JudgementHammer:

Madam stella what I see here are 2 things

-as a pastor, he doesn't have any sexual experience or active sexual life b4 he married you. Note that sex is beyond a physical exercise, its psychological too and xtianity affects psychology

-his refusal to see a doctor...well it could be due to hiding some facts about his reproductive health from you. Try find out if he's not had a surgery in that area b4

But sometimes I wonder. Every lady wants a very active man when it comes to sex. Even a mere gf who isn't a fiancee yet let alone being a wife wants a superman on bed. Now how is this possible to achieve without either decieving many different girls or being a gud patronizer of prostitutes. Yet a lady don't want to date a man who does these two. Will d experience come from the blues? Someone just gat to be there for him till he gets better and use her pusssy to become perfect. Practice they say makes perfect. So think abt it stella; you could be his helper at this moment.

Enduring with a man till he flourishes is not only abt money o..sex is also part of it.

dapsin999:
Be in charge! Add some local mokole herbs or Kumerling to his food!
U'll see signs and wonders.

IYANGBALI:
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JudgementHammer:


But sometimes I wonder. Every lady wants a very active man when it comes to sex. Even a mere gf who isn't a fiancee yet, let alone being a wife wants a superman on bed. Now how is this possible to achieve without either decieving many different girls or being a gud patronizer of prostitutes. Yet a lady don't want to date a man who does these two. Will d experience come from the blues? Someone just gat to be there for him till he gets better and use her pusssy to become perfect. Practice they say makes perfect. So think abt it stella; you could be his helper at this moment.

Enduring with a man till he flourishes is not only abt money o..sex is also part of it esp if he's d virgin type.

raayah:
Always test drive before buying!

I think your husband has to see a doctor first because there is nothing you can do here. Pre mature ejaculation is the worst because, even a little amount of foreplayy can cause leakage.

If he does not want to take drugs or see a doctor. Then start training him using Start and stop method.

If you are on top , do like 5 rides/strokes and stop. He rests for a few seconds and you continue.
If na oral same thing/, stop every 30 seconds and start again.
It's not the best but he lasts longer.

But the best option is that he visits a doctor.

blessedfavoured:
All these stories would make you rethink this no sex till marriage thing.

I feel bad

Aminat508:
Madam Stella, My husband doesn’t satisfy me sexually is a common complaint that many women have during their married lives. It is an issue that does not have any fixed or definite solution. However, the opinion and experiences of others can help you in finding a solution that is appropriate for your particular situation.

northvietnam:
End time wify

drnairalov:
good for her..on a lighter note sex is boring and stressfull I don't see why u shud be complaining.. one round is enough

My girlfriend wanted to have sex with me , but my younger brothers were still awake

so she said first of you to sleep will get #10,000 so I slept first

then she broke up with me ...please why??


stop liking my post .. am heartbroken

starG7:
Cum let me borrow u my horse

janellemonae:

Are u single? Pls don't rethink it. No sex till marriage is very good advice.

janellemonae:

Lobatan.

Koolking:


Your opinion is sound.

It's becoming like a post-marriage litany nowadays. Methinks, when women exhausted all the glitters that made them marry, they start complaining of boring sex as an excuse to leave the marriage. God will help women

blessedfavoured:


Lol I know it is. But imagine someone ends up like this woman . Even worse the man isn't trying to get help.

I do not think I want to deal with bad sex in my marriage though. I also want to curl up and shiver

But this is not me saying I'm giving up anything.

peeparty:

My sister in the lord this one don pass prayer oo.


I think you should try and change your love making technique.


Try this madam.
give pastor head



1:You iniciate the romance slowly and steady

2:Give him head*winks* nothing wrong in satisfying him first.

3:You both should engage in a regular exercise, It necessary you get involved in the process this will encourage him too.

N:B: This is a very key some men Dont know.

4:Tell him to Try and relax while having intercourse.

5: Never force sex /Don’t press yourself to have sex if your heart and mind are not
willing.

4. There is a common technique called “Stop & Start”.Teach him how this work am sure you know it already.


6. Try changing positions while having sex. This will give him
enough time to control ejaculation. no dey give am same style every time.

7:Remember it is till death do us part.

IndianaJay:
It's funny how a human being will understand that he has a problem that's affecting someone else very close to him,

but will refuse medical help or attention.....

Signs of a deceiver, signs of a man who knows exactly what his problem is but he would rather live in denial.

This is why I never like all these men who keep using God's name and church to chyke you,

many of them are just as bad as the unbelievers, some even worse.

@Op....It is your cross, carry it. Next time try look before you leap, marriage is for life...it's not something you gamble or take risks with.