The way relationships be going this days,one is forced to ask if what we do for 'love' is worth it?..Here is a web a lady is caught in,how would you advise her to go about it,and if faced with same challenge what would you do?

So what's the advice you see now When you have already chosen a good response to that

Mtchewww...Screw him! Return what?? U're not mandated to. Return them only if u want to.

Still trying to understand what a "Dutchbag" is.

But anyway, the BF is exactly like me. I can't & won't tolerate anyone that's buddy buddy with their ex. An ex should be given the axe. Chop. Chop. Finish with it.

About the furniture, well that's for the courts to decide. He could file a civil lawsuit & win. I've seen it on TV

PunkyVeer:
Still trying to understand what a "Dutchbag" is.
But anyway, the BF is exactly like me. I can't & won't tolerate anyone that's buddy buddy with their ex. An ex should be given the axe. Chop. Chop. Finish with it.
About the furniture, well that's for the courts to decide. He could file a civil lawsuit & win. I've seen it on TV

but I still think it's better to let go of all he has given her in the course of the R/ship after all he gave her out of love#just saying

Joshmon:



but I still think it's better to let go of all he has given her in the course of the R/ship after all he gave her out of love#just saying

Well, maybe he is currently in a bitter state & feeling betrayed.

If I was the lady in question, I'd give him his stuff back just to get him off my back. Because there's no telling what he could do to her all in the name of settling a score/debt.

PunkyVeer:

Well, maybe he is currently in a bitter state & feeling betrayed.
If I was the lady in question, I'd give him his stuff back just to get him off my back. Because there's no telling what he could do to her all in the name of settling a score/debt.

I wish the same too..but the lady in question is already feeling the pain of not having furniture in her apartment any more so I think greediness will play it's role there..