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Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Pidggin(f): 8:25pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
johnson232: Which one is where did it happen? Where are we living? It happened right here, for Naija, in real life and both stories are real. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by amunkita(m): 8:26pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Skmoda360: Sure u don't nd I can't judge u now cous she is just a gal friend. Thou u might probably be amongst the 10%... 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by CallMeMadMan: 8:34pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
naijainfogalery:And what if reversed is the case? 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Skmoda360(m): 8:36pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Analysiscorner:Sure, she has all the respect a man want from a woman and with time i'll get my own car. 2 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by CallMeMadMan: 8:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
naijainfogalery: |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by ebenezerolaiwola(m): 8:38pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
no good adviser here too. a beg don't do something that you will do and regret later without nobody to share it with you. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Skmoda360(m): 8:45pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
CallMeMadMan:Then he'll still call the shot...trust me money should not be a problem if you are in mature/good relationship. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by NaWetinDey(m): 8:46pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
A private car is simply a necessity. However, one should make decisions in consideration to the society he/she is in. For sure, you will face the challenges of losing almost every average suitor there because this is what's obtained in today's Nigerian society. But of you are aiming for the super-rich, then it's alright to get your car and give no damn. Otherwise, I suggest you invest the money for now. You can't pretend that the society you find yourself in has no influence in your life; if you do, you may pay dearly. Anyways, it all narrows to your heart's desire; go for it. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Skmoda360(m): 8:48pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
martineverest: Not all bro, people think differently so its their character. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by martineverest(m): 9:00pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Skmoda360:I didn't say all.. They are becoming too primitive in their thinking.. They are the first to bash ladies that exchange money for sex and first to bash a lady that work to become independent.... Nigerian men are too chauvinistic 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by LuckyLadolce(m): 9:01pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo:Sister, get a car and just be loyal.. But beware of gold diggers. They're everywhere. I hope you do pray too. Being prayerful is very helpful. All the best. 3 Likes |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by sonety2k(m): 9:02pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Kazrem: Second. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by vinxlegend: 9:04pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Getting a car will make most African men to believe you are married already or you are in a serious relationship wch is expected to lead to marriage so they would not want to waste their time approaching you in the first place, even if they are 10times richer than you, is not because of low self esteem but it just come naturally. Ladies will say is only a guy with low esteem that will think that way but little did you know that many things come to the mind of a man seeing a lady for the first time and no man want to waste his time approaching a lady that he has impression that she will reject him. Let me give you an example, a lady was in a bus with a guy the guy had in his mind that he will approach the lady in order to know her maybe from there a good relationship can start, immediately the guy try to introduce himself to the lady and ask the lady some personal question the guy end the conversation, you will want to ask me why? Because the lady is already working as a pharmacist and the guy is still a student, the first thing that came to his mind is she already in a serious relationship wch is not true, is only a man that know you before that will be willing to approach you, if you happen to be in men's shoe I bet you will have the same feeling about a lady that own a car especially if the car is an exotic car. But you are to take the decision that will favor you. My advice for you is that if you're already in a serious relationship that you believe will lead to marriage, you can get yourself a car but if not I advise against it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Kazrem(m): 9:07pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Icaretoo:Ok. Just saying too. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by bollixy(m): 9:11pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
if u can afford a car abeg go for it,it's nothing but advantageous to you all the way,it adds the class you deserve to you,am sure u not looking for just any man,there are a lot of sane and lovely classy men out there waiting for someone like you even the ones that hasn't hit real cash but has strong and clear ambitions and are not intimidated by big girls like you.the later are the real men. 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:12pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector:hahahahaha. is this not Gold digging op please buy a car if u can afford one. jst b a loyal lady dnt b arrogant bc u hv a car |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by GeoOla25(m): 9:12pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
I can afford to buy a car now but I still got intimidated by a lady in her early twenties this afternoon with a car, I like her at sight but I noticed she owns a car...then my drive for her got sapped....please don't buy a car now..you can get one when you have a stable partner. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by marshalcarter: 9:15pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Jimdonnet:Padi...let's be realistic...do you knw if your aunt needs a driver....I dey fyn jab ooo |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Miaraka: 9:16pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
OP, it's true. it's not easy for most men to approach a woman who appears to be above them in terms of status. They get intimidated. If you decide to buy a car, buy one a second hand low class vehicle and even bang it with a hummer here and there to provoke most men's provider instinct and loving kindness or make them want work to hard and make money to buy you a better one. The thing is, most normal men are born with the burning desire to provide for and protect their women and children. Now, if you can afford a car, something which costs more than clothes and furniture to buy, maintain and insure, a certain group of men and I guess they are in the majority, will feel robbed of their provider instict and will be asking themselves how do you afford this one, how do you maintain her and what kind of present can you buy to put a smile on her face? Your relatives, may have other motives in advising you not to buy a car. but believe me, they are telling you the truth. I know many women, here in SA, who can confirm what I'm telling you. Buy yourself a car, if you want, but let it be cheap, not a show stopper. Buy something which is just good enough to take you from point A to B. 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Cutehector(m): 9:17pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Vikky014:girls gold dig too.. |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Maximus85(m): 9:17pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo: 70% Yes! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Skmoda360(m): 9:21pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
martineverest:Thats true bt my opinion is that contemporary men are scared of big girls cuz they think the chance of dating them are slim but i can use myself as an example that i got my girl as simple as a girl could be but i still insist it's not fun when a woman spend too much on a guy, you'll lose ur stand as a man and ur prestige will be downsided. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by tomdon(m): 9:21pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
naijainfogalery: bunkum 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by tomdon(m): 9:21pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
naijainfogalery: bunkum!!! |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Goldencollins: 9:22pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
omotohdarajugbogbolo:My Aunty is 46,she lives in one room apartment,she doesn't have a car,she jumps okada but shes still Single at 46yrs,so getting a car or not getting a car doesn't guarantee one a husband,just make urself available,thats all 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector:Lol are u in competition wt girls |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by goodnewscliff(m): 9:25pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
a reasonable dude will nt marry a car!!...but let d car speak of u as a hard working ,diligent,industrious yet humble person nt a woman of overbloated ego and pride |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Cutehector(m): 9:27pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Vikky014:why not... What a woman can do, a man can do worse |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Goldencollins: 9:34pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
vinxlegend:from ur story or illustration above,what is a student doing with a woman?is that the book his parents payed heavy fees for him to study? abeg there is time for everything and besides would u advice ur working class sister to date a student?? 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Vikky014(f): 9:35pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Cutehector:hahahahahah. u r so funny . goodluck. bt i think u shld go for LINDA IKEJI 1 Like |
Re: No To Getting A Car Because Am Single by Cutehector(m): 9:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Vikky014:she just aint my type... .. U should see agbani darego |
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