If you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife, deciding if you’re ready to make the commitment to marriage is only half the battle. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out. Love alone is not enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics are warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road. Here are some of the most obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material.

 1. She cuts you off from loved ones A girlfriend who always becomes sick when it’s time to spend quality time with your family and even forbids you from hanging out with your friends will only act worse after you say your vows.

 2. She bails on you when times get tough Life isn’t always a bowl of cherries, but that doesn’t mean that the woman in your life should just disappear when the times get tough. If your girlfriend is not supportive of you emotionally through difficult times and only stands by you when things are going good, she’s not the one you should be walking down the aisle with.

 3. She displays psychotic behaviors A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and insanity might not be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If she displays severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of influence her crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future. Marrying a woman like this will most likely ruin your life and your perception of women forever.

 4. She’s too clingy If your girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do anything without you, calls you twenty times a day and destroys any chance of you missing her because because the two of you are never apart, she’s going to make a bad wife.

 5. She has nothing going on for herself You should want to marry a woman who has goals and brings something better to your life, not one who is up to her neck in debt, has no income, displays unpredictable behaviors and has tried numerous, short-lived career paths yet never knows what she wants in life. This type of fickle lifestyle could derail your own life plan as well.

 6. She’s controlling If your girlfriend controls all of your conversations, constantly forces you into agreeing with her and acts as an overbearing, emotional bully, it’ll only get worse after you say “I do.”

 7. She’s already cheated on you Do you honestly believe that a woman is marriage material if she has been unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes, a person can always change and learn from their mistakes; however, a cheating girlfriend will more than likely continue to be unfaithful after marriage.

 8. Her libido doesn’t match yours Another sign that she’ll make a bad wife is if her libido differs wildly from yours. The way you relate to each other in the bedroom has a big influence on whether the two of you will stay together after wedding vows are exchanged, so it’s best to work this out before you walk down the aisle.

 9. She’s extremely jealous Although a little bit of jealousy is essential for a healthy relationship, extreme jealousy arises in a relationship because of high levels of insecurity. If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes near you, refuses to accept that you have female friends and feels threatened when you discuss your previous relationships, putting a ring on her finger is not going to make her more secure.

 10. She can’t admit when she’s wrong If she always seems to have the upper hand in arguments, refuses to admit her faults or even treat you as an equal, she’s not the marrying kind.

*Good girls gone bad*...we just hope to find d right 1

Dully Noted.

Actually the topic should be top 10 signs that show that your girlfriend views you as a mugu

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You are on point, 100% right, from number 1 to 10 make sense.

Everyone has now become MARRIAGE and RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR

So many MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLORS and ADVISERS these days. But, the irony is that, MOST of them had a very Bad Home/Family or have a broken relationship. But, they still come here to form and tell us "Heaven-On-Earth" tips.

3 and 8 tho!

Vikkie14:
So many MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLORS and ADVISERS these days. But, the irony is that, MOST of them had a very Bad Home/Family or have a broken relationship. But, they still come here to form and tell us "Heaven-On-Earth" tips.

What exactly are you insinuating? That I'm from a bad home and have a broken relationship? If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute, don't say anything at all.

lovely points........marriage is a chance...no matter the precautions what will be will be

sugarqueen:



What exactly are you insinuating? That I'm from a bad home and have a broken relationship? If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute, don't say anything at all.

Madam, i'm not insinuating anything neither am i directing my post at you. I didn't mention your moniker, so just chill. Mu post wasn't directed at you and if you think it is, my sincere apology. BUT THAT'S THE TRUTH.

"dem call vegetable seller, im say im vegetable no be d one taken from the dump site. Na who ask am dat, if not dat vegetable na from d dump site".
This is also not directed at you Ma'am. Goodmorning

Vikkie14:
Madam, i'm not insinuating anything neither am i directing my post at you. I didn't mention your moniker, so just chill. Mu post wasn't directed at you and if you think it is, my sincere apology. BUT THAT'S THE TRUTH.

"dem call vegetable seller, im say im vegetable no be d one taken from the dump site. Na who ask am dat, if not dat vegetable na from d dump site".
This is also not directed at you Ma'am. Goodmorning

trouble maker

Vikkie14:
Madam, i'm not insinuating anything neither am i directing my post at you. I didn't mention your moniker, so just chill. Mu post wasn't directed at you and if you think it is, my sincere apology. BUT THAT'S THE TRUTH.

"dem call vegetable seller, im say im vegetable no be d one taken from the dump site. Na who ask am dat, if not dat vegetable na from d dump site".
This is also not directed at you Ma'am. Goodmorning

Whatever..

more like 10 signs of someone meant for a mental institution

misspicy:




trouble maker

Thank you. I'm still your follower in that aspect. Goodmorning Ma'am

Vikkie14:
Thank you. I'm still your follower in that aspect. Goodmorning Ma'am

....buh u brought out the truth....always stand by the truth no matter what...

#warmhug morning,how was your night?

misspicy:

....buh u brought out the truth....always stand by the truth no matter what...

#warmhug morning,how was your night?

Yeah! Thanks.

#HotHug. It was splendid and how was yours?

Vikkie14:
Yeah! Thanks.
#HotHug. It was splendid and how was yours?

mine was spulfick....(m) or (f)?

And to my sister Sugarqueen, thanks for showing enough maturity in that, you didn't reply with insult(s). I must commend you for that. Have a wonderful day.

misspicy:

mine was spulfick....(m) or (f)?

May i know what that word means? There's no mister "know-all". I gotta learn new word.
I am "M" to the "A" to the "L" to the "E".

Vikkie14:
May i know what that word means? There's no mister "know-all". I gotta learn new word.
I am "M" to the "A" to the "L" to the "E".

means smooth

oh....my bad...one of my daddies in here #kneels and greets him

misspicy:
lovely points........marriage is a chance...no matter the precautions what will be will be

Never overlook the red flags..

11. If she does not address you as Sir, while she requests for money like you are her father, then rethink..

Hmmm

Beyonce's 'why don't you love me' video; playing in me head tho . Thunder fire weyrey love/love killi me I die .



Ehehn, that number 9 . Wetin he and the female friend they pally togeda for again and to my knowledge . Wooo, ko ni easy ooo . That's my 'healthy boundary' make nobody cross am I no nice reach like that

IamLEGEND1:
more like 10 signs of someone meant for a mental institution

exactly

missKiffy:
Hmmm

WOMEN don suffer.
RELATIONSHIP ntoooorr
RELATIONSHIP go hear am by force

400billionman:
11. If she does not address you as Sir, while she requests for money like you are her father, then rethink..

Hian! After every meal, there'll also be need for her to kneel b4 him & say "thanks sir".

Signed

missKiffy:
Hmmm

Hmm