26, 2015
dis are d pple dat makes christianity harder dan. it is....if U're in a no sex relationship dos it stop u guys 4rm talking abt it during dating period?

sha give d woman sum time & den during happy moments try. to win. her

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by wilybebsy(m): 12:50am On Sep 26, 2015
What the fvck is wrong with some dudez? Alwayz acting as if they ain't man enough to handle little problem. Why not sit ur wife down instead of coming to NL

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by kunlesufyan(m): 5:46am On Sep 26, 2015
First I'll ask ,after waiting till marriage before they had sex .I hope she was a virgin?......he s already in,no need to quit becos he isn't satisfied sexually ,they probably don't communicate enough or he doesn't know how to convince her to give him head...
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 6:10am On Sep 26, 2015
U were blinded by love whch made u pick d wrong lady... U should hav asked her wat are her views abt sex

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Sermwell(m): 6:45am On Sep 26, 2015
Cutehector:
U were blinded by love whch made u pick d wrong lady... U should hav asked her wat are her views abt sex
During the course of the no sex till marriage thingy, she assured him that she will allow him 'do whatever he likes'. I guess she didn't avert her mind to the oral stuff wink
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 7:13am On Sep 26, 2015
Sermwell:

During the course of the no sex till marriage thingy, she assured him that she will allow him 'do whatever he likes'. I guess she didn't avert her mind to the oral stuff wink
dat means she lied to him... Divorce straight up
Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by mekybabe1: 7:22am On Sep 26, 2015
Not enough reason to quit his marriage.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by ChappyChase: 8:04am On Sep 26, 2015
"Marriage is honourable in all to a bed un-defiled" I quoted a verse of the holy bible, and it means is in marriage there is no rule and limitation once it comes to sex as far as there is no third-party involved then all "holes" goes.... So make we no use religion take spoil our sex life once it comes to marriage!
So tell your brother to take your wife to a marriage counsellor that knows the bible...

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Nobody: 8:10am On Sep 26, 2015
Your brother seems selfish- he is not enjoying sex he wants to quit who told him she is enjoying sex with him? No wonder she is not inspired to go the extra mile with him. Its all about him.

Your brother just has to be patient she is not a dish he ordered off the menu that he can return like that. He should learn to understand the woman he is married to and what makes her tick he is not the only one who has to be understood.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Pidggin(f): 9:21am On Sep 26, 2015
andromida:
Your brother seems selfish- he is not enjoying sex he wants to quit who told him she is enjoying sex with him? No wonder she is not inspired to go the extra mile with him. Its all about him.

Your brother just has to be patient she is not a dish he ordered off the menu that he can return like that. He should learn to understand the woman he is married to and what makes her tick he is not the only one who has to be understood.

This is the truth.

Has he asked his wife what she prefers? Maybe they can seek a marriage counsellor. There's no need for divorce @ all, at least she's not denying him his conjugal rights.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by freecocoa(f): 9:27am On Sep 26, 2015
Nonsense, did he not know this about the woman before marrying her? If they were in a sex free relationship, was the relationship also communication free?

Mscheeeew.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by freecocoa(f): 9:31am On Sep 26, 2015
Sermwell:

During the course of the no sex till marriage thingy, she assured him that she will allow him 'do whatever he likes'. I guess she didn't avert her mind to the oral stuff wink
Oh! I didn't see this part before commenting.

If she agreed to do whatever he likes, then she best get down on both knees and worship that D, agreement is agreement.angry

He shouldn't divorce her though, they can try counselling, hopefully, she'll come around.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by freecocoa(f): 9:34am On Sep 26, 2015
dulux07:
Is dat what he will tell d judge durin d divorce process He shud let d wife kno dat d bible says her body blongs to her husband to xplore. She must succumb, whether by discussion, quarel or force.
You better desist from this line of thought, nothing about sex should be forced, married or not.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by freecocoa(f): 9:41am On Sep 26, 2015
vfactor:



The problem is not satisfaction. Its selfishness! Must he be given head to be satisfied? Especially when his partner is not inclined to do so?

Is that enough reason for divorce? He should focus on the reason he married her and stop being selfish. At least she's not denying him sex. The next thing u know he's asking for anals and spewing on her face
If you think the man is being selfish, then what will you say of the woman? I'll say she's 10x more selfish than the hubby.

She agreed to do whatever he likes, even though that sounds desperate and really stup1d, bottomline remains she gave her words, now I expect that a reasonable man will know not to abuse another and so far, what the man asks of her is not extreme, he's also willing to return the favour so how is he being selfish? The woman is not even willing to try, atleast make an effort.

Or are you saying it's not his right to want his d1ck sucked?

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by freecocoa(f): 9:48am On Sep 26, 2015
andromida:
Your brother seems selfish- he is not enjoying sex he wants to quit who told him she is enjoying sex with him? No wonder she is not inspired to go the extra mile with him. Its all about him.

Your brother just has to be patient she is not a dish he ordered off the menu that he can return like that. He should learn to understand the woman he is married to and what makes her tick he is not the only one who has to be understood.
I'm sorry but how exactly is this man being selfish? People have a right to want things and if you enter an agreement with someone, only to not keep your part of the deal, what does that make you? The woman is being unreasonable and if she doesn't enjoy sex with him, then it's her place to tell him about it, like he told her.

I'll say the man should be a little more patient and persuasive, atleast when we love someone we do have to make adjustments for them, but if she isn't even willing to try, then they are better off not married.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Nobody: 10:35am On Sep 26, 2015
Sermwell:
My married younger brother who happens to be very close to me confided in me that ever since his wedding, his wife hasn't been able to satisfy him in bed atall. And that she blatantly refused to give him a head( s**k his manhood) and has always refused to allow him do same to her. Her reasons were that she doesn't find it permissible due to her religious beliefs. The wife happens to be a very devoted christain but my brothers pain is that she's depriving him of his matrimonial bliss after waiting for her all this years due to no sex till marriage thingy.
Should he quit or ...

Lesson: Never, ever marry a religious r@tard!

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by Nobody: 10:37am On Sep 26, 2015
freecocoa:
I'm sorry but how exactly is this man being selfish? People have a right to want things and if you enter an agreement with someone, only to not keep your part of the deal, what does that make you? The woman is being unreasonable and if she doesn't enjoy sex with him, then it's her place to tell him about it, like he told her.

I'll say the man should be a little more patient and persuasive, atleast when we love someone we do have to make adjustments for them, but if she isn't even willing to try, then they are better off not married.

He is selfish because he wants to quit a marriage because she is not performing MouthAction. Its just like any other differences in a marriage and he did marry a woman like her he had chances to have married women who were open to orals and whatever.

What deal? He can equally make adjustments and let go of oral. If he loves her he can even let go of oral until further notice not let go of the whole marriage because of MouthAction.

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Re: Should He Quit His Marriage? by hahn(m): 10:44am On Sep 26, 2015
theAtheist101:


Lesson: Never, ever marry a religious r@tard!

@bolded, you mean religiotard. grin

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