If a man cheats its the wife that moves out of the house.
If a woman cheats its the wife that moves out of the house.

Any reason for these?

Simply because we don't stay with a person we don't love at all..

Op it is actually not always like that. It is just that in our male dominated culture it is usually the guy who buys/owns the property the family live in. Ergo...

Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

Coming from a woman.

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

classicB hw com u knw dis much abt men re u sure u re not a guy

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

Love ur write up but whr do u stand.

Hmnn

temipet:
classicB hw com u knw dis much abt men re u sure u re not a guy

Been working with guys lately

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

Hmmm I suspect this moniker, it's either this is coming from a man or a desperate lady, either way it is well.

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

Lady, you have seriously been BRAINWASHED!!!

Ujoan:


Lady, you have seriously been BRAINWASHED!!!

This is reality sister

deeprof123:
If a man cheats its the wife that moves out of the house.
If a woman cheats its the wife that moves out of the house.

Any reason for these?

In which country?
Cos in the US if the wife coughs the man will be the one to move out.

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

Well said. That's reality in its most ironically bitter truth.

Also a cheating wife has lesser control in her illicit relationship in comparison to a cheating husband. The consequences of a cheating wife far more outweigh that of a cheating husband and society, over time, has learnt to apply sanctions accordingly.

classicB:

Been working with guys lately

Eyen na 9ice,ori so sha

it's the mans property, women should start building houses.

Dheartless:
it's the mans property, women should start building houses.

I agree.....

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.
Men knows this simple trick and that is why a cheating husband would not allow his wife cheat back.
Some women cannot live with a cheating husband that is why a woman will have to move out, but some women dnt really care as long as the husband is performing is duty, wetin concern them?

What is your definition of love?

bukatyne:


What is your definition of love?

Love to me is a kind of attraction, an emotion i share with a particular person, it is a kind of funny feeling that makes me wonder how i'd be without that person.
So personally if u see me call another guy "dear" "boo" "sweetheart" and whatever doesn't mean i share any emotional feeling with that guy, i call that "LIKENESS" i do not LOVE him, so no matter the kind of friendship i decide to have with other guys(aside from cheating of course) there is this particular guy i miss, the guy i feel empty without...that is the person i LOVE.
As a girl or guy we go out to work and school and do many other things that makes us come in contact with the opposite sex, i believe that even after meeting people, we come bck home and at the end of the day we realise that there is one special person out there that we can say we LOVE.

classicB:
Its simply because a man can cheat(have sex outside his marriage) but still seriously love his wife, but as soon as a woman start doing the same means the marriage is heading to a crash.
Real men have control over their emotion while sexing outside, its simply chop and clean mouth with probably diff women, but reverse is the case for a married woman. She would probably have sex with a particular guy outside her marriage thereby developing emotion or feeling for the outside guy, this leads to less love towards d husband.

I think you mean even when a guy cheats he still wants to stay married to his wife.

OP

If a man and women steal in the market place. The woman would be beaten probably stripped nakeed, The man would be stripped nakedd and probably have tyre thrown on his and set ablaze

So I agree men and women dont get same punishment for same crime

HizMissy:


I think you mean even when a guy cheats he still wants to stay married to his wife.

In most cases, yes.

classicB:

Love to me is a kind of attraction, an emotion i share with a particular person, it is a kind of funny feeling that makes me wonder how i'd be without that person.
So personally if u see me call another guy "dear" "boo" "sweetheart" and whatever doesn't mean i share any emotional feeling with that guy, i call that "LIKENESS" i do not LOVE him, so no matter the kind of friendship i decide to have with other guys(aside from cheating of course) there is this particular guy i miss, the guy i feel empty without...that is the person i LOVE.
As a girl or guy we go out to work and school and do many other things that makes us come in contact with the opposite sex, i believe that even after meeting people, we come bck home and at the end of the day we realise that there is one special person out there that we can say we LOVE.

Hmmmm classic, nau i see u've seen n learn a lot. U shud b over 40 sef

bluecircle470:


Hmmmm classic, nau i see u've seen n learn a lot. U shud b over 40 sef

Not yet o

jashar:
cuz we live in a double standard world.... and the double standard was set by men

Abegi in the us when a man cheats the man is ordered to leave the house for the woman when the woman cheat the man is also told to leave the house in most cases the man own the house

In nigeria here when a man steal especially in public places the man would likely be burned down but a woman she would be striped unclad and flogged

In india a woman pays the grooms price in nigeria mean pays the bride price

All over the world a woman to woman affairs is seen as nothing to be worry about why a man to man affair such men are likely to be killed

So aunty next time you want to talk about double standards try and figure out why you were always asked to sweep the classroom and your fellows classmates the boys asked to arrange the chairs

It the way the world is and nothing can change it trying to make things equal will lead to something else

classicB:

Love to me is a kind of attraction, an emotion i share with a particular person, it is a kind of funny feeling that makes me wonder how i'd be without that person.
So personally if u see me call another guy "dear" "boo" "sweetheart" and whatever doesn't mean i share any emotional feeling with that guy, i call that "LIKENESS" i do not LOVE him, so no matter the kind of friendship i decide to have with other guys(aside from cheating of course) there is this particular guy i miss, the guy i feel empty without...that is the person i LOVE.
As a girl or guy we go out to work and school and do many other things that makes us come in contact with the opposite sex, i believe that even after meeting people, we come bck home and at the end of the day we realise that there is one special person out there that we can say we LOVE.

If the above is love to you, how do you reconcile a man loving his wife and still cheating on her?

The bolded has answered my question by the way....

bukatyne:


If the above is love to you, how do you reconcile a man loving his wife and still cheating on her?

The bolded has answered my question by the way....

God bless you sister I love the question you asked her yes this is reality as she said but telling me a man who cheat still loves his wife is absurd dat is where our problem is coming from our orientation and mentality is faulty

ifyjohnson:





God bless you sister I love the question you asked her yes this is reality as she said but telling me a man who cheat still loves his wife is absurd dat is where our problem is coming from our orientation and mentality is faulty

@Bold,

True

bukatyne:


If the above is love to you, how do you reconcile a man loving his wife and still cheating on her?

The bolded has answered my question by the way....

It's simple.
The man has 'LIKENESS' for the woman he cheats on, while he 'LOVES' his wife.

The bolded did not answer your question in any way.

ifyjohnson:





God bless you sister I love the question you asked her yes this is reality as she said but telling me a man who cheat still loves his wife is absurd dat is where our problem is coming from our orientation and mentality is faulty

Men cheat on thier wives all over the world, not only in Nigeria. There is no faulty orientation or mentality. It is simply the sex drive and natural instinct at work.

Of course it is morally wrong to do so, but that doesn't mean it does not happen.