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Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 26, 2015
This is from a friend who was arguing with me why he can't trust his Gf:

It was during my service year and I met this young pretty Yorba Muslim chick (and yes she uses Hijab with class and swag). Well, we happen to get along fine and we became very close friends. She told me she has a fiance back home and she's always talking about him but me as a badt guy, I actually no too send, I just dey follow up with close marking...

I never badmouthed her fiance but I'm always changing topic to something more interesting whenever she's ranting about her fiance and yes the guy do call her constantly every day.

One thing led to the other and abracadabra, I ended up sleeping in her house and we started living a couple life in d village she'll wash my cloth, cook, we Gist, kiss, and damn the sex is always thick and healthy being a girl that hasn't really useless her self if u know what I mean. (don't ask me how).

Now my curiosity is that sometimes when her fiance calls, she'll still be talking normal with him and there was this day we just finished having a hot one and the call came in from her guy, damn she pretended so hard and talking like a sick person on the phone telling his guy how tired she was and headache and stuff while the dude keeps telling her to visit clinic.

Soooooo many things tho. Now that leaves me to the question of trust. Cuz even tho she told me she wants us to keep a relationship, mehn something in me can't trust her. Dang! Such experience got me doubting if I would ever get married cuz... Even decent girls do fall!

Guys.. Can u actually trust your girl??
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by yyeanqah(m): 11:50am On Nov 26, 2015
End time
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Theyveedo(m): 11:52am On Nov 26, 2015
No, U can't trust a girl.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 11:54am On Nov 26, 2015
@OP after having sex with her, she cooked 4 u, u stayed in her house now ure saying u dnt trust her, hmmmmmm tell me have she given anyreason or shown any behaviour 4 u not to trust her?

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 11:56am On Nov 26, 2015
ssoftapple:
@OP after having sex with her, she cooked 4 u, u stayed in her house now ure saying u dnt trust her, hmmmmmm tell me have she given anyreason or shown any behaviour 4 u not to trust her?

Mehn you won't understand. Actually she's been good to me but then having seen how she's been controlling and assuring her guy while enjoying my company. Oh my God I so like the girl that I could consider her for marriage but mehn. Trust Issues.... How am I sure she won't do such for me.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by obiorathesubtle: 11:58am On Nov 26, 2015
So you stole someone's fiancEe and you're expecting a smooth ride?




The karma that will catch you, ifa, sango and amadioha are making sacrifices to the karma.

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 11:58am On Nov 26, 2015
yyeanqah:
End time
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 11:58am On Nov 26, 2015
Any girl wey visit you is your gf.But as she step out, she is no longer your gf.The same goes for guyz.I am not expecting a guy or gir to say,i am in a serious relationship.That your gf or bf is fvcking another babe or dude.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Alocia(f): 11:59am On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:
It was during my service year and I met this young pretty Yorba Muslim chick (and yes she uses Hijab with class and swag). Well, we happen to get along fine and we became very close friends. She told me she has a fiance back home and she's always talking about him but me as a badt guy, I actually no too send, I just dey follow up with close marking...

I never badmouthed her fiance but I'm always changing topic to something more interesting whenever she's ranting about her fiance and yes the guy do call her constantly every day.

One thing led to the other and abracadabra, I ended up sleeping in her house and we started living a couple life in d village she'll wash my cloth, cook, we Gist, kiss, and damn the sex is always thick and healthy being a girl that hasn't really useless her self if u know what I mean. (don't ask me how).

Now my curiosity is that sometimes when her fiance calls, she'll still be talking normal with him and there was this day we just finished having a hot one and the call came in from her guy, damn she pretended so hard and talking like a sick person on the phone telling his guy how tired she was and headache and stuff while the dude keeps telling her to visit clinic.

Soooooo many things tho. Now that leaves me to the question of trust. Cuz even tho she told me she wants us to keep a relationship, mehn something in me can't trust her. Dang! Such experience got me doubting if I would ever get married cuz... Even decent girls do fall!

Guys.. Can u actually trust your girl??
Both of you aint worth trusting.
1. You're a fool for sleeping in a woman's house all night, coming here to tell us how the sex was so good you know she had a fiancee why dint you move on? You choosed to sleep with her both of you are cheap _sluts.

2. She lacks self worth. . Seriously she has a fiancee and still sleeping with you you not even once

Both of you are fit for each other since you know her in and out.

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:01pm On Nov 26, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
So you stole someone's fiancEe and you're expecting a smooth ride?




The karma that will catch you, ifa, sango and amadioha are making sacrifices to the karma.

No I didn't steal. I guess she enjoyed my company. Blame it on my moves. It ain't my fault and it was a mutual consent plus sango and amadioha ain't got a thing on me. embarassed
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:


Mehn you won't understand. Actually she's been good to me but then having seen how she's been controlling and assuring her guy while enjoying my company. Oh my God I so like the girl that I could consider her for marriage but mehn. Trust Issues.... How am I sure she won't do such for me.
anyways bro im just joking the truth is that she is a cheat, she cheated on her fiance with u, 4 that reason she will still cheat on u with another guy at her workplace when ure not there with her, so bro just keep enjoying her vaginal till u get tired which i doubt but tell her to go back to her fiance and you guys should just be friends with benefit, she will be cool with that.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 26, 2015
If i have a gf who is cheating on me like that, i will know.I know how i left my pvssy.If she like make she use alum.And that is why i can't sponsor a gf or wife education.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 26, 2015
Alocia:
Both of you aint worth trusting.
1. You're a fool for sleeping in a woman's house all night, coming here to tell us how the sex was so good you know she had a fiancee why dint you move on? You choosed to sleep with her both of you are cheap _sluts.

2. She lacks self worth. . Seriously she has a fiancee and still sleeping with you you not even once

Both of you are fit for each other since you know her in and out.


Just shut up already. I'm sure you ain't got no class compared to this girl I'm talking about. What dyu know about self worth. Are u a virgin? Or have u only slept with one guy all your life? I know your types. Oloshos forming Saint on NL. Abeg Park well. Guys... The question remains... Can your girlfriend be trusted

Even me myself still dey trip for that kind experience

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:04pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:


Mehn you won't understand. Actually she's been good to me but then having seen how she's been controlling and assuring her guy while enjoying my company. Oh my God I so like the girl that I could consider her for marriage but mehn. Trust Issues.... How am I sure she won't do such for me.

grin

I understand you very well, but people do fall out of love, unfortunately. Maybe you're just the person to make her walk away from a failing relationship. Tell me this though, what is she planning to do about her other relationship? She can't be juggling you both at the same time. Something's gotta give.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by obiorathesubtle: 12:05pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:


No I didn't steal. I guess she enjoyed my company. Blame it on my moves. It ain't my fault and it was a mutual consent plus sango and amadioha ain't got a thing on me. embarassed
oya na. Let us watch and see

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Rixy007(m): 12:06pm On Nov 26, 2015
didn't boda to read thru just wanna answer... I can't trust her cus I don't trust her.
.hope she's not gonna check dx thread make we no go break up o
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:08pm On Nov 26, 2015
Love Machine:
If i have a gf who is cheating on me like that i will know.I know how i left my pvssy.If she like make she use alum.And that is why i can't sponsor a gf or wife education.


Lol. U think so?
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Alocia(f): 12:10pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:



Just shut up already. I'm sure you ain't got no class compared to this girl I'm talking about. What dyu know about self worth. Are u a virgin? Or have u only slept with one guy all your life? I know your types. Oloshos forming Saint on NL. Abeg Park well. Guys... The question remains... Can your girlfriend be trusted

Even me myself still dey trip for that kind experience
Relax wink we aren't talking about oloshos here. . All the times you slept with her you dint complain, why come here to whine about trusting girls? Are you a saint?
You know she's in a relationship that she isn't ready to quit, you should have left her you rather choosed to play the wise guy

Both of you aint worth trusting its as simple as that.

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by longjohnsilver: 12:12pm On Nov 26, 2015
Body no be wood na...everyone collapse in d end especially when u are already sexually active

i trust u as d last minute i spent with you...once u are out of sight...i dont bother mysef...

Trust ko...tryst ni...
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:13pm On Nov 26, 2015
PunkyVeer:


grin

I understand you very well, but people do fall out of love, unfortunately. Maybe you're just the person to make her walk away from a failing relationship. Tell me this though, what is she planning to do about her other relationship? She can't be juggling you both at the same time. Something's gotta give.


She even told me she likes me and got alotta natural love for me. She talked about leaving her guy for me but I told her not to do so cuz the guy didn't offend her. She was just like she don't seem she want to continue with the guy and recently she has been avoiding his call but I ve been advising her to keep her contact with him. I don't want her to lose in two ways cuz I got trust issues with what I'm seeing. She's even made the relationship public among corpers in this village. Everyone even the indigines know us as bf and gf. Damn! How did I got here
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by schumastic(m): 12:14pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:
It was during my service year and I met this young pretty Yorba Muslim chick (and yes she uses Hijab with class and swag). Well, we happen to get along fine and we became very close friends. She told me she has a fiance back home and she's always talking about him but me as a badt guy, I actually no too send, I just dey follow up with close marking...

I never badmouthed her fiance but I'm always changing topic to something more interesting whenever she's ranting about her fiance and yes the guy do call her constantly every day.

One thing led to the other and abracadabra, I ended up sleeping in her house and we started living a couple life in d village she'll wash my cloth, cook, we Gist, kiss, and damn the sex is always thick and healthy being a girl that hasn't really useless her self if u know what I mean. (don't ask me how).

Now my curiosity is that sometimes when her fiance calls, she'll still be talking normal with him and there was this day we just finished having a hot one and the call came in from her guy, damn she pretended so hard and talking like a sick person on the phone telling his guy how tired she was and headache and stuff while the dude keeps telling her to visit clinic.

Soooooo many things tho. Now that leaves me to the question of trust. Cuz even tho she told me she wants us to keep a relationship, mehn something in me can't trust her. Dang! Such experience got me doubting if I would ever get married cuz... Even decent girls do fall!

Guys.. Can u actually trust your girl??




OP THERE IS THIS SONG I V FOR U DUNNO IF YOU WILL REMEMBER IT BUT IT GOES LIKE THIS...
TURN BY TURN UR TURN WILL COME (X2) grin grin grin...
my best SOUP OPERA ADVERT STILL REMAIN "THIS LIFE" WHICH WAS AIRED YRS BACK BY AIT..
WHERE THE FATHER ASKED THE SON TO JUMP BLA BLA BLA AND AT THE END HE TOLD THE SON, DON'T TRUST ANYBODY NOT EVEN ME YOUR FATHER SO OP IF I CAN'T TRUST MY FATHER OR ANYBODY THEN Y A GIRL. undecided, LA TRUST LA DIE
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by DopeBoiRapy(m): 12:14pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:
It was during my service year and I met this young pretty Yorba Muslim chick (and yes she uses Hijab with class and swag). Well, we happen to get along fine and we became very close friends. She told me she has a fiance back home and she's always talking about him but me as a badt guy, I actually no too send, I just dey follow up with close marking...

I never badmouthed her fiance but I'm always changing topic to something more interesting whenever she's ranting about her fiance and yes the guy do call her constantly every day.

One thing led to the other and abracadabra, I ended up sleeping in her house and we started living a couple life in d village she'll wash my cloth, cook, we Gist, kiss, and damn the sex is always thick and healthy being a girl that hasn't really useless her self if u know what I mean. (don't ask me how).

Now my curiosity is that sometimes when her fiance calls, she'll still be talking normal with him and there was this day we just finished having a hot one and the call came in from her guy, damn she pretended so hard and talking like a sick person on the phone telling his guy how tired she was and headache and stuff while the dude keeps telling her to visit clinic.

Soooooo many things tho. Now that leaves me to the question of trust. Cuz even tho she told me she wants us to keep a relationship, mehn something in me can't trust her. Dang! Such experience got me doubting if I would ever get married cuz... Even decent girls do fall!

Guys.. Can u actually trust your girl??
Bro i feel u no homo, trust no lady accept ur mama for dis our generation. this ladies r all ho's n ho's r for everybody ......i had a similar case wen i was still in the uni.....in my year 1 i met a girl who was already in engaged....i fVCked this b!tch till she got married, i was in 200level then...n she still wanted more.....we stopped talking wen she got pregnant for d guy..

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:16pm On Nov 26, 2015
Alocia:
Relax wink we aren't talking about oloshos here. . All the times you slept with her you dint complain, why come here to whine about trusting girls? Are you a saint?
You know she's in a relationship that she isn't ready to quit, you should have left her you rather choosed to play the wise guy

Both of you aint worth trusting its as simple as that.

Well if I didn't do it. Somebody else will. Alotta guys were on this chick's case before she cleared their doubt that she wants me. Even our LGI and some local politicians at the local govt. here are disturbing her with calls all the time. She would put it all on speaker while we together. Other corpers worrying her but if she can do this to her man. I'm still having trust issues couple with the pressure she's getting from other men. Can't u freaking understanding me?
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Ephemmm: 12:17pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:
It was during my service year and I met this young pretty Yorba Muslim chick (and yes she uses Hijab with class and swag). Well, we happen to get along fine and we became very close friends. She told me she has a fiance back home and she's always talking about him but me as a badt guy, I actually no too send, I just dey follow up with close marking...

I never badmouthed her fiance but I'm always changing topic to something more interesting whenever she's ranting about her fiance and yes the guy do call her constantly every day.

One thing led to the other and abracadabra, I ended up sleeping in her house and we started living a couple life in d village she'll wash my cloth, cook, we Gist, kiss, and damn the sex is always thick and healthy being a girl that hasn't really useless her self if u know what I mean. (don't ask me how).

Now my curiosity is that sometimes when her fiance calls, she'll still be talking normal with him and there was this day we just finished having a hot one and the call came in from her guy, damn she pretended so hard and talking like a sick person on the phone telling his guy how tired she was and headache and stuff while the dude keeps telling her to visit clinic.

Soooooo many things tho. Now that leaves me to the question of trust. Cuz even tho she told me she wants us to keep a relationship, mehn something in me can't trust her. Dang! Such experience got me doubting if I would ever get married cuz... Even decent girls do fall!

Guys.. Can u actually trust your girl??

The earlier you realize that good girls are girls that have not been caught, the better for you

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Alocia(f): 12:19pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:


Well if I didn't do it. Somebody else will. Alotta guys were on this chick's case before she cleared their doubt that she wants me. Even our LGI and some local politicians at the local govt. here are disturbing her with calls all the time. She would put it all on speaker while we together. Other corpers worrying her but if she can do this to her man. I'm still having trust issues couple with the pressure she's getting from other men. Can't u freaking understanding me?
Talk to her then, what do you think? tongue you sound like you aren't interested, maybe just wanna sleep with her that's all.

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Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:20pm On Nov 26, 2015
DopeBoiRapy:
Bro i feel u no homo, trust no lady accept ur mama for dis our generation. this ladies r all ho's n ho's r for everybody ......i had a similar case wen i was still in the uni.....in my year 1 i met a girl who was already in engaged....i fVCked this b!tch till she got married, i was in 200level then...n she still wanted more.....we stopped talking wen she got pregnant for d guy..
Karma is not a bit.ch.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:20pm On Nov 26, 2015
jayhumble:



She even told me she likes me and got alotta natural love for me. She talked about leaving her guy for me but I told her not to do so cuz the guy didn't offend her. She was just like she don't seem she want to continue with the guy and recently she has been avoiding his call but I ve been advising her to keep her contact with him. I don't want her to lose in two ways cuz I got trust issues with what I'm seeing. She's even made the relationship public among corpers in this village. Everyone even the indigines know us as bf and gf. Damn! How did I got here

Ok, you sound a little confused. What is it that you want? Do you still wanna continue with her or not? I really don't get why you'd encourage her to continue her relationship if you have plans. Make an honest woman out of her by either making her choose or completely take yourself out of the equation since you admit that you can't trust her. You're the enabler here. Check yourself & check out if you feel the way you do about trusting her. It's not that hard.
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by Nobody: 12:21pm On Nov 26, 2015
DopeBoiRapy:
Bro i feel u no homo, trust no lady accept ur mama for dis our generation. this ladies r all ho's n ho's r for everybody ......i had a similar case wen i was still in the uni.....in my year 1 i met a girl who was already in engaged....i fVCked this b!tch till she got married, i was in 200level then...n she still wanted more.....we stopped talking wen she got pregnant for d guy..


Hmmm na WA oooo
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by IamLEGEND1: 12:21pm On Nov 26, 2015

Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by NinaNigeria(f): 12:22pm On Nov 26, 2015
1 call is not all calls hey
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by happyjuliet(f): 12:24pm On Nov 26, 2015
Both of you aint worth trusting.
1. You're a fool for sleeping in a woman's house all night, coming here to tell us how the sex was so good you know she had a fiancee why dint you move on? You choosed to sleep with her both of you are cheap _sluts.

2. She lacks self worth. . Seriously she has a fiancee and still sleeping with you you not even once

Both of you are fit for each other since you know her in and out.

True talk dey really deserve each other undecidedBoth of you aint worth trusting.
1. You're a fool for sleeping in a woman's house all night, coming here to tell us how the sex was so good you know she had a fiancee why dint you move on? You choosed to sleep with her both of you are cheap _sluts.

2. She lacks self worth. . Seriously she has a fiancee and still sleeping with you you not even once

Both of you are fit for each other since you know her in and out.

True talk dey really deserve each other
Re: Help my guy analyze his issue by DopeBoiRapy(m): 12:24pm On Nov 26, 2015
Love Machine:
Karma is not a bit.ch.
karma is b!tch.

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