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Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by collinsflex(m): 2:56pm On Oct 06, 2015
1.They Start Controlling Her Life: they think such practice will make her desist from sex..buh hell No they are wrong. Instead it creates more urge in them.. They always wanna knw where she goes, why she is going out, who she is going out with and lots more.. I think Only FBI agent does this

2.They Seize Her Fone: they seize her fone like she is Allison madueke Diezani who looted the house..some parents even go to the length of destroying her fone and sim..Buh trust this generation there is always a way out

3.They Beat Her: This is when most Parents remember the Bible verse that states "spare d rod and spoil the child" they fall on her like mayweather is taking on Mr Ibu.

4.They Turn Teachers: This applies to only literate parents. They start teaching her about sex, it good n bad, it prevention and every other tin teachable..buh I wonder y dey didn't teach her at d early stage.

5.They Threaten Her: Some parents threaten to disown ther kids, threaten to kill or hand them over to Men on Black If it ever happen again...tho it just mere threat buh dey do this just to put some fear in her

6.They Tell Her The Negative Side Of sex: This is also done to put some fear in ther kids, they tell her d negative side of sex neglecting d benefits..they threaten her with unwanted Pregnancy, std's n oda negative part of sex buh they forget to tell her of heart break and being dumped by d guy.

7.They Try To Hid The Act From The Public: this is usually done to save the name of d family cause most parents see sex as a shameful act.

8.They Restrict Her From Moving With Guys: they turn to mugabe the dictator, they chose d guys she gonna move with n d ones she shouldn't move with

9.They Turn Religious Preachers: At Times I wonder where momci And popci they get those scripture from.. They follow u up wif bible passages and even place u on fasting and prayer for cleansing.. This is only done by over religious parents

10.They Tell Lies Of How They Got Disflowered At Age 25: You knw D Rest Is history and story.

Note: I type dis stuff wit my fone...am not a good writer, critics are welcom

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Nobody: 2:57pm On Oct 06, 2015
Hmmm
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by ilotriouzAY(m): 2:58pm On Oct 06, 2015
.the rate at which parents watch and control dere children nowadays ehn,so frigid

I think all a parent can do is advice the child because it all depends on the child conviction...

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by pinkiberry(m): 2:58pm On Oct 06, 2015
hahahahaha. which sane girl will let her parents know she is no longer a virgin? cheesy

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by ThePeacemaker(m): 2:59pm On Oct 06, 2015
11.) They stop male friends from visiting except the heavy loaded ones

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by donholy28(m): 3:00pm On Oct 06, 2015
True but op those only apply for girls na
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Shebarh(f): 3:01pm On Oct 06, 2015
They do all these bcus they want the best for you smiley

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Nobody: 3:01pm On Oct 06, 2015
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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by funlord(m): 3:02pm On Oct 06, 2015
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Such accurate NONSENSE!
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by donTbone(m): 3:03pm On Oct 06, 2015
Perfect rubbish!





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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by JoeCutie(m): 3:04pm On Oct 06, 2015
pinkiberry:
hahahahaha. which sane girl will let her parents know she is no longer a virgin? cheesy
So you didn't tell them yours?

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by vizkiz: 3:04pm On Oct 06, 2015
so parents now ask their kids about his/her virginity status


Bullshiit! undecided

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by realmindz: 3:08pm On Oct 06, 2015
pinkiberry:
hahahahaha. which sane girl will let her parents know she is no longer a virgin? cheesy

so u still pretend u are virgin at home....
ur parents wud ve seen signs
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by pinkiberry(m): 3:08pm On Oct 06, 2015
JoeCutie:
So you didn't tell them yours?
this guy leave me na cheesy

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by pinkiberry(m): 3:09pm On Oct 06, 2015
realmindz:

so u still pretend u are virgin at home.... ur parents wud ve seen signs
signs and wonders
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Hannysmilez(f): 3:13pm On Oct 06, 2015
"Spare the rod and spoil the child",this verse has caused havoc big time. Even my mother wey no dey go church tells us that before punishing/spanking us. Infact,she just says "spare the rod and..." we have to complete it.
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by vizkiz: 3:18pm On Oct 06, 2015
Hannysmilez:
"Spare the rod and spoil the child",this verse has caused havoc big time. Even my mother wey no dey go church tells us that before punishing/spanking us. Infact,she just says "spare the rod and..." we have to complete it.

so your mum still flogs you till date? cheesy
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by realmindz: 3:18pm On Oct 06, 2015
pinkiberry:
signs and wonders
yeah, signs like ur tiny b***bs lipsrsealed
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Hannysmilez(f): 3:26pm On Oct 06, 2015
vizkiz:


so your mum still flogs you till date? cheesy
Nah,i meant while growing up. But my mum is capable of flogging me when I misbehave even now.
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Akynzodeighbour(m): 3:27pm On Oct 06, 2015
noted
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by vizkiz: 3:37pm On Oct 06, 2015
Hannysmilez:
Nah,i meant while growing up. But my mum is capable of flogging me when I misbehave even now.

#youknowyourmumisNigerian when she tells you "Hey, you are not too old for a dirty slap" grin

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by younghartz(m): 3:41pm On Oct 06, 2015
pinkiberry:
hahahahaha. which sane girl will let her parents know she is no longer a virgin? cheesy

Any mother that doesn't know when her daughter lost her virginity shouldn't be called a mother...
So ur mom never found out?
Issorite

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by MadCow1: 3:43pm On Oct 06, 2015
younghartz:


Any mother that doesn't know when her daughter lost her virginity shouldn't be called a mother...
So ur mom never found out?
Issorite


You sound like someone who would be sticking his hands into his daughters virgina to check her hymen.


Very stupiid comment you just posted and you even posted it with arrogance.

Pfft..

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by younghartz(m): 3:48pm On Oct 06, 2015
MadCow1:



You sound like someone who would be sticking his hands into his daughters virgina to check her hymen.


Very stupiid comment you just posted and you even posted it with arrogance.

Pfft..

Omiaga when will you have sense
As a mother you'll knw when your daughter isn't a virgin any longer
is either your mom and ur sis never had lovely bond..
As a mother ur daughter will never be afraid of telling you anything...
As a mother you will also see physical trait...
Next time have sense pls

Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by MadCow1: 3:49pm On Oct 06, 2015
younghartz:


Omiaga when will you have sense
As a mother you'll knw when your daughter isn't a virgin any longer
is either your mom and ur sis never had lovely bond..
As a mother ur daughter will never be afraid of telling you anything...
As a mother you will also see physical trait...
Next time have sense pls


Again Sir, you have got it all very wrong.

Plus you are a bloke, you have absolutely no clue what you are talking about.

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Nobody: 3:50pm On Oct 06, 2015
Lol......that's what makes living with them fun and hell grin
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by younghartz(m): 3:57pm On Oct 06, 2015
MadCow1:



Again Sir, you have got it all very wrong.

Plus you are a bloke, you have absolutely no clue what you are talking about.


Omiaga
With all due respect sire
You just made it look like ur siblings and parents aint close.
When a girl loose her virginity you will notice a lot of characters in her
As a mother you have undergo all this before so you most knw excpt u dnt have time for ur kids.
Have u ever asked urself "Why r kids afraid of telling their mom who is molesting them?" Cus no good communication btw d mother nd d kid


After observing salat(asar) I'll back to explain further
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by MadCow1: 4:02pm On Oct 06, 2015
younghartz:


Omiaga
With all due respect sire
You just made it look like ur siblings and parents aint close.
When a girl loose her virginity you will notice a lot of characters in her
As a mother you have undergo all this before so you most knw excpt u dnt have time for ur kids.
Have u ever asked urself "Why r kids afraid of telling their mom who is molesting them?" Cus no good communication btw d mother nd d kid


After observing salat(asar) I'll back to explain further


Classic error of the older generation.

You think just because you went through a phase, your kids are experiencing the same shiit.

Look, no kid tells their parents about their virginity. Boys don't go telling their Dad about the Girl they just tapped up, nor do girls tell their mum how a boy just bent them over.

Blame it on every other bullshiit you have filled your kids head with from Church and society in general. A girl who is close to her mum (so close infact) got raped by her 'UNCLE' and didn't tell her mum.

A mother may suspect, but there is no fool proof way of knowing except a physical examination is done.
I have heard of cases where a mother didn't know that her daughter had started mensurating for a while and they had a very good relationship.

There is no foolproof method to child rasing or understanding teenagers. You can have an open line of communication all you want, but if your kid does not tell you, you cant know.

PERIOD!

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Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by vizkiz: 4:04pm On Oct 06, 2015
younghartz:


Omiaga
With all due respect sire
You just made it look like ur siblings and parents aint close.
When a girl loose her virginity you will notice a lot of characters in her
As a mother you have undergo all this before so you most knw excpt u dnt have time for ur kids.

Have u ever asked urself "Why r kids afraid of telling their mom who is molesting them?" Cus no good communication btw d mother nd d kid


After observing salat(asar) I'll back to explain further

illiteracy is a disease, but illitracy ft ignorance? Mehn... undecided

So physical actions determines ones virginity? Chai, people no dey get sense these days oh cry
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by angiography(m): 4:25pm On Oct 06, 2015
pinkiberry:
this guy leave me na cheesy
lol...the guy dey stalk you, lol
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by MsBliss(f): 4:37pm On Oct 06, 2015
all you discussed up there are concerning daughters
Re: Ten Things Parents Do When They Discover Their Children Are No Longer Virgins by Nobody: 5:07pm On Oct 06, 2015
And they end up deceiving themselves because that girl will still fuc k over n over

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