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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by totorimi: 1:45am On Oct 20, 2015 |
He surely has illicit affair going on outside. He feels the home is safe and settled WO time to catch some fun. Nothing can stop him unless he learns his lessons but then it may come at q costly price but then if he is careful he may go unhurt all through. As for you continue to show love and affection you may decide to play the fool also for peace to continue to reign. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Antiparticle(m): 1:47am On Oct 20, 2015 |
You need to cajole him to tell you what's going on. He just might be really depressed (and not even know it). Or he could be gay. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by megareal: 1:47am On Oct 20, 2015 |
itsMrIke:Seconded. Guy is gay. All the signs point to it. Guess he married for appearances. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by chinedu1nig(m): 1:48am On Oct 20, 2015 |
I will advice you pray to God and talk to your Marraige counsellor if you have any. Don't bring your family issues to social media cos all you'll get is social advice. Pick up your bible and follow God's instruction. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Lexusgs430: 1:50am On Oct 20, 2015 |
From your write up, it does not state anywhere that you had actually sat him down and voiced your concerns with him. Best to have a one2one with him. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by roscoman: 1:54am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Madam, ur case is partetic and is worth feelings for. For every problem,there must be solution. Talk to ur husband one on one, let him know how you feel about sex in ur marriage. I am sure he would have a rethink and change. In another way, all men that has been into marriage 5,10years back could testified to my point. Women after some years of marriage they introduced new behaviours that was part of them before but they purposely keep it just for the marriage to come into reality. Ordinarily, there is no any man that sees you with these behaviour and then propose to you in the first instance. That is why,there were many single mothers outside there. U are a woman and u know what I am talking about. May God help u in ur marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by hopilo: 1:54am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Your husband has drop his comment on this thread, condeming the man that treat women this way. Unknowingly talking to himself |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by MagicEmpire: 2:05am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Also have a friend with such issues. Exactly the way you narrated yours. Hope yours doesn't stay in Asaba! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by MagicEmpire: 2:06am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Artistree: Also have a friend with such issues. Exactly the way you narrated yours. Hope yours doesn't stay in Asaba! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by SmartMugu: 2:23am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Have you taken time to ask if he's happy in the marriage at all? Many men are married but only a few are happy in it, and some of them would hardly admit. Only you and him can work that out, or reach out for marriage counseling if needed. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by sule5727: 2:25am On Oct 20, 2015 |
queenfav:nice one |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by hollypagan: 2:40am On Oct 20, 2015 |
you dnt need to discuss this with him , just look thesame way the day he met you, |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Jazzlite: 3:28am On Oct 20, 2015 |
a shoulder to cry on soon becomes a di.ck to ride on.....punkyveer knows all about that |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by innobarca(m): 3:32am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Only 2 Months and u are complaining, some people do stay for more than 3 months without sex...for me,sex is overrated... there are many things to think about in life pls dear woman,mind u am married and to a very beautiful wife DAT also see sex as overrated... so we are happy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by madjune(m): 3:43am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Kini big deal. Take a trip down calabar. Hang out with the Cameroon girls there. Come back home. He needs revival. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by christinie(f): 3:51am On Oct 20, 2015 |
AreaFada2:there's nothing that moves a man than knowing that the person he ignores is a hot cake to others. When a woman makes a man feel like she can't survive without him, he can treat her like trash (if he ain't got consience). Always make your partner feel you are independent (not overly) and they will respect you more. Being clingy can be boring. If indeed he wants out, begging him won't make him change his mind, instead it will compound issues. By the time he notices that the lady isn't worried about him: the time he gets back home; whether he wants her or not etc he will be the one checking the lady out, not the other way round. The man has ego and only reversed psychology can cure his ego. Remember I told her to back this up with prayers. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Samarny(m): 4:25am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Contact me for help |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ransomed: 4:34am On Oct 20, 2015 |
I will be very hard on you because of the kids. Stop nagging him to boredom. Stop comparing him with another man. Stop insulting him. You claimed to be educated, fine, but are you not using your status to intimidate him? Work on your attitude and ego, i mean, do not try to man up to him. Your friend could be teaching you gender equality and you apply it at home without modification to fit in. These are some of the negative vibes that make some men either become withdrawn or loathe their spouses. Please, do not consider divorce, just change the negative vibes to positive ones. He will surely "ask for more" cheer up sis. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by bayulll01(m): 4:40am On Oct 20, 2015 |
babysophie: And you are a mother to be,chaii God is truely great |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Matty33(m): 5:06am On Oct 20, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:Haba, this words from you are not fair to this agonising woman. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Matty33(m): 5:10am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Artistree:What this simply means is that the lady forced herself on him. It wouldn't have been like this if it were the other way round. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by gentleman100(m): 5:22am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55:pls maaaaaaa, no matter what happens, DO NOT DIVORCE. It will affect your children as in, in a big negative way, pray to God, commit his soul to God. The bible says he direct the minds of chiefs and kings like he direct the course of the wind. Plssssss don't divorce, plsssssss |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by permanentgrace(m): 5:22am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: Smh! Why do we keep having these issues cropping up every now and then? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Missonas(f): 5:26am On Oct 20, 2015 |
dokunbam:"our", "me".Na you be the hubby in question? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 5:32am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: Sorry about your situation, didn't you courtship with him to know yourselves to see if you two matched sexually ? And also have you tried dressing very seductive within the house to get his attention?, what I would advise is, look very hot and do u ur thing, ignore him. He will come looking. There is something you are not doing right for him. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by muyola2xy: 5:32am On Oct 20, 2015 |
I hope you have at no time during delivery invited your husband to witness the process of child bearing. This experience has a terrible psychological effect on the man that makes him emotionally detached from the wife. Please dialogue with him and not the whole of Nigeria-the solution lies between you guys. Goodluck! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Matty33(m): 5:32am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55:My dear hurting soul, I'm sure your husband didnt spend much to have you as his wife; you may have been the one that lured him into the marriage. On your wedding day (if u are wedded), can you remember the looks on his face? How happy was he? This happened to me too, where a lady used pregnancy to tie me down, but because there was no love, she felt the pain as I never cared or bothered myself even if she is in pains. Things never worked well, she had to quit, I then wedded my love who gives me happiness. If a man is in love, he can 'enter into fire' if that is what is required, just to please his wife. I know a lot of couples are in this situation, a woman can't force a man into marriage and expect things to work well. Life is all about being happy, I'll advice you to sit him down and discuss ur problem and if that doesn't solve the situation you better quit. Else you'll have medical complications that could end your life. Sorry my dear for being made to pass through such psychological pains! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Ertekazee: 5:33am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Thanks for bringing back fond memories of one of my favourite artistes Jide Obi. But you're a very funny man, to criticise this woman for being a "BLOKOS" lover. June Obi KanwuliaJara: |
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