I believe that such backward thinking, rather than creating strong stable marriages only leads to a weak form of it. For a marriage should be between two individuals who know themselves and are complementing each other on their personal growth and development and NOT where one person seeks value and worth in another person or institution

MizMyColi:


Not all ladies.
Don't generalize please.

nnamdibig:


Not generalizing but even people like Angelina Jolie after all the fame & fortunes still recognized the need to be married & live under a man.

lezz:
Behind all this veiled call to social revolution lies the real danger of your sophistry in feminism.

I will submit all I have been saying timelessly, the ultimate joy and fulfilment of REAL WOMEN is motherhood and a home with a loving husband.

No official elevation or business achievement come close to giving women such joy and ecstatic fulfilment endlessly.

Our fathers and mothers of old know this.

The joys of promotions
Business endorsement
Entrepreneurial elevation are always shortlived.

But the joy of motherhood and being the beacon and queen of a home is never-ending.

MizMyColi:
This writeup is written by a Nigerian, especially for Nigerian Ladies.
Please understand that while I and the writer share this view, you are under no obligation to share.
If it does not resonate with you...please feel free to toss it out and shout like Orubebe did "WE WILL NOT TAKE THIS; THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE"
If it does resonate with you, please welcome like a breath of fresh air.




https://wordsmithf./2015/09/30/woman-you-are-more-than-a-ring-and-a-title/

mordtonia:
I've been trying to educate girls everywhere I go. Thank you for this.
It's a shame girls over here don't even have any aim in life, just marriage. They judge their worth by a ring and that's all they live for, how can the country grow? I have a cousin who became rude and insulting just because a guy proposed to her she demanded to be called 'Aunty' by everyone.
Please Ladies you have a brain, you have a purpose in life. You were not born solely for marriage.
Even the marriage, you can't have a lasting happy one if you don't have a purpose in life. Hence the high rate of divorce today.
Why were you born?
You have a purpose here.
Discover it, Discover God too.
Then you will have it all.

MizMyColi:
This writeup is written by a Nigerian, especially for Nigerian Ladies.
Please understand that while I and the writer share this view, you are under no obligation to share.
If it does not resonate with you...please feel free to toss it out and shout like Orubebe did "WE WILL NOT TAKE THIS; THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE"
If it does resonate with you, please welcome like a breath of fresh air.




https://wordsmithf./2015/09/30/woman-you-are-more-than-a-ring-and-a-title/

MizMyColi:


Did you read this part?

Tallesty1:
A Lady after reading this:



Lady: Oh, I love this. Thanks MizMyColi, I just wish our ladies will learn.

Then she receives a message from boo.

Boo: Are you free? Let's hang out.

Lady: Oh! I love this. Thanks boo.


So she goes out with boo, straffs him all night and everything she read wipes out automatically.


And everything still remains thesame.

peppyluv02:
Funny but true. 90% of the self acclaimed feminist are the ones who will eat a man's poo just to get a ring on her finger.Many just don't practice what they preach just few.

lezz:
I read that part. I read it in an inclusive take of the whole narrative. And teaching women the art of cleanliness and age-long virtues of our mothers cannot be termed backward.

raayah:


Haha! Ultimate Joy and Fulfillment my brown ass.s

Nihilist:


Scared of what exactly?

NiRfreak:
Movement for the emancipation of women......don arrive......aggrieved individuals against the age long dominance of men.....Let the war begin

lezz:
Is your ass really brown? Could you share more light to this topic other than the browness of your ass?

suwalee:
do I smell feminism ere jst my tots

MizMyColi:
This writeup is written by a Nigerian, especially for Nigerian Ladies.
Please understand that while I and the writer share this view, you are under no obligation to share.
If it does not resonate with you...please feel free to toss it out and shout like Orubebe did "WE WILL NOT TAKE THIS; THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE"
If it does resonate with you, please welcome like a breath of fresh air.




https://wordsmithf./2015/09/30/woman-you-are-more-than-a-ring-and-a-title/

abbey621:


If this is not the dumbest thing I've read then it must surely be the second dumbest! I keep telling feminist that no one is against women being successful but don't drag your man down! Look at the so called advanced countries, what is the divorce rate? What about the rate of single mothers? It is the so called backward thinking that still gives African countries a lower rate of divorce than some of the disillusioned advanced countries. Even the almighty gives a man certain dominance over his woman as long as he treats her fairly, so what's the stress? African women are conditioned to focus on marriage because as Africans we are all about family, all about multiplying and expanding our empire, we realize that while it is the man that usually builds the house, it is eventually the woman that makes it a home. So you might call it backward but what does all the personal accomplishments profit a woman if at the end of the day she can't keep her home? What shall it profit her if she has all the qualities of a boss but none of a good wife and/or mother?

lilmax:
Mizmycoli we need something new, we need women to practice what they preach

Probably the most stupidd article I've read in a while...

The author doesn't take the time to prove that correction of a woman is done solely for the purpose of getting married.

The author fails to recognise the simple fact the the vast majority of women WILL get married and run homes in the future, and thus such correction are actually of upmost importance and offer a lot value.

Another feminist themed drivel of an article, based on a non-starter, and not really inspiring anyone at all.

If you like don't learn to tidy your room, and be shouting feminist propaganda in your husband's soon-to-be-filthy house...

abbey621:


If this is not the dumbest thing I've read then it must surely be the second dumbest! I keep telling feminist that no one is against women being successful but don't drag your man down! Look at the so called advanced countries, what is the divorce rate? What about the rate of single mothers? It is the so called backward thinking that still gives African countries a lower rate of divorce than some of the disillusioned advanced countries. Even the almighty gives a man certain dominance over his woman as long as he treats her fairly, so what's the stress? African women are conditioned to focus on marriage because as Africans we are all about family, all about multiplying and expanding our empire, we realize that while it is the man that usually builds the house, it is eventually the woman that makes it a home.[b] So you might call it backward but what does all the personal accomplishments profit a woman if at the end of the day she can't keep her home? [/b]What shall it profit her if she has all the qualities of a boss but none of a good wife and/or mother?

bestestgirl:

btw, where is our signature font??

MrLouisVanGaal1:


I just look through the thread and i see people like safarigirl, mizmycoli and the rest of the crew are all having a feminist "free the women" 0rgy. Once they are off this thread, they live opposite lives, exactly as described here. I know many women championing this cause. My ex is one and it's funny she is still over me. So much for being a feminist

These women live sad lives, i don't mean the young ones on this thread who are still too young to comprehend what it means to be successful but lonely. I mean the real women who have an emotional void that only men can fill but they act all independent and i don't care about men and in their much reasonable states begin to feel sad about their boring lives. I only feel sorry for those reading this and looking for an affirmation to keep living the feminist fantasy idea of independence and giving no shit about a man. Those are the ones that will later hear few years down the line that these same women who were acting like F$%k marriage are all married.